Out of the last 5 times I've tried, with two different girls, I lost my boner right before or shortly after putting a condom/entering her vagina.
Starting to seriously think I have Erectile Dysfunction, even though I'm able to remain hard and cum from Blowjobs.
What's wrong with me? How do I fix this? Yes I smoke. Yes I drink. Yes I'm a stressed out guy in general (mostly due to work).
Is there a magic food that can help me? Do I absolutely need to go get a prescription for Viagra or something?
Kevin Bailey
ugh this happened to me too
haven't needed to resolve it yet so I haven't
will bump for help tho lol
David Scott
Smoke will do it. And unless you're eating like a super-faggot vegan to counterbalace it, there's not a whole lot you can do. Lose the smokes, have 1 glass a day, and eat your greens.
Gavin Rodriguez
well there is something you can eat which always works but i'm not telling. fuk u assholes
Robert Hill
I've tried not smoking for a couple days before sex, that didn't work. Tried the same with alcohol, that didn't work.
Do I need to go cold turkey for a year or something?
how old are you? 24 here
Oliver James
Performance anxiety might be hitting you here. Try your best not to think of previous experiences before or during the deed.
Charles Campbell
same thing here - I'm a young guy, too. 28. about to be 29.
i've been popping viagra to help
it's annoying but apparently studies are coming out about how our generation has more of this issue than is historically the case. Not sure why.
Eli Ward
It's bull testicles.
Aaron Reed
death grip syndrome?
do you jerk off a lot? >yes your a Sup Forumstard do you grip it and rip it when u jerk off >retard strength so probably
srsly tho look up death grip
Nicholas Hill
Quitting smoking all together will do it. Smoking reduces bloodflow in general. Poor diet will do that, too.
Aaron Perry
Im 27, have the same problem alot of the times. I smoke weed and hasch daily, drink on the weekends and my job stresses me the fuck out. You need a hobby, ive recently taken up biking in the woods on a fatbike, and I'll admit it actually helps with maintaining the erection.
Never came from a blowjob though...
Adam Murphy
1. Quit jerking off to porn 2. Quit jerking off in general, and if you do then go light and slow. It is frustrating but it keeps the sensitivity high instead of destroying it. 3. Find someone you are comfortable with to the point where you aren't worried about her pleasure, but rather just trying to enjoy the experience together. It might even help if you get her off first that way you know either way she's happy.
John Baker
It's the condoms man, they're a total mood killer.
Samuel Rivera
better if you try being intimate, love making is indeed sex, you wont enjoy it if your "partners" are more than your dick mate. just get one girl. if she aint enough to satuisfy, pick a new one, a better one
Ryder Robinson
Not sure about you but I've had that problem pop up a few times for me. Turns out (for me) it was the fucking pre-workout I was taking. Stopped taking it, dick started working again
Austin Morales
Yeah, it's the condoms. Use a ring when putting on and problem solved, you can keep killing yourself smoking like I do.
Jose Cooper
try a good multivitamin.. and magnesium supplements. they work.
Caleb Bennett
Don't know about your size OP but regular condoms would squeeze my shit very tight. Buying bigger condoms made the experience 100x better.
Brayden Phillips
35, so i guess I'm getting to that point lol. I also have had low testosterone for at least 7 years... kinda came out of left field, so that's a big contributor for me
Ethan Wood
I think so too. I feel like it's disrespectful to ask to do it without one though?
I can quit cigarettes no problem. Weed is another story...
I do a fair amount of physical activity already, interesting though
the girl I've been seeing lately is a 10/10. I guess I actually am focused on pleasing her though..
Isaiah Walker
Sound like a mental thing. My friend had the same issue. Young and no problems getting a boner alone. Its most likely the pressure of the situation thats fucking you up. The solution? Do it with someone your comfortable being intimate with. It'll take the pressure off and once you get passed it it'll be gone for life for the most part.
Connor Cooper
i never use one and never asks. 27 years old, no kids i know of. sweden fuck yeah, no
Jack Baker
Low T. Do exercise and some competitive physical activity (sport, MMA, etc)
Leo Hughes
>Yes I smoke. Yes I drink. >Is there a magic food that can help me? This is what is wrong with people today. Instead of dealing with the things he KNOWS are no good, he looks for a magical out. God damnit, we need another flood.
Jaxon Cook
>I feel like it's disrespectful to ask to do it without one Don't be such a beta.
Nah for real though if you explain it clearly as an actual issue they might understand. If you lose your dick it's no good for them either.
Or just try a different brand of condom, I switched to more expensive ones because the cheap ones are total crap and feel like shit.
Parker Harris
I know a lot of people of drink and smoke and have no such problem
I'll check that out
Could very well be my testosterone. But I already do physical activities so that confuses me
I'll consider it. What brand did you switch from and went with?
Carson Brooks
Guys, it's literally because of porn.
Luis Anderson
u r wut u eet lol
Camden Jenkins
I jerk off to porn at least once a day and still have a healthy sex life lasting 20+ minutes with no problem
Christian Young
Less porn will help. Also, try to go steady and go raw dog condoms suck for me and gave me this issue. Stop thinking about other things other than what's happening at that moment 4 play helps too I love going down and making my chick moan. Try your preferred position to. Doggy is my go to
I was having these same issue op 35 here,then I tried the advice I gave you above and I'm a lot better. Also go to the doctor and make sure your prostate is not inflated he might give you antibiotics if it is also you might need testosterone shots. Good luck OP!
David Jackson
I use the skyn brand condoms now, usually go for the ultra thins.
Austin Gutierrez
Because depression and lack of confidence
Samuel Rogers
Viagra only works if you have the sexual drive thoughts there - and if yours are clouded, won't work as well as you'd hope.
Try an amphetamine or amphetamine like substance. Used to do 12 hour sessions, fall asleep for a few hours and back at it.
>get testosterone from your local gym dealer.
Jose Morgan
It's normal for you to not keep a full erection when having an intercourse . Does it become flaccid ? Drinking is the only thing I could see as the issue but I doubt it . There are many types of things you could eat to help with your sexual desire but that could also "cumming" too fast . Oysters , ginger , chocolate etc .. You might just need to do abit of exercise with your penis to prevent this . As in when you take a piss , you can cut out the piss and "hold" it in right ? Do the same whislt not pissing for about 10 seconds , whenever you can . Remember to squeeze your buttcheeks when doing this . Also , stay away from pills and the likes . If you're young enough it may kill you if taken in large amounts .
Justin Thompson
>I like to do unhealthy things >I don't understand why my body doesn't work right
Grayson Howard
Had the same problem for a while. Mostly cause i was depressed without knowing it.
At some point (about half a year of this problem) everything just started to work normally
Jeremiah Cooper
Would you say you have an healthy lifestyle ?
As much as I find Doggy hot, I still get a semi from it. And I usually lose my boner completely during a cunnilingus
What does the pissing thing even do?
Aiden Green
This. Think of having a naturally working dick as your reward for taking care of yourself.
Wyatt Hill
Surprised no one recommended kegels, they solved my problems.
Charles Rodriguez
You might just be dehydrated. Up your water intake for a few days and see if that helps
Liam Hughes
You're gay. Try fucking some men. Problem solved,
Leo Kelly
I hear cheetos help make magic boners
Luis Baker
Sounds mental if you're able to keep it up at other times. Performance anxiety.
Daniel Rodriguez
It happened to me, so I tested it getting meself fucked by a trap. It worked, and now I am omnisexual, because I do not doubt me penis no more. Just enjoy the things you do for a couple of times without penetrating, all in yo head user
Dylan Peterson
It's all most probably in your head. I've been there.
I moved to a new city after a long relationship a few years ago. Started using Tinder, fucked quite a lot without any issue for 2 years. Then I met this 6/10 girl, brought her home. She was so "unfeminine", distant and weird, I couldn't perform. She didn't help at all and made it awkward.
From this point, I became paranoid about this. It happened again with another girl, and then again with one that I used to see frequently without any issue. I was able to get hard and come with a blowjob, or jerking off, but as soon as it was time to put the condom on, I lost my errection. It drove me nuts and made me very nervous. To the point where I just stopped seeing girls for almost a year because I feared it would happen again.
Went back home 2 months ago, started seeing an old FB frequently, very nice, caring, girl, and now I'm back on track.
It's a given that you should live a healthy life, it helps, but it's still most probably just in your head. You need to find a girl you know and trust and just enjoy the moment. The key is to be relaxed and confident. Take your time. You'd think that women know how to deal with that issue. The reality is that most of them don't. I'm 36 and I also notice a mentality shift. Women are generally less and less caring and feminine, when they're not straight up castrating narcissists.
Don't feel bad about this. Also, you should probably know it happens to a lot of guys. We're just not comfortable talking about it to anyone, really.
Luis Allen
No. Not at all. I eat crap and drink every other weekend. I dont exercise
Nathaniel Allen
THIS
Had the same issue OP, if it was ED you'd be getting it all the time since it's a physiological problem, not just during sex. The way I got over it was banged some random 3/10 who I didn't give a flying fuck about, just to prove to myself I could fuck, if I just got over my nerves and performance anxiety. Best of luck bro, but I promise you - this isn't nearly as big a problem as your worried about and far more common than you realise
Jack Brooks
nigga you gay
Camden Ward
Look online mate. If youre not old then theres TONS of answers. It could be your diet. it could be that youre masturbating to much. Maybe the way you masturbate is too different from how you have intercourse with most females. You could simply be nervous. And at this point if its happened twice then theres the possibility that your fear of losing an erection is causing you to lose confidence in in your ability to maintain one.
Juan Anderson
I'm the same way, which is fine, because all I really want are blowjobs anyway. But if I'm going to cum during sex she has to be super tight.
I was skeptical about how much of a difference there is from woman to woman and how much of a difference it would actually make to me, until I had sex with lots of different women and saw for myself. A tight pussy makes a big difference.
Josiah Reed
Definitely not all together straight.
Jordan Hughes
try nofap. it helped me. no porn or masturbation for 90 days. you'll see results after only 2 weeks.
Jackson Edwards
Lads lads. Just think about baseball its an old method but she works a treat
Luis Mitchell
Probably too much porn.
I do the same thing you do, I use viagra with new girls, and break the dosage down as I sleep with them more and after a while, I don't even need it with those girls.
Also staying hydrated and getting a lot of sleep helps.