I am currently in a long term relationship with a girl who is 16 hours away...

I am currently in a long term relationship with a girl who is 16 hours away. She had recently broken up with her ex and since I am away, she is now hanging out with him and his friends on the regular. I addressed this issue and she said she would stop. It has a been a few weeks now and it has continued. I am on my last thread and I am not taking her shit anymore. I am very close to ending it all. Before I do anything rash I'd like to hear some opinions. Thanks lads.

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She's probably getting with the lot of em on the regular bro. Best to just move on, get that mermaid puss my man

Hands, touchin hands

Reachin out, touchin me, touchin you

Sweet caroline

Shes not in a relationship
All you are is text and phone calls to her
Think of her as a child she doesn't see you there for you do not exists

Bro end that shit. Trust me I'm in the exact same boat (what state are you from and what state is your gf in?)
Mine lied from the start turns out she was married. Said she was getting a divorce year and a half later supposedly finally submitted the papers and still haven't seen proof though. She cheated on me twice now and swore they only saw each other because of the house or whatever but it's all lies dude if she cares about you tell her if you even think that shit is going on you are out or just leave. It's a bad situation. Once trust is gone in long distance it's gone and it's pretty well fucked

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There is no point. she's obvious not interested. the relationship doesn't even make sense. start a real relations. cut the crap out of your life.

don't wast time worrying about that girl

16 hours away...

you are not together

Stop talking to her

You already know that. You're just looking for the magic bullet explanation to help you past the hump

Ok. You know how hard it is for you to stop thinking about her. That's how she feels for her ex. Her ex is a guy. He's a typical guy.

He doesn't want her drama, but he feels zero guilt in calling her up when he's horny. The next day, he deals with the fall out of her thinking they're getting back together, then he pushes her away knowing that he has nothing to lose. She'll always give in.

And she won't tell you about it because she knows you'll lose respect for her. This is not to say she values you, but it's just a human need to want respect.

It'll be like this for months and she'll take out her anger on anyone who is NOT her ex. Do you want in those crosshairs? She won't see you as the guy who stuck with her. You'll get jumbled together and lumped into this period of her life. When she's ready to leave it, she'll leave you too and start over.

Best you can do is avoid all that. Stay out of her way and move on. It's already fucked for you. You're basically just waiting around for the other shoe to drop.

Most people cheat. It is a statistical fact. If you never have or don't think most people do then you're probably the one being cheated on. Just go google "I'm cheating on my boyfriend" or "I caught my [partner] cheating on me" or "How to tell my bf I slept with my ex" and etc. Most of these won't be LDRs. I guarantee you if she hasn't fucked her ex yet she is thinking about it and he probably is trying to pursue it.

My advice, don't be malicious or mean spirited. Just say
>Sweetie, I like you a lot but honestly if I was hanging out with my ex on the regular like you are I imagine something would absolutely happen at some point, We've had a good run but this just isn't worth it for me anymore. Good luck with everything.

Or whatever. Just don't get cucked my dude,

Did you know you can fuck girls using the internet to help find them now? Arent in good shape? Go running, ab roller, pushups, squats, 3 months later you're fucking 7s+ nightly

Cuck. Long distance relationships never work. Ever.

Good times never seemed so good

OP here. All of you are absolutely right. Will do what I have to tonight.

"I am currently in a long term relationship with a girl who is 16 hours away."

This is your problem. Not even worth reading the rest of your shitty post.

Go outside.

Pic related, some things found outside.

t. failed normie

I'd be inclined

Don't ever say that to a woman. That last part. You're unnecessarily fucking yourself over.

Instead, say: "As you know, you hanging with your ex makes me uncomfortable. I really like you. I think you're cool. From my point of view, it seems like you and your ex have a lot of unresolved issues and I feel that I'm in the middle of it. I don't like feeling that way, so I'm going to remove myself from the situation until you figure it out. I have a lot of faith in you. Goodnight"

Never end it, always leave it open

Spoken like a true hero
>I-I love you honey, distance doesn't matter... W-what's that soft grunting in the background, o-oh it's just your friend jamal doing pushups...O-oh ok...

Thanks user. Will write just that.

You guys realize she is absolutely fucking her ex right? I just want that context to be kept in mind here.

Definitely not true. I did long distance and married her. Over 10 years now.

Yes, we know she's fucking him. You're not a cuck if you walk away and tell her to handle her shit.

Her being an emotional wreck is worse than her spreading for her ex, but both are bad and both lead to everything not working. Walk away. She ain't ready. Doesn't mean you toss her completely. You just get the hell out.

The only difference between saying "it's over" and "get back with me once you've figured it out" is your ego. You stop talking to her either way, but in one scenerio, she feels she can now totally pursue her ex and purge you from her mind. In the other, while you've given her permission to pursue her ex, she feels like a shit for doing it and respects you for trying to be understanding.

Basically, her ex is done with her. That is clear. In 6 months, a year, they'll be over no matter what you say. So at least give yourself the groundwork for having options about it later

Just end it

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>In the other, while you've given her permission to pursue her ex, she feels like a shit for doing it and respects you for trying to be understanding.
I'd definitely argue you're giving her too much credit, OP suggesting he wants to get back together is a bad idea in my personal opinion and he'd come off stronger moving on relentlessly. It is an ego thing but that's basically what relationships are fueled by so I don't see it as a bad thing here

Quads kill my argument, but I wouldn't say I'm giving her too much credit.

Her ex does NOT want to get back with her. Given what we know, if he honestly did, she would have already left OP. He's being relentless, yes, but just for her attention and pussy. He's definitely trying to play her. It's realistically over between them.

Whether she feels bad about it is almost immaterial. She'll give herself a narrative later. Women make up their own stories to suit their needs.

However, how you handle it NOW (what you say or do) leads to her seeing things easier or harder later, or whenever the mood hits her. LOL

Giving her a hard "BYE" makes shit harder for you, however she spins that, it's probably worse off for you, and why do that?