Has anyone ever gotten out of the friendzone by simply confessing their feelings?

Has anyone ever gotten out of the friendzone by simply confessing their feelings?
>Protips to get out of the friendzone greatly appreciated as well

no girl is going to get feelings for you just because she feels sorry for you. Sorry user.

I did, it got me in the ignore zone. I've been broken for 5 years now, married another girl, but I'll never be with the one I want, ever.

It's a bit more complicated, user. Would you like a greentext?

Wanna get out of the friend zone? Stop being her friend.

The only times Ive confessed my feelings without making a move first, its gone bad. Dont do it. its better to gauge their interest first, then make a physical move.

We were kind of an 'almost-thing' at first, and somehow I wound up being downgraded. I'm not sure what I did to fuck up or if I just wasn't good enough.

Yeah but it took a lot of work. Like friend zoning HER so hard her bf had less time with her than me. It took a lot of deep talks and late nights spent smoking herb and becoming staples in each others life. Anyway one night we were laying back watching movies and I simply asked if I kissed her would it ruin our friendship. She was single then and the timing was just right. We're 23 and married now and have been friends since 14 and sexing since we we were 17. Oh yeah and I dumped her when I was 19 and fucked around A LOT that summer before realizing most women were complete wastes of time and i, you know, missed my old best friend. So I went on this crazy trip to another town to find her in a whole mess that will have to be left as a story for another day.

Women want to be chased, so if you confess affection for them, then you are inferior. They want to be wooed. Lets just say, if you have spent time with them, then they are in fact attracted to you in some ways. If your wit is not good enough to pull such emotions from them after a couple encounters, then there is no hope. You are already in the friend zone. Then at that point, you will be rejected cold. Make contact, ask out, bring the A game, suggest casual atmosphere for drink-age, something social, and not a one on one thing. Do your damndest, when shes become intoxicated flirt like a mofo. If it doesnt work, then all well, you dont have what it takes. Or you could be like me, and ask a girl out thats in your range, and then its a guaranteed thing.

kinda. was friends with a chick for years, never got together since we were both with different people.

got really high one night, asked if she wanted to make out, ended up telling her I was into her

Still together now, she's upstairs and hotter than ever

oh and flirt does not mean molest, and or say stupid shit like "ya wana fuck"? stupid shit like that.. a true suave gentlemen doesnt have to ask, and if you do, then you dont deserve to have the chick.

Never happened, OP. Look, I'm 32 and have spent the last 14 years of my life womanizing compulsively. Well, the last 12... Now I'm married, and happily. But if there's one thing that's for sure, you have a shit chance of getting out of the friend zone. Ditch her and move on.

>pic related on how to deal with your feelings

Hey OP. I ghosted the girl who friendzoned me hard. Matter of the fact is, she had become attached to my friendship but she didn't want to take things further with me.
So, I just ignored her. She used to call me a couple of times a month and we used to fight all the time and everything.
We hadn't spoke to each other in almost 3 months and she fell in love with this other guy who broke her heart and she came running back to me again.
Now, we're casually fucking each other and I feel like I got what I wanted but I will always want more than a physical relationship I guess. She's smart and sensitive enough for me. But, she doesn't want a relationship anymore because she's too scared of "love." I keep telling her that love's not a real thing but she doesn't believe me.
So, I guess I'm stuck with fucking her and not getting attached. I can live with that. Let's hope it works out better for you.

friend got in similar situation, tried to make it work, couldn't.

My friend is imo an amazing guy, could easily get any girl, but his error was falling for someone who is too busy at life to even see what's in front of her and doesn't mind being single, so whenever something goes wrong, it is amplified to the point of breaking up, but they guy is so amazing, he is an awesome person to be friends off, so they stay friends

That's a cute story that is probably not true.

...

>Take new job
>Start going to gym more often, lose some weight
>Meet QT 3.14 thru work
>Start texting, etc. over a month and a half
>She quits (no longer company ink)
>She finds out we may be related (3rd or 4th cousins)
>Think nothing of it
>Start seeing each other for a couple weeks
>We fugg
>She says her grandmother knew my grandfather and that we may be related
>"It's okay, user. We can still be friends"
>Fuk.dat
>Tell her it's everything or nothing at all
>FFWD 2 weeks
>Find out that there's no way we're related at all
>"I'm seeing someone else, user."
>Broken.jpg
>Take a month and change to clear head, self-improve, lose even more weight, date around for a bit
>Start dressing better, being more confident, etc.
>Still find myself worrying about her
>Decide to ask her out for dinner "strictly as friends" 'coz she's still seeing jackoff
>Afraid I'm stuck in the friendzone, just waiting for her to be single have no idea what to do
I just want the hurting to stop, guys.

Protip: ignore them, barely even register their existence. Let them come to you. If yall already close friends, just say that you should fuck. I fucked my best friend of many years, ended up being my gf for a few years. Feels good man

Self bump. Please help, Sup Forumsros.

You idiot. She gave you an out. Use it. Tell her you care about her. You want more from her. And since you can't do that with her, you will have to move on. And move on, you faggot. There are so many girls out there. This one is only special because you people talked for a while and she listens to you.
Don't be the guy she'll bitch about to her boyfriend while he fucks her

wait, what? that is either the weirdest excuse for friendzoning your ever, or you live in a shitty hick town

What is the out?

My town is somewhere in the 800k-1m people. It probably sounds surreal looking at it from the outside, but from where I'm at it feels like some shitty Greek tragedy.

>"I'm seeing someone else, user."

This is the out user. It seems to me like you're not quite experienced in this game. Sorry for lashing out on you earlier. I just don't want you to get hurt.
She's not interested in you right now user.You can assume she will never be interested in you in the way you want her to be. And if she ever is ready for that, she will be the one who'll let you know.
You have played your cards user. There's nothing more you can do to "convince" her. There is no convincing in love. I'm sorry

>800k-1m people range
Damn, I need to proof read more.

dude, listen to me, and listen to me very carefully.

Keep going out with her as friends for at least a year. "Secretly" see other woman to satisfy needs (quotes because you should make it obvious), don't make any of them your gf because if you do you are fucked.

After the at least the year, plan something nice with her, set a date, say 3 weeks in advance. When you are a few days from it, stop. And I am dead serious stop. If you go through with it you'll stay friend zoned forever. The conversation should go like:

>Hey, I can't make it tomorrow
>> What??? whyyyy?
>I can't keep seeing you
>>What the actual fuck?
>I can't commit to anyone while I'm going out with you, I need commitment in my life
>>Why? We are just friends!
>I don't see you that way. If you weren't with Tyrone I would have loved you in every sense of the word. Sorry.

Again, stop there, and stop for good. She'll keep texting, after a while she'll be like fine, have it your way asshole, don't be tempted to reply, unfriend her from social media, make her miss you!

IF she ever breaks with Tyrone, she'll come running back to you, it'll start with a text. If she doesn't break with him, she will marry him.

Right now, without you doing any of that, it's a 50% of her marrying him. If she doesn't marry him, you stay friend zone.

If you do all of that, if she marries him (again, it's 50/50), you'll never hear from her again. But if she doesn't, guaranteed you'll have her back.

Roll the dice and ask a chick out. I guaran-fucking-tee that the rejection of even multiple potential gfs hurts WAY LESS than the ongoing rejection of being obviously in love with a girl who will neither return the feeling nor cut you loose (because she doesn't "want to hurt you").

The part that hurts the most is that it seems I was so easily replaced in such a short amount of time. I gave it my best shot and it still wasn't enough.

I did actually, was friendzoned for 3 years and finally came out with it, we dated for 4 months, broke up, got back together, and now weve been together for about 10 months

Don't feel sorry for yourself. Your best shot wasn't enough for her but it's more than enough for a lot of people. Find the people who want your love user. They're the ones who are worth spending your time on.
A wise man once told me "Remember that love is like a glass full of liquid.
Don't pour it into dirt that will absorb it and waste it. Pour it into someone else's glass, fill their cup with what you have to give. She's unworthy of your love and you should remember it."

if she likes you after admitting your feelings then you were never in the friendzone. you just literally didn't make a move yet.

> Knew this girl for years
> Became really good friends. Talked about anything and everything.
> Solidly in the friendzone.
> Told her how much our relationship meant to me.
> "You're like the sister I never had."
> "Really"
> "Yeah, really. Admittedly with an occasional incestuous thought or two".
> (Giggles)
> "Sorry.....forget I ever said that".
> Conversation goes in a different direction
> Calls me the next day
> "I'm making pasta tonight. Come over for dinner?"
> "Sure"
> Meets me at the door wearing a see-through nightgown.
> "I'd like to hear more about those incestuous thoughts"

That's where it becomes apparent how pathetic I am. I had to wait years for even that chance, and before I knew it, it was gone like ashes in the wind.

Do you think you're not worthy of love user? You are. Find the person who will give that to you.
This girl is nothing special

No way to get out it. Just stay stay there as long as you can. Once she is done pumping all the alphas and lost her youth, you will get the chance to settle down with her.

You are trying to get the lions share, when you are not a lion.

Im having the same problem with a girl i have been good friends with untill she decided to go out with the biggest cuck of the whole school. He is always lashing out and having tantrums at her to a point where nearly all of her friends have told her to dump him. Earlier this year he decided to drop out of school so during lunch its pretty much just me and her hanging out ,All of her friends notice shes so much happier with me than him,He constantly reads all of her messages and her emails and monitors wherever she goes. So i decide fuck it I will tell her im interested over a message and see what happens...

The very fact that you have decided to not tell her this long is proof that you dont feel worthy of her, and guess what she knows this already, women have a 6th sense in this department.

Welcome to the friendzone

>Do you think you're not worthy of love user?
Honestly? After watching literally everyone else around me find long lasting, fulfilling relationships, while I've never had a single one? Yeah, I do.

True Sir, your body is keeping you back so you dont spread your bad genes.

Stop with the self pitying you faggot. Be brave enough to look for love and when someone loves you back, don't let them go

Do you really want a man with no confidence to breed? Let evolution do its work, by preventing him from breeding. Why do you want to see more autistic kids growing up? + he probably has a small cock

I have. I was stuck in the friend zone with this girl I had adored since I was 12. She was in the grade above me. I moved away and she came to visit me. One night I got drunk and as we were laying in bed, I just put my arms around her and cuddled her. As I did, I drunkly told her that she was dream girl and I wish she'd see how good we'd be together. She didn't respond, and I assumed she'd fallen asleep and didn't hear me.

The next morning, she woke me up and asked me if I meant what I said last night. I decided to just sack up and I said, "I meant every word."

We were married about 9 months later and stayed married for a decade. I left her and took our son in the summer of 2016, after she tried to murder me.

Don't do it, guys.

Jesus Christ user. What the fuck. Did you love her while you were with her and do you still love her?

It's very true. Really boiled down version of the story but I couldn't make up this life if I tried. I currently sell sex toys and she's a personal chef for some rich assholes. We have a dog and are both going through a big fallout 4 kick right now. Hence the Curie from earlier

give us the greetext user I demand it

I'm at work now. I'll give green text when I get home.

I have done it. I was friends with a girl in high school and after we started talking I worked really hard to be her friend. She had a bf so I figured I would never get anywhere, unless I got lucky and they broke up. They didn't, so the summer before I went to college I confessed my love for her because she kept asking me about things. Within a week we were dating.

I got lucky. It was a freak accident. But I do think you should try being her friend. Don't do degrading cuck shit but being a good friend builds trust. If she's uncomfortable, it won't wok and you should move on. If you wait for more than a year or two, move on. But sometimes you just need a little luck.

I've loved her since I was 12. I still love her. I tolerated abuse, 3 affairs, her screwing up our finances time and again, and so much more. I was a total fool and she knew it. She played me like a fiddle.

Heck, she kind of still has. I didn't press charges....I just can't put the mother of my child, the woman I love, in jail. But it isn't safe to be with her or to let her be alone with my son, and we both know that.

If you could go back in time with the knowledge you possess right now, would you still do it all over again?

I told a girl who friendzoned me my real feelings once; she will probably hate my guts until the day she dies.

It was for the best, I only wish I had the guts to be honest earlier.

No it's not ? You're in the friend zone

Why does she hate you for that?

See

don't you let this tread die on me anons
Honestly Dude no, not really. I was best friends with this girl for years, when I first met her I intended on us just being friends, I wasn't romantically attracted to her, I just thought she was very sweet and someone I'd want as a friend ya dig? Well fast forward 2 years we are literally best friends. We do everything together hell we thought about moving in together after highschool. One night I had a weird dream where we kissed. I woke up that morning feeling weird about seeing her later that day, weird dream, wasn't going to mentioning it to her move on with life etc. etc. well I couldn't stop thinking about it., when we were out that day(I think we went kayaking) all I could focus on was her and her body and how I never really appreciated how attractive my best friend was. Well this quickly turns into me oogling at every chance I get, talks take more flirtatios undertones, start staing out later with her, spending more time alone watching movies all that kinda shit. One night we go out to local bar she got drunk I got drunk, had a good time (I lived like 2 blocks away) so I suggested we go to my apartment and hangout I had some hotpockets or some shit we could snack on. so both of us drunk laying on my bed watching a movie(think it was Avengers) I bring up the dream I had had and everything that'd been on my min, how much she meant to me how even though we were best friends I think that we would be a good couple. Shes not the least bit tacken aback by all this. Says she loves me to but just not like that, we spent the rest of the night reminicing about all the time we've spent together, haven't brought it up since, don't really plan to, shes still my best friend to this day. so user moral of the story is, even if you're stuck in the friendzone if she is someone you truly connect and can have a platonic bond with don't ruin that shit my man

>>pic related

this. i pursued a girl in college that was only interested in being friends. told her i wasn't looking for more friends, ignored her for months, and that ignited interest. she contacted me again, i played it nonchalantly, eventually fucked and we've been together since.

shit is possible, but you can't seem desperate. women smell that shit a mile away. act like you don't give a fuck.

No. My son is my life. He's my whole reason for continueing to live, when all this bad shit has happened to me.

If I could go back and change one thing, I would arrive at the moment my son was born and take him and just run like hell.

The Friendzone is a place that people put themselves when they can't accept the fact that the subject of their affections just doesn't like them back.

Grow a pair of balls and tell them you like them. If they react positively, good. If they react negatively, then fuck 'em, they're cunts anyway. If they say they don't like you that way, accept it graciously and move on. You might need to give them some space, but make it clear to them that you want to still be friends, and then act like a friend and not like a sad sack of shit pretending to be their friend to get in their pants.

Nice quads user.
But are you happy with being stuck always wanting more from her than you can get?

?mfw this never happened

You're a good man user. You clearly know what's best for you

Sure have and now this beautiful woman is my waifu and wife!

You're better off, man. If you wanted to get together with you, you'd probably have to defeat her 7 evil ex's.

>be me
>become friends with brothers friend
>lets call her L
>L is pretty cute
>one night we're just talking
>Says she has a crush on a guy
>big fucking suprise, its me
>tell her its cool, we can talk about it tomorrow
>next day
>"Nevermind, I'm gay"
>okay
>meet a friend of L's
>lets call her q
>Q is also cute
>better personality than L
>we flirt and stuff
>one day I'm jerking off and she offers to help
>this started the shitty adventure
>she sends lewd pictures and never asks for pictures in return
>christmas time
>she asks for a vibe
>i buy her one
>next day
>"I didn't like it, sorry user"
>she picked it out
>this should have been the first red flag
>L found out about the vibe
>Told my little brother
>he was chill and never said anything
>L begins to say I harass her
>tells my little bro to tell our father if I ever text her
>Stop texting her
>focus on Q
>there were ups and downs but the last straw was one day while i was sick
>she texts me
>"I'm coming over to suck your dick"

Should I continue? It gets worse.

>friendzone
whenever i find a girl attractive i make my intentions rather obvious early on, if she replies positivly we both know that something is gonna happen, and if not it's way easier to continue in life and find another.
It's really not harder than that tbh

holy shit first quads
and honestly, yeah I am, If things happen it will happen if not well that's just life man, I'm not going to throw away my best friend just because she doesn't want to sleep with me

Fucking this

kek

I'm very confused by this story user

cute kid if that's actually you user, and good luck raising him

Nice dubs user.
It's not about the sleeping with you user. She will never truly love you.
Does she love you now, probably. But not the way you love her. That imbalance will always persist throughout your life. You will never truly be her love

Also, who that girl in the pic?

I can answer some questions when it's all over

>L came too
>she knocks
>I open the door
>Nobody got on the floor
>"Hey daddy"
>I'm stunned but play it cool
>we go to my computer to just chill
>She leans in
>"Where are the photos of me?"
>little brothers are behind us
>She sits on my lap
>I deny the photos and don't touch her
>we go up to my room
>she puts her foot on my cock through my pants
>L watches
>Eventually feels my dick
>tfw no boner
>we get some food to eat
>play some games
>Q spreads her leg onto me
>Still play it cool
>she goes to my room to lie down
>L is occupying my little brother
>Go to my room
>Q is sitting on the bed
>Go to talk to her about doing stuff
>"I just don't know user, I'm not sure"
>don't want to be charged with rape
>Do nothing
one more part inc

>walk them to the bus stop
>texting Q while she is on the bus
>Tells me she wish I touched her and did X and Y
>tfw remember her asking me if I'd stop if she said no
>glad I did nothing
>Next day
>"user send me a dick pic"
>tired of beating around the bush
>send it
>she see's it
>"All dicks are gross, this is why I'm gay"
>All of my wut
>Next day
>Never sends another photo or video of her
>We stop talking like we used to
>I move cities
I thought it was all over
>I get a phone
>Q finds out
>Demands my number
>give it to her
>we text and stuff
>nothing happens
>one day she sends me a photo of her and my little brother
>says she wants to fuck him
>I respond with "I'm not going to be cucked lol"
>"Do I have to remind you we're not a thing?"
>Gets mad
>I apologise
>haven't talked to her since.
women can ruin your life.

Well i guess ive gotten out of the friendzone in a certain aspect.

I became friends with some guy, this guy was the "where my hug at" friend of one of my ex-girlfriends and he had just moved into my apartment complex, simply because his sister was hot. Well she never really showed interest in me, plus she had a boyfriend but i remained friends with her brother

>fast forward 3 years

We end up getting high at my apartment. She currently had a baby who was a year old, her boyfriend cheated on her and asked to come over to smoke since we got high together. She didnt bring her baby if anyone is wondering but i thought i might mention it. End up in my bed just laying back talking about life.

Told her how cute i thought she was and how i became friends with her brother solely for the fact that she was cute, but she had a boyfriend so i never really took a shot, tells me how she thought the same about me, and how she wishes the baby wouldve been mine, since i was always helping her with diapers and milk for the baby since her bf didnt help with any payments and she never wanted to put him on child support

>I end up taking a shot in the dark

I lean in to kiss her and we start making out, making out turns into me eating her out (shes never been eaten out before and i knew that from one of our high conversations). Shes loving it, ends up wanting to 69 (shes never sucked dick before either, reason for pregnancy). We end up fucking all night long. She spent a few more days at my place and after work shed have food ready for me, wed watch a movie and go to sleep. Cutest shit ever... Too bad shes still with him.

Pajeet get back to your homework

pic related is her

>be in new PE class freshman year
>be fat anime nerd who tries to hang with emo crowd
>oh look an emo Asian cutie
>make horrible racist joke only a freshman can.
>she's laughing
>we never did anything that year in PE except hang out out of view of coach.
>she asks me to give her piggy back rides during lap day
>all my boner.
>this becomes a regular thing
>find out she has awful ginger upperclassman bf
>she'll be mine soon ginger Fuck
>be 16 now and I'm transferred to Fuck up school
>haven't seen Asian cutie friend since end of freshman year.
>go on MySpace and message random girls like her who I had good times in class.
>she's then only to reply.
>she has a car
>wants to pick me up
>am I ready for a social life?
>I was (barely)
>she gave me my first hit of weed
>blew shit up with fire works
>vandalized and burned things
>falling in love.

I'm at a bar doing this on my phone so I don't know if anyone wants me to bother continuing

>Tfw white

also, I suppose you're right and it is what it is, at some point in my life I will find another woman who is just as wonderful a friend to have and wants to be with me, I'm in no rush user, Life is a river
>pic still related

I would love to see a continuation, user!

Alright user. Looks like you've found a place that works for you. I'm happy for you.
Also, she's gorgeous

Cont user

Moar?

For you dear user

>we're now hanging out daily
>literally walk out my door when I wake to find her either parked or minutes away
>ginger Fuck cheats on her and dumps her ass
>we get trashed on 4locos together and I drunkenly tell her we should create a wedding pact, in case neither of us are married by 40
>she laughs and agrees
>random time we're at whataburger and some group of guys comes in
>she gets uncomfortable and tells me she wants to leave .
>don't even finish food and she tells me that one of the guys totally fucked her while she was to drunk.
>know her well enough to know she would never make that up
> we keyed multiple dicks into his car (probably his)
> we're 17 now and I've got my first job
>I buy her a stupidly big stuffed teddy bear for Valentine's Day
> watching movie soon after when I end up on top of her
>don't even remember how, wrestling or something
>"if I kissed you, would you hate me"
>"no"
>things a little weird but in a good way
>we keep hanging
>start holding hands
>start making out
>we have sex . But she stops halfway through
>I need to think user

To be continued (phones on 1%)

I just want to say one more time that I'm not making a single word up here. I understand why you wouldn't believe my story but I'm just one of those blessed anons I guess

I feel like my relationship is fucked I'm about to be put in the friend zone.
> Girlfriend of 6 years breaks up after having months long depression and panic attacks
> Before break up she sees a doc and they tell her after a few weeks assessment that she has severe depression, anxiety, and PTSD from her past relationship
> BF before me was with her from age 12 - 18 and shamelessly beat and abused her
> Now today she talks to me about not wanting any relationship romantic or sexual, not just with me, but with anyone
> Tfw about to go on a month long vacation that was planned from before the break up and scared to come back replaced

>Friendzone
The friendzone is a state of affairs that activates after you wait too long to initiate an intimate relationship. As in, you passed your opportunity to turn a fresh new relationship into a romantic one before it either: gets too awkward to be together romantically (the "I don't want to sacrifice our relationship" excuse), the initial attraction wears off (the "I just don't see you that way" excuse), or she got to know you enough to the point where a romantic relationship offers no benefits above a platonic one (she either started dating or does not find you sexually appealing, or you're just that good of a friend). It is something you land in, not something you're given by choice. Being told "I just like you as a friend" is just as much as a rejection as getting a blatant "no" from that cute chick at the bar. She's not putting you in the "friendzone", it's her rejecting you because you just don't offer anything that she desires at the time, which can and does change depending on your behavior or actions (you get rich, you work out, you move on or prove that you can do better [which by then you shouldn't even care about her]). To deliberately "put" someone in the friendzone is just a shitty way for both women and men to maintain the upper hand in a relationship. To them, they see it as putting you below them, you're not equal to them, you have to work to get their attention or provide them with something that benefits only them, it is comensalism, and eventually it could even turn parasitic. If you think you're in a women's "friendzone", cut contact, do your own thing, don't try to "win" her over, don't fold to her demands or let her put you down or manipulate you. You're not in a friendzone, she's not confused or blind to your "love", she won't suddenly one day realize what a great guy you are and fuck you that very night, she is a manipulative, self-absorbed shitty excuse of a person who doesn't care about you the moment you leave the room.

I convinced current gf that virginity sucks and I bought that bitch a sports watch.

>Live in her appt.
>She cook me some soup.
>profitt

kepping this alive for you user don't let me down

>to find her in a whole mess
lmao you were her way out. You're Forrest Gump and she's Jenny.

>true and depressive !

At that point in time. Kinda, I mean she wasn't stricken with aids and wasn't involved with any black panthers (that I know of) Nah she just caught a really shitty rebound

>just caught a really shitty rebound
That's not really a mess, just typical dating bullshit. But hey I'm just talking bullshit, you do you my man.

But she does care for me user. Not in the way I care for her but she does care for me.
Shouldn't the bond of friendship mean anything?

Actually yes I have, it just so happened to be that the feeling was mutual. We were both simply too scared to admit our feelings to one another.

Didn't last long though, she was a bitch.

user = Kodaka

>she's worrying about losing this friendship
>I tell her I'd stay her friend even if we broke up
>so about another year passes and she has to away for college.
>long distance doesn't work so well .
>at this point I'm starting to take addy's and lose a ton of weight and my ego inflates
>I break up with her over the phone in favor of some hot Iranian tang
>I end up taking Iranian girl to her prom
>uh kinda old for this
>we end up ALMOST banging after but end up trapped in a hot car instead until someone wakes up to let us in the hotel
>start missing Ex
>no need some more ass
>sleep around with some no names and college sluts
>addy's are starting to have nasty side effects
>end up in jail for a night for punching a hole in a wall in an amphetamine driven rage
>why did I leave her
>I decide to contact her after ignoring her calls /texts
>she answers, overjoyed it's me
>tell her how I'm sorry
>say I'm lost and addicted to some bad shit
>she gets baked for me on facetime
>I'm such an idiot
>tells me she's Fuck buddies with her current roommate now
>I tell her I'm coming to her.
>I sell my broke down car for $500
,>paid 10K for it
>hop on a greyhound with almost nothing
>Fuckit.jog

>Shouldn't the bond of friendship mean anything?
You wanna be friends, then be friends. Nothing wrong with that. But if you have feelings for her and she doesn't feel the same, you're just hurting yourself. That's basic stock relationship advice, bro.

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