Girlfriend of the last 12 years told me last night that while she was at work...

girlfriend of the last 12 years told me last night that while she was at work, talking with a colleague about "soul and personal development", another coworker, a guy, just sent her an email telling how bad he felt about himself and his looks, his issues for being fat and bullied during his childhood & so on. then they started an email conversation she felt very constructive, even told me some bullshit about how good she felt now, seeing her life goals of helping and being meaningful to others were starting to happen. when i told her how pathetic the whole thing was and that i didn't really feel ok about her replying to a random beta that didn't even have the guts to talk to her, chatting by email during work, she simply told me i was wrong and that she saw nothing wrong in that, also that she would never stop talking to the new found friend.

is that normal and i'm being an insecure asshole or should i dump her?

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lmao, should have trained your bitch to ignore all social interactions

Is that normal? Yes
Are you an insecure faggot? Yes
Should you dump her? Yes

>i'm being an insecure asshole or should i dump her?
The fact that you asked the latter makes the former true.

Email guy is a loser
Girlfriend is a good person
OP is a stupid asshole

Break up with her.

Dump her. She is going to at least have that guy as some sort of beta friendzone biatch who will cock block you in the future somehow.

Yup.

b-but that would be so time consuming

investing time and psychological resources on a girl you are interesting in is a waste? no

that's why you don't do it on random bitches.
anyway it takes me from 2 to a week to turn them into that, at the end of the week they will know that talking to another dude will have consequences and they just stop doing so.

Why would you do that

meh. would i be a double stupid asshole if accessed her email and forwarded their conversation to the maximum number of people possible? it's a work email of a national communications company with a few thousand users. worked there, have the password.

does anyone else have the password as well?

See, if you have to beat someone to get their obedience, you may be better off alone.

Triple.

why not? worth it. bitch will be scared of getting you mad and will be extra careful.

you are retarded.

i don't beat anyone. they just have to understand that if "A" leads to "B" they just need to stop doing "A" to prever "B"

man, i did it, or tried to.
i even pulled away her abusive father to whom she had a strange "love-hate" thing in the beginning..
but truth is, it's probably impossible to succeed always at that.

>girlfriend of 12 years

string her along a little more homo

only herself that i know of.

you did it wrong.

don't you ever manipulated your dad when you were a kid? well this is like that but you use "feelings" to boost the manipulation

Eh. Idk but being single and maybe hooking up occasionally sounds way easier.

You're actual garbage.

You're an insecure asshole.

She either wants to be with you, and will be, or she doesn't want to be and will dump you.

Now grow up and be happy that your girlfriend is a caring type, and hope that she doesn't realise what a jerk you are and dumps you.

This

You wouldn't do it you pussy.

This is complete bullshit. How do you sleep at night knowing you make up shit on an anonymous site?

Christ you're insecure as all hell user.
>Grow some fucking balls

Mental manipulation isn't an abuse, just a prevention.

What she gonna do? Show scars on her mind to the judges?

They can always quit, however they choose to leave their social lifes instead because "I love them and want the best for them".

>is that normal
Yes.

>i'm being an insecure asshole
Yes.

>should i dump her?
Yes, she deserves someone better.

You're being incredibly insecure. Do you think she's going to cheat on you with this fat goon from her work? There's literally no rational reason for you to be upset about this. Start worrying when starts fucking other people.

it's not. now, go back to the trap or shit log thread, fuckwad.

It'll be fine. Just get her to poop herself and clean her up. Do it.

>Implying manipulating people is wrong.
Enjoying your morals buddy?

>Start worrying when she starts fucking other people.
That's probably a little too late to worry, don't you think?

>she can't prove it in court so I'm not doing anything wrong

i tend to agree, but would like more user opinions.

digging for gold.

It depends were you turned on at all by the situation

Again, they can quit and break up with me if they want.

They don't do it so it's not my fault.

no, replying to the wrong post, lol

She's aware of her double standard and will wield it.

If my old lady of 5 years herd that I was talking with another women to help her with her problems she would have a huge fucking problem with it.

Just give her the benefit of the doubt in this, she's looking for a reaction.

Don't give her the one she wants. One of two things will happen, she will it doesn't bother you and cling to you out of fear of losing you.

Or she will do something stupid like a fucking spiteful chick.

In any event, you want to come out on top.

If you break up, at least you won't be the crybaby beta faggot who played into her stupid drama.

You could walk away dominate and guilt free.

>12 years
>Girlfriend
>Implying this isn't a ploy to make you jealous and propose

I agree
user should let the guy dominate him and leave his Gf so he can be the little bitch he's always dreamed of being.
If one beta can make him spiral out of control like this then he's the beta and needs to accept his role in the grander scheme of it all, by being a cum dumpster to daddy's cock.

You're being insecure and showing her that you have trust issues, and worse, that you have no faith in her. She will start to resent you if you try to restrict her freedom as far as who she's allowed to talk to. Why should she spend time with an insecure guy with trust issues? If you feel confident in your relationship, there's no reason to suspect her of cheating. And if she does end up cheating, then you're better off without her anyway.

no. maybe i'm an insecure faggot, but not a cuck

This

That's not how a normal human brain works

Most great relationships involve calling your girlfriend pathetic.

You'll go far my friend.

interesting. thanks.

Good.

I don't want people doing the same and stealing my methods.

Agreed
>100%

Manipulated women stay in the relationship but always end up cheating with some boytoy
>It's nature

>Manipulated women stay in the relationship but always end up cheating with some boytoy

Manipulated=/=Controlled

here, a girlfriend of many years that lives and pays taxes together with you isn't much different from a wife.

>a normal human brain

Are you lost friend?

>actually worried about being cucked by a beta
What does this say about YOU though, OP?

If hes a beta why the fuck are you worried?

Unless you are also a beta in which case this guy is genuine competition.

I was referring to whoever the poor girl is that this user is manipulating

>literally Stockholm Syndrome levels of gaslighting someone is perfectly acceptable
Sociopath, Psychopath, or just extremely narcissistic?

Manipulation is a form of control user...

I have a ton of real life experiences with many different types of females.

Honestly you are over thinking it, I would just go take her somewhere fun and make occupy her time so she doesnt wana message that loser.

Benefit of the doubt unless shes done something bad before.

Also you referred to the guy she emails a beta but you have yet to confront him and hes talking to your girl.. isn't he the alpha in this situation? Tell him to fuck off.

My Gf had some stalker creep calling her and texting her. she was getting annoyed so i called him up and told him to fuck off. It worked.

This

Stop being 14 years old.

What are you, autistic? You shouldn't look to control her life. And how much do yoy actually care about her if you're considering dumping her over THIS?

Do get a bigger trophy for the triple threat?

Not if done right, passive manipulation has no damage on the relationship and you are able to make it look like you really want the best for them without bein pushy or rude.

maybe i'm not a pure alpha, but not a poor, fat crybaby trying to hit co-workers. that said, i don't believe that dude to be serious competition. but it fucks me a bit to know shit like this happens and she's ok with it.

This.

What the fuck are you doing, OP? I would say marry her already, but you seem like a fag that honestly isn't mature enough for that.

>Not if done right
>done right
>right

Why "Dump her"? WTF dude. You've been together 12 years. And because of one betaboy who needs some encouragement. And your GF actually being sweet enough to give him that. You are thinking of dumping? That sounds so childish man! Is this kek or are you seriously such jealous manchild?

chill dude, you can always play with her mind and go with the "hey babe, so I was thinking about yesterday and I'm sorry for overreacting" then play the "but how would you react if I were in your shoes and some random girl texted me about how insecure she's with her weight and looking for my approval"

i don't even know the dude irl,
we moved recently to this town and she is the "new" colleague here. also, she told it to me last night.

anyway, the fat ass that tries to hit on the new chick by telling her, by email, when they are physically pretty close, that he has issues with his past fat and present belly... fuck lol

OP stop samefagging
>Also are you retarded enough to rely on an anecdote?

me

This guy is pretty good. Just do this faggot

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Been in the same situation but I handled it differently OP.

>In relationship with girl for a few years
>One day she comes home to tell me
>" Hey user there is this user who is having a rough time and I figured I'd be a shoulder for them "
>" Okay babe, call me on your way home, be safe, let me know how it went "
>Go back to doing what I was doing
>She's stares at me
>" Soooo..you don't care user?
>" Care about what anonette? "
>" Me going to see this guy "
>" Sure you said you were going to help him with issues "
>" What if I was going to sleep with him "
>Stare blankly at her
>" Is that what you are going to do anonette? "
>" No! But it just seems like you don't care ! "
>" I didn't think I needed to anonette "
>" You don't but at least act jealous or something user good! "
>" That's stupid anonette because you would be pissed if I told you couldn't go also "
>She crosses her arms throws her purse down and sits in the couch
>" Forget it I don't want to go now "
>" Okay babe, hungry? "

She kept playing her games until she left me for some other bitch boy who would.

Shes still comes to fuck me every now and again.

They want a reaction from you, good or bad, it doesn't matter what you choose.

So remain stoic and make her think she shes better off with you by acting like her shit doesn't bother you and you have options.

so you suggest me to keep her, no matter what.. revenge?

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Okay dude just chill out and play it cool. Best thing to do is go on Rubmaps.com make an account and find a asian whore to get sucked off or fuck. That way you win either way. she has like a .05% chance of fucking that fat dude... way i see it if she cheats emotional u can do it physically. This is something i personally wouldnt do because i love my gf, but u know since u mentioned breaking up with her over this you have nothing to lose my friend!

that wasn't my reply.

You went about it wrong. Its not her place or job to be there for him. You are correct. But, its all about phrasing. It sounds innocent. But, she should avoid even the appearance of it not being. She was open and didn't keep it from you. But in the end, it should stop.

Leave, summerfag

Thanks I've been doing these since I was 15. (Only lost control over the brainwashing 2 times causing them to kill themselves when I started).

>Revenge
Haha, you are dumb.
If you take any personal action with the guy you will fuck it and turn into the bad guy inmediately.

Just go with the shit i said, then play the "i'm not telling you what to do babe, but i would always listen to you because i really really love over anybody else... but maybe i love you more than you do"

op here, this looks solid, but i'm not convinced would work out this way with my gf.

anyway, acting blasé while keeping a lot of options looks ok.

also, i had that sweet sweet fuckfriend i stopping seeing "for her" that still lives here.

>They want a reaction from you, good or bad, it >doesn't matter what you choose.

Only insecure girls do this. Get yourself a real woman who will appreciate the freedom you allow her, and you won't have to deal with that crap.

Hands down the best advice here. It's alpha, it shows confidence and it will make her want you because she will be afraid of loosing you.
OP do this.

yes, it's interesting, but she will friendzone the fat ass and, who knows, there will come the day for him to visit us. yuck.

Don't have that fat fuck over to your house unless he is gay. It will be awkward as hell

visit your gf on her workplace.
pee on the doors
show your dominance

You should date the beta

Yeah and piss in the fat guys face to... Fucking inbred

Triple threat isn't possible, while narcissism is a given in either of the first two.

Catfish him

Make him fall in love with you

Leave girlfriend

Go gay with him

but that would make me look even a bigger douche than forwarding their conversation to "everyone" or simply beating the fuck out of that acorn.

Well I get the three because I'm special.

get the whole email conversation and pictures of the faggot and post everything here

THISSSSSS

You, sir are fucking insecure. Never breed

not in english. also, if i happen to cross that path, it will be better to expose his faggotry to his co-workers while making her liable of getting her corporate email "compromised".

it would be a shit storm, but the keks.. the keks..

my girls have got 5 abortions because I told them to.

maybe I should stop aborting them

Well clearly you're an insecure controlling douche.

Ypu like your gf because you feel she's inferior and like her being dependent on you, but the moment she begins to feel some self worth you piss your panties and try to crush her spirit.

Obviously the best thing for all parties is to take out a million dollar insurance policy that leaves the crux to your gf and then take a bath with a plugged in toaster or high dive off the top floor of a building with at least 12 stories.

However, if you were to man up and fix yourself a nice bleach & ammonia cocktail, it would show at least that you weren't a totally faggot and that you took into consideration the mess people would have to clean up after you when you were gone.

The plus side here is your gf would see you in a completely different light and that my faggot friend, would last forever.

This is me.
I was joking..
First, don't forward the conversation, that's a horrible idea, it will make you look like a little angry child with his computer.
Second, don't fight the guy for no reason that's just stupid and might get you jail time, in which case she will leave. Just follow what user told you earlier. Done deal, have fun.

You're insecure

no, she would move on and remember me with pitty.
also, i'm not fat, poor or impotent. why the fuck a hero?