>1. Not all Muslims are like this. Only a few people are Islam terrorists.
"You are right. Only a few are terrorists. The problem is that according to polls in european and in islamic countries, at least 20% support ISIS. At least 60% want Sharia Law in Europe. xx% want to punish gays." etc etc
Find legit polls and refer to those. It's not you hating Muslims. It's about supporting minorities and women in Islamic societies.
> 2.What about the Christians? They are against gay marriage and have also committed religion-based crimes.
"You are right. 50-100 years ago, Christianity might have been more dangerous and more harmful than Islam, but in the present it's not the case. Christianity went through a bloody process and Western society went through a process, in which the rights of the individual have gained importance.
Right now, Islam is the only religion that allows murder, genocide etc in the name of religion. Apostates get killed. These are things we have to speak against. If we don't, then the liberals in muslim societies will get dominated further by radical islam.
> 3. Well, it was the Americans fault for bombing and destabilizing the Middle East.
Radical Islamists will always find something to blame others. When you don't interfere, then you are not helping enough and when you interfere, then you're just doing it for yourself.
Denmark didn't have colonies and did never attack a muslim nation, but a few pictures of their prophet where enough to attack danish embassies and danish citizens.
>4. You're a racist and Islamaphobic
Islam is not a race. You are not responsible for the race you're born in, but you're responsible for your beliefs and your ideology.
Islamophobic implies that it is a baseless fear. There are millions of muslims who want to establish a theocracy according to sharia law wherever they go.