>Be me, single after failed relationship. Started using dating apps.
>Met several girls, long talks with almost every single one of them.
>Going out for dinner last weekend, met the chosen one without using any online device.
>Everything is working out
Should I uninstall and remove all these apps just in case she discovers me?
What do you do in these cases with other girls? Just ghost them? Keep contact? Tell them the truth?
Not until things get serious. If she finds you before you consider her your gf, just say they are old profiles from before you met.
If you gotta ask when you should stop talking to other bitches, you already past the point where you shoulda stopped.
Tell them the truth. Might be as well to delete the apps as well, save yourself some hassle. If new girl doesn't work out, re-install apps. Simples.
Use online app to fuck sluts while keeping chosen. Duh
Honestly? Whatever the fuck you want. That's how you keep girls around. You're better off talking to a bunch of girls even when you're dating this chick, and by remaining aloof. Make her worry she isn't good enough. That's what keeps women invested.
Want to fuck things up? Delete all your profiles and break all contact with every other girl you know, put all your eggs in one basket and let this girls sense she owns you. I think you know how that ends.
There are girls who keep writing me about meeting, sending pictures or contacting late at night. So imagine being with the new girl and somehow Tinder beeping or a boob image arriving.
Better safe than sorry dont you think?
But on the other hand as says, it wouldnt be the first time everything is going smooth and then suddenly it crashes without a reason, so I end up being lonely all again.
Oh well that was my reply, but I assumed by your post you meant you weren't talking to the girls on the apps anymore. I'd personally say just delete them if you don't think you can resist talking to them. If you really think this girl is the one, the why would you need the other girls anyway?
I retract my reply here and tell you to look and
If you're not "official" you can keep seeing the other girls. Don't drop everything a mere couple weeks in
Protip: the reason you get fucked over / end up lonely is because of the mindset you have that makes you worry about offending a girl who is interested in you. If you're walking on eggshells trying to keep her, you're not going to keep her.
My gf would have been furious if she found Tinder on my phone
obviously you uninstall that shit, delete profile etc.
Post her pics dipshit
The thing is when I tried to keep the other girls I somehow end up fucking everything. I live in a small town so its so easy to see them everyday as we usually go to the same places.
The worst case was my last exgf, the night before I was talking with one of these Tinder girls and she was sending me nudes and telling me about going to her place. I declined because I was meeting the right girl the next morning.
Well, guess what happened, we went having a drink and this Tinder girl was in the same place. She didnt say a thing at least, that was what saved me.
>Been single a year and half
>Using these apps, pof, badoo etc
>Met several girls
>All end up being sluts that cheat etc because of the easy availability of other men.
Keep the apps for now, user. Also meeting girls like this is usually a disaster
beta af lol
>To Delete the extra girls, or not to delete the extra girls that is the question.
Why?
Just keep them in your back pocket. Nothing wrong if you're just having casual conversations with them.
my fucking dubs as well. I speak the truth, hence the dubs. Inb4 this is also dubs
Hookup culture has ruined the prospects of having meaningful relationships
and mobile phones. Nowadays you go on a date and a girl is more interested in her phone than paying you any attention? Haha
Pretty much what you said is true though. I have two children to two women, neither was loyal. sluts
I know, I used these apps in the past a lot more than I wanted and even if the girls looked right at first they ended cheating and lying. They have hundreds of possibilities and lots of men sending them pictures and compliments.
Thats why Im betting on this "real life" girl instead of the others. She seems legit, so I think Im going to just say goodbye to all the others. Better to not risk everything.
The apps are usually a disaster my friend. There are...at least 20-50 other men messaging her that are more attractive than you and maybe more interesting. Women aren't loyal.
Keep the apps and keep them a secret, if they're discovered, then you forgot about them but haven't been using them. Or even better, just go on the apps now, get like whatsapp info for the girls that you really like, then remove the app and just casually message them on there?
Then if anything comes up, she doesn't see that you was recently online on a dating app, instead just casually chatting on whatsapp. and you can delete local data on whatsapp too
If you're serious about them then you don't need the apps.
You don't lose anything by deleting them. You can reinstall them if things don't pan out.
is shes such a chosen 1, shell believe or trust u, that u found her and dont need it now. Or uninstall it and reinstall every time u r trying to get side pussy
u faggot
Implying that she doesn't use those same exact dating apps that you use. You can never be too safe Op.
Just keep the other girls.
pretty much this.
backup plans are a good idea. The feeling when you stop talking to a girl that you really like and have no backup girls to cheer you up. Not nice
While we're talking about these dating apps anyway.
It's me, the dude that's been single for a year and half, replied to OP a few times (fucking faggot Sup Forums removing user IDs again).
Anyway, speaking of these unreliable apps that I'm currently using as well, what's your opening line to a nice looking girl? I don't usually hit em with a cheesy chat up line. What you saying to em? No joke, I have a mate that says to them "You're fit, I'd fuck you", lol and it sometimes works.
Just install Vault app and hide Tinder, images, messages or lock your phone with a PIN
Just be yourself, but dont dont sound desperated. Think 70% of the guys just say them things like "Hi how are you, want to talk?" so avoid those kind of messages.
If they have a bio or something in their pictures, ask for that and try to be different than most of the other guys. Going direct for the sex just works for a few people and its a lottery. I always prefer to reach them using other ways.
ditto, if they have an interesting bio, then I'll try to talk about that and go from there, but if they have an average plain profile, then I usually tend to resort to the hi you alright message because what the fuck else can you say? lol
would have got quads if I waited a tiny bit longer, fml lol
good luck op, Im off to message some sluts
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Just turn off notifications and hide the app in a folder you scrub. Check it at night until you know she's the one. No need to waste each other's time, I guarantee you're not the only person she's seeing either.
You do realize this girl is at home with 6 big niggers right now, don't you? If you hurry they might let you watch.but only if they get to do you up the pooper afterwards