Can someone explain the cuck fetish to me? What about it turns you on?
Seeing cuck-related pictures just make me imagine getting a similar picture through of my girlfriend fucking some other guy. I'd be devastated. Imagining that gives me this miserable, sort of hollow feeling that's hard to explain. I think that's what hearbreak is, but I've never properly had it so I don't know.
This is one fetish I will never understand.
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Most fetishes are the minds way of dealing with something we fear or are uncomfortable with. Cucks have a deep seated fear their significant other will stray, so to take control of it. They fantasize about it and sometimes even force it to happen, but on their terms. Its the minds way of dealing with the fear. The interracial aspect is because in modern society black men are overly sexualized along with the wives tale that white women secretly crave black men. The biggest misconception is that cucks are weak. The truth is cucks are usually very strong control freaks.
Pretty much this. I developed some cuckolding behavior when it wasn't a meme back in the day. Though my cuckolding fetish isn't at a point where I would want it to happen in reality. When I was in a relationship I somehow got diamonds when I though my gf having sex secretly with people, I knew would totally have gone for it, if given a chance. Sometimes when we had sex I fantasized in my head that I was somebody else (not telling her of course), those times were more intense I think.
This is fascinating, thank you
My cuckolding being a more like a fantasy than a real fetish it is indeed fascinating. Imagine that it at the same time you are diamonds and feel extremely bad and betrayed at the same time. Like it hurts mentally but at the same time it arouses the hell out of you. Maybe it is some kind of mental masochism, if that is even a thing.
I have it just as an online fetish, I probably wouldn't dream of doing it in person, even if the opportunity came up, at any rate the reason I enjoy the fetish is it's a sort of extreme voyeurism, all these random guys seeing and fucking the GF is really hot, has nothing to do about thinking they would cheat or controlling
Pfft. Bullshit.
This is cucks rationalising cuckism.
People are just turned on by what they're turned on by. There's no rationalising it.
Why do women love rough hands, when they feel like shit on the skin?
Why do some cunts love to fuck midgets? Do they fear midgets? Fuck off.
Why do some men like fisting chicks, even though it brings them no physical pleasure only mental.
Fear has nothing to do with it you weak gutted beta faggot. You're just a cuck. You always have been.
And now you're trying to rationalise it to make yourself feel less stupid for being a natural cuck.
Just embrace it you fucking shitlord. You like being a cuck, that is all.
I dunno why cucks like it, I'm just glad they do. Fucking another dude's girlfriend is hot af.
They only lie to themselves.
easy explanation- the virgins at this site will never actually have a woman love them so they fetishize what keeps happening to them, which is the girl they are into fucking other guys while they stay at home and jerk off
1. I'm not a cuck.
2. There is always a reason people like what they like.
3. Just becuase you don't understand something doesn't mean doesn't mean there aren't people who do.
4. If you payed attention you can be uncomfortable with somethinf and not fear it.
5. Not everything someone enjoys is a fetish.
I always used to think that fetishes came from your childhood experiences. I mean sister/mother is way popular on porn sites and how many of us first time seeing a naked female was with their sister or mother? Like coming out the shower or something like that.
If I think back I always had it. Just didn't know the name for it.
And I'd rather commit sudoku than giving in to this fetish.
seems to be this, tho I would also say it has something to do with insecurities, but thinking your 3DPD would cheat covers this
Cuck here, humiliation get's me horny as fuck, i suppose it's like masochism for the mind, could probably be different for other people though.
I'm also bi if that's relevant, i don't enoying mixing the two though, if i'm fantasizing about being cucked i don't about being with other men, if it's with other men i don't think of getting cucked.
My gf is aware of it and some times we playfully talk about during sex, but that's it, never went through with it nor really plan to.
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it's just cheating but with worse race tensions. oh you mean what it's like to be a cuck? I'm not rich I don't know.
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bitches would think I feel fear. watch your shekels out there friend
I think it does have to do with insecurities, like really I remember when I did it with my ex gf and it felt good because it was morally wrong but I also felt worst after we made the fantasy come true. I did realize something though, no girl that really loves you would do that so literally after this happened my feelings for her vanished so now I had control like above anons say, I wasnt jealous of her anymore so when we broke up that was the least of my worries.
OP here. What am I shilling? I don't understand
Interesting user. I never spent a minute thinking about another guy sleeping with my wife until after my first wife cheated on me with a guy who was supposed to be her personally fitness trainer. We dicored and it was emotionally devastating. I'm a successful, fit, decent looking, type A personality and eventually remarried a much younger and quite attractive woman. Now, The cuck thoughts keep creeping into my head and it has progressed to actual conversations with my current wife about having her fuck another guy. Something about seeing her get fucked so hard she can barely stand it is appealing to me in some dark way. At the same time, it feels like I might be digging my own grave. It's a total mind fuck.
can say the same for most other fantasies and after sex in general. homosexual fagget.
Not really
Jesus christ. died, for you btw.
Fucking ya bruh
You don't have to kill yourself!
You will be digging your own grave, just avoid the thoughts man, or go through the trouble but dont come back to sicken us. Just stay the way you are.
If he doesn't like cucks, we'll cuck him and his voice won't matter. Work with mans curse of the dollar. can't buy back watching you fuckers cry
what said, i'm a cuck who gave in to the thoughts, it's hard as hell to come back from it, if you can have pleasure in more regular ways just avoid cuck stuff, you will never really understand why without trying, but if you did you would thank me.
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I've got a bit of an unusual take on the "cuck" thing.
I've shared 2 previous gf's with both girls & guys, so I have a bit of experience with both swinging and FFM and MMF threesomes. My current gf is into it also, but only under VERY strict circumstances.
^ This guy has some great points, especially about taking control of it.
But for me, letting another dude fuck my girl is not because I get off on humiliation like standard definition of a "cuck". It's more about my control over here, as in: "Your pussy belongs to me and you'll goddamn well do what I tell you to do with it."
Pic related, recent spanking. (I've posted it before). I'll be glad to expound on the rules and motivations and whatnot if there is still interest.
I try to talk myself out of the thoughts. This fucking place doesn't help and I post my wife here which makes it even worse. She knows I post too and isn't opposed to it. Anyway, I know it would be destructive to our relationship which makes me wonder if I'm subconsciously trying to sabotage our situation as a result of my former wife cheating on me and the result trauma from that. Idk. Maybe I need a psychiatrist. Anyway, and this is in no way meant to defend actual cucks, but I'm not some beta fag who secretly likes dicks or some nonsense like that. I think there is something to the point the user made earlier about a control mechanism to cope with fear (at least in some cases), and also some truth to the idea that "normal", successful, heterosexual, dominant men think about this. At least, I fall into that category.
I don't get it either. I've actually done a little swinging, and while I enjoy seeing my wife get plowed by a friend, I think it would be a lot less enjoyable if I wasn't also balls deep in his wife. And if my wife had ever talked like the women in the cuck videos it would absolutely ruin it for me.
^ (internal self disappointment)
i'm js, JUST SAYING
having fun is ok, being a op fagget Whore is not.You should stop calling that girl your wife it's a bad joke for the rest of us.
>itt some fag projects his own insecurities that dictate his sex life on everyone else
I love it with this tools pretend everyone is as broken as they are then try to turn it around that everyone else is the one who is broken
Its because all the ones with cuck fetishes have never had girlfriends so cant picture themselves in the situation
Sounds exactly what I went through, the thing is it was a 24/7 thing and I couldnt get my mind off it. Seriously though just ignore the thoughts, are you getting the feeling that this new girl will cheat too?
is that fear i smell, or just the master race semon slipping from the plug
I never had a gf, it's why we're all here. but I still have fucking dignity
yes, I believe you have to put your buttplug in more firmly before your wife's lovers sperm all leaks out
Of course they fear midgets; midgets are weird and creepy. What are you, stupid?
^ This is me
I'm very similar to you, man. I don't get off on the humiliation and I'd NEVER allow her to fuck someone "superior" to me. But yeah, swinging and mutual fun is perfectly ok.
Dude, it sounds like sharing (even pics) is a turnon to you. But I get the fear and concern that it could hurt your relationship, especially considering what happened last time. You've got to be VERY comfortable with each other, your sex life, and everything else before going down this path. Communication is key, and if you have the slightest fear or concern about it, keep talking and discussing it, but don't act on it until you're 100%
Don't think you understand people, stop pushing your agenda. Stop thinking ur kool. or special.
No. I don't consciously worry about her cheating. I'm not really the jealous type, but being trustIng totally fucked me over with my first wife, and I wonder if that's creaping into my head on a subconscious level. In hindsight, I should have realized something was going on between my ex and her "trainer", but I thought things were fine. I was too naive.
Rude.
so cute. they're not killing each other over a lame ass gender war. >Communication is key, that's what you say. Say it just like that too ffs.
Agreed. What's great about her is that we can talk about pretty much anything without any feelings of awkwardness. When the topic of "sharing her" comes up, we both agree that it seems like it could be an intense, adrenaline filled adventure on paper but quite possibly a nightmare in reality. We both realize that sex can be just sex, but it's a fine line.
Oh boy. Nobody talks about the adaptive advantage. Two branches of behavior when presented with a cheating female:
1) Leaving the interloper's semen intact to result in offspring that is not yours.
2) Having copious sex until your sperm has a fighting chance of replacing the interloper's.
Which is the branch most likely to leave offspring?
oh boi, it's like we're already just dead ;D
I'm not sure if you're retarded or just not a native English speaker, but I truly have no idea wtf you're trying to say here.
Awesome that you're on the same page, then. My girl and I swing with couples similar to us. But she wouldn't be comfortable if I was nailing a 10 and I wouldn't be comfortable if she was nailing a ripped Chad with a 12" cock.
When it comes to dudes, I've left some of my awkward friends play with her. Hell, for one guy it was the first tit he'd ever even touched. So as ridiculous as this sounds, it's like letting a buddy drive your super-cool car around the block and tfw "yeah, that's right, it's all mine, don't you wish you had one....."
To really complicate this shit, she's very bi and loves sex with girls. I'm down to watch and I always join in. But gf has her OWN rules about what I'm allowed to do & not do. Again, all communication and full agreement. It's a fucking blast, but you gotta be careful. Like bungee jumping or sky diving I guess....
Don't give in. Most marriages can't tolerate bringing others in. Go talk to a professional that has experience in sexual disorders. Most therapists that are not sex therapists have a hard time wrapping their head around things like this and will give you child-like advice. Seek a specialist It's, worth it.
You're swingIng or hotwifing or something along those lines, but what you've described doesn't really fall into the cuckhold category, which seems to deal more with the male getting pleasure out of the female having multiple sex partners who are typically better endowed or otherwise more sexually satisfying than her male partner. Admittedly, the lines are blurry.
I hear you. I'm pretty self-aware, but self diagnosing probably doesn't get me too far. I just hate psychologists. The couple "professionals" I know have had more fucked up lives than my own and have made more mistakes along the way than I have. Idk. Maybe it's work experience they need to do their jobs better....
sheit mane
you ever crucify ur wife?
so ur not gunna get help, and ur just gunna talk (....)
no one likes cuck threads tho, Pretty sure bitches don't like cucks!
Exactly right, sir. As I said, I do enjoy watching my gf fuck other dudes, but I don't fit the standard definition of the derogatory term "cuck". I like the word hotwifing, that's a cool one.
I do understand that some people are turned on by humiliation, but that's NOT me. I get that some people like feet, and that's not me either. To each his own, I guess.
No one likes these threads, but I'll go ahead and post.,,
Nah, she likes the pain and she loves the bruises and stripes afterward. It's sometimes difficult for me to hit her as hard as she likes, because I actually love her and shit
She must have had a fucked up childhood.
Your a cuck dude. Admit it.
it's not even about being a fucking racist, it's that there's this trend called cuckory, and how not cool it is. it's about keeping the enemy away, I can't do that inside a bitch when I gotta worry bout some fag later on. you can't do what you want in this society any longer.
you should surprise yourself
Not as much as you'd think. Her parents were a little fucked up, but they were both there, no single-mom bullshit, daddy didn't touch her or anything. But she did go a bit wild, always had a rebellious streak. If anything, her parents were too lax on her when she clearly enjoys discipline, lol.
I like to watch other guys fuck my girl. If that's your definition of a cuck, then I've clearly admitted it.
You strung a bunch of words together, but failed to express a coherent thought.
trading wives isn't gay, being gay is fucking gay.
so long as it was witnessed.
Sometimes I do, but then I feel bad afterward. It's weird af.
That's just the demon stealing your dreams after you die.
Agreed, sir.