I have been on this website for a few years now...

I have been on this website for a few years now. This place has educated me on the world and turned me into a dark humored antisocial robot. How do the majority of you justify living this life. Seeing the normie life makes me feel like im missing out. It kills me inside how much i am missing out, i am in my twenties and feel like im wasting my life. How do you deal with it? How do i fix it?

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Because normals are usually more annoying and less intelligent.

I think youre trying to blame your shitty life skills on 4chin. Im somewhat normal. But some other dude hit it on the head... normies are annoying and dumb. Brainwashed by the media. Find a chick thats somewhat chill...fuck her a bunch of times get married have kids and realize it was better before all that shit. Find your fucking passion and do it like youre gonna die soon. Act as if youve been given 1 fucking year to live. What are you gonna do fat ass? Once you have that mindset pussy starts to pour in and you realize its all shit anyway. Passion. Find your passion.

This. +1

Inm kind of normal too. A girlfriend, friends. Just inteligent, and thinkibg that everyone is stupid. It's my problem. Oh and I always need precision. And I'm perfectionnist. Which is good till my passion is cooking.

Deal with it by making bank

I am not fat, mostly normal. Sup Forums hasnt made me this, it enabled my lazy, dumb tendencies to inflate. This place mostly showed me how terrible unfair or cruel the world is. I always look at the risks and it ruins things for me. Like how laws screw men in divorce. Many normie girls are super boring to talk to. It raised my standards, im premed right now and my schedule is so jam packed it really makes me feel ill never find someone.

Im working towards being a neurosurgeon, i make friends very fast, but its really hard for me to find girls i really want to connect with. I want to find a girl whom i really like to be around but most girls annoy me. Like some text me all the time but dont put effort to keep the convo going. I think many dont want to talk since they were told that their passions are all annoying. It makes me sad, most dont open that much so convo take forever to start.

Don't try to initiate a relationship with a woman. Wait for one to initiate it with you.

you're part of an artistic revolution user, like your pic ;)

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Read what you wrote. Thats your mindset, not 4chin.

>it enabled my lazy, dumb tendencies to inflate

This means its has provided you entertainment because at least youre lurking and not just being lazy anymore. Plus that shit is on you. You need structure in your life.

>This place mostly showed me how terrible unfair or cruel the world is.

Dont shoot the messenger. Did you wanna learn this shit without having the cheat sheet 4chin has provided you?

>I always look at the risks...

Logic?

>how laws screw men in divorce

Sounds like a warning everyone should hear at least once.

The rest of your shit is fucking whiny pussy shit.

Youre kinda just a fag that needs to stay off the computer to greatly increase the pleasure of your life. Maybe stop jacking off to porn and spent 1/2 that time with a chick and the other 1/2 of the time learning how not to be a pussy.

Really? So i shouldnt just go ask someone out?

Youre listening to a beta. If you want something go out and get it.

Of course not, it's an uphill battle.

I dont play too many games, i agree that im thankful for all the warnings and knowledge, but i do kinda wish for some ignorance. Many people dont think too deeply about everything and live happy lives. I have recently tried, i workout more now, transfer to uni next year. Volunteer at hospital. But i think my life is too much work now. How do you find balance.

I´m not sure what came first. Did my life became shit and thats why i started browsing Sup Forums or did my life become shit because i started browsing Sup Forums?
I am very isolated now and sometimes i lose the reality a bit.

I forced myself to be more outgoing but many people dont like to argue or dont have many opinions to vast amount of stuff, like topics that i have found here amongst you all. Thats why i love coming here besides all the trap and loli threads. I enjoy a quiet life and learning. I usually get to go out since my friends know i dont do anything.

Dude happiness is the biggest facade. You only see social media snapshots of fake happiness. You think people are happy? Trying talking to one. And listening. People are a fucking mess. People that seem like they have it together the most are the people trying to keep it together for themselves. They are usually the most scared.

Now balance is key. Literally set out an hour of computer at the end of your day. No social media.

Walk in the morning when you wake up. Exercise 45 minutes.
Get a hobby.
Talk to many girls.

Its really that easy.

I know where your coming from, feeling excluded and isolated was a big thing in my youth. I hope you find the happiness for which you seek.

Don't blame your shitty life on Sup Forums I've been here for almost ten years now and I have a stable and happy life this site had changed me too like you so get the fuck out and do somthing for your self

You gotta realize theres a time and place for everything. This is the place to be you completely.

How cool is it when you see some quiet dude making a joke here and there ans staying out of the deep waters... until they are one on one with someone asking questions and not arguing.

Once the student is ready... the teacher appears.

Talk to girls about fucking whats on tmz and frozen yogurt. They are there to fuck only. They are not like us.

thank you!

I havent used social media for a while, i tried calling people rather than texting. I play piano, i do need to chat with more girls. Just i feel reciprocation is hard to find in most girls. Its usually 1 sided or im completely ignorant in most subjects not revolving around science or politics. I dont know celebrities, dont watch a lot of shows and movies, and listen to obscure music like instrumentals(wierd to most people). How do i become more well rounded? My parents never watched sports or liked cars, i am not a very knowledgeable person in most common known subjects.

Speaking about the earlier days of Sup Forums, it is a special place for special people.
Take that however you want.
People come here to speak their minds freely and ideas here either die or spread quickly.
By imitation and assimilation we all create a style of thinking.
It is true that it has changed in the past years but the fact that all of it is still simply a style of thinking never changed.

You feeling yourself as a robot has nothing to do with Sup Forums, you were that before Sup Forums. Maybe now you're just a bit more aware of it.

I am just as absurd and abnormal as everyone else, which makes me just as normal as everyone else. We all have that element in us, is it not so?

Now my advice here could look just the same as an advice for an alcoholic.
If you believe you have a drinking problem, drink more. Consciously, be with it every step.
Drinking is not the problem, but our automatic responses which lead up to drinking.

Be pro active instead of reactive.

Dude talk to chicks at recitals or science conventions. If you want a real connection or at least a brain aimilar to yours meet chicks at events you gonto by yourself that interest you. Like minds think alike. And its a nice filtering process. Thats why so many relationships fail, cause they meet at a bar. "Oh wow you like to get fucked up to, we should fuck and see where it takes us" lol.

I see that, this site jjst made me more aware. Any tips on being more well rounded as a person. Remember im in college. Not too much spending money. But i got a car

Ill try that, thanks for the advice.

I agree with this. 4chin is a coping mechanism for a larger emptiness we all have. This fills the void. But like a drug it can take over. You need to fix the initial problem with yourself to make you realize 4chin is the tits.

Op here
Anyone got any advice to become more knowledgeable and well rounded a person? Should i go watch more movies or go to events?

>few years
>calls them normies
Dude man just like stop posting all day when people should be doing things and get a job. You cant even seriously hope to try and be a happy normal person without some kind of daily schedule that lets you accomplish things.

I already gave you the tip.
>If you believe you have a drinking problem, drink more. Consciously, be with it every step.
>Drinking is not the problem, but our automatic responses which lead up to drinking.

Now you just want me to give you a method to postpone what I have just told you.
I could tell you anything. Go out and drink, read books, go hiking, meet people ect.
All that is nothing if you're not with it.

If you feel yourself as a robot on autopilot, it is exactly because you only react to impulses.
Be it a thought or a feeling or whatever.

Nobody knows what you want any better than you do. If you don't know but wish to know you must get up and try whatever you can try. Whatever it may be.

>4chin is the tits

I've been dead inside for years. When I found this place it was like I found somewhere with people like me. Somewhere I finally belonged.

Ive been on/off again for a little over 5 years. My structure comes mostly from school. Not much flexibility.

Honestly if you wanna be well rounded, or at least seem that way....

1. Watch comedy stand up. Great topics with humor. Gives you ammo when youre talking about common topics. Also learn at least 3 jokes that you can pull out randomly and make people laugh.

2. Go over TMZ for top entertainment news people will talk about.

3. Subscribe to a few sports channels on youtube and see what that shit is all about.

4. Stay away from religion and politics as points of convo.

5. Have a song you like from different genres of music:

Chopin sonata #5
2pac - Fuck the World
Jimi Hendrix - Castles Made of Sand
Chris Stapleton - Tennessee Whisky

Etc... so you can relate.

Also... LISTEN. Easiest shit to do and no one does it. Its because we have ego's and we feel necessary for others to hear and accept us or their stupid. We have 2 ears and 1 mouth cause we are supposed to listen twice as much as we speak. Also, its the socrstic method. It makes convo and learning about people ez. You just ask questions without revelain much if any about yourself.

And on a side note with ego... do some shrooms in order to see yourself as you truly are and not who you think you are.

Thank you, i will try to follow that advice. Thanks to everyone for there advice. I appreciate the low amount of just average comments. I have to wake up early, i wont forget the advice.

ITT/ Advice we give to others but never take for ourselves

This is also great advice, my favorite song by chopin is nocturne in e minor op 19 no 72. Made me want to learn piano to learn that 1 song.

Chopin is god tier

Agreed.

Quit taking the internet so fucking serious.

Somehow, if you're not one of the top rich people, being part of capitalism feels like treading water. You constantly have to work/worry/ensure that your status is up to date, that you earn more, to not fall behind, etc.
Why would I want to earn things, when I then have to spend all my time looking after therm.
I'd rather have little to look after and little to do.

I agree as well

I agree! With internet and cheap drugs you don`t need much money to be happy. The only minus is leg of social contact with real ppl.

I like Nocurne in e Minor Op 19 No 72
Nocturne Op 48 No1 in C minor
Nocturne Op 72 No1 in e Minor

I need to learn to buy brugs from deepweb. I just got myself a second flash drive yesterday big enough to set up tor.

>It kills me inside how much i am missing out, i am in my twenties and feel like im wasting my life. How do you deal with it? How do i fix it?

This is literally the human condition. This sounds stupid, but being less selfish is one way. Don't keep yourself at the center of your world.

Find a community, support that community. Work towards something bigger than yourself.

This is why many people I think resort to God at the end of the day. It is a "hack" - if you can be a part of something larger, it makes the little ( and major ) setbacks ok. It is a lie worth believing IMO.

FWIW, your 20s are sort of about figuring this shit out.

Don't be like me.. I felt "old" at 18, like my life was over. And I have felt like that ever since.

also fuck more ugly chicks

how old are you user?

spend your money on experiences - I have some friends who work/travel work/travel. overseas travel is pretty cheap. they meet cool people. ahnd often after a few years have some cool job options.

one guy I know helps rich ass arabs choose which area to build custom islands in.

40 :(

its the best! you dont need to leave the house for your medicine.

My bros ur just a bunch of bitxh faggots

I'm 34 and starting to feel old, like my life is over. I think my biggest problem is that I don't really like where I am or what I'm doing, but I have lost all passion for life and have no direction. I don't know where I want to be or what I want to be doing, but I guess the biggest hurdle is that I don't know how to go about figuring it out.

I do know I just want a pretty simple life.

same

That's all nice and good, until you get used to it and try to finance a trip once a year and get sad when you can't afford it anymore.
Or you're stuck in one place due to work/family/friends and start to resent them for grounding you.
Or you immerse yourself in a foreign culture and act happy until you realize, you're doing nothing of value, you're mostly engaging rich people in their delusions of grandeur.
Look, I'm not saying there isn't any (enjoyable) work or way to live. But if we get right down to it, few people are employed to do work that's necessary and constructive.
Most of them just work to have employment and not to create/built/conceive new things that benefit humanity.

this was a good thread

why are houses so expensive?

You're here forever so...be good at 4channing

Leave this place and you'll find you will be a lot happier because being here is like a bucket of crab each one pulling the other down until they're all stuck at the bottom. I only come back here acsionally after I left my advice don't come back

>tfw gongolas are an italian abomination and should nor exist