Is it possible to make every woman orgasm? or are some women just not able to orgasm?

is it possible to make every woman orgasm? or are some women just not able to orgasm?

Yes it's possible you just gotta feel em right

Some women can't even make themselves orgasm. It's different for each chick. Gotta figure it out

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well, the thing is, i am out of ideas. i've tried everything on my girl, she said she has gotten pretty close to it but never really orgasmed. the problem can't be me having a too small cock as it's slightly over 7 inches. and i've eaten her out and fingerbanged and tried everything. out of like 40 times, i managed to get her to squirt on me, that was good but she never really orgasmed. anything i'm doing wrong here?

yes it's possible.
pussy's are just a little bit different than dicks.
every single dick can cum from the same type of masturbation (or at least like 99% of them)

whereas pussy's have different types of orgasm in different places, and sensitivities change over time.

how the girl learned to masturbate kind of dictates feelings she's used to, and how she KNOWS how to cum, so other ways can sometimes be difficult to reach.

too soon.

can she make herself cum?

How's the foreplay? You gotta get her worked up. Make her panties. Bitches love foreplay

SOME are unable, same for men, but it's some in the same way some kids are born without eyes not some in the way that some people are left-handed. IE the likelihood you'll ever screw one is low (but not nonexitant).

far as i know, she likes it really rough. well, once i fucked her like a rabbit for 20 minutes with proper foreplay but i still didnt manage to make her orgasm, busted a proper nut tho

sounds like she is hysteric i would advice to beat her

I don't know about every single woman. But for most it's possible with lots of continuous stimulation. I knew a woman who struggled with sexual dysfunction after she took anti-depressants. Still orgasmed after 15-20 minutes of of me eating her pussy continuously.

no, she has a bit funny mentality, she says she never really plays with herself too hard but she loves watching porn. well, she has said to me that she never experienced an orgasm. today we fucked and i played with her for really long and she got so wet that from her butt cheeks to my balls, everything was slippery and wet. she was wetter than ever but she said that me playing with her clit is sometimes so enjoyable it's unbearable. what should i do about that? what could i?

that gives me hope actually, however, i think it's harder to achieve if the woman has never orgasmed in her life. but yeah, gotta work that tongue game real good then

Have you located the gspot? I recommend sticking in two fingers, curl fingers up in a come here motion, and move your hand up and down and side to side

Maybe she's just mentally stopping herself from climaxing for some reason? When I was with my first g/f, she was such a cunt, she made me feel so bad about ejaculating that, when I started dtaing my next girlfriend, it took me a LONG time before I could cum because I was so like insecure about it. Like I'd been made to feel so bad about it, that I was ashamed or whatever, so I just mentally stopped myself from doing it.

Maybe she's experiencing something similar? Like you said, she enjoys all the stuff you do, but maybe at the point of orgasm she's not just "letting go" and instead SOMETHING is making her think "no, don't let go". I'm not saying it could be some sort of shame, it could be something else. Or it could not be. Just looking at it from another angle. Who knows, maybe it'll help?

i wouldn't say the foreplay is weak, mostly i work her up by fingering, rubbing, eating her out and kissing her (total about 15min) until she just pulls off my shorts and tells me to start with it already because she is so horny she cant resist it anymore. so i think our foreplay isn't that bad really, any other advice?

yeah i know where her g spot is, sounds like a sponge being squished while i play with it with my fingers. but they say gspot stimulation makes her squirt, but squirting and orgasms aren't really the same things, are they? correct me if i'm wrong saying that g spot stimulation can't lead to an orgasm and is only causing squirting

now that you mentioned it, she was behaving weirdly the first 5-6 times we had sex. she told me to stop because she felt like she was going to pee herself. but she got over it as i managed to make her understand how that stuff works and that it's all in her head. got that one settled out and she never had that stuff bugging her again, now it's just that i can't get her to orgasm, other than that, it's all good

Yes she needs more foreplay. Don't go straight to the pussy. Start with the lips, the neck, the ears, the tits, only then can you think about touching the pussy, and don't go straight to it. Work down, kiss her inner thighs, around her pussy, outside her pussy, suck on each pussy lip

Wrong gspot stimulation can cause orgasm

okay, going to try to tease and work her up that way the next time we'll have sex and see what will happen, maybe i've been too much in a rush about it. going to start slowly then, thanks

>pee herself
My girlfriend does that too! She's a virgin, and demi-sexual, so she's kinda terrified of it. So it could be that! Might be worth considering

ok, i'll try to bear that in mind for the next time

technically, when someone is sexually aroused, then he/she can't really pee. have you tried pissing while having a boner? impossible. i'm sure it's the same way with women. the feeling of women having to pee while having sex is believed to be caused by a dick applying pressure on the bladder, which just makes it feel like she is going to pee herself any second

Oh I don't mean physically pee herself, I just mean my girlfriend says the same thing, that the sensation is like needing to pee

Been with my girlfriend 7 years, like yours she had never made herself cum and didn't like playing with herself because she thought it was weird to do it on her own
Two years ago We bought a vibrator that she could use during sex as she felt more comfortable using it as a couple, we haven't looked back, she now orgasms every time.
That's my advice OP, buy a toy to aid with the stimulation, use it during sex and orgasms will come naturally
People put so much pressure on making eachother cum it doesn't help the situation

yeah that's what i was saying. my girlfriend never really peed herself too but the first times we had sex, she literally kept running to the toilet being afraid that she is going to pee in her bed and embarrass herself in front of me. it just takes about 10 intercourses to make her feel completely free and not being embarrassed or afraid of anything going wrong

Some women just can't. Talk to her during foreplay. Even before. Have a glass of wine and talk. Women are always in there head. They love the emotional buildup.
> Married for 12 years.
> My wife can cum on command. Legit.

some have said that using vibrators makes a girl completely unable to climax without one. i'll try to get her to orgasm by using only my own body parts but i'll keep in mind what you said in case i can't manage to make her orgasm without a toy

was she able to climax from the beginning or did you also have trouble satisfying her?

Yeah dude have heard that, doesn't worry me because there's so many different toys and stuff that you can never get bored. I understand what you mean tho, I've been with her so long that we have tried everything and toys just work for her.
Take your time tho, have fun exploring what works for you. Good luck

It took a little while during sex, but yes she could.
I am telling you it is all emotional. You have to get her to relax. Smoke a joint, have some wine. Talk about how you want to fuck her. Suck her, etc. They love that stuff.

Ah sorry, I was on the phone at the same time as posting so I couldn't really concentrate.

Well, if you keep at it, hopefully she'll get past it. I've been with my girlfriend for 6 months now and we haven't had sex yet. We're working up to it, but she's still pretty nervous about it all, and I think a lot of it is just psychological - whenever I try put a finger inside her, her vagina clamps up. Shit sucks, but oh well.

It's possible with 99.9%
Yes there are exceptions that have neurological damage but outside of that it's a lack of skill/her comfort

okay, thank you for the advice Sup Forumsro.

>My gf has never masturbated
I make her cum at least once every time we fuck

She isn't comfortable or safe with you
It's her mental block that stops her from having an orgasm

>Implying you can squirt without orgasm
>Implying you weren't just pissing her off
She pissed on you user
Just accept it

Don't ask Sup Forums. Ask google.

"About 75 percent of all women never reach orgasm from intercourse alone -- that is without the extra help of sex toys, hands or tongue. And 10 to 15 percent never climax under any circumstance"

>Went ham for 20 mins
>Y she no cum¿
That's not how pussy works fam

i've been with my girl for 6 months, too. maybe yours has difficulities because of being shy? i had sex with my girl for the first 10 times in pretty much complete darkness because she was afraid of showing her body. having sex in dark conditions worked for us. and we both lost out virginities to each other. so i'd suggest you to work it up really slowly in an almost dark room if she's so nervous. no girl can be cold enough to resist forever, you know

You need to learn her pussy and work it
It doesn't help that she doesn't masturbate
>been there done that

Probably. I've heard of a female never having orgasms until someone raped her.

>Be me
>Know gspot location in gf pussy
>Beat the shit out of it with my dick every time
>She hasn't ever properly squirted but cums all the time
Not all pussy is the same user

That was my gf as well
Took 8 god damn years to cure her of not being able to cum

You serious???

yeah you bet she did

Oh she's definitely shy. Like I said she's demi-sexual, some bullshit SJW term that loosely means "someone that doesn't develop sexual attraction until an intense emotional bond, i.e. love, has developed". So she's got literally no experience with anyone, which makes things tricky.

> having sex in dark conditions worked for us.
Yeah my ex was like that too, she hated having the lights on. My current girl and I do mostly stuff at night, just before bed, so it's more often than not in the dark. She doesn't like taking her t-shirt off though, like she always wears one to bed. She's hella insecure/shy. But like you said, it's just a case of persistence. And the fact she lets me even touch her anyway suggests she does want to do it, and she's told me she does. It's just the mental block we need to push past.

Yeah, she said she'd never been fucked so hard and rough in her life and that her current husband was not masculine+large enough.

Don't fall for this trap
>If you can death grip masturbate yourself out of cumming during sex she can definitely out vibrate herself

>Cum on command
Things that are bullshit for $500 Alex

can't really be her mental block if at first she was afraid of showing me her body but now enjoying me eating her out. i'm kind of sure there arent any mental blocks anymore

Toys aren't needed just be prepared of years of this shit
>Yet another reason why people say virgins are shit for fucking

Nigga it can be a mental block and she doesn't realize it
If you don't want to listen to an user giving you advice that has been through that shit that's on your dumbass

a wise man once said it ain't rape if she's enjoying it

Yeah but who raped her?

nice trips

>some women just not able to orgasm

also some men just not able to orgasm

>Cum on command

Maybe, I don't know, she can't orgasm on her own, only with my dick inside her and her using a toy. Not one girl is the same, I guess that's the fun

easy now cowboy

not true, based off of studies, 5-10% of women cannot reach climax, many believe its due to improper nerve connections in the clitoris, and sometimes just too many nerve connections, making it unbearable to have direct contact with their clitoris.

It is very uncommon that a woman cannot cum, but it does happen.

Women are much less physical, lots of foreplay is required, i find dominance does the trick with my girlfriend. If I pin her down and rip her clothes off, it drives her wild when I go "beastly" for her. Find what gets her off, and if it doesnt work, ever. As long as she's enjoying it, continue

You ever faked an orgasm as a man? Shit is intense yo

jup, a reach for the throat also does this job, Grabbing her ass in bed, Literal dominance does the thing usually, I used to be a virgin overlord aswell, when thinking kissy and huggy were enough, and were OMG so romantic, but shit just doesnt go that way.

There are some conditions females can have that will make it virtually impossible to orgasm, and others that make sex physically uncomfortable or painful. We aren't sure what percentage of women that is, because they're pretty likely to keep quiet about it. Never mind all the women who are too heavily distracted during sex to properly enjoy it. If you're having trouble getting a woman to orgasm the most likely culprit is that she isn't in her "zone." It sounds fucking stupid to men, but the average woman has a much harder time getting into the moment than practically any man would, and a lot of them don't even know that's their problem. If they aren't in the moment, they won't cum. Ironically, even the pressure of trying to have an orgasm can do a lot to take her out of it.

Solution: Low pressure, more comfort, and patience. Turn off the lights completely and go at it. If the problem persists, have a good sense of humor about it and encourage her to get down there on her own time and figure out what works for her.