Do you ever plan on having kids?

do you ever plan on having kids?

Nope. It could end up in disaster. Mr and Mrs Hitler had a kid and we all know how that turned out.

My wife is 13 weeks pregnant now. Still feels weird.

No. Expensive, demanding, nothing in return, and you never know if they'll turn out terrible or not. I'd rather focus on enjoying life and taking care of my needs. Plus, I couldn't raise one even if I wanted to. If I ever find someone I want to marry, it'll be someone that doesn't want them either.

I want kids. But I need to meet a girl first who is worthy of having kids with. That's the most important part, and it's very difficult. Your kids are half you, and half her don't forget... so their personality, traits, genes, and intelligence have a good chance of being just like yours. I'm not going to stick my dick in crazy...

Yeah but your kid would be a fucking boiled potato. The world would be safe.

Yup, should be interesting to see what porn they're into.

mine is 12 weeks... still freaking out. Keeping it cool in front of her though

i'm 31 and i'm getting married next year. Going to try after we get married but i dunno i feel like i'm getting too old.

I found my wife while we were both research slaves in graduate school. Both on scholarship and had a passion for our subject. Married for six years now.

Nah. At least I probably shouldn't.

Only to fuck later on

Your father must be fucking proud. Telling all his coworkers and friends how his son won't be passing on the family name, and he will never have the burden of bouncing grandkids on his knee or surprising them with gifts. "My son" proclaims your proud father, "is concerned with his OWN NEEDS...and that's OK!"
Good man.
Good man.

How crazy was watching the birth?

Already have two. Had a vasectomy after the second, so if I have any more it'll be a hell of a conversation with my wife.

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>implying we all love out dads or give a fuck about his putrid "family name"

Sorry, I meant to say she is 12 weeks pregnant. Still processing that life will never be the same forever.

>couldn't raise one

Why not?

Did he put a finger in the bootyhole?

Don't say sorry, you replied to the user mentioning how far along his wife was, this user just didn't bother to check

hey OP
what scifi movie is this from
thats a crazy looking reality

Three girls with my wife, with another on the way. I also have another in Japan, but the mother wants nothing to do with me, so I never saw more than twice. Lawyer already told me I have few if any options of actually getting custody or even visiting rights as a filthy gaijin, and she's not even interested in child support payments so I got even less things tying me to the girl.

I'm a 36 year old wizard. That should be all I need to say on the matter.

Absolutely not. I'm 36 now and there is no reason whatsoever why that would be a remotely good idea.

Bro, wizards get mad puss puss

That is literally my nightmare. Im moving to japan next year to give it a shot with the soon to be wife. I am terrified it wont work out and she will expunge me from my child's life.

Not him but yeah you're pretty much boned if the mother doesn't want you in the kids life.

I think at 36 you missed your shot. Most adults who have kids when they are almost 40 have like mental problems. Unless your boys are strong swimmers...but at 36 most are dead or swimming in circles.

Absolutely not. The planet is beyond fucking full.

Yeah, she wont come to my country and I see the only professions available for me are English teaching jobs.

Suits me bro. I'm not a wizard like the guy who posted above me. When I was younger I got plenty of snatch. But I'm totally uninterested in parenthood.

To be fair, my chances are pretty much shot because we were just dating, I had to leave japan for a few months due to work, and I had little to no ties to the island beyond the fact I fucked a legal age that was still younger than me. When everything went south, the lawyer said I had no standing to claim any rights over my daugther, and that I was extremely stupid for not regularizing my relationship the instant she was pregnant.

From what I gather, as long as you are a member of the community, are married, and can proof you can both support yourself and a kid, you have better chances at not being cut off from a native's live.

You should be ok, is my point, but do talk to a lawyer what specific steps you should take to give yourself peace of mind.

your personal income?

Fuck no, what are you out of your fucking mind?
Not if I were the last person on earth user.

...especially if I were the last person on earth.

No.
I'm a pathetic piece of shit who does not deserve the love of a wife and kids.

All I can hope for is to die without hurting anyone else.

>their personality, traits, genes, and intelligence have a good chance of being just like yours

not accurate in the slightest. try it and see faggot. Have three kids. see how much like you any of them are. They won't be, unless you've cloned yourself and gone back in time and had your parents raise each of them instead of you.

How your kids turn out is largely out of your hands. You can try, and damn well better, to guide them, but most of a kids personality is shaped by their environment and unfortunately, their fucking peers. ...which are a bunch of little shitheads.

You'd be better off adopting a kid that already has traits you like, if you want a kid with traits you like.

Will probably have to do that before I go AND when im there. I hate little to none knowledge about Japanese law. Relationship is steady at the moment but if things go south I got to be prepared.

The only thing your kids gets from you genetically are their look and diseases.

Everything else is based on how they're raised and what surroundings they have.

Also this

Hell no. This world has enough god damn apes in it as it is. The very fucking last thing it needs is more, just to have one that is a 98% genetic match to me instead of a 96% genetic match as some unwanted turd from some crack den would be. There are millions of perfectly good humans going to waste every fucking day. Choosing to make a new one of your own instead of taking one up for grabs, is choosing to send a kid that already exists to their death sentence in exchange for making one slightly more in your own image. That's egomaniacal as fuck, and anyone who does it is the sort of monster that is having kids for purely selfish reasons and should be banned from reproducing entirely.

False. This whole statement is stupid. Your kids are a part of you. It makes sense that if you and your wife are smart, that there's a good chance that they too will be smart. Your kids may not have the same interests or do the same things as you did though, which would alter their personality for sure... but that's because of the passage of time and our technological world advancing. Traits, genes, and intelligence can be inherited from DNA... there are hundreds of studies on this. Your kids can very much be just like you or your wife in certain ways because of nature.

Human existence is existential hell

I don't know how anyone could bring someone into the world and not feel incredibly guilty about it

Too many people procreate when they have NO business to.

Just don't be paranoid. Most relationships work out, it's just a matter of being sensitive to the local culture. Sure, Japanese law is heavily tilted to the in-group, but its not really unfair and arbitrary as some people try to make it seem. I too would probably have thought the deadbeat dad of a young girl of my country shouldn't be given much consideration about visiting rights after he seemingly showed no interest (not quite what happened, but nothing to do now).

Make loads of Japanese friends and you should be dandy, enjoy your time there, and don't let your concerns affect your relationship, or it WILL fail.

Except you get geniuses from average parents and average kids from genius parents.

How would you do it if you were the last person on earth?

>It makes sense that if
Yes, it makes sense, but nearly always does not work that way. Read a fucking book, any fucking on childhood development you tard.

Jesus fuck, for the sake of your doomed offspring, do not breed and pass your special brand of stupidity on to another generation.

Intelligence is not inherited.
Sorry, it does not work that way. Einsteins wife was fucking brilliant too, and their kids were shit.

as I said, I wouldn't.

solves that problem.

The only people procreating, are the very kind of people who should not be.

A generation from now, the US will be populated by trailer trash whites and ghetto trash blacks. People more intelligent than a cardboard box are opting out of this idiotic species entirely.

No, you never know if when it grow up wouldn't have feminism or other mental disease

You dont like it? go be a fucking dolphin or some bird that shuts the fuck up!!

Looks like this piece of shit user is a fucking degenerate. No idea how science works. Ah, but you do read those childhood development books though, right? Yeah, all that info is in there. Giving the wrong information... Fuck off.

Good thing we don't have to worry about you having kids

Got 2

literally just looked this up and see that intelligence can be influenced by genetics and environmental factors... so i guess yes and no?

>shut up
is not a counter argument, its admittng defeat, pouting, and sulking off home.

>if I don't know shit about a subject
>then probably no one anywhere knows anything about it

you'll make a great parent

of a kid that kills himself on the railroad tracks by 8yo.

The human race has so much potential to be great, but we don't prioritize the right things or ask ourselves the right questions

We say/do things that kill us inside, but we never really ask ourselves why. We participate in conventions that drain us and make us miserable but we never ask why. We're so painfully unaware of what we're doing and why we're doing it and we don't even care enough to change that. It's tragic

White babies white babies white babies.
Or Asian hapa babies if Canada falls to the sandniggers. >inb4 Canada is already brown

Oh Canada
sweden of the americas

No evidence to back your claim. Saying that shit about me gets you nowhere. You seem intelligent enough to post a rebuttal yet you fail by instead talking about how good of a parent I would be... oh, and you know jack shit about biology. What a waste of potential. Now let's try that again... Fuck off you piece of shit degenerate.

Would have to trick a girl into having sex with me first

No, for the simple fact I could have a daughter.
You groom her as a child, spend time and money for 18 years to make her a good human beong with a good personality. All just so some guy can have her after you spent 18 years making sure she was happy and taken care of.
Its the Ultimate and final Cuck.

wait, you were planning on fucking your daughter?

>thats the worst thing he can do

Nop, the world is a shit

I'm one of two people in my "close family" that doesn't have kids. 5 cousins, 1 brother, and 1 sister all have at least one kid; there is a total of 11 kids between them.

None of them have any free time. None of them have any real hobbies. None of them have any real money. None of them have anything other than each other and they always say how great it is.

Meanwhile me and the person in my "close family" that doesn't have a family or child both live in nice houses, have tons of free time, get to keep the money we make, and have enough time to do what we want.

Only thing that bothers me is that the other person is my cousin who is the most closeted homosexual i have ever seen and everyone is too afraid to bring it up because it's been 30 years and he hasn't come out yet which means no one talks about families or babies with him. Whereas with me it's full blown AIDS when they bring it up.

No but I'm not gonna spend 18 years and a ton of money and a huge headache when she a teen all just so some guy can take everything I worked hard for.

I take it you have a daughter?

Had em, raised em, daughter had parties n invited some sexy agg girls over, took my boys gf n made her mine. Kids r fucking great

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No, but that's just a retarded way to see it. The term cuck doesn't make sense in any context there, which makes me guess you are simply using it because cuck has become the hip new insult of the chans. I'm not even dealing with the retarded notion that you are arguing, but just the words you are using are retarded.

I already have a nine year old but the mom isn't around and I haven't dated lately so probably not having any more.

Kids are fucking horrible. If I could go back I'd get a fucking vasectomy before I had either of mine.

Second.
I married woman with two children.

No, I have suicidal tendencies and I'm definitely going to kill myself in a few years. It's not a smart idea.

Are you stupid?
You'd be doing the same to someone else's daughter.
That's a pretty self-righteous double standard to hold.

Fuck no. Never. I'm 26 now and thinking about getting sterilized. My sister has four kids and her life is fucking miserable. The kids are sweet but this isn't a life for me.

U mad white boy?? U mad hamburgur??

I might, but I also plan on spending a few years being a vagabond so I'll see how that pans out.

>still thinks its a virtue to pass on a family name in the 21. century
>thinks hes making anons feel shame because he says their dads wouldn't be proud
Top lel mate.

already have 4... in my basement...

If I can get married, definitely. I love kids, unlike most people apparently.

Dad get off Sup Forums

No

yep

let me guess.. she's single now?

With the right girl, yes. Call me foolish, but as the only son of an only son of an only son of an only son, I want to continue the family line. Also I want to pass on the misery of life and death to someone else.

Most people don't know how to handle them, I grew up the oldest out of 11 or so if my cousins and siblings and since I was years ahead I ended up being a caretaker from a young age.
Then I volunteered to take care of infants at a church.
I don't have my own and it's not a priority but I'm not closing out the option completely.

Pretty much my one consistent goal through my entire life so far is to one day have a loving wife and daughter.

Now that I've found a femianon that I want to marry yet after we get married and travel a bit sure. Max 3 for me her max is 5 which scares the shit outta me.

No, only weaklings and troglodytes find a companion to marry and have offspring with.

Superior human beings live alone

Yeet* stupid auto correct

Yes. I have a daughter already.

This guy gets it.

Guys no. This is bait.

>caring what your dad thinks

No she and her husband has been married for 12 years now. They have a big farm and her husband has his own mechanic shop. Things are on paper perfect, but in reality.. not so much.

Who gives a shit. If the guy treats her good, then cool. You'll get grandchildren, and life goes on.

Only sick fucks who want to fuck their daughters believe being a father to a girl is being an "Ultimate Cuck".

Be a good dad, and she will always be there for you. Be a shit dad, and you will never see her again.

How could I see any women as anything other than a thing to fuck.

Well she also has FOUR kids.

Try just 1 you fucking faggot.

Better yet, go ahead and get steralized. The world needs less beta fags like you anyway.