What does Sup Forums classify as the lowest threshold for cheating? As in, short of fucking another person...

What does Sup Forums classify as the lowest threshold for cheating? As in, short of fucking another person, where would you draw the line?

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Kissing.

I believe that flirting is whatever, because as long as your partner has self control, flirting simply affirms their self esteem.

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Understandable - but surely flirting (depending on how you're doing it, I guess) could be seen as you trying to get the favour of someone else?

flirting, and obviously kissing enters into the bitch slap territory

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Kissing is a grey area

Its possible to get kissed by someone and instinctivly kiss back, like be caught off guard by it

But anything more than like a single incedent yes id agree thats cheating

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So if someone came onto you and you were caught off guard, what would your first reaction be?

Thats not cheating though

People innocently flirt all the time, just being nice or a little playfull with someone can fall under flirting

Goofing around with a member of the opposite sex is not cheating

Define come on to

It's all about trust. You can do anything in a partnership as long as both parties agree and it's in the open. Anything hidden from the other crosses a line

Nah, you can fuck your bro and it's not gay, so how would it be cheating?
So long as she never finds out

Agreed - as I say, I guess it would depend what kind of flirting it was. For example, if you were just joking around, then of course it wouldn't be cheating in any way, but if you were being sexual perhaps, then that's a bit closer to the boundary. Although, there are many times that, with one friend, I'll clearly pretend to go in for a kiss (obviously joking), so I guess the boundary is very vague

bj, I couldn't give a fuck if she dry humps, makes out with whomever or gives out hjs like candy at her work.

Kiss - for example you were on a club and a drunk girl just threw herself at you and kissed you?

Also a good point, that's true. The difficulty sometimes is that people can be very anxious, so without being intentionally paranoid, they can be... well, paranoid. Which can suck a lot of the time, because you can feel trapped, but I guess that's about acceptance, but also the degree of how trapped you might feel would also need to come into it

You're not worth it, bait.

Really?

yeah, as long as there was no dick inside any orifice Idc.

Would anyone count watching porn as cheating, then, given your partner didn't know?

What's your thinking behind that?

doing anything with sexual intent with a person other than your significant other, unless you are both doing something with sexual intent towards a third party for your mutual benefit

implement a instinctive chokehold

Sexual intent being wanting and trying to get with (i.e. kiss, blow, touch, sleep with, rim, etc)?

Good idea
>kek

I don't wear condoms with her and I don't want to get an STD. I don't get jealous she can do whatever the fuck she wants but I don't need AIDS or some shit. So far that has only been women, well afaik, she has a hall pass for women.

Fair enough, makes sense. Do you think there might be a time that you would get jel? Or would you just start having threesomes instead?

I had an ex who had some guy, way older than both of us, who she would text regularly and then delete the message thread. I told her she needs to be open with me about whoever this guy is and it would go away and pop up every other month or so. It went away for a while and when it turned out it was still going on under my nose and that they probably went to a concert behind my back I ended the relationship. Never should have moved in with her.

So was she fucking him and stuff?

If she's doing all that shit, it can easily escalate chad bringing her to pound town

no proof she sexually cheated on me but still felt some lines were continually crossed.

Don't negotiate with terrorists. Give women an inch they take a mile

I mean, I'd defs say that counts as cheating

literally anything with sexual intent with the exception of the above, doesn't matter what

she definitely fucked him right after we broke up. no idea if she did while we were together. It didn't last though. Told me one time after we broke up that when she was with him it felt like she was cheating on me.

Does watching porn without your partner knowing count?

what a nice girl!

was way to bitter to see it that way at the time

No but don't do it in front of them either

If she talks to another man who's not her friend - she's a whore.
Don't lie to yourself. loyalty is black or white, yes or no kinda thing.
If she's a woman, and he's a man and they're not friends - they shouldn't talk without a reasonable cause.

I would probably break up with her if she fucked a bunch of other dudes behind my back, because I wouldn't see the point of being together then. Also like I said, I don't need some fucked up STD. I've never been jealous in any relationship, people do what they do, me whining about it won't change that. And I have intimacy issues so I have a hard time forming attachments. We do have threesomes with her best friend and sometimes with women she picks up.

Obviously, I'm going off what she tells me. I offered her a hall pass for both sexes but we'd uses condoms and she chose just women. If she wants chad all she has to do is buy condoms and tell me I don't see why she would lie about it.

So what about going on Sup Forums and commenting asking for more nudes and stuff on threads?

Because she worries you'd dump her and she's attached?

It's a possibility. If she's ok with lying to my face and betraying me there's not really anything I can do about that. But, it's by far the best relationship I've ever had so I won't throw it away because of something she might do.

thats exactly why you should throw it away

I'll cross that bridge when it comes to it. I'm snipped and I get tested regularly so there's that.

I don't. That's a personal thing that I don't feel needs to be shared with me if my partner does it

Cheating is a stupid concept. None of this shit matter. May as well make the most of your short, shitty life.

Fuck who you want. Bonus points if your bf/gf is actually down for a three-way.

My girl is cheating if she goes out with another guy, or does anything with another guy while trying to hide it from me. There's no such thing as me cheating because I'm not married and I have a penis. Yeah, it's a double standard, but that's life.

Any kind of touching with sexual intent or doing something with someone else that she feels she needs to hide from me. Had a girl that would sext with a guy who lived way too far away for her to actually do anything physical with and would constantly lie, delete message, hide stuff, and accuse me of being crazy when I pressed her on it. To me, that's cheating even if there wasn't physical contact. If they feel guilty enough about what they're doing with someone else that they'll hide and lie about it, it's cheating.

Cuck

This word has lost all meaning. It's making us real cucks look bad.

>instinctively kiss back
not a thing.

Second.

You're an idiot.

Degenerate.

If refusing to live within social restraints makes me a "degenerate" in your eyes then so be it.

I'll keep getting my dick wet and you can go on doing whatever it is you do.

Touching another man.