I have my last grandma at the hospital, terminally ill of...everything, after the other 3 grandpas died one bu one the last two years. The point is, i realized, staying there with her, who is almost completely aware, i mean her brain is almost fully functional, that i have no idea what to say, how ro act, nor i know what would be best for her to do. My mother just tells me to 'calm her' and she pretends its all fine in front of her, and is afraid about discussing the matter although is pretty obvious grandma has days left, even refuses to use the word 'death'. I can understand that, but, is nobody ever going to say those things we all once think? Why has all to be a silent agreement ALWAYS?
As I said, itt thing you wanna talk about that none seems to.
Caleb Peterson
i've had a grandpa openly talking about his death like he just planned a vacation. not much less awkward but at least he was brave and realistic about it. Died a good death, in his sleep.
Ryder Ross
Who gives a shit? when I was a kid I watched my grandfather who was also my best friend get taken off life support and struggle to breathe until he finally died. You better go fucking make things right before its too late, user.
Robert Brooks
Not sure how I will react
Probs wont even care People die every day
Sebastian King
>my last grandma made me kek
Anthony Butler
Opfag here. I myself dont know if i will have balls to fave death and/or ask for euthanasia. I quite envy my father, who sees all these things as a formality.
Oliver Smith
my parents are on the brink of being financially overwhelmed and refuse to admit it to themselves and love to pretend this is all about life's struggle, moreover my siblings aid this delusion in refusing to manage their own lives accordingly...it's a cycle of bullshit that feeds itself. the most funniest thing of it all is how my family see's me as being of low intelligence, less resourceful and just overall useless when i am really am not and its those insecurities they refuse to acknowledge within themselves.
Andrew Turner
I know some people cant handle well direct truths, and thats not bad per se. But in cases like yours, its just delusional. Not adressing the elephant in the room may be polite in some situations, but i end hating that. Althought in my case everybody knows whats happening and the pretending is just to make my grandma's last moments easier for her.
Nathan Williams
i suppose that's all you can do is soothe her gently into her final resting because like you said she still has all her mental sharpness and perhaps worries about her passing i.e. how she finally dies whether its traumatic or gently at peace.
Camden Reyes
Talk to her. Good memories. She must go with positive thoughts and remembering She had a great life.
Ethan Scott
My father is fighting liver cancee right now. It was discovered about six Werks ago. There is a 50/50 Chance he will die this year or live for about 5 years. A few years my brother died and two of my uncles killer themselves. One hung himself, the other one shot himself. Oh yeah and both grandmothers died too...
So yeah Its pretty fucked up at the Moment. None of my friends know of the status of my father...
Matthew Campbell
Thanks, mega faggots, thats what i'll do. I watched my other grandpas die without almost saying a thing, and i wont stand being a pussyonce again
Jack Ortiz
i don't wanna talk about things i don't wanna talk about
Gabriel Harris
I saw my Uncle fucking my Mom at a party >Family Gathering >4 Familys there all related to mine >Mom tells me to look more womanly if i plan to leave my room >(Was going through a bad moment in life so looked like shit) > 1 hour latercousin comes in and cheers me up telling me that we can play with the younger cousins teaching them to play Halo Reach >(it was around the time of launch of it) decides 30 minute later to dress up in clean clothes and straighten hair >20 minutes later want to put in good looking earrings >Don't have any in room as mom and I shared shit >Sneak across the hall and get to her room. Hear moaning >wtf.jpg who the fuck is getting sexed >look under door (Its got an inch of space to allow air circulation in the heat >See Uncle standing there and hear moms voice >Shitwtfno.jpg >Goes and plays Halo Reach pretending to this day that i did not see what happened
Matthew Diaz
you touch yourself thinking about it? also >implying
Nathan Roberts
Why the fuck not oust her If i saw my Mom cheating on my Dad I would expose that shit in a heartbeat >Granted I hate both of them so it'd be fun to watch the discorse
Luke Campbell
no that's what pornhub is for, also i feel weird touching myself to people i know and would not being even able to do it to family prob Because I don't hate my parents and I was 16 at the time and did not want to go through a divorce
Carter Rivera
tits or gtfo. nobody cares
Andrew Bailey
You want everybody you know and love talking about your very real death in front of you? Not exactly a nice way to live your finals days.
John Rodriguez
Tits or gtfo
Angel Wood
Not sure why I am doing this...
Blake Murphy
Your dads brother or your moms blood brother?
Either. Way so fucked, if dads brother it's worse. If it's your moms bro then she grew up brainwashed.
Daniel Phillips
because you have nice cans and like to show em off. be proud of your body idiot
