Been dating a girl (pic related) for almost 5 months now and every time I try and escalate things to us actually meeting she says she loves how things are now and doesn't want to risk ruining them, this is making me a little suspect because we haven't actually met in person yet (we skype almost every night though so I do trust her).Now I've been giving her money to go out for dinner every wednesday (because I would be doing that if she was here with me regardless) and recently I suggested saving that up every week instead so she could fly here, but she absolutely hated that idea so I'm not sure how to progress things.
Any advice on how to maybe find out if shes serious about me or not?
I stopped reading there. Don't delude yourself OP, you're not in a relationship.
Nicholas Adams
It's called a scam and happens to suckers like you all the time.
Colton Allen
>how can you tell if you're been a beta cuck.
Elijah Clark
post her picture
Samuel Thompson
maybe re-read what i said before you post like an idiot, we literally skype call every single night and unless she's the worlds greatest actor she has feelings for me too
Lincoln Myers
Pic related?
Landon Carter
She is playing you for money. Think about it, of she really liked you then she would want to be with you.
Noah Thompson
0% chance this is not bait.
Colton Peterson
Dude you are in denial. If you can see that then you deserve to get scammed.
Daniel Howard
you're literally paying for some slut to go out to eat and do other hoe shit and you get absolutely nothing. Wake up user. I know it hurts. But here's the painful truth: if she REALLY wanted to see you, she would make an attempt to see you. Women don't blow off or avoid men they actually want to fuck or have a relationship with. They put in effort to see you in that case. But you? You're just some guy she Skypes and has no real intention of having anything real with. You get nothing and she gets cash. Have some self-respect man and move on from this and never look back.
Owen Phillips
>unless she's the worlds greatest actor she has feelings for me too
Dude there's professional organizations in Africa and probably here that specialize in this shit. They have managers and work in shifts.
Andrew Murphy
ITT: summerfags who don't know who cracky chan is
Jack Long
Wow.
Dude, it's simple. Say you're not interested in a long-term relationship online and that if she isn't willing to meet then you want to break things off.
If she tries to delay or make up any excuse, be like, "Okay, I don't think this is going to work out."
Why in the world would you just give her money. And more importantly, why in the world would she accept it?
Very unlikely this is a healthy relationship.
You need to take charge of yourself and be assertive.
Camden Cook
>Now I've been giving her money to go out for dinner every wednesday
More than a weeks wages in Africa
Luke Robinson
ITT: stupid fags who can't infer OP's imagine is not "pic related". Come on, dude.
Evan Bennett
He literally said "Pic related", buddy
Charles Ortiz
>And more importantly, why in the world would she accept it? this
Connor Ward
She may have some trauma from past or be scared of flying (i supose its a very long trip if u have to save money for it) to a guy she never met. I think u should go to her just fk it go one day when she will be home. Fuck it what u can lose Couse 5 months is hell of a time Oh or u can facetime her 1st
Jonathan Myers
She's just trying to see if you really love her. If you were a real man, you'd be ok with putting her needs above yours. You need to love, cherish, and provide for her without expecting sexual favors in return. She's not a whore, she's a person. Treat her like a person, and you'll earn her love.
Aaron Russell
>I don't want to ruin what we have You mean the part where you listen to all her problems and give her money while she does nothing in return? Yeah, I can see why she wants to keep that going.
Henry Anderson
Where does it say that retard fuck
Asher James
pot calling the kettle black
op you are a sucker shes playing you like a fiddle kek
no no keep on giving her money
Christopher Ward
YOU ARE GIVING HER MONEY? RETARD ALERT! RETARD ALERT! RETARD ALERT!
YOU'RE A FUCKING IDIOT. HAHAHA POST YOUR PIC YOU UGLY MOTHER FUCKER. YOU DESERVE TO BE USED LIKE THIS
Liam Allen
reddit spacing fuck off leddit boi
Cooper Green
>Been dating a girl (pic related) for almost 5 months
You the OP brah?
William Parker
maybe re-read what i said before you post like an idiot, we literally skype call every single night and unless she's the worlds greatest actor she has feelings for me too!!!!!
not a cuck not a sucker she LOVES ME GUYS
im gonna go give her more money
Luke Butler
This
Easton Walker
>I suggested saving that up every week instead so she could fly here, but she absolutely hated that idea so I'm not sure how to progress things. Progress things by ditching this chick and finding someone who A) is around you and more importantly B) WANTS to be around you. Why is this so hard? I've had long distance relationships before. Even before the internet (I'm an oldfag). But the key was that we both always wanted to be together. Why would you want to invest this kind of time and money and effort if she isn't foaming at the mouth to hop on a plane to come see you?
Lincoln Russell
bait. KYS
John Williams
I remember reading in school that denial is in Egypt. It's wordplay.
Jaxson Foster
aw man, you are beyond caught in that girl's trap.
Carson Perez
Maybe she's worried that her penis is too small for your liking.
Jonathan Ortiz
Does she even turn her cam on on Skype? Or voice chat at least?
Dylan Anderson
Stop giving her money. See how that goes....... RETARD
Hunter Torres
>summerfugg
Charles Gomez
Hint: maybe actually talk to them instead of fucking talking people who go to a website that is itself a meme filled with people who don't listen.
She's just using you. That isn't how relationships work. My husband gave up everything in his life to fly halfway around the world and live with me so that we could have our love.
Ayden Barnes
Thats Crac*y chan. You are been catfish in an ungodly way. That girl is a b/ queen and thats not a recent photo
Alexander Fisher
If you own a house, offer her half the ownership, so she will have a reason to come to you!
James Morris
>bait >bait >more bait
C'mon OP...
Matthew Evans
Simply ask her for a pic of herself in a specific pose or with a timestamp? How hard can it be? If she denies that as well, she's a goddamn ugly and fat walrus.
Kayden Baker
just voice, she's shy but she sends photos all the time so I know it's her
Xavier Nelson
oh shit this is a good idea
Aaron Johnson
lol they fell for it again im not op i was just pretending to be its called bait you sperg
David Torres
SHE/HE IS NOT WITH YOU THOUGH STOP THROWING MONEY INTO YOUR SATIRICAL INTERNET BF YOU MONGLOID BABY
Gabriel Rivera
See: You gotta know if thats her. Not if the girl in the pic exists. Do as I said.
Hudson Carter
i should kill myself cause i posted bait? now how again does that work explain the steps to me?
Eli Green
i was bait posting you chump im not op, now squeal like frog boy REEE REEEEEEEEEE
Jeremiah Scott
Let me guess, you are atleast 10 years older than her, you are not an attractive man, If I guessed right and you still send her money, you are a complete idiot.
Ryder Perez
stop sending her money you retard.
Elijah Rivera
Ask for her address to mail her something and just fly out there without telling her. Simple. If you guys are really serious she won't even be mad and all this suspect behavior will be in the past.
Benjamin Diaz
Duh
Kevin Wood
Out of every piece of advice in this thread, even the "kys" ones, yours is absolutely the worst
Gavin Parker
Wow. I feel sorry for you if you have to read exam sheets or work sheets. I actually feel sorry for you, period.
It's in the 2nd sentence goddammit.
Austin Baker
its not a lot of money, it means nothing to me (i earn a decent amount) and the way i see it is If she was here with me I'd be spending more on her so why not treat her to dinner once a week? it makes her happy and makes me feel good providing for her.
it was extremely obvious, you post like a spaz, fuck off from my thread.
Mason Martinez
> just fly out there without telling her.
yes OP do this and suprise her with flowers and confess yer love for her on her front porch women find that very romantic.
Anthony Sullivan
>thinks you're dating when you've never seen the person lel
Nathan Young
make me you cuck i hope she takes you to the cleaners and then you will come crying back to us complaining that she "used" you
kys
Tyler Hernandez
Yeah sex is dirty, amirite ?
Gavin White
kys cuck
Levi Baker
you know if he goes to Black Africa he ain't ever going back. those negroes gonna cannibal holocaust his white ass.
Oliver Campbell
>been dating a girl >we haven't actually met
kek
Hudson Watson
no thats the best option for men like OP
Camden Long
>me feel good providing for her. beta provider detected
James Diaz
Nigga. Come on.
If she really loved you, she'd be taking every opportunity she could to meet you. Would you really wanna be with someone who doesn't give a fuck about seeing you in person?
That's no way to live. That's not a relationship. It's bullshit user. Accept it. You're a goddamn adult man and you need to act like it and leave her ass. Ghost that bitch. No responses, nothing. Just Houdini out of there and don't look back least you be a beta cuck
Robert Thompson
>Now I've been giving her money
SHITHEAD SHITHEAD SHITHEAD SHITHEAD SHITHEAD you fucking SHITHEAD SHITHEAD SHITHEAD
Christopher Brown
>it was extremely obvious, you post like a spaz, fuck off from my thread.
Mason Bailey
Trolls trolling trolls
Austin Garcia
maybe re-read what i said before you post like an idiot, we literally skype call every single night and unless she's the worlds greatest actor she has feelings for me too
Brody Butler
Now that's good advice.
Landon Bell
No u
Ian Thompson
You're a fucking idiot. She's probably got several guys on the go doing the same thing, paying for everything.
Nathaniel Edwards
mayberead what i said before you post like an cuck, we literally skype call every single night! on microphone and unless she's the worlds greatest actor she has feelings for me
Caleb Fisher
>me feel good providing for her. me not cuckhold me yell REE like frogman now me pay women money like cavemane cuck
Dylan Nguyen
look how you type, you're so bad at playing things cool and disguising yourself, from how you post you can tell that you don't have any friends and probably spaz out whenever people talk to you.
Parker Wilson
>mayberead what i said before you post like an cuck, we literally skype call every single night! on microphone and unless she's the worlds greatest actor she has feelings for me
Jaxson Jackson
me love her me give her money me cuckman she love me we skype every single night me give her more money so she love me more
Camden Turner
kek
Luis Ramirez
k
Brayden Adams
you think im disguising myself lol how dumb are you kys cuck
David Parker
Fuck you. Fuck. You. Bait all you want but you should have at least enough dignity not to paste your own shit several times in the same thread. Fuck you I'm out to fap to Cracky-chan.
Alexander Parker
0% Sup Forums isn't retarded
Owen Carter
alright how you type, you're sohorrible at playing things calm and disguising yourself, from how you post you can tell that you don't have a life and probably shit yer pants in public whenever people talk to you.
David Lopez
Samefagging fagsamer. Downvoted
Isaac Stewart
She doesnt cam? Catfished. Only idiots get catfished
Logan Barnes
Dude. You're a fucking retard.
Yes user, you should invest tons more time and money into her and 5 years down the line when you're in the exact same position you'll be wondering "huh maybe that whole -I don't wanna meet in person- thing was a red flag sticking out of my dumb ass"
Ayden Roberts
me feel good providing for her. me not cuckhold me yell REE like frogman now me pay women money like cavemane cuck
Juan Williams
Me and my girlfriend do this to people. Got a guy to send 200 once lmao. Bought 10 blues.
Mexican 30s.
Liam Smith
me cavecuckman me REE like frog she love me you no understand love
user who asked that question here. Nice quads by the way.
I ERP'd a while with a girl who sent me naked pics of herself. I know she was a girl, but still it felt off somehow. Turned out she thought she wasn't that pretty IRL so she sent me another girl's pics. Pretty harmless and I kinda felt bad for her.
I would never have sent her money though. You gotta stop that, dude.
Dylan Peterson
You are literally paying her to talk to you. Tell her you want to meet her or you will cut contact. After 5 months you already speaking about if you want Kids in a relationship. And you still haven't videochatted with her. Even if this is not bait or catfish then you should stop of she doesn't want to meet. If she don't want to meet after 5 months even if you pay her ticket then she has good reason for that. You are her moneybag and emotional bag but sure not in the boyfriend category. Make yourself a favor. Cut the contact and search a women in real life which wants to statisfy you too.
Tyler Johnson
Maybe she's waiting until she turns 18...
Wyatt Thomas
user I feel bad for you and I would come meet you. You sound like a nice boy and I'm through with all of these assholes. You should skype me instead user. Interested? I have zero face piercings
