Feels thread? Feels thread

Feels thread? Feels thread

Feeling like shit again. Broke 2 hearts in 3 months and about to do the same tomorrow. I'm not worthy of love.

got my heart broken over 10 years ago and came here because of it. fuck you assholes who don't care for other people's feelings.

Girlfriend left me for one of my friends, I thought things were going good. Turns out I was wrong, and my family was right. I just wish I could be happy with her and nobody else in this world.

You dont know shit about me or the situation.

>don't have any friends
>Always tell myself "Who needs friends?"
>Tfw

Join a community faggot.

then uh...

care to explain the situation?

Fuck you m8. If you're going to break up with people all the time, YOU are the problem. KYS

Long story short. Lost the love of my life, couldn't continue the relationship. Out of fear to be alone I replaced her with another girl who is really lovely, but I was not at all ready for another relationship, so I broke her heart. Love is really important to me but it seems like it isn't ment for me, because I hurt people with the best intentions. Imagine the feeling of something that means the world to you is not ment to be for you. I can't seem to find love, luck, peace, happiness.

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Been there Sup Forumsro. You gotta get it through your head that you're never gonna have that same love again. That doesn't mean you won't experience an equal or even greater love, but there's some part of your psyche that's trying to replace the exact characteristics of your past relationship with current girls because you don't want to deal with the feeling of loss.

Don't convince yourself that the universe is against you, and that you're somehow damned from achieving your desires. You have to understand where your thoughts and feelings are coming from and conquer them. And believe fully in the potentiality of your own life and goals.

If you don't think you are compatible with your partner, then don't fucking date him/her. I've had a series of crushes in my past, but didn't act until I knew that the person was the one. I've been happily dating this girl for 5 months because I've shown restraint

Thanks bro. I'm working on that, but sometimes dwelling in your own misery seems so much more easier.

>Broke 2 hearts in 3 months and about to do the same tomorrow.

lucky bastard

This is hard. Really fucking hard. Because you're going to have to put yourself in uncomfortable situations to improve, and probably even change fundamental aspects of yourself.

I know you've probably heard people say "just get out there" ad nauseum, but these things become cliches for a reason. The hard truth is you have to put yourself in social situations, force yourself to try to connect with people, and maybe even analyze the parts of yourself that might be putting people off. But the most important thing is gaining experience through the grueling and monotonous process of pushing yourself to "be out there" and expose your personality to people so they have the chance to decide whether or not they want to associate with you. And don't be afraid to be the first to ask, "hey, want to go grab some beers?" or some generic shit to get the ball rolling of establishing a regular connection with people.

Oh yeah it's easy as fuck, that's why most of us do it for a long time. But you gotta snap out of it and realize you're in control. You're not destiny's bitch, being toyed with in some puppet show of bullshit and false promises. You're a fucking human and you have infinite potential. Don't allow that nagging part of your brain to convince you otherwise.

Or just have casual relationships and be upfront about them. I've had plenty of relationships where I directly told women it was just casual fun, and they're a lot more receptive to it than you'd imagine. Just be CLEAR and do it fucking EARLY in the relationship.

>mfw can't sleep because of fear so i think about my life and how lonely i am

Short story time boys
>Me and my girlfriend split around Christmas time
>We still occasionally hanged out with each other
We had broken up, because staying together was putting too much stress on each other
>Two weeks later we were playing some PS3 games
>We made it into a tradition to occasionally play video games with my roommate playing sometimes too
>Fast forward two weeks later
>We were playing PS3 again, fooling around, giving myself a handicap so at least it's interesting, she occasionally beating me
>But I started feeling some tension between us, sex was in the air that night, both were extremely touchy
>I massaged her back, she put her legs on my lap
>After around 15-20 minutes I laid onto my bed as my back was getting fucked from the bad chair
>We stood in silence for a couple of minutes
>Out of the blue I asked "What are we doing with each other, where are these game nights leading?"
>"I don't know user, I find them great"
>"I completely enjoy them, too. But what about us?"
>"I don't know, it just feels right being with you." she said while putting her palm on my chest.
> I slowly grabbed her around the neck and pulled her in while I was getting up and had the most passionate kiss since we first got together
>She didn't resist at all
>She started moaning and got on the top of me
>I removed her top, kissing her entire body
>Yadda-yadda yadda
>"I am on my period"
>We continued to make out.
Even without the sex it had been probably the most passion I had ever had for a human being as it was accumulating in both of us for so long.
>Then we start going out regularly as before life is great.
>The new semester rolls by, nothing major changes
>She starts going out with people from the university more
>I stay at home, being tired
>Start not showing up to lectures because tired
>She starts going out more, finding a job
>We shave less time together
cont? Probably another paragraph or two at most.

ok, let me break it down for you:
This thread? All about you being a pretentious and affected, self-absorbed, half-finished non-person. probably below the age of 22, 23 (though i might be wrong on that. could be older and just skipped the part where you develop a character and personality). undercooked. still dealing with your complexes and ego. still not facing enough actual struggle to get over yourself. You literally just made this thread to ("anonymously") let everyone know how much pussy you (want us to believe you) get. Also because you love talking about yourself. Basically nothing besides yourself is of interest to you.
Then, this reply?
It basically confirms everything i just said. You open a thread to pretend like you are chastising yourself, yet you really just wanna talk about yourself because you probably still believe your own bullshit when you tell yourself inside your head that you are the shit, head-honcho.
To quote a smart musician: when you're ripe, you'll bleed out of control.

Also
tl;dr get the fuck over yourself

Yeah, whatever bro.

Shit man... you're inspirational. Thanks a lot.

continue bro, i'm reading this /op

this. Fuck you OP

No problem, bro. And there's always gonna be salty little bitches trying to make you feel like you don't have a right to be down, but just let that shit stay in your peripheral and focus on improving your outlook. It might seem far-off but self-affirmation is a powerful thing, and when you get in the habit of it, you can find some amazing shit happening in your life.

Wake up every day and tell yourself what you want. Speak it into the universe, and believe whole-heartedly that it will come to you, then be patient. You'll see it happen. Just keep your head high, bro.

pretty much! actually see a whole lot of this egocentric crap on Sup Forums. most threads are just a cover for the op to talk about himself - to others.

>Instead of seeing her in the university I spend more time home
>Waking up 2 hours late
>Not showing up to lectures
>We barely see each other because of new job, that requires her to go abroad for the whole summer basically
>I start getting lonely in retrospect also depressed
>My roommate found a job too
>I stay at home playing vidya
>I slowly grow apart from any person that is near me
>My girlfriend asks me what is wrong with me
>"I don't know" I answer
>She tries to get more information out of me
>I simply stay there silent, like I was for the past three months of my life
>I see that she cared for me, but I didn't.
>We still see each other for couple of hours per week in total
>She is completely busy with University stuff and work stuff that I have no time to see her at all
>I still skip lectures, being further engulfed into my own loneliness
>I cared so little that instead of studying for the exam I went out with friends
>One of them asked me "Why don't you kill yourself?"
We were talking some existential bullshit beforehand
>"Because I don't want to disappoint my parents."
>That was the only reason I could have thought then
>Next day after the exam gf comes to me and tells me "We need to talk"
>She told me the usual break up bullshit
>I went apeshit, started crying, shouting
>Complete mental breakdown
>It must have been the most pathetic thing I have ever done, ever
>After this moment I realized that out of all my low points in life this was the lowest it has ever gotten.
>I didn't find motivation in anything
>Asked my roommate for advice, opened up more than I have ever done to anybody except my now-ex-gf
>Summer begins, I go back to my hometown still depressed, but with a clearer focus on life
>Start going out with friends
>Communicate with people more
cont?

humans have finite potential. you are an idiot. did daddy give you his business? or is he still going to?

yeah brah

Nah, daddy just didn't raise me to be a bitter, self-defeating scrub who tears people down over the internet to cope with the lack of fulfillment and satisfaction of my life.

Optimism and perseverance are everything in life, and I hope you learn that someday.

>Me and my father fix up some cars
>Learn basic maintenance, pick up some basic skills
>Me and my ex occasionally chat and skype to check up on each other
>I go to small gatherings from time to time
>Talk to friends regularly
>I reduce the amount of vidya in my life drastically
>"Oh, shit I have so much free time"
Fast forward to about two weeks ago
>I struggle to find what to do with my time as friends have dispersed again to go to universities and I stay again with only my thoughts
>I am too lazy to open a book to study or to go out and do cardio
>I start thinking about her again
>Start remembering all the good features he had
>She was always dependable
>She had raw emotions, never afraid to speak her mind
>The scent of her hair
>The way she hold a cigarette
>I spiral into depression once again
>Start thinking what I have done and how I lost the person I have leaned on emotionally
>How I lost this genuine person to my own stupidity
>We haven't talk to each other in over three weeks
>I had hit her with "What's going on?" over two weeks ago
>No response
>I send her some shitty meme
>No response
>Look up last week "Seen on 2nd of September"
>Realize I really have been getting ignored for the past two weeks
>Go deeper into my head, think I am the worst human being
>Cannot stop thinking about her, even 4 months after the break up
>I start losing that will to live, nothing excites me
>Laying in my bed for the past week
I miss her bros, she was the best thing to have happened to me and I fucked it by being immature and not talking about my problems.
She has been ignoring me, although she has been logging into facebook and liking posts, not even "seeing" me. I don't know what to do.
Sorry if it was underwhelming. I have been struggling for the past week with that and I literally lose sleep over this and I get weird dreams(I sleep undisturbed otherwise) and I realize that I am turning into that walking shell of a person that I was 4-5 months ago.

Actually in the same situation like you bro. Even thinking about her makes me physically sick to my stomach because I miss her so much. Fuck.

What happened to you, friend?

Had a crush on a girl for a year, literally so in love it made me sick. We didn't even spoke much, we only saw eachother sometimes a week and chatted. Went on and on and on. This summer I just stopped and I actually felt better. Last week my friend told me that she told him she liked a guy last year but she didn't tell him who because ''you know him''. He's literally my best friend, so I'm in panic because she might have liked me all the time as well, but what if she doesn't mean me. She's so perfect it actually hurts and I dont know what to do so I just miss her and be miserable.

Ask her either way, even if she says no.
You have nothing to lose. Things are not going to get better if you don't make them so. Just ask her to hang out or some shit. You can rekindle the spark. Don't give up man, don't be like me and fuck up something because you were a bystander in your own life.

I should man... Problem is that I had this crush while I was in a relationship... I ended my relationship (not because of her) and also stopped ''crushing'' on my crush this summer. Now I have a new gf, but my heart is on fire for this girl again... What the fuck do I do?

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Anyone got the Elisa Sinclair story?

That really makes things complicated. Think of it in a couple of years time, what you will regret more and you will have a broader picture in your head, whether or not it would be worth it.

Does anyone have the hermit crab story. I love that god damn hermit crab story

Typical shit.

Wish I'd never been born, wish I had friends, wish I wasn't an unmotivated piece of filth, wish I could find someone to love at least once, wish I didn't want to die, wish I could be the person my parents want me to be, wish I wasn't a disappointment, wish I was, wish I was, wish I was.

Many wants and wishes, all possible to accomplish I'm just existing with no will to live.

>kys

Wish I could.

thnx bruh. I hope everything will work out for you as well. Wish we could stay in contact cuz I really wanna help you get through this shit.

>pic related

Some throwaway email so we could keep in touch, maybe.

Got curved by the girl of my dreams today. Need someone to vent to.

yeah man, you can mail me at AGuyFromTheChan at gmail.com.
will get a lot of tossers at there but I'm sure I can filter you out of those. feel free to send shit.

I sent you an e-mail that it has ps3 related stuff somewhere written.

>pic related as proof.

Go on. What happened?

Yeah, I haven't heard that before.

Weird thing is I feel exactly like the OP, besides the intelligence. I never applied myself so I don't know about my acedemic potential.

I expected some kind of bullshit like that, it doesn't help.

I've felt this way since I graduated high school. I don't see a point in trying, and I know there IS no point.

That's life, yeah yeah you're supposed to give it meaning or whatever inspirational shit you can come up with.

Were all going to die, obviously, I just can't get over the fact that it's for nothing.

>but muh journey not destination

Fuck that, I've heard every answer to it and I'm not trying to get a different one.

I truly hope some day I'll have some realization like these assholes saying they thought the same and turned it around.

>edge

Yeah yeah I'm edgy.

Id love to live happily and work hard working towards goals and aspirations, it's going to happen.

Just came to vent.

Not going to happen*

It's not for nothing. You leave a legacy behind (or ahead). Your children, your friend, family, etc. Someone to leave an impression on, to teach, to learn. I am a complete nihilist as you and the guy from the pic. I know I have so much potential, to achieve at life. But I too don't see a point. That's why I am stuck doing nothing during the whole day. I know that life has no purpose, unless you make one.
For one it is going to heaven. I don't believe in it, so I must find another purpose in life, however stupid it is. Live to be better than your yesterday's self. Live to learn to be a better person, live to make a family that you want to be proud of.
Life is what you make it out to be. So get out and try to find a purpose. Just start doing something productive. Go out for a walk, RIGHT now. Have a breath of fresh air sit down on a bench alone somewhere and breathe, don't think.
Just get moving.

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thumbs up, old fag by any chance?