Need advice.
How do I start talking to a girl I barely know?
Need advice
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just do it
you probably won't be good at it at first, but nobody really is. The more you'll talk the better you'll get
Just start talking to her. That's literally it.
>walk up to girl
>initiate conversation
>don't say shit that makes you look like a creepy outcast
Go get 'em, champ.
>walk up to girl
Sounds easy
>initiate conversation
No problem
>don't say shit that makes you look like a creepy outcast
You lost me
Honestly so far the responses here are shit. The real answer is you don't. No matter how you approach it, girls will always find it creepy when a guy they don't know tries to talk to them for no reason.
The real answer here is take advantage of any social situations possible but don't force it or you'll come off too strong.
Speak the same language as her
Not OP, but thanks user
Do you have any other tips?
I don't speak I only date niggers
Nice pic, OP. Love 'em tights?
Not same user, but try to approach her through mutual friends, or smole cigarette next to her. Go to party where she is and try just say hi first, nothing too deep, get to her by slowly, talking more and more each time. If she doesnt like you she gonna blow off at first anyway
Just ask her if she likes candy and that you have some in the van.
A few that won't get you laid but will definitely get you off on the right foot.
When you do somehow get social with a female, eye contact. Don't be creepy and stare into her eyes unblinking, but don't be a pussy and avoid eye contact.
Also body language. Don't twiddle your thumbs and pussyfoot around while you're chatting, cross your arms or just pick a stance.
And even though the first two relate closely to the last, dominance. While you can a find a girl who wants all the control, most girls want a guy who they know will take the reigns when necessary. So don't wait for them to keep the conversation going, you do it. And don't wait for them to ask for your number if things feel good, go for it.
That I do
And if there are no social opportunities. Just go for it. Just say that it may sound creepy or whatever, and that you have seen her before and you just thought she was a nice girl. Try to have a conversation from this point forward. Now she can do four things:
1. Look at you like you're dirt → fuck this shit. Not worth it anyways.
2. Politely decline → she is a nice girl but you are out of her league.
3. Have a nice conversation and end with her saying. It was nice to meet you user, goodbye → this is probably the end of it*
4. She gets shy and have a slightly awkward conversation → this okay, she is nervous and likes you too.*
* Ask for her number or ask if she would like to meet you in the NEAR future, ask for her number of whatever. But DON'T just add her on facebook 3 secs AFTER you spoke to her. This will creep her out.
Now I hope you have a hint of what you should do.
If you want more just ask.
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100% correct. it jsut comes down to a game of chance after that or having some shit already thought up that youre going to flow with. Women complain theres no good guys, but the best guy in the world could walk up to them and theyd shut down just because hes not someone from their friend circle. This is why the majority of people either end up alone, dating someone they dont even like, marrying someone they barely like, or bounce from shitty relationship to shitty relationship
agree with this user, mutual friends. if she sees that you're friends with her friends you're "vetted" in a sense and so you're not some creepy stranger. the cooler your friends are the cooler you will seem by being with them.
keep it light, don't be all "YOU DON'T KNOW ME BUT I LOVE YOU", but go ahead and be flirty when you really do have that first real conversation, however that happens.
another word of advice is get and keep them 1 on 1. when they have other friends around that you dont know, youll get judged and filted out. build a foundation with them before allowing the friends to interfere/cockblock. bitches are obsessed with social circles and dont like to stray outside of them.
This. Treat her like a person instead of an object you want to put your dick into, and you will probably get to put your dick into her.
But never put your dick in crazy.
Not op and not trying to derail the thread or anything but, I can talk to girls a-okay even though they do most or the talking. But as soon as another girl joins the conversation, I feel like I've been butted out. Is this normal or am I autismo when it comes to 2 or more?
nope. they do this on purpose out of jealousy/defense. thats why you have to keep them seperate and build a foundation strong enough to survive a cockblock
Thanks user, this makes me feel better.
opening your mouth is a good start
Correct.
Incorrect.
Just talk to her. Smile. Ask her about herself and listen to what she says. Be interested in her, not just trying to fuck her.
And reading into the situation of a girl you barely know, it sounds like you do see her regularly for some reason. School or the same bus/train stop or whatever. That's a point of connection. Tenuous maybe, but it's something.
No guarantees, except you'll get nowhere by not trying.