is it normal to fuck without getting a HJ or BJ first Sup Forums?
finally made out with and ate girl out (I'm 19) the other day.
she asked to fuck after i ate her out but my erection was on and off. shit was hot don't get me wrong, but I wasn't hard the whole time
but should i be hard from just that? might have been nerves as first time tho
>also general sex tips/advice
>is it normal to fuck without getting a HJ or BJ first Sup Forums?
yes. but if someone is like 'do this to me but i wont do this to you' thats not cool.
and welcome to having sex and being a guy, erections are never consistent
Oh dear child
Nothing to do with getting a BJ/HJ or not, I guess you were just anxious. Happened to me as well when my girlfriend and I had sex for the first time. Now that I'm comfortable with it I don't even request BJs anymore, I go straight to the pussy after some foreplay for her.
It is normal, but it depends. You might need at least some "help". I also was nervous first time, and well it didn't end well. Secound time was very good tho.
you're probably a porn user
that will fuck up your erections big time
youre a moron and "porn user" what a faggot
suffering from limpus phallus? porn use
it fucks up your brain
I had erection, on and off during
After we walked back and were kissing for ages I was rock hard and ready. Makes me think maybe nerves
Care to elaborate?
>wanting a woman to interact with your male organ
Check your privilege, bigot.
First times tend to go like that. I remember struggling to properly get condoms on initially because it would go down so quickly. It's just the nerves - eventually it becomes natural and it's easy.
That being said, eating a girl out doesn't guarantee you'll be hard. I think the concentration just kills boners a fair amount of the time
Just fuck the mattress while you're eating her.
Fuckin rookies.
We were on the beach bruh, that sand is coarse and rough, and irritating
Yea I was working my ass off, as I say afterward when we were kissing I was solid
Have to virgin it out a bit longer I guess
I mean having the bed against it helps but I really don't wanna seem like I'm fucking a mattress, for the sake of avoiding embarrassment
It's called a towel bruh
it's true, back when I was a kid (15) I watched shitty porn one time per week. When I was with a girl everything was fine.
Now, after watching porn pretty much every day for several years I can't get it up to real women. And they're not ugly, either. I usually pop a viagra and it's fine.
If you're doing your job right, she's not gonna worry about what you're doing with your pelvis
Good luck my friend. With practice comes less humiliation
Also watch out for leg cramps on your first time. I was going at it when I lost my virginity and boom my left leg locks up...painfully. Thankfully it wasn't the girl I was with's first time, so she rode me to completion. But damn that was embarrassing...
Without trying to sound like an internet faux-sexmaster, I'd say that I'm pretty good at oral, but even if I'm doing a stellar job I think the creaking of a bed will make my girlfriend open her eyes and see me fucking the bed
I didn't say straight up pound the shit. Just rub your dick on the mattress. Believe me I've done it plenty of times and it works just fine.
Thanks m8, wasn't embarrassing really tho, I know she enjoyed the oral
We had no protection so I gave that as a reason, she didn't even see my cock
I'm just disappointed in missed opportunity. No idea when the next will come, going back to boring life at home
I'll bear that in mind
If the opportunity comes again for unprotected then that's the better opportunity. Condoms are such a boner-killer, and with the added nerves it'll be a challenge. Don't worry man, the opportunity will come again soon enough
Yeah I hope so.
I've done first year uni but I'm shit at pulling in a club so had no luck there.
Want to fuck off on another holiday really
Same, starting 2nd year soon. Been with my girlfriend for over 2 years though so can't relate to clubbing experience. It seems like the practical way but it's always so loud and difficult to socialize
I fucking hate clubbing, makes me hate uni in general tbh. Most people do it, and it's shit for me as I don't dance
Compared to this night, sitting on the beach and drinking/smoking, thinking of dropping it all and moving to Spain
>welcome to having sex and being a guy, erections are never consistent
Idk how true the porn thing is, but since this happened I have no urge to watch it anymore, this was 10x hotter and I didn't even cum
I hate dancing too and standing there in a warm busy room with music so loud that you can't hear your own voice is just daunting. I only ever go out to the pub now, if people start heading to the clubs I just go home. I honestly can't think of a scenario I'd enjoy less
most girls I fucked hate BJ and usually give really bad HJ/BJ. I am really into eating pussy so I don't mind, most of the time, they will feel the pressure to give back and will suck my dick for a few minutes but not always, nothing to worry about.
Thanks, I'm wondering though, im feeling like complete shit now I've had to leave and can't see her anymore
Disappointed I didn't get to fuck, but also wondering if I'll always feel shitty because she was first for me.
Idk if I'll get over it (yeah yeah beta w/e, it was my first give me a break)
first time is overrated, I don't even remember the name of the first girl I fucked and I am doing perfectly fine. Don't overthink it, it's nothing special really.
From what I understand you did not actually fuck her because you could not get it up? Probably you're putting to much pressure on yourself, just live the moment, don't think about something that might stress you. If you have a fetish, think about that, it's all about getting through that first time. Also don't listen to all the retards talking about porn, I've been masturbating since as long as I can remember and never had problems but I just never gave a fuck.
It's weird I was drunk, I definitely was really hard at some parts. When she asked me I wasn't, so yeah that's the main reason
Was a little skeptical about whether she was on pill aswell, probs didn't help me
All I remember, also I did research (lol) on technique of other shit but not actual fucking so I felt decently confident with the other stuff
where do you get viagra?
the fuck kind of weak minded asshat are you? I guess I never really went off of the normie porn, but god damn how do you get yourself to that point?
>she asked to fuck after i ate her out but my erection was on and off. shit was hot don't get me wrong, but I wasn't hard the whole time
> but should i be hard from just that? might have been nerves as first time tho
performance anxiety mate, it happens. just relax next time. foreplay helps with that.