Be me

>be me
>gf out in Boston alone
>gf goes to some hippie vegan cafe
>hippie douchebag approaches gf
>compliments her outfit
>they chat
>convo is dwinidling, finally dbag asks girl to go to party with him that night
>gf says no because she's coming to my place that night
>dbag suggests exchanging snap chats so they can hang out sometime
>gf complies
>wtf.gif

That happened on Friday and she didn't mention it until today. She also refuses to delete him on snapchat because I need to "trust" her. What would Sup Forums do?

Bump.

dump her.

she has to trust you when you ask to delete a douchebag from her snapchat

Obviously get rid of her. She's shopping around for other guys. As soon as she finds one better you're history. That line about trust is bullshit to keep you on the hook until she upgrades. She's a skank. Sucks to be you. Life goes on.

Keep cool and let her fuck up. Be ready to dump her when she cheats on you

She's looking for another man my guy.

If you wanna keep her you better start pampering her. Might be too late already though so just end it lel

Don't be a cuck.

if she never told him she had a bf the dude ain't a duchebag, just trying to fuck.

but yeah

this

I was in Boston today. Fuck Boston and fuck you OP.

She claims she told him about me but won't tell me the context of conversation I came up in. We've been together almost a year and this has never happened before.

OP is pretty much fucked. If he dumps her, she'll go to newguy and OP is the asshole for not trusting her. If OP doesn't dump her, she's just gonna cheat on him, dump OP for new guy, and OP is an asshole for some other bullshit reason.

You're basically fucked dude. All you can do is tell her exactly what the fuck you think and why you think it. If she doesn't like it, she can take a fuckin' hike. Preserve your dignity. Get pussy a couple more times before you end up single.

At any rate, if you have a girlfriend then you've already shown you're capable of attracting a female. Just do it again.

dump him or her in the Neponsett. You cn choose which. Welcome to Southie justice.

>She claims

if you are actually worried about it enough to come here and ask you and i both know that conversation went like this

him
>wanna come to a party

her
>can't, i have plans

HER!
>give me your snapchat tho

just bail and never look back.

& fuck you

This is the answer OP
If you do break up with her and turns out the other guy's a fag she'll probably ho back to you like a desperate bitch.

OP this heappend 2 me before .... start looking for another gf ...bitches only give contact when they want dick...my adv SMASH AND DASH

>be me
>hanging out with the bros at chic cafe
>see qt3.14 across the room
>go over, introduce myself, chat
>compliment her outfit, alphaasfuck.flac
>remember one of my bros is hosting a party that night
>ask if she wants to go
>she says no, has to go to beta bf's house
>wtf.gif
>exchange snaps
haven't said anything yet Sup Forumsros, dubs decides

Nice try faggot.
They have talked briefly on snapchat since the incident which is another reason I feel betrayed.

>gf goes to some hippie vegan cafe
...why are you with her?

OP here.
Any rational conversation I tried to have with her to make her see it from my point of view, ended with her acting completely defensive and hostile. Void of any feelings of sympathy.
feelsbadman

Why would she cheat on you?

That's what I'm trying to figure out.

dump that bitch

She isn't trusting you, and yet she asks you to trust her.
You should dump her if it is not working out

Well then you know what to do. My ex did that shit to me. Met some dude at her college and said she had a boyfriend. He met me and knew we were living together. I knew what he was doing and told her to stop talking to him. I looked like the asshole of course even though she admitted they kissed at one point. She went to her graduation two weeks later and sent me a text telling me she was going over to his house and not coming home. Like the other user said save your dignity and end it before it gets worse. Sometimes people aren't meant to be together.

this.
trust has to be mutual. otherwise, leave her. no drama, just don't talk to her again.

Leave her. She obviously is attracted to this guy and wants to talk to him. She's going to cuck you. Leave if you have one ounce of self-respect.

Don't make it a big deal, don't give her the satisfaction. Just tell her something like, "I'm not cool with what you did, you're obviously not the person and girlfriend I want because of that. I'm done with this relationship. Catch you later."

Then you NEVER, EVER, EVER, EVER under any circumstances talk to her again. Ghost her 100%. She's dead to you.

Also post her nudes here. It's therapeutic, really helped me get over my last bitch.

Just to see what she says and to mess with her, tell her you're OK with her meeting up with this Vegan and fucking him.

Been there 6 times before my wife. Trust me, just get rid of her and save your money/sanity.
You'll run into someone better later, just like shes trying to find that someone now.

Listen to this guy op