Why does heartbreak suck so badly? And how can I get over it?

Why does heartbreak suck so badly? And how can I get over it?

Here ya go, op.

It's a fair point, but I've never been much of an optimist.

You forgot the best part :(

You're mourning a future you'd planned.

You're mourning the idea of the person you loved.

It's natural and you'll get over it.

I'm on the upslope mourning my own marriage and I feel more like me than I have in years. And have fucked a bunch of girls 5-10 yrs younger than me to boot. You too will get over this, user. You're never more than 5 pussies/dicks from being over someone.

The big thing is though, I don't think I'll ever find someone that makes me feel how they do.

You won't.

You really won't.

Every person is different. You might well find someone better but you DAMN well will find someone different. It's hard to see now, but it's true.

They're the only person I've ever met that made me feel... like, appreciated. They don't love me like I love them, but they still tell me they love me, as a friend. It makes me feel loved.

You can realize that women are all the same shit in different packages.

Then you're capable of love and being loved, user. There are 7 billion people out there. More of them are compatible with you than you think.

I guess it doesn't help that I'm more beta than 90 percent of the people on the board.

Given the shit ton of betas here, you're more alpha than an ass load of people by your own admission.

But I'll let you in on a hard won secret: alpha and beta people don't exist. Whatever you like, be into it. Don't judge yourself against society. Do you and be shamelessly you. That is alpha as fuck and people will respond.

I think maybe I just need to be more confident, then? I don't know, I just don't think I'm appealing, is all.

Trying to be appealing is missing the point. Be healthier for YOU. Be into hobbies YOU are into. Get better at your studies or career for YOU. Love interests will eat that shit up. But only if you value your own damn self.

I hate being by myself. I can watch anime, play WoW, do whatever all day, but that doesn't change the fact that I have to do it alone. I guess I'm just weak like that.

You can't get over it. You're going to feel like this forever. FOREVER. You'll never feel love again. No matter what good things happen to you, you'll always feel sad and angry. KILL YOURSELF.

How did you meet the last one?

This thread is fucking gay...
On one hand its nice that user is helping another user but its fucking gay.
Stop crying over someone you lost, or cry and waste time. Simple

Over WoW.

Yeah, I know, it's pathetic we met over WoW. Sue me.

Then keep doing that, or try a hobby or meet someone out in the world. When you're most authentically you you're most able to be authentically with someone else.

Helping user here. Thanks for thinking it's nice. Yeah, it'd be nice if everyone had their shit together, but they don't. Be glad you have yours somewhat together breh.

South Park can get real deep sometimes.

Also am surprised to see so many Anons encouraging OP.

that's... an interesting way to put it. I never thought of it like that. I suppose I can try
And, thank you. I appreciate the words, Sup Forumsro

Have lived a long while, user. If it helps you out a bit, I'm glad.

It does. I'm going to try and just... move on. It'll be hard, but I still have to try.


Anyone else have anything to share? Anything they need help with?

You do you, user.