im in a 7 year relationship, it started out the best and i wanted to marry her
3 years ago she cheated and i havent felt the same since
shes kinda selfish and i spend a lot of time and money running around for her, she never wants to see me
i met a new girl. shes nice to me
shes a qt, smart, flirts with me, i let her drive me home 3 times so far and each time we have a lot of fun just tlaking the short ride
shes got it all theres just one problem
shes 16. what would you do?
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I would hit it on the side while keeping my eyes open for a third girl. If the 16 yr old and i were still going strong by the time shes 18 date her.. and if you find a third girl and its golden after a while date her... if either of those two work out tou dump the 7 yr bitch
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16 year old is turning 17 in like 2 months and in my state i think 16 is actually legal it would just be weird
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>It started out best
Zozzle
If a girl cheats on you, you drop her immediately. That is if you have any self-respect. How could you still be with her after she took another man's dick? I guarantee you that she's still doing it too since she saw that you kept with her and that she could mooch off you.
You are a cuck, but you don't have to be. Drop her now, man up. And the rest is up to you.
Weird? How is that weird? Why the fuck do you think 18 year old porn is SUCH a popular genre? Because people WANT younger but it's not legal. You've been handed a gold bar and are complaining that it's weird to carry around a gold fucking bar. Jesus, hide it and enjoy what it brings.
its cus i love her and im a faggot. not gay, just a faggot.
she cheated 3 times and broke up with me to date around more but she always ended up picking me in the end
she claims the last 3 years have been clean etc i kind of believe her
i was only suspicious once since then and then i was wrong. i wanna break up with her i really do. i get that she did that and theres now way its ok and shes probly gonna do it again if she did it already and especially if i let her get away with it and i never cheated on her for payback or anything.
idk man i just love her.
this new girl tho, she makes me feel like i did 7 years ago
thing is shes so young, what if it all happens again
If you're with someone for 7 years and not prospecting a future living together, end it; 16 is legal where I live but maturity wise you won't find a relationship there and you can tell the second you start trying to make any real life decisions. It also depends on your age; early 20s and 16 can sort of work for awhile... I dated 16 when I was 21? it was even messy then not because of her but her social dynamic and friends were just too much of a wedge unless we isolated ourselves to only each other. Didn't seek it out, in fact she got wasted for the first time and a mutual guy her own age panicked and got me to look after her while he ran off which sparked us hanging out with lots of conversations after.
She was actually one of the most stable partners I have ever had and we lasted 3 years; but all other elements of life *will* interfere outside each other. (For us, it was limiting her school selections with an amazingly prestigious offer already lined up for her before I'd even met her.)
She just makes you feel like a non-piece of shit (new girl).
>3 times
>Chose me
Yeah buddy, you're beyond retarded or this is just bait.
how old are you?
the only reason its hard to see a future with the 7 years is shes like a hard mode relationship. i have to try so hard and do everythign all the time and its really not balanced at all, she doesnt do anythign for me or even work. what i get out of our relationship is spending time together and recently its only been on the internet and she will maybe see me once a week irl
shes always threatening to break up and even removing our relationship status on facebook when i wont appease ust one of her rediculous requests
we had a breakup fight tonite and i told her if she doesnt start treating me better im gonna leaver her
she said shes gonna and told me to bring her food n stuff, i did lol. im such a faggot. well see how that goes
new girl says she has friends and family and stuff, i dont. also im late 20's which is why i said its weird
yeah thats pretty accurate. its like shes actually interested in me instead of being tired of me and thinking i suck at everything
idk what you mean. retarded for still being with her? obviously.
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I appreciate your honesty, I understand how you feel, but I still stand by what I said. You need to end it.
And if the 16 year old is legal where you are, and she wants you, go with it. There's nothing like recapturing that exciting feeling, and you will be a man again.
Don't even fight with the old one honestly; just flip her out like a light switch and assertively move on, you'll find happiness after shutting it down cold simply because any situation where you've allowed her to argue you've made yourself susceptible to manipulation.
You won't end up long term with this younger girl, but she can bridge the gap to help you be comfortable opening up to other people again and that is okay.
You are not in your long term relationship for happiness. You are in it because it is all you know how to do within your comfort zone. Take a risk, build social platforms by taking workshops and things (not boring shit, like, go join a maker's workshop or something you find interesting. I joined one to learn electrical and milling work, pretty cool shit, made friends.)
It's simple, throw out ur current gf right away, fuck the 16 year old and don't get caught, two years will fly by and you wing have to hide it anymore
Op in what state are you?
Oh God just fucking end the relationship
this is honestly some of the best information and advice iv gotten and happens to be the kind of thing im interested in
iv been really depressed for a long time so i havent been doing much with myself outside trying to please my gf
i get the just shut her off and how thats good for me but its so hard
i know youre right about the manipulation, every time i try to stand up for myself to her she shuts it down by makign somethign my fault and actign like she doesnt need me which i get would make you think it would be easyier to leave her but
its been so long, we both only really have eachother and she jas no friends or family. her life kind of sucked because shes sort of mean spirited and she usually gets what she desurves lol.. i feel bad saying that but its true.
i feel like im all she has and because i love her and spent so many years tellign her ill never leave her and how much i love her its just such a hard concept to take off
i genuinely dont want to hurt her even though 99% of concious thinking indeviduals would say she desurves it and i should run and never look back
i wonder if anyone understands how it feels to be this pathetic and almost unable ot do anythign about it.
im taking steps theyre just super tiny. i used to tell girls they couldnt have my number or be friends with me and this is the first time iv been open to talking to someone else
new girl really is something special or i wouldnt even concider leaving my monster : (
>its cus i love her
Stop that fucking shit!
You're in a relationship with a 7 year old?
>shes 16
How is that a problem?
its not attached to a toggle
7 year relationship with a now 25 year old
im almost twice her age
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Age of consent is different in most states. I know SC is 16 and a few more are to. My advice. Look up the age of consent by state, if you're in the US (duh). Dump the current bitch and take a ride to another state and have a good time during the weekend.
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The young girl will cheat on you in a year or so. Young people like to fuck. And if you are over 20 you're a pedo.
Gawddd alright you are the reason your 7 year girl is being so shitty. You got back with her and that's your own fault. People change but I'm guessing you kept bringing it up in fights cause you won't let it go but y'all stay together cause after that long y'all love eachother, just not in love. Girls are smart. She doesn't know about this new girl but she can tell something's going on and that's why she is probably just using you for money cause she knows you are using her for a security blanket. If you care about her at all and are a decent human you'd end things with her. Pussy ass bitch deserves an immature 16 y.o. And I bet you go crying back to the old girlfriend once you realize you ain't shit.
10/10
if you were me and you were open to taking any half decent advice and you wanted a real lasting relationship with a girl who isnt gonna cheat what would you do?
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I would tell my girlfriend what you have been doing and apologize . Let her beat the 16 year olds ass that thinks it's cute to get with unavailable men. Then I'd kill myself for being the person who made the 7 year girl feel like complete shit for cheating on me when I was the one who chose to "forgive" her but really just fucked her over.
You need to be alone and figure your shit out forreal. The 16 year old isn't going to solve ANY problems but make them worse. I mean if you're just looking for sex or a fling then okay but that's just young
im in a relationship with 7 year old, it started out the best and i wanted to marry her
3 years ago she cheated and i havent felt the same since
shes kinda selfish and i spend a lot of time and money running around for her, she never wants to see me
i met a new girl. shes nice to me
shes a qt, smart, flirts with me, i let her drive me home 3 times so far and each time we have a lot of fun just tlaking the short ride
shes got it all theres just one problem
shes 16. what would you do?
the 16 yr old is just friends but wants to be more
p sure were gonna be just friends till i figure out what im gonna do
wants me to break up with my gf, knows her and doesnt like her
>she cheated 3 times and broke up with me to date around more
you cant be serious
you never loved someone enough to stay after that?
>thing is shes so young, what if it all happens again
i know it is 2017, but even today you can still find girls who arent sluts.
What a triflin bitch though like.. how mature she doesn't like your girlfriend and she's drove u home 3 times so it's her business to step in and tell you what to do in your current relationship?? if you were my boyfriend and let a girl talk shit ab me then tak her cause I don't want you lmao
It just sounds like she's trash. Move on to someone that'll treat you like a partner and not someone who just treats you like a fallback. She's pushing you around and either you don't realize or you're retarded for staying. Go with the new girl.
she doesnt talk shit lol
there was just one time my gf dumped me and i thought it was for real and i was sad and new girl asked what happun and i said gf dumped me
get the dude who fucked her imprisoned
I actually did, and sadly, wasting more time with her was one of the biggest mistakes of my life.
get yourself imprisoned while you're at it if you haven't fucked her asshole by now too you raging faggot
I stand by what I said. Tell your current girlfriend your feelings and about this new girl or you're a hypocrite.
Op let me tell you a story.
When I was 15, I met a 25 year old girl and we talked all the time. She eventually opened up to me and we agreed to date eachother in secret. 3 years later, we got married. Life is good, just wait it out, and don't do anything sexual.
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she's a nude model. 9/10 Mexican (white looking) girl. Not hillibllly shit, she's just a free spirit
This guys knows. I keep getting older, they stay the same age..
lol for a second i thought u were my gf who somehow found this thread and was describing herself.
i cant tell you how funny it is now but my heart dropped a second ago it was hilarious how scared i was
Lol "Mexican (white looking)"
wait 2 years
holy shit lololol
well I guess we both got it going for us user
does your girl have tattoos and piercings, too?
I'm gonna tell ur gf about this thread
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Btw when I say white looking I basically mean
not a fat ass latina quinciñera motherfucker
I kek'd
she has a tatoo of my name on her thigh(hahaha) and her ears peirced
i have a her name tato too, on my back its small. we were supposed ot be together forever but she told me she fell out of love with me and things have never been the same when she said she was wrong
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holy shit talk about bad ideas
my girl is completely inked, mostly just designs and symbols and shit but she's got a few meaningful tattoos (to her). She's got her ears, her bottom lip, and nipples pierced.
>shes 16. what would you do?
It's all good. Tell the old cunt she can fuck herself
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they don't change, at least after a certain age
Yeah they do. Definitely after a certain age.
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Find some new girl. Not the 16 year old since her parents probably won't approve. But some other young girl and break up with the cheater.
take it from someone who's never been to a quince, i have no idea what you mean.
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You're most stable partner was a 16 year old? That's very telling about immature you are dude. Fix yourself.
I had this too.
Be super cool and mature when you end it. Say "hey look to be honest you're not happy, i'm not happy, let's just end it, it'll be better"
Be upbeat. She'll think you found someone else and beg for you back within the day. You have to really sell how happy you are with breaking up though. Say shit like "this is really good". I'm being serious. Girl go nuts when you do this.
This way they can't say you were an asshole during the breakup. They have no out. The only option is getting back together. Women only like to break up if they can paint you as the asshole.
>What is age of consent?
Tsunayoshi