So i read my gf's conversation on messenger with friend of hers (i know...

So i read my gf's conversation on messenger with friend of hers (i know, shitty move but i just couldn't resist) and now i'm depressed cause of what i found… I don't know if i should confront her about it… Can Sup Forums please help?

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What did you find?

That OP is a faggot duh

FUCKING REKT

basically that she's talking with this guy (german manlet) since like 2009 when they first met. She also met her first boyfriend the same year. She then continued talking with this little shit ever since. They met a couple of times, but it wasn't anything. Then they met in London where she was staying (still in relationship with her ex) and from the conversation i could tell she fell in love with him. They dind't fuck but after the meeting they regreted it and said they should have. So i got worried that she almost (i know, ALMOST) cheated on her boyfriend. I started dating her year and a half ago and it looks like she stopped talking to him right after we met. Again, until now. He wrote her like a month ago asking about her life and she told him everythin, except that she has a boyfriend. Then he told her about promise he made - to take her on a sailing holiday to which she replied that she's planning a 2 week vacation but she only has one week planned so far so they should definitely think about it. This one week planned is us going to Italy…

i know i am, just get over it and help me

dude this is BADDDDDDDDDDDDDD

if i were you i would def start looking for a new girl.

JUST from the fact she didnt mention she is with you... TRUST your gut dont be a fucking CUCK

truth is hard to swallow , do it now before you turn into a fucking imbecile and have her cheating on you behind your back ( been in a similar situation but i figured fuck it might as well cheat on her first and guess what i was right )

anyways this isnt your life ending its just a whore who you dont need in your life , lift your head up and see the light my son

Sounds like my ex, get out while you can, this shit will eat you and your relationship the fuck up. Not worth..

Once a cheater always a cheater dude. She hasn't even told you about this dude or even the fact that she might want to go visit him

rip it like a band aid, been in the same situation where i should have ended it but being a beta cuck fag i didn't. there's no repairing to be done here, you've clearly lost faith in her.

Also i did the same thing... checked messenger on facebook and found out my now ex was cheating with her 11 inch dick room mate (she never told me he existed or was a room mate, its a studio) so one day i showed unannounced to both of them fucking and I choked both of them out and left before the vops could be called. I regret nothing

it's eating me right now. And i have a feeling that if i don't confront her i'll go mad. But then if i tell her i'm gonna look like a complete looser for reading her messenger… So what's the best choice here? I love her, and if i leave her without confronting her about it it'll be eating me just the same… shit.

Act normal and see if she wants to go on vacation with a "girlfriend" on the second week. If she does dump her.
And from now on stop investing into the relationship (emotionally and financially).

now that you said it. It does feel like i can't trust her fully from now on. I mean she mentioned him once or twice but kind of with disgust and like it's completely noone. And i guess this only proves she wants me to not worry about him right?

Yea well, all I can say is, I confronted my ex, trying to hint at that I knew something, and ofc ultimately she ripped into me untill I confessed (shouldn't have done that) - you can't really win, even tho she's being the cunt. If anything, try the old, you left your messenger open for the world to see, or something, but yea, there's some legality issues course of privacy n shit. You just gotta do what you gotta do, can't really give any better advice, its a shit situation..

i can do that… Of course it will be on my mind everyday for the next month till we're back from vacation but i guess this is reasonable.

This is a guage for you op. There's a chance, maybe, she was just gently letting him down.

If she goes on vacayfor one week with you, and never mentions anything, she clearly has chosen and committed to you over him or anyone else.

If she wants to disappear for a week, let her, and put all her shit on the curb/move out/disappear.

She'll get the point that you knew. Or it'll never come up. No reason you need to play your hand.

I second this, you could also leave a note for when she gets back

fuck all this shit, any chance you can get a refund for the holiday if o dump this bitch then buy booze and a new game to play or take some other bitch on holiday with you

there is a chance of course, but i know her and she dind't sound like she's not interested. She has no problem with being rude even to her close friends so this is new to me. But god i hope you're right.

I like this solution

dont be sad if she does go away for a week

in that case she wasnt worth it

people are fucked that way, me included

Wjat you should do is tske her toitaly and trick her to go I g out to some shady part really late and then confront her on the messages and leave her ads out there and drive away...take her phone too so she can't call for a ride

Ok so you like a reasonable people. Then tell me what to do if she asks me for permission to go with him. Sounds absurd, but anythings impossible i think. Should i let her or should this be the ending question?

more like you choked on his 11 inch dick while she fucked you with a strap-on

whilst on holiday fuck the life out of her until the last day then set her passport on fire, go home and dump her shit outside kek

Do this except instead of dumping her just ghost on her. While she's out take all your stuff and the stuff you want that's both of yours, move out, change your number, and tell no mutual of yours and just disappear.

and sorry for the mistakes i'm kind of not myself right now...

if she asks then just say no, fuck would any sane non cuck guy let his girl go on a week long trip with some other guy shes had feelings for before

how do you mean asks for permission?

you mean asking you for permission to go on vacation with another guy? not likely it she will

but if that actually happens, thats one point for honesty, you could always ask why...

i dont think i would roll with that thou, unless you are in one of those open relationships

Tell her she can if you meet him first, then make sure he knows you can kill him and then just leave the country if he does anything with her

thats just retarded and stupid

what kind of bitch would be worth all that trouble

Best choice. Be sure to fuck the shit out of her every chance you get B4 she fucks off to her mini-krout

That guy is a beta orbiter. She is keeping him in friend zone just in case and maybe waiting to monkey branch on to him when the time is right/if she thinks he is worth it (has lots of money). You need to stop looking at this from "feelings" perspective. Objectively she is a little slut waiting to cheat on you and she almost cheated her ex as well. Don't risk with that kind of girl. Confront her about it, what does it matter that you read those messages. If she gets angry for something that is HER fault then you were wrong about being with her from the start. It's better if it hurts a little now, before it builds up into a major cancerous drama.

Kek

i don't know maybe i'm just going way out on my limb. I mean let her so that i can read their conversation later and find out if i was right i guess. I don't want to do anything based only on speculation.

Serves you right for being a nosy little sneak.

look... if she goes away for a week, without telling you exactly where, of come up with some fake aunt she has to meet

just fuck it... there is no aunt

Write her bf and break up with him posing as her be sure to say som3 fucking nasty shit to really fuel the then break up with her boom

Shes childish, she wants attention from any man that will give it to her.

Then she will weigh her options and think about which of you to be with.

This isnt how an adult relationship works, thats how a highschool girls functions.

If she is entertaining this dude, then she doesnt have much respect for you, she may even think you are stupid and gullible enough to let her go.

Show her your masculinity, let her know you can have other women if need be.

You emotions and willingness to share come across as feminine and needy.

For example, guys try to hit on my gf through Gaybook messanger all the time, some guys send her random dick picks, she always comes right up to me and shows me, so then we laugh and fuck with the guy the whole time, sometimes ill whip out my dick and send a pic back with some shit like " come fuck me big boy " until he eventually says something like " fuck you freaks " and leaves her alone.

Then we carry on with our relationship.

I do the same when some whore is trying to get at me.

This " relationship " you have is more or less preliminary for her, she hasnt decided she wants to settle with you.

But you have money and clearly can afford nice things like vacations, so shes going to try and play this for awhile to see who is better.

shes childish, immature and not taking this as serious as you are.

Sorry man, better luck next go round I guess.

that would be right if she wasn't flirting with him SO FUCKING HARD. I think this is beyond keeping in friendzone. It looked just like they didn't have enough courage to fuck in London, that's all.

Bitch - I check my hoes. Th Fuck outta here.

dont do that, its gonna look shitty.

just be a better man... no need to be an asshole

if things seem fishy they usually are

just be the nice guy and pack your bags once you realize you together with the wrong woman

youll find someone better

That's why i told you, confront her about this. Shit like this can't wait. She is keeping him as an extra option, she didn't settle with you
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won the thread, best answer hands down

Top fucking kek

i second this...

Probably not the one's you've met/fantasized about being with. I don't know the bitch so I can't say, but OP seems to care enough if he's coming here for advice

now you are begging to answer your question yourself...

i guess you made up your mind

just be elegant about it...

well fuck, you might be right. She told me some things in the past that fit 100% into what you're saying. Like when she was in past relationship which was a disaster she started looking for someone better. She told me as a form of excuse this one time when i pressed her to tell me about guy from her uni she met a couple of times.

dump that bitches ass

If I was you I would act like I was trying to hide something from her. Yea play the same game and see if she trys to check your stuff. If you spot her you can break up with her.

Cheaters are more likely to have no trust in their partner and check if their partner cheats.

But best is to just fuck her till 1 hour before the flight and then don't fly with her. Even better you book a fly to a better place just for yourself and fuck someone at this place.

happens to everyone

its not the end of the world, so dont tear yourself up about it.

best thing is to start doing something creatively with your time that you are not spending with her.

hell if i were you, at this point, i would want her to lie, to mislead and decept, i would play dumb.

Just getting things ready to get a new life started once she goes on that trip

if she ask wft is going on, you just tell her you figured it out

you know how you can get her. ruin her plan for the second week, that way maybe you will get an opening to actually get her to confess

waaaay to elaborate and not worth the money, the time or the effort

i was owning a good business with someone and i suspected i was boing fucked, i totally spend time and money on mind games

but a relationship? hell no

if you need to do that its doomsday already

this is exactly what i'm thinking right now. The saddest part is i realised, nothing is going to be the same from now on. Damn… That keeping the guy as a second option hit me like a lightning strike. It's just true… I feel like i'm gonna throw up.

take it easy

as i said it happens to everyone at some point

if you got a lot of feelings invested in this girl, then i am sorry.

but dont be like that... just reaim focus,

youtu.be/4ZMOLMVFVuU

He pretty much describes OPs gf that's why I tought about it.

I personally am more honest about the situation and would rather quit it right after I find out (after last ride)

OP still here ?

yeah...

Could try hinting at turning your one week vacation into 10 days, thereby limiting any time she might be thinking if setting aside for him. See how she reacts to it.

Don't think too much about it OP. At least you had a gf unlike half of /b.

Learn from the mistake and find a girl that wants to be with you and wont switch

the point is i can't do that and she knows it. besides if i did that i wouldn't have the chance to expose her.

fuck in the ass and cum on her face and dump her on the spot

before taking her to italy obv

if you keep acting like a pussy you wont get out of this , MAN THE FUCK UP U LIL CUNT , you think this is a REAL problem???

you are a fucking weak bitch , accept the truth and just move on

>roomate
>studio

lol

are you guys sure you're actually dating these chicks?

i do accept it. I'm not a fighter, i'm just a normal guy with feelings i don't care about alfaness...

haha awesome (not op)

my advice from personal experience is not to try and be vindictive. You think "exposing her" is some sort of goal worth having, its not. If shes worth trying to keep, focus on that, if its time to move on, then do so. Don't waste time on some misguided attempt to show her to be less moral than yourself. Nobodies perfect, accept that and continue your life.

I've been in your shoes before , most of the b/rothers said it right. Dump that bitch.
Do you deserve a girl like that ?
Does it make you feel happy she wants another dude and now regrets not cheating with hime ?
I didnt fucking think so.
You know the right thing is to dump that girls ass, but you dont want to throw away the time, feelings and money you invested with her troughout your relationship. Its hard to throw away that kind of thing but its like a bandage. The faster you rip it out the faster the wound will heal and wont sting that much.
I have a girlfriend that will do anything for me. She loves me to death and will never think of fucking another dude. She is the kindest person i know and sometimes she is so happy while with me that she cries.(from happiness). She looks me with big puppy dog eyes all the time. Thats the kind of girl you deserve.
All the people are telling you to man the fuck up like its easy to dump her. Its not. But you know it has to be done. You're better than that OP.
Protip: dont ever tell her about the chat you read. Just end it fast and coldblooded. Many other grils will want to fuck you if you dont act like a spazy faggot beta cuck.
MAN THE FUCK UP !

no no, you misunderstood me. By exposing her i meant just to catch her red handed so i have proof that dumping her is the only decision. She doesn't even need to know that i know.

she's been talking with a german manlet since 2009 and hasn't fucked him yet? It's the later part of a decade of this dude not being touched by your girl.

>almost
>ten
>years

I've made the mistake of assuming the worst in a girl and it turns out I was just being an insecure twat. Truth be told, OP. If you end the relationship prematurely you will be fucking heartbroken. If she cheats on you then you will be heartbroken. Let her make the mistake of being disloyal before you mark her as disloyal. When she brings up disappearing for a week, ask her where she's going. If she tells you a different story then tell her you already know about the German dude she plans to go sailing with. Confront her about it when she's caught in the lie, not before.

OR you just dump her ass, screw catching her red handed

IF you catch her, chances are she'll try to bullshit you to wiggle her way out of it

you already have all the information you need to make the only right decision

OP is a weak boy. Deserves cucking.

And fisting.

Then you're in a situation where the literal best case scenario is you walk in on him balls deep inside her. You won't accept anything else. If nothing happens your suspicions are't going to vanish. Theres no way that 12 months from now the two of you are going to be in the most honest and trusting relationship ever.

maybe its just my close mindedness, but to me, the well is poisoned. Even if shes as innocent as she could be, theres no going back now. It might be time to move on.

I think you should try to schedule that second week of vacation with her as soon as possible. See what she says. That way, you won't have to admit to reading the message, and you can gauge whether she's worth spending a week of time and money taking her to Italy. If she's not willing to freeze that guy out, you can take the initiative and dump her ass. It won't help your mood, but it will save you the money and the self-respect.

Her friends and family won't care. This isn't the Victorian age.

For the week after your trip to Italy, you should take her sailing.

she's not worth it already

why the fuck are you idiots trying to test her, she already failed

kek, this

Yeah! Put on heavy metal, go get booze. Get drunk by yourself cry your heart out of eyes. Wake up the next day telling your boys "that bitch was crazy". Remind yourself to never give anyone "Life changing advice" again. Because you're shit at it.

fuck you lil bitch go cry a river , im fucking a 9/10 vietnamese broad tonight , what the fuck are you doing ? watching anime porn ? XDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDD

damn. I've been that other guy in situations like just like that so many times. never really felt bad about it until I read this thread. post more feel pics mang

XDDDDDD

the other guy doesn't need to feel bad. he didn't make any promises to op.

eh you can't blame a dog for going after a piece of meat. It's pretty shitty when the meat gets eaten though.

yes but whatever happened to the bro code? I would never cross the line had I known the dude she was with but maybe that should extend to all dudes. and we all do it. idk man

I would highly recommend this idea. Has she even brought up that she will going any where without you? Just wait, see what she has planned. If she does go, then she's gotta go. But you have to do it when she tells you her idea. Anything before or after will just make things more complicated emotionally and explanatory wise

Jesus cares


Don't get mad about it forgive her

If you want her to be your wife

Yeah but op will know her intentions, and end it. If he does it now he'll feel like he over reacted. Girl friend begs him to take her back. I tells him some Ludacris story. Lonely op does because he's second guessing. Then bam back together now. Only this time op is reminded he has paranoia now

Yes you fucking can if that piece of meat is already called for and it's known.

Is that you, John?

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Doesn't count if you pay for it cuck.

Those faggots are from my neighborhood.

yes it does

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9/10 Yeah maybe a 9 year old that's about it. Is she covering her rank fish teeth?with her rank fish breath? Look at the butter on her face. How many pimples do you think she has under that disgusting oily ass face. 9/10 you ain't fooling nobody cuck

OP here. So i came back with this little idea. We didn't set are statuses on fb as "in a relationship". I didn't want it cause i think it's lame but in this case, how bout i try to do it and then check her and his reaction. How about that?

Yeah if you have a group of Virgin friends. You brag about paid Pussy. I brag about free Pussy. You're the Faggot here my friend. Go bottle your emotions up somewhere else cuck.

Just dump her and move on...it's the o ly option here...dump her right away and enjoy the rest of your life away from a person who's prepared to fuck you over

>I brag about free Pussy
prove it. Let's see the pussy that you're bragging about.