>so i meet girl at house party, get her on facebook but leave before she does so don't get to take it further than that >she hits me up a couple weeks later saying she checked out my band and that she would love to see us play, let her know we have show a couple days later and she agrees to come down >she turns up at the show alone and hangs out with us after, later that night we go back to my place to drink some more and she ends up in my bed with me, fooling around and making out, try to push it further but she says that she likes me and wants to see more of me so we shouldn't >she hits me up the next day to say she had a great time and that i should send her a list of bands she should check out (we were talking about it the night before), i send her the list and suddenly no response for 2 days >today i send her a message asking if she wants to come to the cinema with me tonight to catch a flick and she has not responded
She has seen both messages. The most awkward part is that we both go to the same college, so i'm going to bump into her.
What the fuck do I do in this situation? I hate being ghosted. I'd literally prefer her to tell me she's not interested.
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Aiden Collins
bumping with bootay
Luis Thomas
Don't say anything until she replies girls don't like that clingy shit if she Dosnt get back to you then move on
Xavier Rodriguez
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Xavier Torres
Maybe i shouldn't have followed up the first message. It was kind of one that didn't warrant a response though, so maybe I'm still in the clear.
Christian Sullivan
bumping some more
Joseph Scott
There are literally BILLIONS of women to choose from... she is not interested... move on.
Isaiah Brooks
Well I suppose it's the sudden change of hear that's driving me crazy. She was super into me and I haven't really done anything to change her opinion of me, except possibly following up the last message with the prospect of another date....
Colton Hernandez
Women do this... they hate confrontation, so instead of just saying they are not interested in you, they just ghost you. Also something major could have occurred in her life... wait 6 months and send an innocent message asking how she is doing, but that is it, respect her privacy and let her be.
Hudson Martin
This is probably your best option. Go be an alpha look else where
Matthew Adams
6 fucking months?!
Jack Young
Yeah that might be a little extreme. I'd say a month or so but by that point you'd have probably forgotten about her.
Andrew Hill
>6 fucking months?!
Women can be wicked sluts... she probably had a Boyfriend already and has not the time for a new relationship. She just wanted to see if she "still had it", in sex appeal. She liked the new guy but will stick with the old one, because all her family and friends know him.
Christopher Hall
This could be the case but I have her on instagram and facebook and she is listed as single and there's no pictures of her with other guys.
I'm fucking gutted that I didn't really try and fuck her though, considering how this has unfolded.
Ryder Gonzalez
Nah OP. Dat bitch is just a college bitch. Playin some shit game, not all girls be like dat but you sure hit dat "gamer" girl.
Just play by her rules and see where it goes aka don't reply
Liam Morales
I think this seems to be the consensus and I think it's the best thing to do if I don't want to come across like a little beta bitch.
What a cunt though, still, would love to hit it. Ass like WAPOOW!
Ian Allen
Some girls like the chase but yea you already chased her enough ^^
