So I've been friends with this chick for a solid 9 months (mutually I better add) and I can't say I've developed...

So I've been friends with this chick for a solid 9 months (mutually I better add) and I can't say I've developed feelings for her but I've definitely developed an interest. Would it be weird or would it even be possible to try and ask her on a date? Thanks guys. Pic related is the chick.

do you care if the friendship might be ruined? If no go for it

Possible? What fucking reality are you living in?

If you ask her out and she says no, you have to be willing to be like well I can't be friends with you any longer and go zero contact. Then you move on and fuck some other girl, this time don't wait 9 months to make a move. After you fucked a few other girls (preferably) hotter than girl #1 then you can make a move on her again.

As in
>Friendzone
Is it possible to turn a friendship this long into something else?

Well yeah. I wouldn't be interested if I didn't like our friendship

This wasn't a matter of "waiting to make a move". I was quite happy with our friendship until as of late. I'm not really the type to just go out and fuck randos.

"Hey wanna do something, just you and me?" Don't say it's a date unless she asks.If she says yes, and you hit it off, great. If she says yes, and it doesn't get romantic it's okay because the friendship isn'r ruined. If she says no, you just say "okay" and everythings cool. No friendship ruined or anything.
Also you're a virgin for even asking this.

Isn't that completely avoiding the issue and probably making it more complicated than it needs to be?

Ask her out: possible ruined friendship, sex not guaranteed.
Rape her: possible ruined friendship, sex guaranteed.
Just sayin.

There's any issue to avoid.

youre too retarded to understand what he said

There's no**

No, I understood it perfectly. I answered it understandably.

The issue that I see in your plan is that it isn't clear. Isn't the whole point of asking someone out is that it's clear that youre interested. Asking someone to hang out seems very unclear.

>This wasn't a matter of "waiting to make a move". I was quite happy with our friendship until as of late. I'm omega as fuck

fixed

If you've been friends for so long it might be weird to be so straight forward. Instead be subtle. That's what I'm going for. Also, sorry for calling you a virgin earlier.

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>nine months
>not developing feelings
>not sure about asking her out
>still wanting to do it

Why?

I genuinely don't see an issue. I don't need to have a big ego to be able to be happy with myself.

good on you op
you made me proud today

Yeah. I haven't really dealt with such a long friendship that I've wanted to change before. I don't really know how to tackle it.

Well I can't completely say I don't have feelings. I'm just not letting them out because of the friendship length.

Aha I'm glad

Just try to spend more time with her alone. IF there is something between you it will happen casually. Good luck OP.

Will try. Thanks.