Ok Sup Forums. I need advice

Ok Sup Forums. I need advice.
I've been married for 15 years.
I found out last week my wife has cheated on me with 5 guys in the last 14 months.
We have children and admittedly let day to day life drag us down.
We have trouble communicating.
She had a troubled upbringing and has a hard time talking about her feelings.
Our sex life tanked about 10 years ago, went from regular sex to infrequent and uninspired.
I'd try to talk and suggest counseling and she brushed it off.
In the last year she's been meeting guys in hotels and fucking them. She has admitted to having an interest in BDSM. She wants to be dominated and was ashamed to admit this to me.
When faced with me leaving, she fell apart. She cried for days and begged me to forgive her.
She's shared details and is willing to do anything to regain my trust.
She's given me open access to all of her accounts, social media and surrendered her phone to me.
I believe I have uncovered every indescretion and they sync with what she's told me.
She was terrible at hiding things.

Question is, do I go for it or leave her?
She's a great mother and I feel she's being sincere.
But, she basically fucked half the state.

Pic semi related. Looks just like her pussy

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YOU ARE A CUCK

You haven't uncovered everything. She only told you the stuff she knew you'd find. She won't stop.
You've bought into the "women aren't at fault for cheating" idea hook line and sinker.
You won't and can't ever trust her again. Your options are get out now or get used to literally being cucked.

In all seriousness, just know that if you beleive her 100% go for it. If even a smudge of distrust is there, fucking leave. It make your kids stronger and if you try hard enough they will come with you. Of course it sounds like you domt want her to self harm so that might be our of the question. And I know this was a basic ass answer but it'd realistically the best one you're able to get

OP voted for Hilary.

Become her dom, don't let her get away with anything, take control of her life and sex life. Like, try and enjoy sex so she does again. She cheats again? Out the fucking door.

I'm not saying let her get away with all the previous cheating, she still needs punishment for that and I'd say that's what she wants. Stop letting yourself be cucked and take your marriage back.

It's really up to you. Can you ever get over it, and do you really think you can ever trust her again?

Only stay if she gives you permission to fuck whoever you want, whenever you want; it's only fair. (At least until you get up to the same count she had, anyways.)

Get counseling. Analyze what needs to be done and have a serious discussion with her. Let her know that it's not about her or just you two, it's the family she's hurting. Changes need to be made to save the family. If she still flakes out. Leave

how old are the kids

Kill yourself op. The world is already full of cucks

Suck his dick to establish dominance

He'll never catch up because she won't stop fucking everything that moves.
Sluts can't be reformed.

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She threw it all away. You will never be able to fully trust her, and any small argument will be amplified by this painful memory. It is 100% her fault, and you are not to blame, don't let her guilt trip you. Leave her, make it clear that this was her choice, and she choose one night stands over your family.

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the least you could do is post her nudes for revenge you cuck

if she did one time she will do again, be a fuckin man,
sex life was not good for you too, but you didn't cheat, she had her choice

Well OP, you can have the option of having an open relationship where you can fuck other chicks

Leave her. Broke it off with my girl for much less. Fuck her best girlfriend and get even. have some fucking self worth user

On second thought...
You're not going to listen to any of this advice. The fact that you're even considering staying shows that this manipulative cumt will convince you to stay and she'll continue to do this shit.
Enjoy the taste of other guys' cocks for the rest of your life.

but he has kids

>shes a great mother
>will stop at nothing to ruin a marriage

Do what you honestly belive is right, but do one fucking thing user.

Think. Of. The. Fucking. Children.

Whatevers best for them, don't change how you treat them or tear them away from their mother, but don't give up on them yourself.

So fucking what!?
This mentality is the exact reason bitches do this shit. They know dudes will stay though their bullshit "for the kids".

Oh and make her fucking know what she did. She coulda asked to do things to spice sex up. She went behind your back and fucked otherw, don't give her a free pass. She would go ballistic at you if it were vice versa. Punish her, let her know she did something unforgiveable.

And? I grew up without a traditional family and I'm fine to a point. Just because there not together doesn't mean it has to effect the kids. Staying together for the kids fucking kids up more then spiting

Start swinging. At least that way you get some new pussy since she is still going to get strange dick. Or leave her and find some strange to nail.

>Staying together for the kids fucking kids up more then spiting
are you sure? I am actually debating this right now as I have 2 kids and am in a similar situation.

My problem is not that wife is cheating on me but that she stopped cooking and cleaning and doesn't want to be a housewife or get a job she's just fucking lazy now.

Fuck id tell the kids that "mommy was out trying to replace me" and then id be out of there immediately. Id make sure the kids saw how sad I was and that they knew their mom didn't care about the family.

Lawyer at her door the next day with demands for custody, child support, and that she forfeit her claim to a 50/50 split. Bitch like that can't afford the legal battle.

It's time to go, bro.

There are times when you leave because staying is the chump thing to do. Usually that's when you're young and have no children, though other situations do exist.

Then there are times when leaving is what a chump would do. That's when you have kids in the mix.

You don't have to love your wife. You don't have to be faithful. You don't have to ever touch her again. But you can be civil towards her, at least enough to raise children. This is possible for most people once they accept that the arrangement is the noble thing to do for your kids. Also because it allows you to fuck whomever you please.

I'd suggest reconciling enough to raise children. Don't worry about whether or not shes being faithful. She's not. Follow suit and have a good time all while knowing your kids don't have to grow up in a broken home with parents who treat them like weapons and posessions. Also, you wont be consumed by child support and alimony whilst you barely see your kids and your wife takes your home.

She admitted it to you, there are phone records proving it. Get her in a recording explaining everything to you then file for divorce, a barely sentient lawyer could get you everything and I can't think any judge would be inclined to rule against you.

A single affair is a long string of choices and she had quite a few from what you're saying. She could have stopped, chose not to, and is now afraid of losing her familiar home life. Whether or not she is finally starting to care about that or not is irrelevant, she made a lot of bad decisions and gets to live with them now.

After that? Try to explain what happened to your kids without trying to get them to hate their mother, on top of being a dick move you should be above a court won't look favorably on it. Then just try to move on and live your life in a way that is healthy for you and your children, answer questions they have as they grow up in an appropriate way to their age and just try to be the best man you can be. Show her how fucking wrong she was by coming out stronger than her.

Don't stay. Kids pick up on more shit than we give them credit for and they'll figure out something is wrong quick, eventually they'll learn what happened and if they learn from her she isn't going to portray you flatteringly.

This isn't a gender thing, it's a human thing, she's going to try and spite you because it's what angry people who know they were wrong do.

what would she do if she found out that you were cheating on her with a bunch of different chicks?

She was horrible at hiding things but yet, she cheated for 18 months? You are honestly better off dead. OP IS A CUCK

double team her with strangers. Might as well have fun with it

Stay with her until the children are old enough to understand then drop her asap

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>double team her with strangers. Might as well have fun with it

Your advice is for him to become an actual cuck? user is a CUCK. There is so much cuckolding going on. You fucking faggot

>Get her in a recording explaining everything to you then file for divorce, a barely sentient lawyer could get you everything and I can't think any judge would be inclined to rule against you.

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA

The judge will rule in favor of the woman and the children. Even if she cheated with tyrone and is a drug addicted crack whore it doesn't fucking matter 1 cent.

United States family court system is 100% biased towards women. She will get the kids, the house, and half or more of everything. I know several people that have been through this exact situation.

Judges aren't bound by any contract or agreement or any "evidence" he might have.

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You will never be able to fuck her again without the thought of another guys cock in her. You will never be ablt to look at her face without the knowledge that another guy has jizzed on it while she should have been with you. If you can live with that, stay. I know I couldn't and that's why I left the whore who did that to me. The kids will be better off with 2 seperate parents who love them rather than a mom and dad who hate each other

>You will never be able to fuck her again without the thought of another guys cock in her. You will never be ablt to look at her face without the knowledge that another guy has jizzed on it while she should have been with you. If you can live with that, stay. I know I couldn't and that's why I left the whore who did that to me. The kids will be better off with 2 seperate parents who love them rather than a mom and dad who hate each other

OP will stay because he is a CUCK. Strong advice from user CUCK.

Hard to answer, I just broke it off with someone I was seeing yesterday because they cheated on me, the whole reasoning was that they defined a relationship's foundation off intimacy, but in her case sex, i'm seeing a lot of the same bullshit here. Your call honestly, if I was married for as long as you it'd be a tough choice.

CUCK

No I said fuck her with other guys not sit at home crying while she fucks them.

Hows about you explain why you think that? I'm sharing my thoughts off my experience, if I was a cuck I would've stayed with the slut.

Leave her, but don't just leave her, make your kids hate her. Convince them that she's the reason why your leaving her, tell them every detail on what she did and how terrible of a person she is. Then tell her parents and siblings the same. Let them all know how much of a whore she is and then leave, disappear without a trace, perferably with the kids. Her life will be in so much disrepair that every one of her future relationships will know what she did. That is what you must do.

Evaluate your feelings on the marriage continuing - is that what you want?

Get counselling to try to sort this all out and see if its salvageable (it is in general)

keep her on a short leash for a while.

Get away from the kids, talk about and have sex.

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>Hows about you explain why you think that? I'm sharing my thoughts off my experience, if I was a cuck I would've stayed with the slut.

You miss her dont you FAGGOT?

Life is short. Be a good dad. Leave the slut. Hit the Gym. Move to Florida. Find work. Fuck bitches. Get the kids during breaks and during the summer. Learn to fish for patience and reflection.

Sit down before you hurt yourself, newfag clown

If you still love her, and you trust that she was entirely honest with you when she apologize, than you should stay, for the sake of your children.
But there is no woman who has the guts to cheat with 5 men and is still bad at hiding things. She could be hiding a lot more shit. And if you think she is, just get out the fucking door. It's not like the kids will me traumatized for life if you get a divorce.

fat disgusting pig lol

She may be the mother of your children, but the fact is dude...she cheated on you.
Fucked in the head or not, she still proved disloyal.
There is a very large chance that once you get things up and running again, that she will get comfortable, feel herself get into a drag again, and cheat on you once more.

also: how sure are you that the kids are yours? For all you know it could have been someone else's spawn that you have taken care of for all those years while presuming that it is your own.

Yes, this will take a toll on the kids, but in the end you need to take yourself into account as well.

Consider your next steps carefully my man.

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>If you still love her, and you trust that she was entirely honest with you when she apologize, than you should stay, for the sake of your children.
>But there is no woman who has the guts to cheat with 5 men and is still bad at hiding things. She could be hiding a lot more shit. And if you think she is, just get out the fucking door. It's not like the kids will me traumatized for life if you get a divorce.

Dont listen to this beta advice. user just wants you to be a cuck and let a bunch of chads run train on your bushpig of a wife.

>It make your kids stronger
Lmfao kids of divorced parents turn out like shit

This thread is some of the most cuck shit I have ever seen. The world is at an all time low. OP needs to genuinely kill himself. His kids will be better off without a father then with a cuck for a dad.

You and your wife should probably get counselling . if you feel that way. but most importantly think of your children. they probably want their parents to stay together

Hope this helps OP

Wow, that's some amazingly bad advice. NEVER use your children in that way, that would really fuck them up even more than she is doing already

>she wants to be dominated and is into bdsm

Then why don't you pop 2 viagras and take out all of your hate and frustration on her? Tie her up, whip the shit out of her while saying "are you going to stray again?" And make her say "no Daddy". Tie her down and put a vibrator on her clit and watch her squirm. Turn your hatred into something great. Don't let other dudes fuck your woman, show her what 10 years of pent up sexual frustration looks like. Do whatever you want, just get some ass whatever you do. 10 years is way too long man. Not even on your birthday?

Break up.

Says the 14 year old virgin

This happened to an ex of mine and she ended up hating both her parents and became emotionally unavailable

It's over op, if you stay you're giving her the greenlight to do this shit to you again.

If it was one time then, maybe, just MAYBE it could have been salvageable. Keep it mind that this little "mistake" takes many steps, from going behind your back, flirting, getting to this guy's house, getting fucked. And then all the covering up.

But she has established a pattern of behavior. She won't stop at fucking other men, she never intended to stop fucking other men until you found out. She will only get better at hiding it.

For all the people saying "Think of the kids", well then, think of the kids growing up in a cold, dysfunctional household. She will cheat, you WILL hate her for it and she'll get more bold as both of you care less and less for each other.

Cut your ties and let both of you be in your children's lives but separately. It's best for all parties.

This. Enslave that whore. For the children.

This. Worked with a guy who finally got custody of his daughter after 3 years of proving over and over his ex was doing hard drugs and couldn't hold a job. The courts don't work in the best interest of the child

Leave that girl bit worth it. It just takes one time for her to sleep with someone, get an STD, and bring it home for you and possibly your kids to catch. Not worth it my dude. Just make sure you get custody of your kids because single father's rock and your kids don't need to see momy bringing home weirdos or being left alone while she's out and about at the hotel.

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Take here to an isolated low travel area shoot her in the back off her head take all valuable from the corpse and burn them in a different area. Call ppl that she would normally talk to. Ask if they have seen her. Call police after a day or so.


Important things to do:
Come up for a reason take her there. Tieing up or making her passport leaves evidence. Leave your cellphone at home. Avoid areas with security cameras. Come up with believable alibi, and stick to it,

Extra points: place her cell on a semi truck with different state plates


Or if you're not a psychopath
Just stop working to spend more time with the kids divorce her, act like sad sod in court, take half of her stuff.

You're already a cuck for entertaining the idea of keeping a whore in your house

I stayed. I regret it every fucking minute of every fucking day. I am planning my escape at the moment. In a year my youngest starts Jr high and I am bailing

Leave her. You will never be able to forgive her.

Ditch the cheating whore ASAP

For the sake of the kids you should try and stick around for as long as you can but you sir are at the start of the biggest mind fuck of your life. You will have mind blowing sex for the first 1 to 3 months then it's all downhill from there. It's gonna eat away at you in the cruelest ways. Good luck and stay strong for the children.

This, it is slow motion suicide.

OP isn't going anywhere and his wife isn't going to stop the shit. This same cycle will continue until the slut just doesn't desire sex at all anymore.

dump her

Don't listen to the children, OP. You have kids, they are likely around the age of the general population here. And they are likely damaged from having only one parent. Don't do that to your kids.

Now, onto what you should do: it really depends on what you want. She will likely cheat again if you don't fulfill her needs in bed. And you want to get some, anyway. So here are some options:

1. Find out everything she likes in bed. Everything. And then hope you're into the same things, or can be. Or anything that doesn't match up is not a big deal. Make sure you also get all your own depraved sexual needs covered in the deal, too.

2. If that doesn't work, and you're set on making things with her work, open the relationship. She'll cheat anyway, so you may as well make it not cheating. Then you get to fuck whoever you want, too. Make sure you actually do some extensive reading about this first though. Make sure you both have good ground-rules set-- it can go really bad really fast if you don't.

3. If you're too pissed off to make that work, or it's not your thing, start treating her like the slut she is. Be her only dom, don't allow anyone else. But set her up to get fucked indiscriminately by others. Don't set her up with very desirable people, only overweight balding neckbeards in their forties-- no one that's 'better' than you. Make her feel worthless, at least as far as sex goes. Control every aspect of her sex life. Don't give her a choice. Then, when you completely own her, you can choose to do whatever you want. If you're still pissed off, dump her. If it made you feel better, either keep it going or phase into something else. Realistically, though, this is probably what she's looking for.

Leave her if she won't commit to therapy. You guys can't survive without healthy communication.

Take screen shots, everything you know and destroy her in court, get full custody of the kids and never speak to the whore again, once a cheater always a cheater.

Courts give zero fucks about cheating.

>She will likely cheat again
Should've ended the sentence right there. The bitch will make any excuse for her cheating and the fact that she can't own up and take responsibility for it proves it. For fucks sake, stop letting women get away with blaming men for being sluts.

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Stay with her, fuck other women.

Problem solved. Best of luck.

Guarantee you She's doing this bc one of her fuck buddies has feelings for her and threatened to tell you everything if She doesn't. She's coming clean before her fuck buddy says something first. Seen it happen more than once. Now she's able to put everything on puase and think about who she wants more If you end up forgiving her.

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Here you go, OP:
>tell her she has to make your fantasy come true if you're going to stay
>tell her that she has to fuck a dog while you take video
>post it on Sup Forums
>???
>profit

cheats on you = you fucking leave her