Any tips to last longer in bed, guys?

Any tips to last longer in bed, guys?

I find it pretty difficult to go longer than 10-15 minutes without cumming and it's quite embarrassing to not be able to last longer...

Serious question and all tips are much appreciated! :)

One dramamine and a shot of rum and I'm in bed for 8+ hours.

Dramamine? What exactly is that, bro?

Fap an hour before.

Take brief breaks and gently squeeze your junk.

Yeah, that's actually a pretty good tip but sometimes hard to do if you're with the girl all day, before hand haha

I like to Count. 11 2 3 5 8 13 etc
Works everytime

Jerk off a lot, get a blister that turns to a callus and then you have less nerves. I can't even cum unless a girl licks my ass

Alternate, you fool.

Hmmm... that's a new one! May try that in future :)

Most men last 5 to 8 mins so if your doing 10-15 your more than fine

Why? What would be the point? I'm there to bust. Sooner I bust, sooner I'm back on the internets

Drink a lot, when you have to pee you can fuck forever. Trust me

Kek

Like user said, alternate. And don't forget to take a breather now in a while. Just stop, breathe, kiss her, get your focus straight and continue. If she is on top? Just ask her, give me a few seconds. She won't mind. She might even like it because she can let you cum. But you choose to continue.

I mean, giving her oral and foreplay extends it too. Don't buy into the 60 minute porn videos where the guy just never seems to have problems giving up. They cut the camera a lot, sometime's you'll actually see the cum in the shot lol. Some porn scenes take days to shoot.

I love answers like this that are genuinely helpful. Thanks, bro! This is a good one!

I do a few different things:
1) always have a couple drinks
2) switch to positions that are less stimulating (I'm a goner in doggy style so it's a finishing position)
3) I'll have internal debates to take my mind off things
4) foreplay. While foreplay doesn't increase how long you last, it increases the session.
5) figure out a way to jerk off earlier in day

Tips from traditional chinese medicin:
>Breath in deeply.
or
>By pulling your scrotum slightly down, your Qi flows back into your stomach, you dick gets a bit softer, but the Qi will come back stronger.
or
>Numb your penis by smashing it against your leg (beforehand on the loo for example).

You have to be careful with getting your mind off the sex, you could go soft.

Method 1: take some speed
Method 2: stop from time to time to kiss her or bite her neck or whatever doesn't look like "I need a rest" but looks like "imma gonna sex this shit up"
Method 3: fap furiously before you fuck her

Brilliant tips, guys! I like the one where you said have internal debates! I try to think of sad things but it hasn't been working.

I also like tip of numbing your penis somehow, that's a good idea!

wat does alternate mean exaclty

That honestly sounds comfy as fuck.

To switch positions, bro :)

Virginia detected

Weed.

10-15 mins is ok

Trick is to make the girl not take as long. Lots of foreplay. Make her cum before u stick it in.

See, if I was smoking weed, I'd be too stoned to even fuck properly haha

Change position, rhythm, speed. You think you are really close to blowing your load. Just stop, lower pace and change. Get a blow job, lick her. It doesn't matter.

We are al under the impression we have to keep working that pussy with our dicks. Girl love to take the time. Want to last longer? Take your fucking time.

You think so?

Yeah, foreplay is a must for me as well, to get me extra hard

I've tried all of these even jacking off less than thirty minutes before fucking and I still don't last over 2 minutes. Fml.

Must be some really good pussy that you're fucking, that's one thing to consider!

Bait post, virgin replies.
Average man only lasts 3-8mins full force fuck before he cums, unless on drugs or very poor cutfag insensitivity.

my wife doesn't take any birth control and I rarely use condoms, so i guess this method is not good fo me right?

After that sweat comes

OP here and nope, it's not bate. The reason I think 10-15 mins isn't good is because I used to watch a lot of porn that lasted more than an hour and I thought: "that's the way it needs to be", but a lot of people are telling me that in the real world, 10-15 minutes is pretty good.

I start with blowing my first fast load down her throat, then I go down on her til im hard again

gets her super wet and Definitely satisfied and I can then beat her guts til she needs a break or til my hips/thighs ache

You think OP wants to be average? He is here to excel. He knows he shouldn't pound for 8 minutes straight in one position.

Fuck you got me with your silly post.

Thats stupid would you like to keep sticking your spagetthi after you cum?

Yeah, that's something I might try. Get the first load out of the way quickly but keep playing with her till I'm hard again and THEN go at it!

Don't. You will enjoy less. Not worth it.

So close to a quint :/

This, guys, is one of those who just wanna cum soon doing the doggy style.

Constantly rhythmically pumping? I don't even last a minute ...

start fapping with a tighter grip
i do it with a tight grip and can go for hours if i want

Great advice /s

Lyrica. It makes it so you dont cum.

also i saw someone mention foreplay
finger her and eat her out for like 20 mins too
when switching positions just fanny about for like a min and your excitement will die down
its works ma dude, can also finish in 5 mins too kek

20 minutes sounds too excessive. 10 minutes is more reasonable.

also, dont fap beforehand unless its like 6 hours before or whatever
fapping an hour before is a bad idea IMO

haha I enjoy it so 20 mins is fine for me
dont mind even longer if im into it
obviously a one night stand doesnt get eaten out, fuck that shit

Use your mouth

Idiot. Lyrica makes you loose sex drive, too, no libido. What does it help to not orgasm if you have no interest I. Fucking anymore

that looks like a really fucked up bloody eye

Try lasting 20 seconds you lucky bastard.

Lmao

I memorize the rekt thread and I go over the posts in my mind while I'm fucking.
The hard part is trying not to laugh when you remember a good one.

But here's the sad truth. Eather you fuck and enjoy or you think about something else and last.

You know what, bro? Of all answers so far, that may actually be the funniest, yet best idea so far haha.

Yeah, it's kinda of a bittersweet thing,bit's hard to truly decide which is best.

Didn't know this but easy to believe.

Women: "Porn is so degrading to women! REAL women don't look like that!"

How do you think it makes guys feel, when I see a dood with a 12 inch dick go for a whole hour?

My girlfriend sucks my dick almost every day so I'm less sensitive during sex. We end up fucking for an hour or 2 usually

I think I would have to be deep in thought to go limp with a girl on top of me. I would go so deep in thought I would forget she's there

>you will enjoy it less
>you will enjoy blowing 2 loads less than 1
Huh? Its not like cumming makes your next orgasm less enjoyable, I find it makes it better if anything.

Why? You came. Fuck a bitch

Easy with the grip though. If its too tight and you get used to it, sex will suck unless the bitch is also tight as hell.

>fap
Why do that. Don't you want to save as much of your glorious seed for her

10 - 15 is fine. The average time is actually about 5 minutes(google it).

You just fuck her a second time. I doubt girls care how many times you ejaculate in one night.

Honestly what's wrong with cumming early? It's not like the little fellas all tuckered out after one go. I can cum, keep fapping and sometimes cum again and still stay hard for another hour of beating it to my weird stuff. Is cumming early like farting on her face during a 69 or is it because most men lose wood after cumming. Never knew why though

Don't think about sad things or shit, otherwise sex will end up being something you hate. You have to kill anxiety in other orders of your life. Feng shui and a healthy diet took away my early ejaculation issues. Take a few drinks like user said before, switch positions a lot (as much as u need) and get in your mind that if you blow it up, there's always a second round. Chill your shit out, stop counting every second in bed and you'll get the confidence to fuck like a pro. Good luck user

When you feel you're going to cum soon, pull out aggressively and eat the girl out with a passion. She will enjoy it immensely and think you're alpha af

depends on how quick you can recover but sometimes I cum quickly at the beginning, and then the second time I can obviously last longer..

I have been having this issue more with my gf recently, I think because ive been doing that less, so definitely interested in others answer

also, if you arent already then try a condom?

Its because people watch a shitload of porn and think that lasting 30+ minutes is the standard

I have quite the opposite problem. Always takes a girl a fuck ton of time to get me off. Literally have to do Nofap for weeks before a girl can make me cum on her own.

>I like to Count.
>11 2 3 5 8 13 etc
You're shit at counting.

Doesn't that just ruin the horniness

You're gay

>before a girl can make me cum
that's because you're a faggot

I'm the same.

Only one position I can cum in and I gotta work for it.

My gf also takes ages to cum as well, she can't do it with penetration alone so I gotta rub her clit a bit

Lmaoooooo

not hard, tell her you go to the toilet for a dump and do it.

anyone try those fleshlight stamina training things? i considered getting one cause it's supposed to help with getting you used to sensitivity and apparently make you last longer.

It would be for me. Who wants to pound pussy for only 10 minutes? Pound it. Then grab some chocolate to melt on her tits. Shlick her off while you suck the chocolate goodness from her milk melons then go for another fucking. Then juice break and a few hits of weed. Then one more furious fucking

>juice break with a few hits of weed
you sound a lot like my nigga

What worked for me when I was young:

Fap until you are about to cum, but stop as close before as you are able. Wait a minute or so without touching your dick (or just stroke it very gently to not lose the erection. Repeat this for 30 minutes before shooting your load.

After doing this every other day for a month you should see a significant increase in control of your cumming.

It really works. I know it sounds stupid, but it gave me at least half an hour additional "standing power". It does hamper your ability to "just rub one out real quick" though.

Control blood flow to your penis by flexing the muscles in your upper legs. Your body doesn't have enough to run both, makes you slightly softer temporarily. Exercise your PC muscle. If it's strong enough you can put off ejaculation for a short while and it makes your ejaculation stronger. Long term effects for strengthening your PC muscle is it can prevent incontinence when your old.

you don't even cum untill a girl licks your ass? haha wtf

Lie.

Tried it with ex.
She got mad and asked "Why did you stop? Get it back there".

Speed and Alcohol. I can go for hours on that stuff, I'm horny as fuck and everything feels great. 10/10.

Or you could just wank 6-7 times the night before.

Not a fleshlight but slightly cheaper alternative. Can confirm it works. Or it was the butt plug that de sensetized me, who knows. Feelsgoodman, no homo. Also, make sure you get one that can take your whole dick, i didnt think i was that big but i was like an Inch and a half poking out the other side on the first one I bought. They feel great, not pussy great but infinitely better than a hand. I wish I bought one sooner. I gapped for a week with one and legit now last 20mins easy. I have to stop for breath rather than because I'm about to bust in her.

Nah, every girl I tried this on seemed down with it

Same thing happened to me with an ex but I think that's because she was close to cumming. If you were going hard, she may have been close, and you pulling out denied her the orgasm which made her mad.

I think it's a good move but you need to time it right brother

I used to last a long time with my ex, who was hot and skinny. I would edge a lot at nights which helped.
Sometimes I wouldnt fap for a couple days before seeing her, when I was at uni, and I would be so turned on when I saw her I would have rough sex with her for over an hour.
We both loved it when sex lasted a long time, and I would try and get her to cum a few times before I let myself.

I'm lucky enough to have a gf that can cum really fast from just intercourse so our sessions are literally like 5 min and we are both done. Every once in a while I'll drag it out though. Just gotta get good with knowing when to stop for a second but still be able to leave it in her and not blow, and fill those voids by deep kissing, neck kissing, whispering things in her ear wabout how good it is or how much you love her with a deep hot breathe, suck on tits, run hands up and down her and just lavish in her hot naked body's figure. You'll get there. I'm 30.

Step 1. Eat the pussy first.
Step 2. Don't worry about coming.
Step 3. That's it. Once I stopped counting the seconds until I came and just enjoyed it I lasted way longer. I realized it was the nervousness fucking em up.

Also, women like dominated and told what you want. Like if I just turn her around and bend her over the bed forcefully, or like the other day while she was sucking my cock before hand I was just like get up on the bed I wanna fuck you doggy style. Intensifies and brings her orgasm faster to be told or forced how you want it as long as it's not something she's totally against.

Lel

Fucking motion sickness pills wtf :')

This. Make her come or get her close before you stick it in.

>alpha
>eating a girl out
Kek