(Help i am a beta male)
I am 18 and soon to enter my senior year of high school, all of my life has been lived under regret such as "what if i had done this...said this, etc" when thinking back on situations when people fucked with me.
Even tho i am one of the strongest guys at school (pic related) people still fuck with me because they can see the betaness in me and know i won't do anything.
I've had people spit on me and call me a spic, My backpack pissed on, Weights token out mid set of a exercise, and verbally called out and i don't do a fucking thing, i hold inside me and let it out at home or in the gym where yet i bench 225lbs for reps with hatred and anger. If i wanted to i could beat the fuck out of these people, and don't fuckin say "just tell a teacher" that won't make me a man, i wanna be able to handle my own problems.
I noticed that near the end of my junior year i was slowing becoming cold, telling people to "fuck off" if they tried to talk to me, verbally talking about rape and violence around girls. The worest that happened was when i semi snapped and threatened to kill a classmate outloud in rage during a test. Just edgy cringy shit like a bitch.
This year, i want that all to change. I don't wanna choke up and smile nervously during confrontation, i know i could easily take control of the situation but i can't help but see myself as inferior. I am going to fucking go crazy if i can't do something about this now. Advice?
(Help i am a beta male)
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A beta highschool student that's upset that people bully him. Holy fuck, this must be the first time this has ever happened ever.
Godspeed, you brave young soul.
Fuck one of the hot girls in school
I'd fucking smack one of the "alphas" and make him piss himself, no one will ever look at you the same but you'd possibly get expelled. Violence is the answer with some people, some only understand not to fuck with you if you rough 'em up!
beat someone up and get expelled, go to a new school and start over, best scenario trust me if i didnt drop out thats what i would have done
They're picking on you because they see you as a threat. They see that you could easily wipe the floor with them if you tried. I'd say you should stand up for yourself, you're a potential Alpha, and they know it.
>Potential alpha
I already ruined that with my previous years of letting people fuck with me. But i wanna fucking graduate this year completely fucking alpha.
do a school shooting nd fuck those guys up
based on the size of your arm compared to the size of that hinge I would say that you're like 5'6-5'8 so you probably have no reach in a fight
>Have police and media go through my hardrives and expose all the shit posting i did on Sup Forums and the weird porn i watched
No...
I am 5'10" arms a bit under 17inches
I meant the length of your forearm not the size of your bicep
close enough
My 16 year old brother was about to get arrested the other day, he fucked up the cop and ran away
sounds like such a model citizen
not something to be proud of
at least he's not a faggot that gets bullied by faggots
not op
>implying I got bullied by faggots
you're more than likely a faggot as well
High school is such a short part of life. Be yourself, make your adult life good without worrying about anyone... few years later see the dudes that were "alfa" in school be nothing in life. Win for you.
so defensive of your criminal brother
you're probably just talking shit I doubt that even happened
he's in prison right now, he's escaping today though when they take him to the hospital
what a degenerate
smoke some weed and chill out, or grow some nuts & join them..
At my high school pretty much no one picked on the "beta" nerds because that would have been seen as a sign of weakness. There was 2 "alpha" groups & we would fight & bully each other not so much out of hate but mostly for fun, after high school we all became good friends and lived happily ever after.
>Implying that i will suddenly become alpha and gain killer instincts as soon as high schools over.
I have one more fucking year of this shit, i don't wanna go through the same shit i went through in previous years. I want to train myself with killer instincts but i don't know how to. I wanna train myself not to choke and to just act without thinking like they train soldiers in the military. I just wanna be dominate and stop feeling self hatred and depression along with fuckers at school fueling it. Most guys weren't such pussies like i am in high school.
I'm sorry that you have to be going through high school these days. I would like to say that the black kids pick on you because you don't stand up for yourself, but the truth is they pick on you because they know they won't get punished at all.
I'm not going to say "go tell a teacher", because chances are the whole administration is cucked as well.
>all of my life
>18 years old
You're still a kid. all these "regrets" are nothing and you will laugh at them when you are older.
Just remember you play a teeny tiny part in the lives of other people. How often do you think about that one guy thats a little awkward in your class? Or the girl that brings a tiny mirror to school to check on her mascara every hour?
Almost never, probably.
Well, that goes both ways and personally it helped me alot with social interactions. Knowing that I wasn't on peoples mind as much as I made myself think made me more calm.
Might not be a direct answer but its what helped for me.
Who ever is the baddest dude in you school, walk up say something retarded... hows your back... when he opens his mouth start punching him. Do not stop fight and punching until he is reither ko'd or you are. At least this way you either lose to the best or beat the best. No body will give you a hard time after unless you looked like a fish out of water. Just keep it simple. Lots of right hands and a couple lefts and absolutely no sympathy.
it's really not that hard, if someone says shit to you fuck them up, once you throw your first punch you'll gain confidence for future fights. act first and worry about the consequences when it's over and if you get fucked up in the fight it's really not as bad as you think, I was in a fight a few days ago with 2 cracked ribs
Hey bro,
I was a 5'7 weakling and I suffered bigly.
Then suddenly, before I even realised it, high school was over and I never spoke to a single one of the assholes again.
If you're 18, you are SOOO close to being free.
Just hang in there until it's time to go to college or to find a job in another city.
I guarantee if you're chill, you WILL have a fucking awesome 20s.
how many fights have you been in ?
What regrets will you not laugh at when you are older user? Asking as another 18 yr old
You'd be surprised dude im 27 things change so much from high school into adulthood. High school and the people i went with have changed so much alot of popular people are shit now and betas as you guys call them strived. My last few years i had no friends and kept to myself, now im liked by pretty much everyone i come in contact with. Im successful and feel way above the people i once felt beneath. Without lashing out to prove myself.
So just a heads up, that's not what the military is like.
Anyway, this "alpha" /"beta" mentality you've got yourself wrapped up in is actually pretty destructive. Guys in school who are "alpha" don't actually sit around and read redpill or worry about being alpha. They just are popular because they are accepted by the in crowd. You are not. Beating them up doesn't change that.
All l would say is just don't take shit from people. Worst case scenario you beat someone up, get into trouble, and then get back to school after being expelled and nobody will fuck with you.
But honestly it just sounds like you need a lot of personal growth. Stop worrying about what's cool or popular because in less than a year when you graduate it isn't going to make a difference. Nothing is worse than listening to an adult reminisce over their "glory days" in high school, and anyone who tells you high school is the best time of their lives is someone who never went off to do anything after high school
This.
If HS was the best days of your life,you're one sad fucking loser...
>"I lift, why are they bullying me"
What a faggot, I bet the most skinny fucker could destory you
Not finishing college. Partying and other social events are a part of the experience but overshooting it and ending up without a college degree is fucked.
The point being, so fucking what ? Thr violent skinny fuck will be a minimum wage wife beater his whole life.
Do you care what a turd thinks ?
you definitely got bullied in school
next cunt that talks shit just fuck em up real bad, aim to cripple them
THIS
I had an early growth spurt and was 6'4 and the age of 16.
Some guys still made fun of my jewnose and called me squidward.
I gotta hand it to them though, it was a good resemblance and pretty fucking original.
You'll be ok OP, we got you!
I just got out of high school, and I was the complete opposite. I'm 135, mostly muscle, but not huge, but no one would ever dare fuck with me. Literally man the fuck up and beat the shit out of someone. Obviously don't provoke the fight, but if someone steps to you don't back down and be a pussy. Find what motivates you to be a fucking man and let it drive you. If it's women thing to yourself "Women don't like men who get pushed around" and then stand the fuck up. Or if it's respect say to yourself "People can't respect someone who gets pushed around all the time". It sounds so simple but 90% of the battle is just manning up and fucking doing it, the other 10% is violence. Also for bonuspoints sell drugs. Get the best stuff at the best prices and no one will fuck with you, after all why would they want to fuck with someone who sells them drugs, or possibly jeopardize their friends relationship with their dealer by being a prick to you. Thats what I did, and I no one dared give me shit lmao, not even the teachers. By Senior year I could get away with fucking murder. Step your game up and just fucking do it. Also
>>Underage ban.
Nah, just beat the fuck out of them in the bathroom. No one will be able to say for sure who started what and at most they both get suspended for a week.
This. Trust me user. You'll rue the day you didnt fuck some teen girl.
Are you fucking kidding me cunt. Let your self-hatred drive you. Let it turn into normal hatred. Once you stop empathizing with people you won't feel a fucking thing once you destroy them. Source: Been beating the shit out of people for years.
I bet a sinlge dictinoary woudl destory yuo
Yea just stalk that fucker until he goes to the bathroom. Stand outside is classes and wait for him. Then when he whips out his penis
BAM!
Right in the fucking head, it will surprise the shit out of him.
Then proceed to kick his ass
This. Then get his cock caught in his zipper. Guaranteed hilarity. Usually takes a crane to get it out.
Loose the fear of fighting man. Just get into a fight. Get punched in the face. Realize it's nothing. Beat the motherfucker into a pulp.
Well first of all you need to stop being confused about what "being a man" really means.
Maybe your bullies have a really fucking good reason to fuck with you. Maybe people are actually doing the right thing in messing with your day.
Investigate yourself, it might be that there's something you're doing wrong, I don't think it boils down to simple envy about your muscles if it's actually happening that often. Maybe you just behave like a prick and people think "Hey, his behaviour matches his macho look, let's get him down from his high horse."
I'll tell you what voilence is going to do for that: you're gonna prove them right. You actually are a prick, and a violent one at that, and you deserve all the bullying you get.
Well, how do you avoid that?
First of all, you stop confusing yourself about "being alpha", that's what 16 year olds are concerned about. You already graduated from that.
What you need to be is a functional member of society. Yes, that means you will have to sacrifice some of your individuality. Yes, that means you will have to endure bullying.
But it there are other ways to show that you're not okay with being bullied. Speaking up is the only thing that will save you a bunch of trouble and fix your problem.
When people shit on you, tell them, loud and clear so that people around you can also hear. "Don't fuck with me. I won't get violent but I'll make damn sure that you won't have the opportunity to mess with me again."
And don't be too proud to rely on authorities. A man doesn't operate alone, a loser does. A man gives and takes help whenever he goddamn needs to.
You're still young, you've got PLENTY of time to fix yourself up.
> I bully people because they deserve it
ask any bully, that's the exact answer they will give you
t. former bully
The guy had his backpack pissed on... It doesn't matter how much of a prick OP may be, that's unaceptable. The one motherfucker who spit on my face had a rough time afterwards.
maybe the guy who pissed on his backpack deserves a thorough beating
but OP might make things even worse for himself by doing that
that guy will get what's coming to him eventually, someday he will piss off the wrong person to piss off
but taking violent revenge isn't going to fix OPs problem, self-reflection will, only niggers care whether it's the "alpha" thing to do or not
at the end of the day, what matters is whether you get shit DONE or shat ON
I know from experience that a guy who looks strong and behaves tyrannically doesn't do well in the long run
a guy who looks strong and behaves calm and collected, now that's someone you can fucking rely on, that's the kind of a guy you want to make friends with
indiscriminately telling people to "fuck off" is the opposite of calm and collected
I can agree to a "healthy" middle ground here. OP needs to learn to stand his ground when needed. I do also believe that picking fights is not a solution, but a part of the solution. You don't have to become an asshole for people to respect you.
Synthol, tz