Sup Sup Forums, anyone have any advice/stories regarding late virginity loss...

Sup Sup Forums, anyone have any advice/stories regarding late virginity loss? I'm 24 and I'm getting really close to losing it with a girl I'm dating but I'm afraid that a) I'll fuck something up right before and it won't happen or b) she'll think I'm a pussy and won't be as attracted to me. I haven't told her I'm a virgin and most people think I'm not (only a few close friends know and I'm a really normal looking guy so the rest just assume I'm not) and I don't intend on telling her but I'm sure she has suspicions since I'm super awkward. Also what are the chances I'm going to cry after it's over? I've heard this is a thing but don't know if it's mostly just a fiction thing or reality.

I'm not a virgin and I'm awkward af. You're not going to cry after it. Just fuck her in the pussy as hard as you can (not necessary for too long) and leave if you feel the urge. Don't sweat it.

Don't wear a Trojan Fire and Ice condom.

First time sex is almost always okay to bad, but keep in mind most sex is only ever okay to bad. My first time I didn't even finish after half an hour of pounding. Just don't worry about it, and no most people don't cry after sex.

Noted, keep em cumming boys

Do you mean your first time with a new person? She doesn't know I'm a virgin, are you saying I should tell her? because I feel it's unnecessary.

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You don't have to tell her it really doesn't matter. I meant when I lost my virginty sorry for the miscommunication, the first time I ever had sex I didn't finish, and most people's first time having sex and losing their virginity isn't that great either. You really don't have to worry about it, people hype sex up to as if it's this huge giant thing, it's really not that big a deal, you'll probably do fine.

Dude, I "lost" my virginity a dozen times.
Bitches love that shit.

hwut? are you saying if I tell her it'll be hotter?

Lost it at 21. Was a fat kid, then lost weight but had acne. Accutane was a fucking lifesaver, but it left me a fuckable 18 year old with zero experience being aggressive.

The best advice I can give to you is to not overthink it. If it doesn't happen it doesn't happen. Use the experience to learn how to fish for the next one. Women are dummies who want the dick. If your chick is weird about you being a virgin, find a slut who gets off on taking guys' cherries. There are endless amounts of dtf chicks in the world. Find another if necessary. Take the pussy off the pedestal and treat her one or two rungs on the respect ladder below where you think she should be.

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realize a very simple thing, lack of confidence and doubting yourself will do NOTHING for your life but hold you back. Even if you have to fake it, think of yourself highly, pretend you've done this before and be confident. The doubt will only ensure what you fear will happen. So make doubt a no-brainer to get rid of.

Just, be confident. Sounds but but thats how i lost it at 16. Dont be a bitch user.

Try to be slightly awkward and a little bit bad at it. That's pretty much how every mans first time goes down, but at least you'll be on point lol.

Just tell her, you might risk looking like a dumbass during sex if you don't

b-but which one do I listen to?

What's the harm in telling her your a virgin? I'm a year younger then you and still a virgin and if the opportunity ever arose I would just be honest about it,no sense in hiding,if you don't tell her she might assume you can perform in bed,worst case scenario she says no and tells people,after that your bound to get laid,some girls get turned on at the thought of taking a guys virginity

to be honest I'm on the fence about it. It's not like I'm hiding it. If she asked I'd tell her but I don't think it would give or take away anything and I usually get a really wide eyed response when I tell people and have to explain it for 30 minutes.

stop watching porn and jerking off 5 times a day so you have less of a chance of having performance anxiety

You wont cry afterwards if you dont over think it, its just sex. It may feel like its the biggest thing in the world right now but after you have it a few times it kinda loses its magic (unless its with some one you REALLY love love love and trust)

If no condom, pull out at least damnit. dont wait too long to pull out. sooner is better.

Dont have TOO much foreplay as it might get you edging and you'll finish in like 5 seconds.

After sex dont try to go again too soon, depending on your reload time, you could go a few more times if you're lucky.

Go slow at first and tighten your gooch like you're trying to squirt out the last of your pee to prevent yourself from cumming too early.

More importantly that jennifer lawrence pic, has the one without the cat been posted anywhere?

I would just tell her. She either will lower her expectations, which is nice for you or she will even find it hot to be your "guide", which would be even better for you

The original is the one with the cat tho

Its all about context,there's a time and place for everything,I'm not saying blurt out randomly to her your a virgin but if you find yourself talking about sex that might be the right time to let her know,she might understand why you didn't make a move sooner,and if she ask for an explanation just keep it short, you can say something like "I just never found a girl I'm comfortable with until now" you don't gotta explain your life story to her

yeah, that's kind of where I'm at with it I guess. That's kind of how it unfolded with this other girl I dated for a minute but didn't end up following through with. Only thing is that girl was super bold and sniffed me out real quick lol, this one is non-confrontational so I honestly don't know if it'll even come up but I'll definitely keep it in mind.

I mean if you want to lose your virginity then make a move,if not then don't be upset if she decides to move on,best of luck to you

yup, that's not an issue. Thanks man

Don't tell her. I was 19 when I lost mine. It took me a while to finish and I could hardly hold the erection. I also did not know how a pussy worked, kept trying to fuck it from the wrong angle.

But luckily she was insecure and thought it was her fault for not being attractive enough, she did not know I was a virgin.

Fake it til you make it bro.

Did you jack off less than 24 hours before? Is this holding an erection thing normal because multiple people have mentioned it and honestly I didn't even think of it as a problem considering I had no problem with an erection in the one time I came close to losing my virginity.

I remember happening it to me too. I guess it has something to do with being nervous or being afraid to fuck up. Same thing with girls, if they arent relaxed enough sometime they cant get wet

I don't know, maybe it's because I didn't really care about her but I came really close to losing my virginity when I was 18 and that wasn't an issue. I mean I was in bed with the girl, she was jerking me off, and I was up in her tits and there were other people sleeping in the room and I wasn't soft at all. But I also know my friend who has had sex with a couple women said he's never cum during sex.

Best advice I heard was
>Don't be affraid you won't know what you're doing. None of us do, just get in there and make it happen.
Insert peg into dark hole, not that complicated lol

Fuck a hooker in Australia. That's what I did.

yeah, fucking a hooker is actually a good advice. Perfect training. You wont care to fuck up and when the real deal is coming you at least did it once so you dont make complete rookie mistakes

ew, Australians are nasty

I lost my virginity last month, i'm 23. My advice is stop masturbating right now. The vagina is not as tight as a hand. I didn't stop tugging and i couldn't get stimulated enough. I went soft after 5 mins because i found it boring. Seriously stop masturbating so you feel shit.

Also prepare some pillow talk, after the act she is going to want to chat about past relationships/sex. Get your lies in order i fucked up and told her that i just lost my V to her. Needless to say we don't speak any more, she called me retarded and bailed.

Also just get the condom don't ask if she wants to use one, just get one.