I caught my dad cheating

I caught my dad cheating.
I'm 25 and work as a programmer, and he asked me to fix his computer. When I started the browser and started to type the biggest escort site in my country showed up with a lot of visited pages.
After this - and it's unethical I know -I opened the browser history and I saw that the first visit was in 2014.
I knew that my parent's marriage is not so good for a few years and my mother is 60+ but I'm still wondering because of this.I don't intend to tell her I'm just curious whether every marriage becomes like this?
Is he cheating because of my mother is neurotic nowadays or is it because of the lack of sex? Should I talk to him about this? Or I should just show him how to delete the browser history?
Btw I'm not a hypocrite, I also visit sometimes that site and I understand that a man has desires. But I just don't know what to think about this.

How the fuck is your job relevant you whining bitch

I just wanted to reason why I was on his computer

Use the intel to get his penis in your butt.

I really appreciate your advice but my butt is perfect without my father's dick.
I'm more curious about how typical a situation like this is.

>be me
>recently have back surgery
>on work paid disability. Shits cash!
>bored as fuck during the day
>run across Jerry Springer during on boobtube

Never had your situation, but tv tells me that it's fairly common.

You are an adult now. Let it go. Let two people sort heir own shit out.

inb4 "let them sort it out dude, they're adults"
Do you even want to confront him with this?
Is he the type of person that would deny everything and get angry?
You used that site to cheat on your girlfriends as well or just to have sex because you're not in a relationship?
As a cheater your pov would already skewed.
If your very first reaction wasn't to tell your mother you're fucked, you would do the exact same if you were in his position.
Personally I would've beaten the shit out of my father, I've experienced being cheated on, made me buy a baseball bat, but I calmed down driving home.

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Cheating is for garbage people. Just imagine having a person youve trusted and loved wholeheartedly for YEARS, and behind your back they pull this shit. After you've built a life together, after even having and raising kids together.

I don't know your mother, but she deserves better. She at least deserves to know.
And your father's a fuckin coward for not owning up

>inb4

Nope

>Is he cheating because of my mother is neurotic nowadays or is it because of the lack of sex?

Its lack of sex. The whole mental issues are what makes you not "love" someone as much as you use to. It can lead to eventually hating someone, but its not the reason for cheating. Chances are pretty good your mom hasnt touched your dads johnson in a very long time.

>I'm just curious whether every marriage becomes like this?

There comes a point in every marriage where the person you married is no longer the same person living in your house. Thats tough to get over if you dont like the new, many times bitchier, person in the house. If it ends there you end up making a choice to either divorce or find "comfort" elsewhere. Other people just drink themselves into an early grave

Sorry to tell you, but the man has the choice of doing what he wants. Fuck my mom, if I found out my dad cheated on her, we would bond about it over a beer.

My mom and dad always talked massive shit about each other to me and as the years went on I started to realize, holy shit, my dad has been right since I was a kid. She really is a whackjob no one wants to be around

I also think I'll let it go and just mind my own business.
>You used that site to cheat on your girlfriends as well or just to have sex because you're not in a relationship?
I've never cheated, I'm not that type. Or I think I'm not that type, but I also thought, that he is not that type. And this scares me a bit.

So it's not just normal marriage, husband got bored, cheated.
It's assholes shittalking and hating eachother for years then one of them cheated.
Next time post the whole fucking story before asking for advice (if you're even OP)
You know, it's not "typical" to hate eachother in a marriage ffs, there's a thing called divorce.

>Do you even want to confront him with this?
Not sure about it
>Is he the type of person that would deny everything and get angry?
He is one of the calmest man I've ever known

Not OP

And yes, there is a thing called divorce. Lawyers cost tens of thousands of dollars, and at the end of it, you have lost more than half of everything you ever had (for both sides pretty much) So sure, get divorced... then live like you are in your 20s (tiny apartment, no furniture, most likely no car, no money) while you are in your 40-60s.

Divorce is generally for young people who made a dumb mistake, the well off, or women who are already riding another cock before papers are filed.

I bet if you could get inside your parents head you would be shocked at how much they actually dislike each other

You don't know now when hate it's like being your father, fucking the same pig every night, you have no right to judge him

Having sex with prostitutes is not cheating

For the past 5-7 year as I remember, my mother changed a lot. She gets angry about everything and it's hard to be around her for a longer time. She became cleaning maniac and plays the victim a lot of times. If I think about this, I don't blame my father.
On the other hand, I think she would be heartbroken if she knew. She spent the last 25 years being with my father, taking the household, etc.
These are my main reasons why I don't think I will do anything.
But if they are unhappy like this, why are they still living together?

But wouldn't it be better than playing this theater? Wouldn't they have a choice to be happy with someone else?

>Wouldn't they have a choice to be happy with someone else?

Thats where the cheating comes in most times. Its comfort and fulfills your needs, but at the same time doesnt cost you what is essentially your lifes work.

Why get divorced when you can just work late, have a few drinks before going home, and at most, have to suck up your feelings for 1-2 hours before going to bed. A lot of people live in houses with family they dislike. A great example is a friend from High School. His dad worked 2 full time jobs and a part time job because one of the 3 kids was retarded (the drooling, can only make sounds sort of retarded) and he hated being home. His dad actually died of a heart attack while at work a few weeks before we graduated. In his case, working himself to death was a better option than going home to your retarded child.

So all in all.
They changed a lot since they are married and may don't even like each other anymore. But it's more comfortable to them to stay together and don't be too curious about the other's free time activity.
It can happen with any relationship and although there is the opportunity to not to cheat after these many years it doesn't really matter - of course if we count hookers as cheating.
And they are adults - if they have a problem with each other, they can solve it if they want to.
Thanks for all, made my decision easier
So just continue as it never happened and leave it to them and try to have a better marriage in the future than they have.

Typically women cheat to get outside of a relationship, and men cheat to stay inside one.
I'd say if you ever bring it up, be a bro about it - like yourself suggested, teach him how to clear browser history - but that's as far as you should go.
I'd never mention it if I was you, as long as both of your parents are happy.
And especially not if they aren't.

Yeah... and I think it would be much more uncomfortable for him if I'd tell anything - I don't want to break the status quo if it works in some way.

Figure out when he's going to meet up with the whore. Get to her first and raw dog her. When dad is finished, wait for him at his car and tell him he's got your cum on his dick.

Sounds like a plan. Even better, shouldn't I arrange the gangbang of a hooker with him?

this same story happened to me, my dad asked me to fix his phone, it was just being slow because he had so many apps open, i went tab by tab closing everything and stumbled upon escort sites, thought he was just curious so i checked his phone a month later and he is still on '' local escorts'', do i tell his wife? or ignore it?

Slight possibility he browses the escort sites to get off. I used to do that when I was in relationships. The thought of it got me off. When I was single I would legitimately follow through and bang escorts. I doubt I'm the only fucktard that has done that.

If your dad is on escort sites its because his women isn't fucking him, trust me your asshole moms deserves it.

Hi my name is Ralph. You visit prostitutes, do you think you had relations with one just an hour prior, or so, after your dad? Or does he exclusively visit women, unlike you?

Forget about it. A lot of guys browse without "pulling the trigger" Even if he does from time to time, it's a physical thing, not an emotional one. Like getting a massage. Doesn't necessarily mean he lives your mom any less, and it's probably a phase anyway.

report him to the police

>report him to the police
It's not illegal here

I don't know I'll may ask your sister next time

I've also done that, but according to the visited pages and the timestamps, I don't think so.

I will ignore it. I think there are not too many other good choices.