Tfw the more time you wait for writing her a message the higher the gap between you two becomes

>tfw the more time you wait for writing her a message the higher the gap between you two becomes

Its been 2 days since her last message. I replied, she read it but got no response. I want to think theres still an interest and feelings by her part. But I also know I cant write her another time, she has to be the one as she is "overwhelmed with problems and issues".

What do you do in these cases Sup Forums? Do you wait? Do you keep writing her? Do you try to convince her? I fear of waiting too much time and everything we had just vanishes away.

OP I think you need to send her a dick pic so that she knows what she's missing out on

is that her?

find another bitch to fuck fool
shes either busy stressed or fucking someone else

overwhelmed with problems and issues
means shes not interested get over it OP

you're spending too much time thinking about it bruh. I usually will just delve into a conversation even if it's one-sided. Think of an observation and just send it to her, make it light-hearted so she feels the need to respond - no matter how useless or inane the observation is.

Not OP, but no. That's a model which went by the name Cleo/Kleio/some other viariations of the same. She got those boobs removed and now looks totally boyish. Sad days, indeed.

That's the excuse girls give when they're not actually interested in guys. If she was actually interested, she would talk to you an annoying amount, even if she was dying.

>source: I'm a femanon/lesbian

Motherfucker dude, stop reading into it, she either has a life and can't get to it or doesn't care. If the prior then do stuff you like to do and don't think about it if the latter then find someone else.

What does it matter man, I've been with a girl for nearly 3 years now and if I'm playing some vidya and she texts me I'm not going to respond right away, holy shit I've got better things to do.

Enjoy what you enjoy and if she wants to be a part of it great otherwise find someone who does. There are so many women who want attention find one who wants yours

im psychic, whats the girl's name?

Im not going to look for another girl as we are dating and she is not a random tinder slut or some girl I used for fucking around. Sex is not a priority for me right now.

When a girl avoids writing you back for whatever reason, whats the best option? Ignore her? Act as if nothing happened?

...

If you're close, like friend-level close, then just be a functioning human and... ASK her if something's wrong.

And nowadays. Yes, really.

Jesus fucking Christ.
Why is it always the big titted ones?

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If you are dating and she doesn't message you after a couple days even when you have tried to message her then it can't be too serious or she is getting ready to dump you. If I don't hear anything from a chick for a bit I will send her one message and if I still don't hear anything after that then it is time to move on. The more you know someone is into you the less you have to work in order to keep them around. So act like you don't care and if she is interested she will put in more effort to make sure she doesn't lose you.

that was just what I asked in my last message.
>Is there something wrong or do you want to disconnect from this? I want to know if theres any reason for this

and she said
>Hi, no, its just what I said earlier, I have too many personal things and issues right now, which doesnt let me be at 100% so I dont feel like doing anything right now, Im not in the mood.

Replied her back and didnt answer since then. She said its not because me, but who knows. I guess I should wait instead of insisting on her and force another reply. She should take the initiative

girl. I am femanon lesbian. I already love you. Totally.

high est beta "males"

Oh my god we should totally SCISSOR

Yeaaah she's not interested in you. Or she's lost interest if she once had it. I would recommend ignoring her and moving on, because clearly she dont give a shit about you.

It is because of you and she is not interested. Move on and don't try to push the subject or you will move from the clinger to the creepy stalker.

YEAH TOTALLY SPLOSH
let's adopt 1000 kittens. It will be totally good way to call it life.

She used to do this a couple of times before. Last time I asked her to meet she waited 1 whole day before giving me an answer and I have to write her once more.
When we met in person everything went perfect, stayed until late and we made out. But now I dont really know what to think.

I guess I should act like Im doing my things and living my life instead of constantly checking for her. Im going to give her until this weekend and then text her another time asking if everything is fine or what.

In her messages she was always very straight, so why lie? If she wasnt interested why she'd replied "no, I dont want to disconnect this, theres nothing wrong, its just me and my problems" (she got kicked out from her job and other things, I know she likes to hide herself in her world).
She could just said "Its better to stop talking and seeing each other" instead of creating these excuses

You are not femanon. You simply don't know how it's working.
Women are fucked up.

When you say it went "perfectly," that could just be in YOUR head. She probably thought it was average, and she was lonely/desperate.

Even blunt chicks will dodge around saying they aren't interested and/or convince themselves there's just "something in the way." In reality, it just isn't clicking. ....And it's hard to deal with clingy guys.

Addition: you seem clingy and she seems like a bitch. You've been given your advice. Ditch the bitch.

How many times have you met in person? If it is one you are not dating. If she is the type of person that retreats when she is depressed then there are two ways you can approach it and they depend on how close the two of you are and her personality. You give her space which I think is what you need to do because if you met online and have only met in person once then it makes you creepy to keep trying to force yourself into her life. The second option is to just message her stupid/supportive shit until she is ready to open up. Only do this if you two are actually together and the emotions are real for BOTH of you.

we met 4 times, we didnt met online, it was in a dinner with friends. we've been talking 24/7 about everything until a couple of days.

we couldnt met this weekend, but she wrote me at 5am one of these nights. she doesnt like to show her feelings or take the initiative, but the moment I hold her hand, hug or kiss, she doesnt want to let me go. we keep going together everywhere. time flies away in person too, we talk about everything and she said plenty of times she is too confortable with me and even if she doesnt say a lot of nice things, I can see how is she feeling just by looking her.

And these things are just a few of the whole stuff. Thats why I dont really get why this sudden change out of the blue. I know she is having a very bad time because of her work and other things and she doesnt like to talk about it, unless until its fixed. I dont really know what to do.

My only bet is to give her some space, think about everything and not insist on her too much because that would make things worse.

Space is best. If you insist on messaging her again then wait a few days and send this and only this until she replies.

Was thinking of you and wanted to see how you were doing. I am here if you need anyone to talk to.

Yes it can make you seem like a bitch but if the feelings are there for both of you and she is depressed that could be what she needs. If you do send that then you don't send anything else until she reaches out no matter how long it takes.

you've got too high hopes, friend. Dump it. Really.

Been there, done that, didn't work.

thats what I was thinking in doing. wait a few days and something short like that.

at first I was thinking in writing her a long message about how I feel about everything and what I think about her, but that wouldnt work and I'd look too clingy. Last message was yesterday at 16:20. Lets wait and see what happens...

Send that specifically. And no matter what you do DO NOT send a long drawn out message proclaiming your love for her. The truth is no matter how you may feel you have not been around each other enough to even know if you love each other yet. If you do that you will scare her away and destroy what ever feelings she may have for you.

screenshotting these replies for remembering this.

I dont really know how much to wait for that message. I know she is going for a small trip with her sister and her best girlfriend this weekend, so maybe I should wait until monday. I'll see, saturday nights arent a bad choice neither.

And yes, I'll save those long messages for other times like I used to do in past relationships after years. Not after a few weeks.

I realize a poor investment and cut my losses

Don't send it in the middle of her trip. It makes it seem like you are checking up on her and you have not been together nearly long enough for you to be even considering that. Wait until tuesday and send this instead if she hasn't messaged you. Only ever confess your love to a woman when you are proposing to that chick.

Was thinking of you and wanted to see how your trip went.

I thought of that, sending a message in the middle of a trip, during saturday night or somewhere between there isnt always the best choice.
In those cases, they usually check the message, read it quick and continue doing what they were doing without thinking it too much or replying with the first few words they think.

I wouldnt waste all this energy and health if she wasnt that special for me. If she was just a tinder hookup or random girl I wouldnt care about this problem.

I hope everything ends up fine