Have been with gf for 8 years

>Have been with gf for 8 years
>Tells me she wants to be 'polyamorous' i.e. open relationship
>After weeks of pain and soul searching I reluctantly agree
>3 months later she meets someone she really likes, who's moving to the US in 3 weeks
>Tells me she wants to go to be with him and asks if I'm coming or not
>I decide not to
>She says she'll still visit
>Might actually suit me to have a gf I only see every 3 months lol, this might actually be good!
>Ah, so now (predictably) he has a problem with her seeing other people
>She doesn't want to compromise her new orientation (i.e. Polyamorous), but she does really like the guy
>They make a deal: he's OK with her seeing me, we can kiss, cuddle, whatever, just no sex
>I'm thinking 2 things: 1) Why the fuck is some guy giving me permission to fuck my gf? 2) But it would be nice to have someone who will visit me and to kiss and cuddle with.
>I can still date normally so it doesn't affect affect my love life

What would you do lads?

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look into changing them

drop the bitch like a bag of hammers

break up. 3 months ago

bro, you are quite literally being cucked

She doesn't love you anymore and she's using her new orientation as an excuse to cheat on you.

Drop her.

this

KILL HER

CHOKE THE BITCH TO DEATH WITH YOUR BARE HANDS AND RAPE HER CORPSE

fpbp

Fuck her and her shit

cuck is when the other guy doesn't know - she's been open and honest from the start

bump, she isnt even polyamorous,shes just bored of you

"Pain and soul searching"

You convinced yourself it's ok for other people to fuck your girlfriend.

Then she leaves you for someone else and begins treating you lick a cuck.

How did you not see this coming? Women are only "polyamorous" till they find a dick they can't move up from. That "orientation" (which is total bullshit) goes out the window in a heartbeat.

Face it, she wanted to keep long term options open with your ass while she took miles of dick. And for women, they can literally fuck as much as they want since they are the choosers of sex - dudes, it's much harder to find other women to fuck, especially those that are ok with you being in another relationship. Women are possessive fucks.

stop referring to her as your gf

congrats you got kinda cucked, but now have a snuggle buddy when she visits, its really not bad for you as long as you don't heavily emotionally invest in her

but it's not cheating if you tell the other person

Lol

If you do anything but leave her, you are a weakling who gets what he deserves. Grow a fucking pair, junior.

No, I'm pretty sure cucks take pleasure in the thought of their woman sleeping around. If she just cheated that doesn't make him a cuck. He has to like it.

Which, seems like he does if he let her go.

OP, buy a rope.

do you want to kiss and cuddle some other dude's fucktoy that's now your ex?

if so do it.

personally I wouldn't, but I'm fairly jealous and only use women for sex so clearly I'm not you. I'd probably let my girl kiss and cuddle you if she wanted to though.

Cuck is when the guy does know and he's okay with it.

Someone screencap this, please.

Who the fuck told you this lie

Bad b8 m8

Yet it still makes my blood boil. Why tho?

OP, I'm sorry, but the only recourse here is suicide.

HEY LOOK ANOTHER FAKE GAY CUCK THREAD

That means its not polyamorous but tbh shes not even real and youre just a larping cuck

Tell her to fuck off and be with him then, not having sex means youre not in a relationship and youre just paying for another persons existance for no reason

I bet she did

You're right. Its called being cucked.

You're completely wrong
You're the epitome of a cuck

yeah that's true, since we became 'poly' I've fucked one other girl I wasn't really into, and she's had 4 (bear in mind we've only been doing this 3 fucking months lol). girls don't like it when I tell them I already have a gf, just want another lol

Are you mildly attractive? Because either she will still have sex with you anyway despite her promise to this guy, OR she will not sex you and its literally because she wants to hurt you because it makes her feel good.

Find another girl but don't tell her, then tell her she doesn't mean shit to you and slam the door in her face next time she visits.

>OP asks specific question about his situation
>we get deep insight into anons misguided hate for all women made clear by his grand sweeping assertions
great post kid

this again

you're either troll or beta as fuck

>They make a deal: he's OK with her seeing me, we can kiss, cuddle, whatever, just no sex

dude, that guy is literally the bull in the cuckold relationship you got.

I bet his dick is bigger than yours, and he is more fit than you

tell her to research poly cowboys, and that if it really is about being poly, then she needs to tell him that if her relationship with him interferes with her relationship with you, it's not going to fly. Ethical non-monogamy (which poly falls under) requires consent from all parties.

I wish it was b8, this is 100% fucking true, my fucking life. And I honestly thought I'd be with this girl for the rest of my life. I'm 32 for fuck sake

Kick that bitch to the curb!

you're clearly a femenist trying to make this thread appear misogynistic. go away

Fucking commit seppuku on Periscope right now

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pretend everything's cool then next time she's opening your door throw acid in her face

Nah, I really can't believe you. I mean, why why why why why why why why why why why why why would anyone be ok with this? Good story though, really gets the heart thumping.

I thought being a cuck was only a meme
Why didn't anybody tell there are people that actually do this and are ok with it?
My worldview has been shattered

The funny thing is, I always felt secure because I'm pretty sure I'm more attractive than her, so never felt that she would have a better option. I'm an 8 and she's a 6 (I might be wrong, but I think this is the case)

Actually no, but he does have more in common with her (which wouldn't be fucking difficult to be fair)

if it doesnt bother you dont worry about it but you should still fuck her just cause that guys a dick

where is the Bel-Air? why are there responses other than 'become an hero'? what the fuck did you weeb shits do to this site?

1. Drop her. you're already in the bullshit zone.

2. learn your lesson, keep next one on a short leash.

3. if you have "doubts" youve lost at "life". check yourself out.

p.s. feelings are for noobs
p.p.s. life and people are over rated anyways.

good night.

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I said goodnight sir!

seriously dude, refer to this

walk away, don't keep in touch. You'll get over her and that's the sad truth.
All the time effort and money you spent in two years time you'll look back and go.. "meh".

love is not the only dish of a happy life, find out what you want to do woth the only fucking life you have, write it down, make a timeline and get focused on your dreams. When you quit being a beta and have your own plans, you'll get a partner becasue you'll be an alpha. Not some pathetic little beta scrounging around for whatever affection he can find whereever he can.

Post pics so we can see if you're right.

yes, the problem is that she like this guy so much she's prepared to compromise a bit on the poly. Basically she either has to sacrifice him, or sacrifice the poly part of her.

Get her to help pick out a chastity cage you can wear while she's with you so that you don't get tempted to try and make her break her promise to her boyfriend.

y-you said you wanted to be this word, and t-this word means this, so now y-you must be this!

Stop being an idiot and get out of this self hating situation. You are a literal cuck, new BF is dictating your life, tell her to fuck off

Agree to meet her every time, then don't be there, or "take a phone call" and leave. Power is a psychological game. Have her come to a party and ignore her, and tell other dudes she's DTF. Play like you don't care, and eventually YOU'LL BELIEVE IT. It will become reality.

If you really did want to spend the rest of your life with her, you CANNOT be ok with her wanting him that bad INSTEAD of you. Not as well as. Instead of.

This is bad b8.

Alright I probably shouldn't of just thrown something like that out there and not followed up.
That's a good stance to have. I suppose in this case you should fuck her right in the pussy. If you got any porn of her send it to him and tell him about how she's a great little whore for you, don't send them all at once tell him a bit about it, how much she likes it, then kind of trickle photos out once you got his attention. He probably doesn't feel the same way about domestic violence so she'll probably come back to you and then the cherry on top, dump her.

and you're still a femenist trying to make it appear that men hate women. Then using it to say "look look men are dangerous, lock them up"

You're pathetic

A man would just walk away and leave her.

I'm in an open relationship as well but its only to have sex if my women moved out and lived with another guy it would be over. Sounds like you're just being a cuck

wow you realy want OP to look like a butthurtfag don't you.

literally quoting from a relatively famous thread that is somewhat relevant to OP's situation. Not a big deal. Who gives a shit people say worse on Sup Forums all the time, Sup Forums is literal nazis, you think a little domestic violence and post murder raping is going to change Sup Forums's image? Fuck off

that was how ours started but yeah, it escalated quite quickly...

compromising on the poly is either unhealthy (because if she IS poly she'll hate herself later when the new relationship energy dies down and she realizes he's a manipulative prick) or a huge red flag that she wasn't poly to begin with, in which case refer to all the other posts about leaving her

Youre just another fucking plagued cuck, nothing more than a scum chocaroach spreading your cuck sickness, a real man would beat her ass and dump her, find the gay shes trying to fuck and beat his ass to the fucking hospital, set his house on fire and kick his dog!
Thats what a man would do.
But your a cuck so piss youreself and hide.

lol fuck you if im going to fuck some chic that wants to be with other guys he gets to see and hear the details. he bought the ticket, so he can take the cuck ride.

>What would you do lads?

Not be a cuck.

But if you're insistent on this, let her visit for a kiss and cuddle and fuck her anyway. She's obviously some dumb slut so treat her like one.

How could you even agree to this you stupid cuck? "Wanna be poly?" " Yeah sure i don't mind other people fucking my girlfriend"

Stop being that fucking beta dude, i would fucking dump my gf just for bringing the shit up

Only a meme?
What kind of ignorant fuck are you?
Were fighting in the trenches in the fog of feminazi queefs and cuck scum against this feminazicuckplague like theres no tommorrow and you think its just a meme.

I wonder whose sheckles paid for this post

this

obviously this girl means a lot to you OP and you want to keep her in your life. just accept your new role in the relationship and find new ways to love her without sex.

she's told the other guy look, I am poly, I might be able to be exclusively with you for a year or so, but don;t be under any illusions that I'll be your life long monogamous partner. if a guy I like asks me out in 2 years time I will say yes. he said: OK, I think I can work with that.

I think he thinks he can convince her to be monogamous

your relationship ended the moment those words exited her mouth retard

thanks for your input, given me a lot to think about

Please have some self respect and leave her. Any alternative is better than what you're doing.

look bro beat the shit out of that asshole and break up with that stupid cunt

And you're still with her why?

I think you might be right

I think you might be right, just wanted to give it a go and be sure

rage autism?

The only thing you should think about is wether your a cuck or a man! If your a cuck for sure then kys instead of being another fucking cog in the feminazi queef system infecting Sup Forums or man the fuck up. At the least tell the whore to kys and fuck off and cut off all ties and ignore her whore ass.

Joseph Goebbels

then he's a cowboy, and toxic to her and your relationship. tell her to research poly cowboys.

Dump her, move on to fresher pussy.

It will be physically and emotionally healthier for you.

This is probably a troll. But if not, are you even fucking listening to yourself? How low is your self worth?

Ignore these e-macho anons. Relationships are fluid and can take all sorts of forms. You don't need sex to love and be with each other. Show her how much you love her by being patient with her and she'll probably end up getting bored of him and breaking up anyway.

but if you look at the situation pragmatically I have 2 choices: 1) Be alone with the possibility of new relationships, 2) Be alone with the possibility of new relationships, and have a girl who will come and snuggle with me every so often.

Taking all emotion out of the equation, isn't option 2 better?

I would kill her, rape her corpse and feed what's left to my dogs. Easy peasy!

Thanks mate

>then he's a cowboy, and toxic to her and your relationship. tell her to research poly cowboys.
Why are you trying to salvage an irreconcilable relationship? Are you trying to convince him a sexless relationship is okay? Because it's not. Him pining for her is an emotion that is meant for elderly people, and he needs to find something more emotionally rewarding. I personally like monogamy not just because of the sex, but the emotional stability. If they want to act like they're dating, fine, but there should be some intimacy and something more meaningful on the horizon. Otherwise they're just fuck buddies, with no fuck. And thats just stupid.

The fuck? You've been soft dumped because she doesn't want to fully drop you and be "the bad guy" in the relationship.

Drop her ass cold and never speak to her again. Move on, your relationship is over. It sucks she dumped you in this manipulative way, but face reality: it's fucking over

yeah, she's dumped all her previous bfs in the usual way. why did she choose this painful and drawn-out method for me?

because 8 years

let me put it this way: would you marry this girl knowing full well this could happen again (and likely will)?

No, option 2 make you a literal cuck, you'd have more self respect getting a hooker every once in awhile

fuck no, but that's not the question I'm asking

Low quality b8, this whole thread is.