I'm drunk

I'm drunk.

i wish i could get over her. but i can't. it's been 4 months now and I still can't think of anyone besides her. i hate my life.

might just kill myself tonight

anyone in a similar situation?

Yeah man, Shes always on my mind. I sometimes wake up gasping for air for whatever reason and I instantly think of her. It really fucking sucks. Sometimes I can't hear people think cause my mind is just so cluttered with her.

Just go fuck someone. The second you get your dick wet, you will forget all about her.

Fucking kids....

Been there. Give it time. It passes

Don't listen to this fool, You might just miss her even more and miss the great sex you had with her.

Some people really don't get over it.

Which is their choice. Thats why hes drinking, hes fucking sad. Let him grieve.

Yeah bro.. It's been three and a half years.. I think about her everyday. It's like no other girl even tries compared to how awesome she was. She was everything to me.

It's hardwired into your brain, faglord.

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Girl I fell in love with was sneaking around with my fucking boss. I know she was slutty but you can only keep that shit tamed for so long. I got through that. Life has never been better after I got over the few months of shit feels after. There is always hope user. It won't last forever; how could it possibly for anybody?

It's been two years, it definitely gets better but not by much

well a trick I learned is that every time you really miss your ex and are thinking about texting /calling her, Jack off first. shit fucking works

This works in a lot of different cases

Takes about a year to completely get over it (if actually in love).

Now falling in love again.... That's the hard part. Haven't been able to with anyone else.

4 years for me. Just looked at the calendar and realized its gonna be 5 in a month.

She's married and I'm engaged but I can't stop thinking about her. Every fucking day.

Almost killed myself 3 years ago because of it.

yep for sure

Its the trust thing. You've got the walls up around your heart. Which is a good thing cause who wants to be hurt like that all over again?

Get a dog dude.

maybe i'm not the only one but no one remembered my birthday

It's ok OP. Life goes on. Just know those green eyes are looking up lustfully at someone else's face as those DSLs of hers are gliding hungrily over someone else's cock. She is probably begging to taste their cum, while they slowly twist her hair around their fist and guide her pace for their own joy.

Probably just remembering the good times

You basically dated jack nicholson with tits user...

Haven't talked to this girl in a year and a half, I've fucked other girls since but I still think about her just about every day

what a stupid piece of shit, you blew it, seriously, what the fuck is wrong with you?

this

go to her fucking house and kidnap her bro! put her in the trunk and keep her forever!

Yes. This year, the only time I was really happy was when I looked in the mirror and noticed how thinner I got. Right now I'm focused on exercising and dieting. This has helped me, OP.

Hi op

Yes im in a similar situation.

Only instead of 4 months its been 6 years.

Im 36 now unmarried and childless and im coming to the realization that i failed my life miserably.

And i missed the only true shot at happiness which would have been swallowing my pride and doing everything possible to make it work.

And now im old fat ugly and out of shape and i will have to settle, if i even get that lucky.

Hope u still have time to work things out. I have my fingers crossed for u OP

I've been infatuated with the wrong person for the last the last three years. We were together but only very briefly. Getting over it is very slow but it hurts less everyday. Eventually you forget all together and find someone new. Keep living.

Now I'm sadder then before.

Shit sucks dude. Step it up. Go do something to improve on yourself and work from there.

damn dude.

I lost the love of my life Nov 2012, just days from my birthday. I pretty much told her I loved her and she said she still had feelings for her ex.

I am married to someone else now. However, no, not even being married helps. That real feeling you only get once, and you'll keep looking for a very long time for someone like her, but she is not there, and it's just impossible

Ok I'm not gay or bi in the slightest. at all!!! But found myself stroking off to twink stuff. Also used to get buddies alone and try stuff. Now that gf dumped me I found I like traps too. WTF man. At 1st I worried I was no. But no way jose.

Ive gone that route. Ive had two devastating breakups. Its easy in your twenties. You go work out, u get fitter almost immediately, u fuck random hot chicks to get over the old ones.

Its harder in your 30s. Work is all consuming. Ur not as athletic. The gym seems pointless and a waste of time. U realize u dont attract the girls u are attracted to. On top of that i lost my dad and have been on a tailspin of alcohol and drugs even since he had a heart attack and died in my arms as i tried to do CPR.

I dont want to depress you. All i want to say is you probably still have time to make it right. Whatever that entails.

Best of luck.

Yeah man
It's been about 8 months for me. I've been drowning in pussy since but it's entirely meaningless. I always told my ex when we were together that I needed more sex and could easily get it. She had enough and told me to go get it and kicked me out of our appartment into the cold.

I still think about her whenever I'm beating up some ho.
I have sex with strangers to fill the void because at least they want me for what I know I'm good at.
I'm a lot better at sex than at relationshipping.

Man i envy you. I wish i could attract girls to do that but i have to resort to prostitutes.

Think of suicide every damn day.