GF/EX Breakup Thread

GF/EX Breakup Thread

My GF wants to break up, amicably, but we are not broken up yet...what should I do?

I'm curious Sup Forums what can I do to fix? if not, what can I take away before its officially over?

it would be a amicable break up if it happens do I make requests before and or after?

Aw Sup Forumsrother, sorry to here this. More to follow...

thanks I'm not sure what to do to fix..says passion is not there anymore

If we do break up heres my post break up questions. We don't have much sex, sees not sexually explorative, and she's hot...im will now go to zero sex...

Do I?:
1. Ask for break up sex?
2. Ask tap material of her..Nudes or if .1 , ask to record sex for post break up fapping
3. Since we will or have broken up propose all weird sexual activities that you would not do in average committed relationship
4. Put a hidden camera in apt so I can still tap to her since she walks the house naked after I move out and perhaps catch her fucking someone
5. Propose a sexual friendship / open relation ship

bump

Are you 12? The relationship is already over. You don't have sex. Leave and find someone else or find yourself. There are no other options.

she is already balling someone else.

why not try? I don't want someone else and really her sex is rediculous

should I try to prove this?
should I try to take advantage of it some how?

What? Just break up and move on. No point in staying with her like this. Friend of mine stayed fuck buds with an ex and she got pregnant. Ruined his life and he hates her now.

Ok, so really there isn't much you can do to fix it. Most likely it has to end before it gets better. Also, it's likely that she has another man all lined up. It's going to sting.

>Cut your now Ex out of your life entirely. Keep her in the dark edges of your life, just beneath an acquaintance and more like the cashier at your local grocery store.

>Limit interaction with mutual friends.

-keep interactions brief and friendly. DON'T MENTION HER or the BREAK UP. If it gets brought up, play it down. "It is what it is." "Yeah, it's too bad." Say it with a smile. If they press you on that just say, sorry, "I'm busy, I'll tell you all about it later."

-Let mutual friends get the hint that you have something on the go.

>Consider your Ex's criticisms of you.

-Did she complain about your lack of ambition?
Take an inventory, if there even is one, and pick one thing that would be easy to fix. Something moderately difficult to fix, and something long term. Just two or three criticisms you think are legitimate, get to work on them, easiest to most difficult.

-Change your appearance, slightly.

>Engage new friends, hobbies, and work.

-Take all the overtime. Go on that road trip. Sodomize your love of the fine arts or what ever shit you are into.

>Get out there again IMMEDIATELY!!! If you had it bad for your ex, then most women will seem like trash, fuck them anyway and dump them. It's okay to be a little angry with women too. Especially, harden your heart a little and be merciless. Fuck the pain away...

>It will trickle down to your ex. that you are moving forward with your life. You took a new job, you are back in school, you are seen with a hand full of random women. You seem happy and busy and engrossed in your new life.


More to follow...

The only thing your mutual friends should be trickling back to your

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well we are both crazy save but your ride theres always a risk...but no one will top her sexually...one more ride...or try to get some fap material to get me through? whats the harm?

How old are you?

How do you not have enough fap material. Just cut it off and move on you dumbo.

wow thats amazing! are you her? damn I'm saving this...

what about my horny selfish needs?

sadly 29
I have limited tap material of her..and she's all I tap too...im not going to FB tap to her and besides I feel like I have some x rated stuff I her I can tell myself I win..a little

Don't give her the pleasure of giving you a sympathy fuck.

As user said above move on and improve yourself. You want to win the breakup. You want her to wish she was back with you while you surpass her and are far happier with your life that what you had with her is a step down.

Cut ties and be an alpha

shit , sounds right....leave my dick out of it....would like to remain friends but that would
be hard...dont stay friends?

Nigga you're 29 and you still haven't learned to not stick around like a whimpering puppy?

C'mon bitch.

Use 4play get her to come at least once before you even stick your d in her. Then fuck her real good. She will not break up with you.

DON'T REMAIN FRIENDS YOU DUMB BITCH

Okay, your ex will likely try to 'be your friend.'

What a selfish CUNT! What?!? She wants to prolong YOUR agony while having you hang out pining for her while she bangs other men? This is her wanting your love and support, while taking cock from some other guy! Kind of a scum bag thing to expect from another human being isn't it?

It's okay to be mad at her for this... be sweet and kind and friendly, while cutting her out. Remember, she is now a grocery store clerk to you. You say hello, you smile, maybe tell a joke or talk about the weather. Keep it SUPERFICIAL. If she asks you about your life, just smile and chuckle a bit... then say... "Why? You want back in?" Not that you will allow her back in. I mean why would you, she's proven herself to be as selfish as she is non-committal. This should be unacceptable to you in a partner.

Say that you are interested in being friends but your actions should suggest that you aren't. Don't lie to her, be genuine... you should be busy: chasing new women, building new friendships, following new career options, working on perfecting a hobbie, going to AA meetings, I dunno... what ever it is you need to do. You simply shouldn't have time for this broad. It's ok, to be ANGRY WITH HER. She's treating you like a fucking asshole.

>wants to break up
>not broken up yet
y'all broke up as soon as she said shit. you fucking suck.

If you're 29 and haven't figured out the logical thing to do then Sup Forums can't help you.

Best thing to do right now is not acknowledge her at all and try make her think you've already moved onto someone else

Spiderman


nuff said Sup Forumsro

tried this already, she cums, I go in hot and blow it in 2 mins or less...she good
damn
ouch and damn
bummer but likely true
good logic, makes perfect sense...but hard to do...
so she used to used sex to get what she wants...I know that if I keep my distance she will try to lure me in for friendship or favors using sex...what do?

Last bit of info I have for your Sup Forumsrother.

I once read in a book called, "The poverty of affluence." that there are three modes of human attraction/interaction. Not just in attracting partners but in general... including the interactions of nations and states.

>1. To move towards another.

-This is the direct approach. To directly complement of do a kind deed for another.

>2. To move away from another.

-This is what you are experiencing now... as she moves away, you understand more intensely what you are losing and will want to move towards her more (DON'T) It's a win/win for her and a lose/lose for you.

>3. To move against another.

-This is what happens in a confrontation. Fierce competitors can become fast friends. It's a building of mutual respect by discovering the boundaries and capabilities of others.

You need to focus on 2 and 3. She will see what she is losing by breaking up with you, and she will respect you if you are firm about cutting her out

-maybe you should let it be known what you think about her friend request and how selfish it is, but only if she gets hostile with you, her shit stinks too. She would never accept the same behaviour coming from you.

thanks user for all the time spent, much appreciated...hard ball it is...and maybe even this hardball could prevent the break up to begin with but I know what to do after atleast...

These are my nuggets of advice. Move on and find a new better chick. It'll hurt for a bit but up to you to not linger on the pain

thanks, gotta not think with heart or dick and use brain...maybe focus on career in the interim

Tell her you will stay friends, if she breaks off a peice for every once and a while. At least until you find a new gf. The worst she could say is no.

OP, stop having sex with her, go out, bang another woman. Do it as soon as possible. If she wants to bang you on the side, and you can't stop yourself... at least keep 2 or three other women an the go.

1. Moving towards -> You are still fucking her.

2. Moving away -> You are fucking other women.

3. Moving against -> If she confronts you, fight back with:

"Well, you were the one that wanted to break up! You are the one screwing me to get what you want! What am I to do, let you use me until what you think is a better man comes along?! Then what!?! You want me to be your lap dog, coddling you and letting you cry on my shoulder until you are done with the new guy!?! Then MAYBE... just MAYBE you'll give me another shot!?!"

I strongly recommend you cut this selfish, non-committal, ingrate... out of your life OP.

No sex is that great, mediocre sex with a more genuine and less selfish woman is much better... and that mediocre sex can improve over time.

This broad, on the other hand, IS SCORCHED EARTH, abandon her.

My best advice is to literally turn around, walk away, and never talk to her again.

Thanks user, you should have a book or hold counseling sessions...killer advice..much appreciated

it is looking this way...ty

just be a man.

women think they can get away with this shit way too easily with no consequences.

if you don't argue, never talk, and just vanish, it will likely drive her crazy. if not, she had no feelings for you to begin with.

women need to start being dealt with an iron fist.

Sup Forumse hard Sup Forumsrother, move against, and away from this woman and there is NO WAY YOU WILL LOSE IN THE LONG RUN!

If you go balls out on this advice she will be a distant memory in weeks rather than months.

These are now your life, these are now your gods and churches:

-Gym
-Work
-Whoring
-Friends
-Hobbies

Love it! Live it!!!

I'll leave you with the pep talk from "Goon."

"You need to go hard! Triceps, Biceps, arseps, HARD! Greek, fucking, undergound, gay porn, HARD!"

Synchronicity. I dumped my GF and booted her out today. She'd been fucking my brother behind my back.

Anyone got Jerrys number?

I think I might be gay and I'm not sure how to tell my girlfriend or anybody really

Through song, obviously.

thanks I think I just needed to read it... I think I need some ritalin to focus but either way if I can walk away in shape and with I bigger check from work thatll help

Springer?

hahah perfect that cheered me up

and again...no matter what..dont give in if she wants to fuck right? just say no?

Fuck your dad in the ass and it will spread gay ripples through your real hyperspacial life and everyone who sees you will unconsciously know it

Lukewarm acceptance is far more bewildering than outright rejection.

glad for the level headed crowd today...
was expecting endorsements on the spy cam, pictures and video to go, last fuck, and last time shot in the dark sex requests since its over like anal or cucking...