How do you go about telling a girl your fetishes without creeping her out?

How do you go about telling a girl your fetishes without creeping her out?

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yeah I wish I knew. I'll tell you what I did with my last girlfriend. this worked ok.

all girls eventually want to like, be mildly tied up or whatever. So when I did, I walked her through all thsse videos of my kinks, and asked her what she was into.

but that was just luck I guess.

Was she actually into them or did it seem like she was just doing them for your pleasure?

some she liked, some she didn't/. But she didn't run away when I untied her so....

didn't like dogs fucking chicks. was indifferent to lots of stuff. was really into rough anal ( watching girls in like those casting couch videos )

not into incest at all.

I mean - it is pretty easy to have a "what are you into" and start with the easy stuff.

Ask her if she has any kinks, and if she tells you some she'll probably ask if you have some. If she asks you if you have any, just say them and figure out what you both like

I guessed i always thought it would be difficult or that they would be disgusted but i guess women must have fetishes too right. Other than the ever so popular 'Daddy Kink'.

As mentioned
The only answer i get is 'Daddy Kink'

here it goes like this. you ever do sex talk online or whatever?

half way through when you are both sort of worked up. ask: so you into any kinky stuff?

see what she says. if she is shy about it, just start asking her different stuff.. like

>you ever been tied up?
>what is the kinkiest thing you ever did
>ever been in a threesome?
>what are some fantasies you have?

open ended questions work well.

yeah turned out she was really into some types of erotica, and was on some erotica forum where she would like, post nudes of herself, and guys would flirt with her and cum tribute her pics.

never. would. have .guessed in a million fucking years.

Carefully and without punching her in the face.

>The only answer i get is 'Daddy Kink'
uhm anyone who has this one for reals ( not just a fakey fake ) would be into lots of other shit they don't realize. spanking is an easy one. rough sex. forced to send photos to your friends. all kinds of shit.

I would try this but the girl im currently speaking to doesnt like sexting of any form but we have been flirting

Exactly. I put it in brackets because its obvious they like the idea of it but dont like the full extent or are lackluster in bed

why no sexting? how about talking sex on the phone?

or shit after a few drinks and you are giving her a backrub or whaatever

oh gotcha. do girls actually say that? I've never met a girl who was willing to say they had daddy issues or whatever... but I had a knack for a while of unintentionally dating girls whose dads had molested them, or whatever. like 3 girls in a row.

Something to do with a past relationship is why she doesn't like the dirty talk. We haven't done anything yet im just preparing for when the time comes of telling her.

Also many girls i have spoke too say this. I believe its a new trend among young girls. Some of them i can see would not be about it at all.

I have no idea how to ask the tough ones like.. luckily I don't have these.. but I can't imagine finding someone who is a good match is easy...

>eating shit
>blood
>ageplay/cp
>breeding/cucking
>real bdsm

I have a friend who is really into s/m pain stuff. like she really likes to be roughed up, used, pins in her tits kind of stuff. She is older ( 40s ) and she has a hrad time finding a guy who isn't "totally vanilla" as she puts it. And she sais when she goes to fetish sites, guys are fucking losers.

huh interesting. well, hope you don't have some damaged doesn't-like-sex girl. being the rebound for that sucks balls.

I dont know if this will help give an idea but my fetishes are piss, feet and cum degradation. Im thinking about keeping the last one silent completely

what is cum degredation

Stuff like CEI but like with the other i dont like videos id have to experience it with an actual girl

forgot to add: I think piss is the hardest one - not sure I've ever met someone who into that. you like pissing or being pissed on?

As someone with a mild blood fetish I would never tell my partner about it unless I know that they have that fetish too..I don't want to scare people

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but that is so vampire! I'm into rough stuff, but my only real fetish is "armpits"... which i cant ever bring up. It seems gross as fuck I guess.

oh and I like licking her asshole. but I guess you find that one out by just trying it.

Pissed on i guess. Never had an experience honestly.

Heres a bunch my dude
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I like these too but i wouldnt say their feitshes just something i wouldnt mind doing

videos are too long sorry. is it like being made to eat your own cum and stuff? personally I'd bring it up after fucking, and go down on her. tell her you think it is hot.

some of your stuff you bring up involves her being dominant, which is sort of tricky. very few women Ive found are into that.

Thats the issue. Then again I thought with the piss one atleast if they arent as into they would be more willing as they wont be the one getting pissed on

Also heres a image for reference

anyway, next time you are single. find an older woman. like in her 30s-40s who is looking for a younger guy. shop around a bit, and find one who can at least play dominant for a night.

I mean femdom is tricky, and there is a reason women get paid good money to be doms.

you ever sucked cock before? sounds like you are pretty ripe for an older guy to use you tbh.

Not interested in guys at all. Plus I don't like older. I like girls the same age or around my age really.

yeah, well I gotta say, that is a tough find. I'd find a gf that is ok with you being that way, and then have her find a friend to do it to you.

seems more likely. gtg, good luck getting your needs met.1

mine told me she masturbates to the idea of getting fucked by a dog
so anything after i said was pretty tame tbh

hot. howd you get that out of her. also post pics of her getting fuckedby dog

Got her drunk essentially. We haven't had a dog fuck her yet but maybe once we move in together and get one. I think it'd be pretty hot to have her raise a dog and then make her our bitch.

yeah even just fucking her while having her watch beast videos would make me nut in a second.

yeah I wouldn't dive in too quickly lol. masturbating to, and actually doing are a mile apart. she might try it and hate it, or feel grossed out, etc.