How proud is your father of you user

How proud is your father of you user

i'm a nigger so i wouldn't know. ask one of my white friends

fuck knows, not spoken to him in nine years

I am in a better position financially than him but he's also a devout catholic and thinks i'm going to hell because i'm an atheist so I don't know.

Don't really care

I think in recent years he's gotten better, but throughout my childhood, not at all. I wanted to make movies, he thought that was dumb, and I could never do it. I'm doing it now, so now that I'm successful he's all "I always knew you could do it."

Whoa man, that's 3reel5me, abandoning thread

He's my best friend. We bullshit about politics and our dumb senses of humor on the daily. I imagine he's incredibly proud

Are you Christopher Nolan

My father died last year and he wasn't proud of me at all. At least I don't think he was.

Should he be proud of me, and why?

Hes a drunk balding beaner who barely spoke to me the few days we saw each other every weak and treated me more like a dog than a son

I'm the biggest disappointment of his life.

I think he's proud of the man I am, but not my (rather sparse) achievements.

>be 10yo
>dad didn't come back home
>mum wakes us up at 5 AM
>Piotr is kill
>no
>go to shop that day coz no bread
>enter the shop
>2 ladies in there chatting
>"did you hear about that man who got killed with an axe last night?"
>"yee-ee hehe"
>mfw I didn't know how

Meh probably slightly dissappointed in me, still living at home, scraping by off minimum wage, trying yo save up for a car, yet he tells me how he had bought his own house at 18 and was making bank, and i jist tell him, well yeah the housing market was also different 30 years ago, and a significantly smaller population in california at the time, plus his family helped him get that job. But hey, i try to not let it get to me.

Meh, idk. Hes a drunk piece of garbage sometimes, sometimes not. He likes to mask his bullshit self with religion, he is a christian and I guess he has some good values but Ive never met anyone so full of shit like my dad.

We dont really talk, because we fight alot since i dont take shit from a fat nigger for nothing. His career kinda failed, and im doing good.

So yeh, we kinda say hi. thats kinda it.

He ded. Even if he wasn't I would not give a fuck what he thinks.

pretty proud. I keep the sperging under control and i live a normie life pretending to be part of the club.

2 posts starting with Meh at the same second. It has to mean something.

He's a working man. Always has been. He's a mechanic, carpenter, fisherman and everything in between. He's my absolute hero. But it doesn't pay well. He and my mom always pushed me into academia. Hated it. Never felt he was exacly proud of me but he was always supporting my mom in that push in that direction. But then I had enough before I entered University and went to welding and steelsmithing. Now my dad treats me entirely differently. Like an old buddy of his and it's great! Love that old idiot.

He left when I was 4, haven't spoken since, And no, I'm not black.

sda

Who are these threads for? I mean, like 1/20 post gets a response (often not a very good one). Everyone just wants to tell their own story.

Very proud, the only bad thing he thinks that I have is that I play video games.

We fight sometimes, but out of that, we have a very good family relationship.

that's the purpose of those threads lol.

wut mate?

So looks the shitty Englishman!!!!!!!Guck you

Always talks about other peoples sons, never praises me. I have a degree and a job and I'm only 25. No STD's and no criminal record as well as not being a total asshole that even managed to get with 3 gals in 1 day, won numerous sports awards growing up even though I'm naturally a nerd. What the fuck am I supposed to do

Saved, take one.

But without an audience, what's the point?

Idk he killed himself 4yrs ago

your new is showing

Parents are people, fuck him.

narcissist

You to user? even the dog is treated better than me

>level 21
>qt3.14 GF for 5 years
>Independent in own apartment
>Full time job, earn more than my father

>I don't like to drink alcohol
>I don't own a TV at home
>I don't like fucking football
>Not interested in car racing or house renovations

Disappointed/10

Surely Sup Forums is not just a diary. It has to be about interaction.

Lol

He is but he would prefer to have his sons out of his damn home.

No idea. He's dead.

Definitely a narcissist.

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I don't even talk to him on christmas lol he disowned me for the sake of my half brother and sisters proper raising.

molotov

That's a little excessive, but I feel ya

Told me he was proud of me 3months before he died in April.

trips say your father was indeed proud.

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My dad is a war veteran with PTSD, he never had patients to talk to me proper man to man or show me anything worth learning while i was a kid, i still love that old nigga

Holy shit.

Sorry for your lose user, Sup Forums and Moot are proud of you if that helps

he's more proud of me than he has any right to be

not sure he and I are viewing the same reality, but I appreciate it all the same

is it a shitty story? It killed me. Or am I exaggerating?

I'm 37 and still live with him. Give me a second I'll ask him.

He's not proud of me.
Probably never will be.
Spent his whole life chasing money and avoiding me.
It's ok, I'm a better father then he ever was.

You made me kek you basterd

Not that proud
Got disowned at a young age by him

No im on fucking point.

Why?

How so? Because I don't understand the point of a thread where a lot is posted, but very little read? In what possible way does that make you think I am a narcissist?

Not sure. He used to be when i was in high school and had a gf and everything going for me.

Partway through college gf and i had a really bad breakup and i became a shut in that only plays videogames smokes weed and faps all day.

I guess he could be proud that i graduated and have a decent job but that is all i do.

I dunno. I'm..well was... The black sheep of my family. My younger brothers are knuckle dragging brutes who have no social skills and are military aficionados. I loved reading books and was into science fiction and MMA and my dad and I never bonded over anything except camping. He tried but I think my Autistic tendencies clashed with his own personality growing up.

Now I have two kids and a wife and have tried and failed at many things over the years. My brothers on the other hand have found mediocre success in what they do. So of course he could give a rats ass about my stories from work and wants to hear how one of them is "saving lives" as a minimum wage, private paramedic and the other is a graveyard machinist for a small business.

My sister is a nutbag and a whore
>No, don't ask.
And before she tried to strike out on her own she was just kind of doing the useless princess life. Now shes eye-rolling obnoxious and hiding every aspect of her life quite poorly from my folks. So that takes the heat off.

All in all I think I would have to become military, police, or a firefighter to win his approval because working in crisis management for a security firm isn't "living up to my potential".

Yeah, he could give a fuck that I'm a professional white hat fixer. He wants public service in the gubbamints sector. Grandkids are just more letdown waiting to happen.

Cherish that man. Most of us will spend our lives trying to fill the shadow our fathers cast for us, and become bitter in failing.

Of course doing your best to make yourself proud, and by extension, him, is always something worth trying for. But you're better off than most.

Im sure hes somewhat dissapointed. I was a shy kid who didnt do much, who turned into a shy teen who didnt do much and a young adult who doesnt do much. I think he understands where i'm trying to go in life and that I have and will continue to improve until I reach it. Hes a pain in the ass sometimes and I used to let his medication/stress justify it but years later, we're all doing much better, he still acts the same. He has these disguting bitter outbursts at my mom and sister but says "I may argue with my wife but ive never hit her." Calling your 11 year old daughter a fucking bitch over shit that isnt her fault and calling your wife a fucking retard and a stupid fucking cunt whenever she doesnt agree with you isnt any better. He lets things get to him and overcomplicates things, takes things too personally, any minor inconvenience is enough to ruin his mood for a week and then we have to deal with it. Then I feel like a prick because despite all that he has provided more than enough for all of us to live a comfortable life.

I think he's proud, he has five sons, me, my brother, and three others of his first marriage.

A while ago he had to undergo surgery and didn't tell anyone only when the surgery was over that he told my mother what had happened and as soon as my mother told me that my dad was in the hospital I went to see if he was fine.

When I arrived the hospital the nurse told me that she asked if he wanted to call someone to take him home and he said: "No, my son user is going to take me home", and I was the only one that showed up to take him home, I was happy to know that my father trust me.