What was the last argument you had with your girlfriend? Why are you still with her? Are you happy?

What was the last argument you had with your girlfriend? Why are you still with her? Are you happy?

We fought because I wouldn't give her my Facebook password she called me shady and said it made me look like a cheater then two weeks later she informs me she has been sleeping with someone else and she's leaving me for him

>tldr girlfriend was a cunt

I cheated on her and she found out.
Financial reasons.
No.

I beat her on Mario Kart and she got mad cause she talked so much shit before we played so I came back and said 'where's that big mouth of yours now?' this was before we were dating a year ago. We haven't argued since.

That bitch doesn't like me yelling in front on the kids in Italian

Still with her because she is usually an amazing person

it has been a happy 8 or so years

We argued, because her pussy is getting too loose from me fisting her, and she wants it to be tighter.

I cannot find many other women who are into the kind of shit I am into sex-wise.

If I can keep fisting her, yes, but if not, then no, and I will look for another woman who shares my fetishes.

>there are people on Sup Forums with a gf
Well this isnt 2007

I didn't wanna fuck (sick) and she got mad.

I love her a lot. I'm hoping it'll last. She makes me happy.

we fight a lot because of politics. she's a bleeding heart liberal and I'm a conservative right-winger. The last fight we had was her sperging out because I made fun of her while she was trying to convinve me immigrants are humans. She started going off about how I don't respect her and how I see her as beneath me. Which is not 100% wrong, but that's another subject for another time.

I'm with her because she reminds me of my ex. We broke it off because she went to study abroad, so we decided it wasn't worth it for either of us to do a long distance thing. Once she returns, I'll dump the current one and go for the original.
I'm not happy, but I wouldn't be happy either way. At least she's easy to tolerate for the most part, so I stick around.

More of this girl

Don't get back with your ex, I was in your shoes and she turned into a mean thing without me. I'm glad there is an ocean between us

I dont know why Im still with her. She doesnt love me like in the beginning anymore and we both notice that. We dont hang out together like we used to neither.
We had this argument the other day and she said she really wanted to stay with me

I guess Im still with her because I know it would be too hard for me to find another one, using Tinder or looking for girls is difficult because I live in a shitty and small town and have a work which doesnt let me have time for other things.

yeah thats some excuse, funny how you and every other miserable slob doesnt want to leave his relationship of convenience.
If you stay with her she will fuck you over royally. Women would rather you hate them then feel indifferent to them, she is gonna act out like a child till you notice her

She was acting weird and I pressed her to tell me what's going on. She got so mad she broke the toilet. Still together because she cleans my house and washes my clothes and other things I can't be bothered with. I'm miserable all the time and so is she.

sounds like you are fucking your mom

>What was the last argument you had with your girlfriend?
She is feminist and I constantly make fun of her myths like the wage gap. Last time we argued because she didn't want kids saying she won't have kids because it "empowers" the patriarchy and yet at the same time she bitches at me because I won't marry her until she agrees to have children.

>Why are you still with her?
I don't know. She used to not be a feminist but college changed her. I think somehow I can change her back into a normal person who she was when I first started dating her. She recently got a dyke haircut too which I can't stand.

>Are you happy?
Honestly no. The love is fading because of her feminist bullshit. Thinking of dropping her to get with my tranny friend who keeps saying they are saving their virginity for me. He went on hormones when was 16 in high school and I was the only one who didn't abandon him so he is in love with me or some shit. Keeps saying he will have kids with me through artificial wombs or some shit. At least he is more feminine in personality and looks then my current gf which makes him way more appealing at the moment.

Is she single?

I really have no room to complain, been with my wife for like a decade now and I can count on one hand how many arguments we even remember.

I think that our last argument was regarding her back. She's kind of lazy in that she works a good job and pays her bills, but I set the standard of living and she just stays out of my way.

She had been complaining about her back for sometime and I pointed out that she should go see a doctor because all her peripheral diagnostics suck and she should get some professional advice. She's so impressionable and lazy. One of her clients had a slipped disc and explained it to her so she's convinced thats what she has but wont go see her doc.

Anywho, she's Ukrainian, here only 9 years and she asked my thoughts on Back medicine in general (come from a long line of medical) and I told her that my thoughts are irrelevant as she's the one living in pain but I do wish she would go to the doctor with more than circumstantial "My friend said" stuff. Like, she doesn't even search the internet lol. She has no bases of understanding her pain to relay to a doctor.

So anyways -- she thinks it's her job - doesn't look for job. Thinks she should stand/sit in more intervals - makes not attempt to remind herself.

But, she's an awesome girlfriend. If I were to template all our disputes, the baseline would be:

>"user, I forgot to do X today"
>"Why don't you make a calendar entry in your phone for X?"
>"Because I want my memory to get better."

It's just being lazy.

I wish. We haven't had sex in almost 3 years

that is perfect, if you break up she cant blast you or else she is transphobic

I told her not to give a blunt to my teenage cousin.she sleeping next to me i just blocked her # and going to go out for cigs

oof.
What if you just casually started dating another person at the same time?
You guys are basically roomates.
do you have kids or something?

2/2

>Why are you still with her?

Despite her laziness, she's all about us. She cooks, cleans, pays her fair share of the bills, and contributes to our happiness. We've been best friends for about 8 years before our decade long marriage, and she's realistic.

>She's up for anything. Games, Beach, Anything.
>Sexually, we're both completely explorative and open. She loves servicing me.
>We're both pretty fucked up sexually but we get each other. As a small example -- she's hot, she loves going up to the bar and getting a dude to buy her drink then ordering another to hand to me. It gets much worse but not for here.
>We completely respects each other's space
>We both enable the other. Like she'll travel on her own if I can't go or I can only go for a little and vice versa.
>She's a fucking 10/10 to me.
>We make each other happy.

>Are you happy?
Oh yea. Very much so. She's my best friend. Nothing makes me happier than coming home to seeing her wrapped up in her Umaru hamster hoodie and a blanket (I like the house cold) playing Breath of the Wild on the big screen.

Are you happy?

gl dude.

Where she went when she left the party. No. No.

>Last argument
We fought because I told her I didn't want her to move in with me just yet. Suggested she comes over for like 4 days a week and we see how it goes. She went to town about how she feels like a call-girl doing that, but she agreed in the end.

Why do you stay with her?
We're both into similar sex shit, and she is the only person that excites me. We fight on an almost daily basis, then we have angry sex, then we're the happiest couple in the world, then we fight again and the cycle goes on. I love her and I love to hate her sometimes.

Are you happy?
We're both miserable people, but we're happy together. I guess the reason I don't want her to move in full time is that I'm afraid we'll lose that spark of excitement I feel whenever I see her again.

>Thinking of dropping her to get with my tranny friend who keeps saying they are saving their virginity for me.

One of the biggest problems with feminism in my area is that "Men" become so afraid of being single/alone that they go along for the ride.

If dudes would just dump the chick when they're not happy, I think a lot of the driving climate would change/not have gotten this far. Instead, the dude stays throughout the metamorphosis from rational female rights supporter to sperglordress and then get dumped and blasted for being a patriarchal supporting twit now that she has all her support coming from other women.

She told me she'd be ok with me getting an escort, but that shit's too expensive. I guess I would fuck another girl if the opportunity comes up, but haven't really been looking for it so far. No kids.

She was upset that she thought she couldn't make me happy, even though I was in the valley of a bad manic depressive episode

Ehhh my daego brother

My wife is perpetually upset cause she thinks anytime I raise my voice I'm angry.

I just get loud sometimes

We had a kid and now 3 months later we barely have sex. I'm not happy about that.

1. Fight when I get down about that. She knows and cries and says it'll get better and it's because of low self esteem etc. etc.

I love the shit out of her and the kid but I keep getting frustrated and angry every time I initiate and she refuses. It's very disheartening. And as soon as I stop trying then probably all hope is lost and I'm very afraid of it.

2. I'm still with her because love of course, we're great together.

3. But I'm steadily becoming unhappy and afraid.

Fuck man end it already.
youll be happier and so will she.
don't worry about the logistics of where she'll live or the bills
if someone abducted you and took you to bumfuck alberta canada, you would survive and find your way home.
Just do it before she does some self destructive bullshit and you get caught in the blast radius

For girls is too fucking easy to find another partner. Even if they are ugly or have no interests.
Thats my main complain, I cant compete against that anymore and thats why they feel that way

I am probably going to do it next weekend. Part of me is holding back because I have been dating my gf for 7 years. First and only one. Probably need to end it though she is going way too far with his feminist even a year after graduation from college. The no kids thing is a massive dealbreaker for me. This is also preventing me from going for tranny friend. But they keep assuring me there will be aritifical wombs by 2020 so it will be fine. I don't know.

Thanks and nice dubs.

I realize I need to drop my gf. I am being delusional if I think she will change back to normal. I don't really care about being alone it is just long the history I had with my gf. Then again I have known my friend much longer. If things don't work out with my friend it would mean no gf and no friends either. That would suck. I also got offered a job that would start next month so I would have to move states. I haven't told my gf I am going to take. I think she will refuse to move. Tranny friend says they want to come though.

A typical sign of a cheater is for them to project their offense onto you. Now you know for the next time.

Fuck that. That's why you ALWAYS have a girl on the side

The more I read your post, the more convinced I became that you're the asshole in the relationship.

>For girls is too fucking easy to find another partner. Even if they are ugly or have no interests.
>Thats my main complain, I cant compete against that anymore and thats why they feel that way

I hear ya, but that's kind of BS. It's the idea that a girl settles just to fill a space (and they do for sure). But, if you're not that dude, and you she didn't settle for you, then leaving her for this sends the largest message of "I'm pushing away partners that make me happy in exchange for spineless dudes that wish I had a penis and think opening the door for me is a sign that they hate me."

Up to you though.

I agree, also his post screams fat guy.

Probably cheating FYI.

Im a nigger boi who dates a white girl we argue everyday about our differences in opinions and cultures so i give her something she never had before a black eye. Yea thats right white boi its not love so what?, i just fuck her and then go upside her head. White bitches are dumb what you going to do white boi?!

I said she works too much. She said it's her dream work.

I married her and have no regrets

Yes I'm happy. Bitch needs a better job though

>I realize I need to drop my gf. I am being delusional if I think she will change back to normal. I don't really care about being alone it is just long the history I had with my gf. Then again I have known my friend much longer. If things don't work out with my friend it would mean no gf and no friends either. That would suck. I also got offered a job that would start next month so I would have to move states. I haven't told my gf I am going to take. I think she will refuse to move. Tranny friend says they want to come though.

I'm sorry, I didn't realize that you were spineless too. My bad.

Fucking why even put up with it for even a month. You know you should leave her, then leave her. At least due the "history" you had together the respect of not destroying it by being disingenuous to avoid conflict.

"People aren't who they are in the last conversation you have with them, they're who they were the entire time" -- Rainer Maria Rilke.

ITT: Americans with mentally ill, probably ugly and fit bitches whho both think relationships are like in the "popular" media they consume and think things like arguments matter

>fit
fat*

Nigger I don't even fuck white girls. You sticking your dick in crazy the lighter she is. If you had a daddy he'd have taught you not to fuck crazy

We fought because I think about the future, I'm buying an apartment soon, I think about earning extra, beside my main work, so I can provide for all the useless bullshit we would going to spend my money on. Turns out all I think about is myself, typical irrational women thinking. So our argument basically ended up with a break-up. A relationship of 3 and something years gone to waste because women logic = none.

Lol, keep on trucking nigger. Beat the living shit out of her and please put a baby in her.

We'll just laugh here with our jobs and none stupid white women and slowly but surely your black queens.

Wow all kinds of fucked up. I wonder what the feminist will think when you leave her for a trannie, this is a classic fucking setup. You have a really good chance of breaking her really good when you leave.

>Americans
Just get out you fucking Reddit tier retards.

itt: a bunch of dumb newfags

Not american, kike.

Thought about it many times. Thing is, knowing her for that long I'm pretty much certain she'll go on a downward spiral until she hits rock bottom and eventually an hero if I threw her out. It's a pretty fucked up situation.

>kike
>not American
>uses American insults only Americans use
Hahaha, kanker op dikke neger.

She told me that rare steak is garbage and it doesn't taste like beef unless it's well done

I'm not with her cause she said it and I slapped her with a side of beef

I'm still laughing that she left me over it

That's some deep SHIT user. I'm sorry

Lol, when in Rome you liberal scum.

about how she fucked some other guy
we are not still together
eh I'm still alive so that's good, I'm happy I'm not with a liar that's for sure

Like I said I will break up with her next weekend. My parents are going to take it harder than me at this point. I am going to tell her I am leaving for the tranny and moving away. Meeting up with the tranny tomorrow to mention my plans.

She has changed way too much. I don't want her anymore and put with it for way too long trying to change her back. I failed. I realize that now. At least the tranny has the qualities that I loved about my girlfriend originally.

>liberal scum
>literally another insult only Americans use
>hahah not American tho
Grappig jong

Dude --

1. Post partum is real
2. 8 weeks after birth is a no-fly zone. You can hit it but you could cause her pain.

>It's very disheartening. And as soon as I stop trying then probably all hope is lost and I'm very afraid of it.

Try different things. If her problem is her confidence then do things that increase it or make it irrelevant. You can do this.

> But I'm steadily becoming unhappy and afraid.

Don't be part of the problem, be part of the solution.

>I wish. We haven't had sex in almost 3 years

Well, maybe not together...

Fuck you shit hawk. Don't fuck crazy

No kids. Get the fuck out. Three years, that is not a relationship she is using you and you basically have a shitty roommate

Your hopeless, if she got turned into a zombie you would probably keep her in your spare room instead of doing the right thing and ending her misery.
People that say "I'll kill myself if you leave me!"
Are basically saying "I don't love you and don't care if you are happy or not"

Thanks user.

Wouldn't be the first time. But I'm way past worrying about that.

>Like I said

Naw bro. You never said any of that, just that they were options.

Good luck though, that you're doing it is what matters.

>still arguing with women
I can go through a whole 1 year relationship without a single argument. Then when things get boring I break up like you're supposed to. I used to cheat and use some anti anxiety and happy pills but I dont even need that anymore.

I recently read that a woman is fully capable at 3 weeks.

Also, fuck post partum

Nice Reddit formatting you fucking newfaggot. Get out.

1) about her drinking
2) not sure about why anymore
3) no, not really

In this post -- Basement dwelling neckbeard shows his frustration for his patchy facial hair by pretending he has the slightest idea what he's talking about.

Dude this is totally normal. She won't want it for at least six months. If you love her and the kids just leave her alone and beat off. Then for the next x years she will have self esteem issues because her body has changed. I am two years out from body image recovery and we are finally back to normal. Really tough patch and it got to the point where I talked with a lawyer and told her I was considering leaving.

>tfw reddit formatting was a term created on Sup Forums to expose the people who use it as newfags

Nice meme moron

This thread and talking to complete strangers made up my mind. I am done with her. I needed this thread. Not really anyone I could talk in real life about this shit.

We argued because she let guys cross boundaries, including an ex who talked about his masturbation tendencies. She wouldn't say anything to them, so I did. We are no longer together as an indirect result. Fun fact, she ended up breaking up with me for being too insecure and controlling.

Haha so funny dude, le neckbeards. If this was Reddit you'd get upvoted.

No, it as a term invented for people who know that Reddit requires you to have shit formatting and can identify the dumb niggers who carry it over to here :^)

>she won't want it for six months
[Citation needed]

My wife was begging for the dick a week after birthing a little bastard

You sound like a fucking incredibly insecure faggot though.
>people are different
Woah who would have thought??

...

user
Don't give up. If need be, forcefully finger her, make her cum.
Start playing out your fantasies, cuddle her, grope her. Get her shiny stuff. Make her feel that you own her and there is no need for self esteem. She's yours. End of story.
If this doesn't work, maybe she just needs some time. Or maybe it's time to look for a side bitch.

Anyone here married wishing they weren't?

yeah this is retarded. I hooked up with a chick that was pregnant already, she got an abortion and we fucked the next day. She was sore as fuck but whatever I didnt care

Tell that to the faggot saying she won't want it for six months.

>World star hip hop .com.

Maybe, but still -- he's talking about losing the feelings that resulted in building a family in 9 weeks with next to no show of concern for her position. Seems fucked to me.

Degenerate cuck

My wife knew I didn't want my son to ever see MLP (he's l9mo old) she showed it to him while I was at work. told me via text how excited he was watching it (bright colors and shit no surprise) I left work early and fuckin let her have it, I told her if she did it again she was out of my house for endangering my child. I do not play that shit.

>there are married, fat, dumb Americans on this board
>quality goes down further into the shitter with literal mentall illness and degeneration
Literally end youself.

Thing is this was a problem before the childbirth or even before she got pregnant. I jut don't think she enjoys sex the same way I do. Most sex involves some type of deal which is so stupid. I have to drive her around or watch the kid the whole day or buy her something and then I'll maybe be rewarded when we go to bed. And even that's not guaranteed. So even if I unwillingly go about it as she was a "prostitute" I don't get what I want.

I always compliment her and never ever comment on her weight. But she's put on 30 kg after we got together. Sex was plentiful the first year and adequate the second year btw.

I broke up with mine a few hours ago

>literally fat wife

I see how you might think that from the given information, but there's a lot more to it. Certain things I'm just not okay with and tbqh she usally doesn't have the balls to stick up for herself ever.

Anyways I don't what I'd rather be, spineless or insecure. Because if I let that stuff go (they're trying to get with her now, mind you) I don't have any standards.

She wants a scorpion and I hate bugs. She's probably the only one that can put up with my severe anxiety and other vast host of mental issues. Yeah, I am happy with her, at least.

My nigga

Men need to put their fucking feet down. I saw my brother in law getting his shit verbally pushed in after he told his wife that he didn't want their daughter to have pierced ears

30kg in how many years?

Why do you keep mentioning americans? I'm australian and there are plenty of fat dumb people here.
you would never say your dumb country because it is probably a third world shithole

This guy.

All the keks.

Yea, my kids mum gave me all sorts of oral afterward but I think it was more to make sure she knew that, post-child, she was still seen as a sexually attractive person.
>no
>good head tho.

I just had to have the talk about this shit. For years we were really not fucking a lot and I was getting turned down maybe 98% of the time. It is a killer. But this was four years out from the last kid. You are in a normal period give her some room. If it hits eight months then you might want to have a real discussion. If she is breast feeding she will not be horny for the whole time. You might get some mercy sex or BJ's but that is about it. Also my wife was deathly afraid of my dick going in her, it hurt more than her first time and took us three well lubed tries.

As for me the talk worked. I basically said you make me feel like shit, if you love me like I love you you have to work on this. I had stopped asking and was preparing for the end. What hit her was when I said I 'liked' being with her... When she didn't hear the word love come out of my mouth I think she knew how fucking serious it got. She has pulled a 180 and the last two months have been like we just met again.

He wants to bait and he doesn't have a trump thread to go to. Just ignore him my straya brah

>he's not even American and bought into the American degeneracy
HAHAHAHAHAHAHA
Literally shitposted your life to shit, Australian scum.