Ok Sup Forums, this is gonna be kinda long

ok Sup Forums, this is gonna be kinda long.

so sometimes, I really like to smoke weed. It calms me down and makes me feel great.The problem is, my boyfriend HATES that I do it. He did it once before and reacted horribly to it (paranoid, weird feelings, etc) and never wants to try it again.

I think the main reason he hates me doing it is because his family has always been surrounded by drugs (mom and uncle always do xanax and shit like that) and I feel bad for him. I sat him down and talked to him about it and he said he's tired of the people he loves getting involved with drugs. He started crying, and I stopped doing it for a couple months because I hated seeing him like that.

Forward to yesterday when I go to my friends house and get baked. He finds out and is pissed at me. I asked him if he still wanted to be with me, and he said ''user, I still love you. Nothing will ever change that.''

Now I just feel like a shitty ass girlfriend, and a shitty ass person in general. What do, Sup Forums? Do I stop, or make my own decisions? Other than this, he's an amazing boyfriend. Cares about me, loves me, I wouldn't want to be with anyone else. But I also want to be able to do the things I want to do without that fear in the back of my head.

any advice?

This is easy. What's more important to you?
>Him
>getting baked

Step 1: post tits or gtfo

you're boyfriend's a fucking pussy and a moron. is he scared of automobiles and moving pictures too? getting that buttblasted about weed in 2017 is willful ignorance. dump your shitty crybaby, i'm your bf now

I'd just leave if I dated someone like that. It's no one else's than my business if I decide to smoke weed. I mean it's just weed. If I had a problem with alcohol or cocaine, I'd understand perfectly well if people flipped out. But weed? Hell no.

ur gay for doing drgs

I don't want to dump him though, honestly. Besides all of this, He's amazing.

(I would send out a time stamp just so you're not taken for bait)

Anyhow, here's what this user says

You obviously love your bf, or this wouldn't be an issue. In addition, the openness to leaving weed for him is admirable. However, just because he has an overt reaction to it doesn't mean that you shouldn't smoke altogether, which poses my solution: never tell him that you quit, just cut down on the smoking, and don't do it around him. What he doesn't know about can't hurt him, and if you don't lie to him about it, he gets saved from that as well.

Best wishes,
user-kun

Post tits you fucking slut.

My ex girlfriend hated that I did amphetamines from time to time, she's my ex for a reason.

What I'm trying to say is, if it helps you do your thing and makes you more happy, then they shouldn't interfere as long as it isn't an addiction.

Blaze it. Make your own decisions. Find a bro that will smoke with you. How can you possibly feel bad about how someone else feels about how you live your life? Pathetic.

he needs to learn how to deal with it.

my girlfriend had a lot of bad drinkers around her growing up and gets nervous when I have a few beers but I don't lose control of myself and I don't let the drinking take over my life.

she's working on accepting and understanding that there's people who drink socially that don't throw their whole life into a habit but acknowledges that it's her demons about it, not that I'm actually drinking.

substances affect everyone differently, he's got to relax a little and see that you aren't going to slut out or put yourself in retarded situations from you smoking and as time goes on he'll accept it.

tbh anyone under the age of 22 is usually retarded about this shit because all they've dealt with is excessive drinking/smoking/drug use so it's all they know of it. as you get older you realize it's not really ever that cut and dry.

Now post those tits and chill the fuck out.

Its not a problem he's ever going to escape.

Some day when chronic pain or a condition catches up with one of you as you get older together, it'll continue.

Better to get through his shitty insecurities now while his mind is still young enough to accept change than push a bad position as he gets older.

Drugs are the same as anything. They can be used right or they can be used wrong.

My coworkers brother smokes everyday and his wife hates weed but hes managed to hide it for like 10 years. Only problem is that hiding it like that can be a lot like lying. Imo your boyfriend should probably get over it. I get hes uncomfortable around drugs but youre smoking weed not snorting coke. No one sucks dick for 20 bucks of weed. You either gotta quit or tell him that youre safe about it and come to an understanding. Communication is key

Follow the rules, cumdumpster.

kill yourself, you fucking degenerate slum.

I understand where he's coming from but like a lot of people here said, drugs aren't a problem thats excapable. That's what sucks for the people that are actually addicts; they can't just choose to totally avoid drugs like they can gambling. But seeing as you're not an addict, you just need to talk to him and make him understand not all drug use leads to abuse and whatever. That drugs are a tool, and can be used for good or bad just like the internet or a dick. So you know, the best thing for the both of you is to be able to understand honestly what drugs are about and how you guys feel. That sounds like an emotional reactions he's having that he's having a hard time working through. I don't think it makes you a bad partner as long as it isnt leading you to be neglectful or something. If he can't get through this, are you guys never gonna hang out with people that smoke or drink anymore? That's like half the US population. You see what I'm saying? Even if you both choose not to partake in drugs anymore, he needs to develop a healthy understanding of drugs or that'll come back to bite you guys in the butt down the line

Also id make it clear why youre smoking weed. If he was surrounded by drugs from his family then they were probably using as an escape so he might be worried that youre smoking weed cuz youre depressed or some other reason as a crutch. Drugs are easy to use to cope but can still be used for proper reasons.

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GTFO with nigger grass.

sage

May as well split up and go ruin someone elses life with your drug degeneracy

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Timestamp them babies.

In a healthy relationship your partner should have the mind to know you and the person you are to not be worried about the decisions you make. It's your life and weed is a joke next to xans so tell ur boy friend to calm down. You shouldn't ever feel pressured to not do things because of ur significant other, you don't stop being you for them is what I mean. If he has the much of a problem with it you should just leave him because it shows fear and weakness if he's this spooked by smoking fucking pot lmao

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Bro, never go full libtard

Step 1: stop pretending to be a girl
step 2: when you finish pulling his dick out of your ass, realize that relationships only work if both parties are happy. Are you really ok with him deciding what you can and can't do? That's an unhealthy relationship you shouldn't be in.
Step 3: seek some sort of compromise. Don't stop being you because he doesn't love who you really are.

I mean, to be fair, I sort of control him as well, I guess.
I don't like him watching porn. So, if you think about it, we're kinda even.

kekker

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Then decide which is more important. Self choice, and freedom, or being told what you can put in your body and jack off to.

Nice hypocrisy

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You know the rules

I'd say toke up and let HIM make a decision. Not you. I was in the same boat as him once and I finally realized pot isn't all that bad, but it isn't for everyone. You shouldn't have to stop doing something you like just because he has baggage.

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She have already made him stop doing things

Just stop doing it. Do you really have such little self control that you can't stop something that's purely unnecessary for the sake of your SO?
If you care as much as you say you do, you would make the right decision, because you are a shitty ass girlfriend right now.

Go back to 2011 edgelord

Newfag

Stop using drugs to escape and face whatever the fuck it is that you are running away from.

I literally have nothing to run away from. It's just fun.

Just tried talking to him about it, bad idea. I basically told him it's not like i'm doing a hard drug like cocaine or some shit, and that I'm not addicted. He said ''that right there is addiction, not admitting that you're addicted.'' I asked if he was mad at me now and he said yes and wanted to stop talking about it. Now he won't talk to me.

What the fuck do I do? I'm getting sick of this shit.

He's just controlling and vindictive. Drop him. You're not mature enough for him either if you can't handle him watching porn

>What the fuck do I do?
How about sharing your naked body here? That will teach him.

So you turn black when you smoke weed? The fuck.

You told him you didn't want him to watch porn. He told you he didn't want you to smoke weed. Where is the problem?

I told him I had a compromise for him. He can watch porn if he wants to, I can smoke weed if I want to. He still declined. I'm stuck now.

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>There are still no Tits with Timestamp to fap to
>Calling others summer after behaving so faggotlike

ofcourse that doesn't work. You told him to stop watching porn way before this I presume, right? But OH now it's suddently ok for him to watch it because you can "win" something from it.

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Yeah stuck with a baby in a grown ups body. Just as you are.

Why don't you get over eachother and mature the fuck up ?

He needs to grow up. My GF had a terrible first experience, some people do. He should try it again at a lower dose and see if its better. If not, then he should at least let you do your thing, unless its effecting your day to day life negatively in some way and hes trying to help you

instead of tits, have a picture of my dogs ass.

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No deal.

>The problem is, my boyfriend HATES that I do it. He did it once before and reacted horribly to it (paranoid, weird feelings, etc) and never wants to try it again.

He's a big fucking faggot and you want to do something that he irrationally hates. Break up with him and find someone smarter. He's a child who can't handle that you're not his possession that does as he pleases. He feels the same about you smoking some fucking weed as he would if he caught you with a black man. Does that seem like a healthy person? Someone who reacts like that, what if you had a beer, would he have a heart attack, because that's a drug as well.

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Dump the retard. It's fucking weed. He's a indoctrinated bitch.

>Doing drugs makes you a nigger
>Niggers be niggin
Are these guys serious?

Fuck off then.

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>that right there is addiction, not admitting that you're addicted.''

This is so fucking retarded. I remember the very first time I ever had alcohol on my 21st birthday, I thought to myself, if someone asked me if I was an alcoholic and I said no, they could pull out this line and I would find myself in the middle of an argument, having never touched a drop of alcohol in my life, somebody could be convinced that I'm trying to hide my ways. It's absolute madness. You don't reason with people like that. They aren't thinking.

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Girl showing no tits... GTFO

never stated that was a femanon... if faggot... GTFO too.

Either way.. GTFO and kill yourself

This is why people can't maintain healthy relationships. Everyone is so fucking selfish, they never want to give up anything for someone they love. Selfies, social media, drugs and alcohol, porn and any other means you use to announce yourself to the world or medicate your agony. Even your fucking depression memes are entirely focused on the individual. It's prideful, arrogant, disgusting. Wake up shit heads, it's not all about you. You'll wake up in 30 years and wonder why no one has friends, and why they all hate themselves. It's because we couldn't look past our own horrid desire. Try being something ffs.

I really don't know what to do right now. I want to be with him, I really do, but if he pulls that shit on me I don't know if i can.

This argument is really fucking dumb if you realized she told him he couldn't do stuff. So by your argument you're calling her a big fucking faggot, dumb and an unhealthy person as well

Why use such a lot of out of context macros?

Not that I'm complaining, I want this female junkie addict udders too, it's simply that why save so much pics of such a simple subject?

Can we at least get a cute picture of your pupper? I'd highly suggest sitting down calmly with him and find out why hes so against it, and also give yourself a chance to explain to him why you do like it.

show tits dumb cunt

knock it off with complaints... you know the rules cum dumpster

wut? how is that even relevant?

stop encouraging her/faggot. or GTFO too newfag

>I just feel like a shitty ass girlfriend
She stated in the OP.

This place is supposed to be Anonymous, thus you gotta ask like in the times "Oh, I have a friend of a friend with such issue that I know all about".

Stating you are a female in a place where your extra assessts are not supposed to give you advantage is stupid.

>never stated that was a femanon
Boy, I say boy, you sound retarded
>I just feel like a shitty ass girlfriend

we don't negotiate with terrorist. Tits or tits... nothing to negotiate

then stop fucking smoking you retarded cunt

relationships are partnerships, the key is being able to negotiate a common ground, not strictly putting your foot down NOR letting everything go.

>Being this gay
Enjoy your pride parade.

either way. GTFO. clearly stated

moar

pic related

First off, quit talking to him about it for a while.
Let him calm down enough to talk.
Then apologize for lying to him and betraying his trust.
Obviously he's had some trust issues with people choosing drugs over him before and you've done the same thing.
Your drug use might not necessarily be selfish or a relationship ender, but betraying his trust and associating your relationship with other broken ones in his past WILL BE.

Make up by making him understand you don't want to hurt him, but don't promise anything you're not going to do. (like never using again)
Prove to him that you are in control of yourself by not using again for a period of time.

Eventually you can broach the subject again and explain that while he may think your drug use is selfish, him demanding you don't use is also selfish.

His values might not change overnight, but you can at least get to a point where he trust you to control your use and not hurt him again.

>t. someone who went through the same thing and managed to keep her bf through it.

I do though, idgaf about her tit tbh, if I wanted that I'd just jump into one of the millions of other places where I can get that without even asking

I can tell that this is a lost cause unless he lightens up, which he sounds like he absolutely won't.

You don't need to be attracted to his antics. Make a stand that weed is something you absolutely feel improves the quality of your life, and that his past isn't allowed to make your future more painful. You're not his family members and you won't necessarily make the same mistakes. Mention how it's legal in many states and millions successfully work and smoke up.

But just make sure you don't take anything harder. Everything he says will come true if you do.

You land wale trap faggot.

yawn... never been on reddit, purely a channer. more interested in doggo than tits

>>/reddit/

It's not about the tits faggot.

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> BBQ

> What do, Sup Forums?
Post tits slut

Believe me, her own stupidity is taken into account. Often more than one person in a situation is wrong.

Time stamp and all.