I can't keep my boner up during intercourse

I can't keep my boner up during intercourse.

Out of the last 5 times I've tried, with two different girls, I lost my boner right before or shortly after putting a condom/entering her vagina.

Starting to seriously think I have Erectile Dysfunction, even though I'm able to remain hard and cum from Blowjobs.

What's wrong with me? How do I fix this?
Yes I smoke. Yes I drink. Yes I'm a stressed out guy in general (mostly due to work).

Is there a magic food that can help me? Do I absolutely need to go get a prescription for Viagra or something?

ugh this happened to me too

haven't needed to resolve it yet so I haven't

will bump for help tho lol

Smoke will do it. And unless you're eating like a super-faggot vegan to counterbalace it, there's not a whole lot you can do. Lose the smokes, have 1 glass a day, and eat your greens.

well there is something you can eat which always works
but i'm not telling. fuk u assholes

I've tried not smoking for a couple days before sex, that didn't work. Tried the same with alcohol, that didn't work.

Do I need to go cold turkey for a year or something?

how old are you? 24 here

Performance anxiety might be hitting you here. Try your best not to think of previous experiences before or during the deed.

same thing here - I'm a young guy, too. 28. about to be 29.

i've been popping viagra to help

it's annoying but apparently studies are coming out about how our generation has more of this issue than is historically the case. Not sure why.

It's bull testicles.

death grip syndrome?

do you jerk off a lot?
>yes your a Sup Forumstard
do you grip it and rip it when u jerk off
>retard strength so probably

srsly tho look up death grip

Quitting smoking all together will do it. Smoking reduces bloodflow in general. Poor diet will do that, too.

Im 27, have the same problem alot of the times. I smoke weed and hasch daily, drink on the weekends and my job stresses me the fuck out. You need a hobby, ive recently taken up biking in the woods on a fatbike, and I'll admit it actually helps with maintaining the erection.


Never came from a blowjob though...

1. Quit jerking off to porn
2. Quit jerking off in general, and if you do then go light and slow. It is frustrating but it keeps the sensitivity high instead of destroying it.
3. Find someone you are comfortable with to the point where you aren't worried about her pleasure, but rather just trying to enjoy the experience together. It might even help if you get her off first that way you know either way she's happy.

It's the condoms man, they're a total mood killer.

better if you try being intimate, love making is indeed sex, you wont enjoy it if your "partners" are more than your dick mate. just get one girl. if she aint enough to satuisfy, pick a new one, a better one

Not sure about you but I've had that problem pop up a few times for me. Turns out (for me) it was the fucking pre-workout I was taking. Stopped taking it, dick started working again

Yeah, it's the condoms. Use a ring when putting on and problem solved, you can keep killing yourself smoking like I do.

try a good multivitamin.. and magnesium supplements. they work.

Don't know about your size OP but regular condoms would squeeze my shit very tight. Buying bigger condoms made the experience 100x better.

35, so i guess I'm getting to that point lol. I also have had low testosterone for at least 7 years... kinda came out of left field, so that's a big contributor for me

I think so too. I feel like it's disrespectful to ask to do it without one though?

I can quit cigarettes no problem. Weed is another story...

I do a fair amount of physical activity already, interesting though

the girl I've been seeing lately is a 10/10. I guess I actually am focused on pleasing her though..

Sound like a mental thing. My friend had the same issue. Young and no problems getting a boner alone. Its most likely the pressure of the situation thats fucking you up. The solution? Do it with someone your comfortable being intimate with. It'll take the pressure off and once you get passed it it'll be gone for life for the most part.

i never use one and never asks. 27 years old, no kids i know of. sweden fuck yeah, no

Low T. Do exercise and some competitive physical activity (sport, MMA, etc)

>Yes I smoke. Yes I drink.
>Is there a magic food that can help me?
This is what is wrong with people today. Instead of dealing with the things he KNOWS are no good, he looks for a magical out.
God damnit, we need another flood.

>I feel like it's disrespectful to ask to do it without one
Don't be such a beta.

Nah for real though if you explain it clearly as an actual issue they might understand. If you lose your dick it's no good for them either.

Or just try a different brand of condom, I switched to more expensive ones because the cheap ones are total crap and feel like shit.

I know a lot of people of drink and smoke and have no such problem

I'll check that out

Could very well be my testosterone. But I already do physical activities so that confuses me

I'll consider it. What brand did you switch from and went with?

Guys, it's literally because of porn.

u r wut u eet
lol

I jerk off to porn at least once a day and still have a healthy sex life lasting 20+ minutes with no problem

Less porn will help.
Also, try to go steady and go raw dog condoms suck for me and gave me this issue.
Stop thinking about other things other than what's happening at that moment
4 play helps too I love going down and making my chick moan.
Try your preferred position to. Doggy is my go to

I was having these same issue op 35 here,then I tried the advice I gave you above and I'm a lot better. Also go to the doctor and make sure your prostate is not inflated he might give you antibiotics if it is also you might need testosterone shots. Good luck OP!

I use the skyn brand condoms now, usually go for the ultra thins.

Because depression and lack of confidence

Viagra only works if you have the sexual drive thoughts there - and if yours are clouded, won't work as well as you'd hope.

Try an amphetamine or amphetamine like substance. Used to do 12 hour sessions, fall asleep for a few hours and back at it.

>get testosterone from your local gym dealer.

It's normal for you to not keep a full erection when having an intercourse . Does it become flaccid ? Drinking is the only thing I could see as the issue but I doubt it . There are many types of things you could eat to help with your sexual desire but that could also "cumming" too fast . Oysters , ginger , chocolate etc .. You might just need to do abit of exercise with your penis to prevent this . As in when you take a piss , you can cut out the piss and "hold" it in right ? Do the same whislt not pissing for about 10 seconds , whenever you can . Remember to squeeze your buttcheeks when doing this . Also , stay away from pills and the likes . If you're young enough it may kill you if taken in large amounts .

>I like to do unhealthy things
>I don't understand why my body doesn't work right

Had the same problem for a while. Mostly cause i was depressed without knowing it.

At some point (about half a year of this problem) everything just started to work normally

Would you say you have an healthy lifestyle ?

As much as I find Doggy hot, I still get a semi from it. And I usually lose my boner completely during a cunnilingus

What does the pissing thing even do?

This.
Think of having a naturally working dick as your reward for taking care of yourself.

Surprised no one recommended kegels, they solved my problems.

You might just be dehydrated. Up your water intake for a few days and see if that helps

You're gay. Try fucking some men. Problem solved,

I hear cheetos help make magic boners

Sounds mental if you're able to keep it up at other times.
Performance anxiety.

It happened to me, so I tested it getting meself fucked by a trap. It worked, and now I am omnisexual, because I do not doubt me penis no more. Just enjoy the things you do for a couple of times without penetrating, all in yo head user

It's all most probably in your head. I've been there.

I moved to a new city after a long relationship a few years ago. Started using Tinder, fucked quite a lot without any issue for 2 years. Then I met this 6/10 girl, brought her home. She was so "unfeminine", distant and weird, I couldn't perform. She didn't help at all and made it awkward.

From this point, I became paranoid about this. It happened again with another girl, and then again with one that I used to see frequently without any issue. I was able to get hard and come with a blowjob, or jerking off, but as soon as it was time to put the condom on, I lost my errection. It drove me nuts and made me very nervous. To the point where I just stopped seeing girls for almost a year because I feared it would happen again.

Went back home 2 months ago, started seeing an old FB frequently, very nice, caring, girl, and now I'm back on track.

It's a given that you should live a healthy life, it helps, but it's still most probably just in your head. You need to find a girl you know and trust and just enjoy the moment. The key is to be relaxed and confident. Take your time.
You'd think that women know how to deal with that issue. The reality is that most of them don't. I'm 36 and I also notice a mentality shift. Women are generally less and less caring and feminine, when they're not straight up castrating narcissists.

Don't feel bad about this. Also, you should probably know it happens to a lot of guys. We're just not comfortable talking about it to anyone, really.

No. Not at all.
I eat crap and drink every other weekend.
I dont exercise

THIS

Had the same issue OP, if it was ED you'd be getting it all the time since it's a physiological problem, not just during sex. The way I got over it was banged some random 3/10 who I didn't give a flying fuck about, just to prove to myself I could fuck, if I just got over my nerves and performance anxiety. Best of luck bro, but I promise you - this isn't nearly as big a problem as your worried about and far more common than you realise

nigga you gay

Look online mate. If youre not old then theres TONS of answers. It could be your diet. it could be that youre masturbating to much. Maybe the way you masturbate is too different from how you have intercourse with most females. You could simply be nervous. And at this point if its happened twice then theres the possibility that your fear of losing an erection is causing you to lose confidence in in your ability to maintain one.

I'm the same way, which is fine, because all I really want are blowjobs anyway. But if I'm going to cum during sex she has to be super tight.

I was skeptical about how much of a difference there is from woman to woman and how much of a difference it would actually make to me, until I had sex with lots of different women and saw for myself. A tight pussy makes a big difference.

Definitely not all together straight.

try nofap. it helped me. no porn or masturbation for 90 days. you'll see results after only 2 weeks.

Lads lads. Just think about baseball its an old method but she works a treat

Probably too much porn.

I do the same thing you do, I use viagra with new girls, and break the dosage down as I sleep with them more and after a while, I don't even need it with those girls.

Also staying hydrated and getting a lot of sleep helps.