So I had plans to hang out with this girl tonight, she's recently single. She kept texting me how she misses me...

So I had plans to hang out with this girl tonight, she's recently single. She kept texting me how she misses me, asking me when I was going to chill with her. We made plans, then she asks if one of her girl friends can come along. I thought no big deal and told her it was cool. Right before I was going to get ready to pick her up she asks if her guy friend can meet up too... I'm just gonna bail at this point maybe not even text her back. What do you guys think?

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Nice dubs

Haha maybe it's a guy for her friend ... but yea fuck all that noise

No her friend has a boyfriend already so it's not that.

I'd bail

is the guy friend her ex or something? If it's not don't sweat it dude

Bump for Artie

He's aged 20 years since he left the show. Looks like grandma Caprio.

bail for sure

Yeah, this is sounding more like a hang than a date. Fuck that bitch. She's probably just jonesing for an ego boost.

Maybe go, gonna be awkward, then never see her again?

Yeah I feel like that's a real slap in the face, right? She made it seem that she was into me like that. I just think it's a red flag for something like that to happen

OP, who's the guy? Just some random or her ex

Bail dude, that's going nowhere.

Not what I think, but maybe she needs a couples third wheels so it's not a date.

Not an ex but probably another guy she's interested in? Either way it's kinda fucked up

Not an ex but just some said that she may be interested in as well

What up Artie? Yeah man maybe that guy is for her gf to fuck so she can get alone with you.
go have one beer and if shits wack leave. at least try to get laid..

Some dude*

Bail if you been talking her up, and she hits with with that tag along swerve. Fuck that bish, find another hoe.

Don't be an insecure beta fag dude. It's just some random dude. I wouldn't bail like all of these faggots are saying, i'd still go

Trips of truth. You know the deal, OP. She turned a date into something that is clearly not one. Bait and switch.

Are they using you for a ride ?? Fuck that shit anyways just bail

Play it out see what happens. Worse case bail in the middle of the "date" and cut all ties

What was the plan btw? im sure arrangements were made and all that. Im still on the bail side tho...

OK here

Definetly not going out with her tonight. Im just gonna smoke some weed and jerk off. Do I even bother texting her back?

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she's either bringing the guy for her girlfriend or bringing the girlfriend for you. either way, looks good.

Yeah I was gonna pick her up, she lives pretty far too.

Yeah just tell her you can't make it cause she's a bitch haha . Ok not the bitch part

She was probably just using you for the ride homie .. but text her back so you still maybe have a chance later on ..

text back as if you have other shit to do...What would Dr Dre do?

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Yeah, she gets with some Chad while OP gets stuck with her fattest friend. Looks real good.

Everyone in this thread is a huge faggot, fuck you OP

She just playin you dog, just casually text back that you had something come up and smoke a bowl.

Bail.

Bailing let's her know exactly what you're interested in and let's her know you're not dealing with bullshit

Chill by the beach and smoke/drink, that was the plan.

what a defeatist attitude user...

she may have been hoping you'd say you'd rather it was just you two, the other guy is a litmus paper for how interested you are in her.

Yeah that would be so much better just the 2 of u

bail

Yeah I told her that some shit came up... just gonna leave it at that.

>Girl brings up guy, op immediately bails.
>Girl, "...ok, that was weird, he must be really insecure or somthing. Oh well"

I hope they was gonna drop for the weed and drink, but you probably gotta drive em bacl and shit. fuck doing all that.

and she's not wrong. Go and prove to her your better for her than that guy. Make her laugh more. Be more interesting. o wait Sup Forums is betas who dont even try...

>she then meets guy
>wasnt user supposed to come?
>he bailed as soon as I said you were coming chad
>haha what a loser, shit im sorry I accidently knocked over the firewood with my log sized cock.
>dont worry chad put it in my log burner.

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>log burner

OP it's a stupid priss test. My sister used to do it back when she was a cunt, she'd get a girlfriend who has a bf, then invite 2 or 3 dudes, and waited for one of them to cancel on the plans when she informed of the other dude. Obviously the beta will cancel and she'd fuck the dude who showed up. If both dudes showed up she'd pick the one who was better at whatever she judged them on. Seriously, it's a mindfuck. Show up with no expectation to get laid and you'll win.

>Seriously.

yall are spergs. OP is managing time and resources accordingly, fuck some bitch setting up a pissing contest. if shes on the rebound, OP will get that puss another day with minimal effort.

>competing for a woman
You are a dumb cuck if you play that game. This isn't the Bachelor. You shouldn't have to compete to get a quality woman and she shouldn't put you in that situation.

Men sell themselves short. We're the prize. More loyal, more loving, make more money, sacrifice more. There's no need to prove anything to some bitch. If she's into you, great. If not, that's o.k. too. You do you, OP.

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Exactly mofuckers this ain't the bachelor

such a beta view of dating.
THE LADY DOTH PROTEST TOO MUCH

fuck off. If he wants to get laid without effort he should be more attractive/go for grosser girls.

>Men sell themselves short. We're the prize. More loyal, more loving, make more money, sacrifice more. There's no need to prove anything to some bitch. If she's into you, great. If not, that's o.k. too. You do you, OP.
*tips fedora*

buddy, life is a competition whether you like it or not, and not only in this regard. Guess what's the only possible way to ensure defeat? by not playing.
Im not saying go and put on a show. Im saying go, be yourself, have fun, dont even think about it sexually, and if it happens, it happens. But by not even going, that's extremely defeatist and really indicative of his personality (lazy)

>OP is managing time and resources accordingly
Or he's a beta fuck who bails the second someone of the same sex shows up. It called immaturity, insecurity and jealousy

I don't have time for stupid games like that... kinda lost interest in her after that

whats it like in the 1920s?

damn your sister is a manipulative bitch. Most girls dont operate like that, and the one's who do are pretty shallow about it to the point of making it obvious, avoid these people so much. avoid vapid chicks in general actually

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"a change in plan was not a part of the plan"

You're the fedora beta if you think some chick who invites you out and only after you've agreed decides to bring along another dude is worth pursuing.

And no, you don't need to compete. Do your own shit and women will find ways to insert themselves into your life. You're a little boy playing a woman's game.

And it's not defeatist to see this obvious bait and switch for what it really is and bail. There are better things to do with your time than fawn over some girl who's toying with you.

Nah, just show up with no intention to get laid and let the night happen bro. I'm so serious. You're gonna get to see some incredible drama, bonus points if you're really nice to her friend. Like be really nice and joke around. You'll get a funny story out of it later, user. Trust me.

>WAS
was a manipulative bitch.

She's cool now, has a couple kids and a husband, faithful, good mom and all that. It's not bad.

Tits or GTFO.

Or be like. "sorry the original plan was just us and i had to change it last minute to add your girl friend. It's too late to change it again. Maybe next time you could bring your friend?"

Then if she desperately wants this dude along. Gtfo

I bet you own a copy of 'The game' and practice pua.

Nailed it. The "I still got it if I wanted it "

No, because that bullshit requires effort. I'm not that desperate for female attention.

Sounds like beta virgin talk to me. Sure you're not the one with a fedora?

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Nigger, I'm divorced. Talk to me about women after you graduate high school.

Tits or GTFO

im this guy
actually, she's using you for a ride so she can leave with the other dude who's showing up. I didn't read you were picking her up.

respond with

>Just have the other dude pick you up, I can't really be bothered with getting strung along and have you lead me on right now.

Actually user has a point here.

Holy fuck dude, how defeatist and insecure you must be

fuck that bull shit bail out

i bailed on a grill at the movies during the fucking movie for doing this same shit, she ask if another girl friend of hers can come, im like yeah than during the movie a guy shows up also. I am like yeah this is fucking lame.

Bailed and chilled with friends and met another girl same night.

This is the fag who gets stuck waiting at the restaurant all night leaving 27 voicemails while Kristy is getting buttfucked by the qb.

and makes excuses

They must love your gullible ass at casinos. Don't leave yet user, you're being defeatist!

Pic related: it's you.

this, plus if its drinking and smoking on a beach at night, you know something fun is going to happen. dont be a bored beta alone when you can go out for fun even if it doesnt work out

I made a graph that pretty much shows the majorty of the threads view

im the user you're responding to and you make one really good point that i kind of ignored, that she accepted and you were supposed to hang out but after you accepted she invited others. Especially since OP said he's being used for a ride, that changes everything as well. If it was just a general get together id defend my point but you're right, it was supposed to be just them.
> Do your own shit and women will find ways to insert themselves into your life.
extremely good advice, we're on the same page user

None of what you said made sense btw. Oh shit, im arguing on Sup Forums XD

Lol

lol so you're super bitter towards all women now cause you were too stupid to realise your ex was a whore?

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>Im saying go, be yourself, have fun, dont even think about it sexually, and if it happens, it happens.
how did you get that im really desperate from that? If Kristy wants to get buttfucked by the qb good for Kristy, my interest in her has now vaporized because she's unavailable. on to the next one.

Fuck of you beta divorcee. By far the biggest loser in the thread.

sounds like she is either afraid to go alone or she is retarded and doesn't understand this defeats the whole purpose of a date, that or she just wanted to be friends (which would be retarded since she says i miss you)


so there is a big chance she is dumb af

She wasn't a whore. We were married for 14 years and just grew apart. Not bitter about it at all. I just know far more about women than some teenager who gets all of his ideas from romantic comedies.

Mr. Burns?

>you're too scared of chad to go.

Lol, that wasn't even me. Just others noting what a cuck you are.

If you genuinely believe everyone here is a teenager why do you come here? I'm 25 btw and I bet ive been with many more women than you have. Divorced loser that hates all women for no reason.

hahaha, the guy who 'grew apart' is calling me a cuck.

your a faggot dude lol

Lol, 25. Yeah, you sure know a lot. And I've already said that the divorce wasn't bitter. I just know how women think better than some poser PUA like you.

"By not going you're a defeatist" ....why because he weighed his options and realized it wasn't the plan they had made. Why not reschedule? Why should he jeopardize friendzoning his ass or just being let down by going into it already clearly annoyed. Ok, fuck as much pussy as you can and never settle down. Slay bitches by the ocean to your dick no longer works. Women aren't worth it..

Or she's just some cunt that's toying with me. This morning She sent me this snapchat of her self lifting her shirt up and the bottom of her tits were easily visible...i don't have time for these games. If she was interested she would make sure that it was just her and i and not make me compete with some dude.

I was the one who called you a pua you fucking idiot. You coming from a generation that generally still had leftovers of the traditional housewife mentality, definitely doesn't know how women think in any superior capacity. Getting married doesnt make you any smarter, just makes you a cuck.