How do I get girls to like me? I'm tired of being so alone. I'm 5"10 a bit over weight and about a 4/10 in my opinion...

How do I get girls to like me? I'm tired of being so alone. I'm 5"10 a bit over weight and about a 4/10 in my opinion. I have a lot of low self-esteem, and never even had a girlfriend. I need help.

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It's better to give up and realize that some people die alone

Post a pic faggot

I would, but the self esteem is fucking terrible, that bad, I can't.

Stop giving a shit, it doesn't matter all. 0% of self esteem comes from someone else...

Listen to good music.

It's a numbers game and you have to have no standards whatsoever

Name some

Good point

gonna be hard but this is the best advice for you, gotta stop giving that much of a fuck, dont be sad, dont let yourself think negatively about yourself, do some pushups and curls if you want but self esteem and confidence are attractive, fake it till you make it OP. Once you find a way to do that shit youll see things change

realize that girls care about one thing: how you look. don't buy into that pickup art ignorant bullshit. everything else is secondary.

start with this:
>youtube.com/watch?v=EFnJMPQow7A

You have a long way to go but it'll never change unless you do something about it.

no one wants to hang out with a depressed, low self esteem, fat fuck.

until you improve YOURSELF and your SELF WORTH you wont get them to unless theyre in a worse state than you.

Talk to them

Not exactly be yourself but try picking out the shit that makes you weird observe them right, then try to avoid them all the characteristics that make you weird

look at people who get girlfriends emulate their fashion sense but in your own style such as combining shirts with your favorite colours and shit.

also emulating other peoples fashion will help you understand fashion.

lying is going to be your best friend lie to make you life a bit more extravagant, but not to glamorous

In case you didn't understand this I mean ask out any and every female until you get something

It helps to walk around like you're already taken. Imagine yourself a waifu and act like you're faithful which seems pretty much like confidence. And, eventually, it might be.

This

i never understood this mentality. Why would someone want to be around you when you dont even want to be around yourself? You have to improve yourself to a point where you are desirable in some regard. Money, looks, height, prestige, power, or another desirable trait. Without that, your chances are slim to none, and the slim will be low hanging fruit.

I've known people who do that, everyone thinks that they are fucking creeps. No one likes them

Underrated

Including strangers so they won't know about your reputation

Who the fuck even cares? The only person you should care about caring what you look like /present yourself is you, faggot. If you feel so alone the hire a hooker or some shit like that. Get some friends. Talk to people online. Fuck off with the girlfriend bullshit, they're a waste of time.

It's people like you that really piss me off though. You people are always asking for help and when someone offers it to you, you never accept it. Or if you do, then you just accept it and stop there never trying to extend upon that help or help yourself.

Chekd

Creepy = ugly

Attractive live life on easy mode

with people that look like this why even fucking live

The only way a woman will be attracted to you is if you get dubs. I'm hijacking this thread. This is now a dubs thread Check em

Fuck all these other shit lords and their not good advice. My advice to you is try to engage yourself socially more. Join clubs, interest groups, volunteering, or find a job with a lot of social interaction. It helps if you can find a social situation like this where you are good at something and others respect you for it. It will help build your self confidence a lot. Plus working/hanging out with women will help you feel less nervous talking to them. Pretty much every single chick I have dated/hooked up with/boned was from either work or some kind of club or social group.

Op here, fuck it, I'll take it. Thanks user

If I can do it, so can you. You got this dude.

What's your idea of a 10/10?

You don't, they either will or they won't. Women don't want men who don't even have confidence in themselves, so the best advice I can give you is to hit the gym and work on improving yourself. Also, I'd suggest getting some good friends before you dive into relationships, so find a hobby and join a group.

Sounds like you have yet to "Find yourself". Learn to enjoy the things you do more, or find new things to enjoy; Women love men with a passion, whatever that passion may be. Makes them think you could be that passionate about them too. And as for self-esteem it's just like they say in AA dude. Fake it 'til you make it. Be strong and don't give up. Especially on yourself.

Go to comic-con. I hear that some women are actually interested in fat pigs like you.

This is an 8.5

Then how fucked am I?

Pretty fucked, tbh.

not fucked at all user. You look normal. Normal is good, average is good, anything other than atrocious is good. Ive seen tons of dudes with absolutely shittier looks who have girlfriends.

I'd say you're a 5/10

Not completely fucked but by no means blessed

If you grew out your hair a bit and ahaved your little pedo thing off you would be a lot more presentable. Although you would probably be fine as is if you had a good smile.

You get a girl to like you by being a likable person.

Work on yourself, bro. No advice in the world is going to make you popular with the ladies if you can't just learn to be a sociable guy who people enjoy being around.

get exorcise man. even just dips pushups chin up, and plancks, weighted crunces, side planks,(try to get your obliques however you can) pull ups. Dquats with random weights at the house and shit like that you can do at home or on a tree branch. and run and eat healthy. Confidence will come from being being stronger and in shape. And your body will be more apealing to women as well as your face. Listen to music to get pumped up before you even start working out and itll make it easier to start. Also go past the point of exhaustion if you can. Like switch to girl pushups and do an extra 3 when you cant do anymore normal or kick off the ground and controlled lower yourself for your last 3 chin ups

Seem like a 7 or 8 to me

Thanks for the honesty, can you give that a numerical value? Like maybe the age I'll finally break down and get a prostitute.

"normal" = wispy faggot facial hair and shitty wifebeater with no discernible muscle definition?

1) Shave
2a) Get a t-shirt that covers your shoulders
OR
2b) Get a gym membership to develop shoulders worth exposing.

Also - is that a fucking hammock?

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trying-to-look-like-an-intense-badass-and-failing/10.

That's the best I can do.

Okay listen to me. First you have to hopefully lower your standards to someone who is on your level, but also someone who you are attracted to.

I'm also 5'10'', more than a bit overweight and a 4/10. But I have a great sense of humor and a boyish, wide eyed charm.

I haven't had the best track record, but I have had a few girls fall in love with me over the years.

Do online dating, just keep messaging and try to stand out from the rest. Don't just say "Hi".

Again you'll probably want to look for the bigger girls. They are in the same league as you.

Fuck, I just shaved my head yesterday along with my full beard, I actually liked the mustache and I hate smiling.

That looks like a fucking wax figure. It's repulsive.

Is that closer to a 1 or 0?

>online dating

OP don't do this

The ratio of males to females on online dating sites is 20:1

t. ugly subhuman

I'd give you a 3/10, because if you shaved and put on an actual man's t-shirt, you'd be more presentable.

Until then, 1/10, would not bang with my friend's cock and 3 others pushing.

first shave, it aint helpin

1) fair enough
2a) wouldn't wear this in public
2b) way too lazy
Yes it is, how else am I supposed to guarantee I never take a woman home with me?

Yeah and yet I've broken through quite a few times. It's just a numbers game. Plus being persistent and creative enough.

So what is the likelihood of a low self esteem guy who is inexperienced, in getting just some chick he knows to hook up with him?

Why would I wear an actual man's t-shirt to bed?

yeah man, i used to be ugly as fuck (ish) but after i toned up my face got sharper angles and i actually pick up women like crazy now

Don't listen to these faggots OP, some of them have decent ideas but they all sound like beta foreveralones.
Here's what you need OP: confidence. That's it.
Now, I know you're thinking that confidence comes from success but not always. Just practicing interacting with girls in the mirror can show you not only how others see you but how you see yourself.
Fix what's obvious, work on the finer points and always try to improve yourself daily. Others won't help but take notice!
In the end it's up to you Op to start your own fire, win your own rumble and go to your little sister and slip a finger up her butthole.

No, that's just so attractive it hurts my fucking eyes. It's completely unbelievable that anyone would expect that in a partner. It's freakish in it's perfection. It's heinous.

THIS

8+/10 males are freaks of nature. It's hard to come across one in public

But don't think for a second that females prefer the beta STEM guy

Yeah the stash has got to go. Other than that I wouldn't consider you a 4. You're more handsome than me, and yet I get laid.

It's not about confidence, it's just being able to be yourself around someone you want to fuck. Yet you have to make it positive that you have romantic intentions towards them. You may, or probably will get shot down, but this is the pain it takes to finding that special someone.

or you could take martial arts classes and work out for practical strength and fitness which will lead to you looking better and also gaining confidence as fuck

And guys wouldn't prefer a woman with the perfect figure and face to what they find attractive?

Of course not................BUT WE ALL FUCKING SETTLE SOONER OR LATER!!!!!!

Do girls innately hate you, OP?
If you can establish and sustain friendships with girls, the only thing guaranteed to be in your way to intimacy is yourself. Recognize your qualities, build onto the positive, improve the negative ones as much as you can and be objective about everything in this regard.
Knowing oneself is among the hardest things people can do, but it makes everything else in life immeasurably easier.
Alternatively, you can hire an escort or two to make yourself feel better for a bit.

Why does everyone hate the mustache? I swear it's not as bad as the picture makes it out to be, but maybe I'm a bit too attached to it.

Good advice, but unfortunately it falls on deaf ears as I'm not actually looking.

Jesus fuck, some help there you faggot.

We aren't all masters of self realization and betterment. Way to be so fucking vague that it burns my nostrils.

What about normal STEM guys?

youtube.com/watch?v=BNID5dm-EGo

Not looking? Then why the fuck did you start this thread? For future reference? When your pussy stops stinging quite so much?

Dude I'm trying to help you. I've given you getting laid gold in a number of posts.

Are you saving yourself for that hooker you have picked out? I tease, I tease.

The mustache makes you look like that one person we all hate.

I'm not op, just an user who thought it'd be funny to let other's predict how fucked my life would be since, "attractive [people] live life on easy mode".
Hmm, I've never been a part of that group that hated that one guy... ah, fuck... give me a minute.

>a bit over weight
diet, and maybe even a bit of exercise

you could have this problem fixed within a couple months

Better?

...

do the hitler op

Lift and eat ass

WHITE POWER

>How do I get girls to like me?

Live your life. Do not appear needy. Be happy alone. Chit chat with females. Wear nice shoes. Get a decent haircut (ie costs more than $5)... mingle. Socialize. Do not marry the first cunt that will fuck you.

Get in shape faggot.
Youtube calisthenics for beginners.
After that get a new cool hairstyle.
Work on your social skills.

Don't listen to /fit/. Just try and try again and get comfortable being yourself. Be polite, tell a joke and make sure they are attracted to you as well. Go to a movie, hold their hand, touch their thigh. Kiss them, grope them, go for third base. Get them to touch your dick. Lastly, get them undressed. Then you should be good to go.

Umm, user, does buying a $30 razor and giving yourself a buzzcut count?

>don't listen to /fit/
>list the most steriotipical /fit/ response

If the fucking shoe /fit/s nigga..........

it in no way talked about getting fit or being alpha. Dunno what you want from me here yo.

Delete Facebook, hit the gym, lawyer up

Get fit

To be yourself and make sure she's on the same page, then list how to comfortably introduce sexual contact is stereotypical /fit/.....dude no, just no.

I highly recommend checking out the YouTube channel BasedZeus. He helped me out by a lot. He can help you too.