My gf is so fucking lazy in bed me only expects me to fuck her while she lays and moans. Shes always asking for sex...

my gf is so fucking lazy in bed me only expects me to fuck her while she lays and moans. Shes always asking for sex, but will only occasionally grind, or lapdance/tit in face or do something to turn me on. She rarely rides me and blowjobs are even more rare. Shes probably only made me cum from a blowjob about 10 times over two years. She just takes off her clothes wears a thong or nothing and lays in bed and expects to get fucked. It worked back when she was a virgin and we first started cause i was horny as fuck and blueballed for so long, but now i need her to put in more effort if she wants to get fucked....Pic related.

So wtf are you going to do about it?

try different positions to make her feels good then stop and if she gets off and blue balls you then fucking rape the stupid cunt. if shes too inclined to give you a good rub and tug then shes clearly cheating on you or is just actually a retarded whore like most women nowadays

wtf should i do? when i complain she gets mad. i dont wanna lose her either.

Tell her.
Also wanna share anymore?

She gets mad when you ask her to do something other than lay there and take a dick?

She might not be interested as much as she was to begin with.

more like offended. like. "you dont find me attractive anymore etc"

you sound like a faggot. like, you sound like a bitch. if that ass hovering in front of you doesn't do it for you i dont know what to tell you.

bro....you must have never been in a long term relationship

but i obviously still like to fuck her and don't want to lose her.

You think you can do better?

true actually, thats why nowadays i only desire young virgins.

tbh. not confident. she was a virgin too so thats kind special

i recognize that ass, abbi?

Sounds like you have a one sided relationship, especially if she gets upset when you say something. If you want more you've to find a new girl it seems your lazy bitch is set in her ways which is also your fault. If she was a virgin when you met her it means you had all the tools in front of you to mold her into the slut you want and since you were satisfied with whatever and from the looks she's a fat lazy bitch and you are stuck with zero effort.

Don't ask for it. Turn her the fuck on with your mouth and fingers and when she can't take it anymore and needs that dick in her, keep touching her but move your cock close to her face and tell her to suck it. If she's excited enough she'll do anything. I have gotten many girls to rim me that way.

We demand more butt pics!

If that's her you better be fucking grateful

>Millions of females
>Greatful for one lazy bitch

Lol, you beta losers are hilarious.

Also, I do agree with that your relationship seems unbalanced. You need to make her understand that she is not god's gift and that sex is like dancing, both partners need to engage for it to work.

obviously he has not.

Ok she wants you to take charge. so do that. from now on grab a tuft f her hair and make her blow you till you come. No sex. If she wants it she will have to get on top of you. make sure you are always in a sitting position so she has no choice.

Alternatively she can earn the dick. Think of ways where she can get more involved.

Put her in outfits and roleplay. a naught nurse doesnt lay there she takes care of her patient.

If all else fails. bend her over and do anal every time. she wants anoter hole filled she will have to take charge.

remember when doing these things that you are unleashing a monster that will now have a new talent. unused and she will now have the tools to find it elsewhere.

totally agree with you. 1st. were still working on anal....gotta slowly stretch her ass a bit first, but her holes r really fucking small....and the second is that sometimes i want to to just turn over and give me a blowjob without me asking her.....or maybe do something to turn me on apart from just wearing something and bending over or laying down.

sorrry this a beta problem ... my bf telles me to suck cock at least 3x a week ... and i do it

kek. alpha male teach us your ways

latina?

>flip her over
>apply spit to asshole
>push tip against asshole

Either she'll start participating or you get more out of her passivity, win win.
protip: have tissues ready

Tough one, but you know, now she isnt a virgin she might feel like she wants other dicks to fuck. I know she's your girl but she's still a women who secretly feins for dick.

Id say have a talk with her and if you think she could have provided you with a better explanation id be thinking about the future....

asian

seelow self confidence

fuck. post more of her. if shes asian it explains why she lays there. my experience is that asian girls always lay and moan and expect guys to do most of the work. also they are bad at bjs. but tight pussy.

Gotta grow some balls and talk to her, how do you expect to get anywhere in any relationship if you dont have the confidence to sit your woman down and give it to her straight?

she has low self confidence. so any critique of her sexual performance makes her super upset. and she starts talking about how she isnt good enough anymore etcetc.

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lol... ask her nicely, dont let her bend it on you and make you the victim.

If you can handle the constant mind fuck then good luck to you,

jesus christ. moar of that ass

ur a faggot. Asian girl with ass like that and u need more?

Tell her what you like and ask her what she particularly likes - then try do more of the stuff she likes and hopefully she returns the favour.

don't even see what the problem is when you can just do doggy

go tough on her during sex, hardcore shit. command her to change positions and include toys.
she will worship you and your dick
trust me

typical problem with chicks who get told they're fucking hot by everyone all the time. All they think they have to do is lay there and you'll just bask in their magnificence. 6-8's do more crazy shit, and put some fucking effort in. 9-10's just expect gazing at them to be enough.

my girlfriend wont shave that area between her pussy and butthole, so everytime i fuck her, it just feels like sand paper against my dick. It sucks, i would rather fap than fuck my hairy italian girlfriend.

whats it going to take to see some more of that ass OP?

Pics or it didn't happen!

Pizza e mafia girl

Got the same problem here op, I already talk to her a lot about this. I succeed to make her do some blowjob, but I still have to ask for them, it's not automatic...
I give myself, I am always initiate and start the sex, never her. She knows what I expect, but still do the minimum.
I wait a few months, after that, it will be "be my slut, or leave".
I love sex, as we all do (or almost), and life is too short to be frustrated by the woman you love. If she can't give you what you expect, what turns you on, just leave. As people say, there are plenty of kinky girls around you, maybe not as sexy as your gf, but if they can blow your brain out, it worth to give it a try.

Hahahahaha this right here, OP. Basically, welcome to a long term relationship. Some of the advice here is good, bu it'll only be a temporary fix. The honest answer is there is no solution. This happens when any 2 people who are in a long term relationship have been living together for a while.

The ONLY man who will get quality 10/10 sex from her now is any guy she ends up cheating with (if she ever cheats). This is why affairs can last so long: because the sex is amazing, and because problems (like in a normal relationship) are virtually non existent.

You want amazing sex?? Dump your bitch, and become the lover of a girl in a long term relationship. Even better if she has children she can't stand.

Why are you talking to us about this topic you should tell all this to her (maybe in a more diplomatic way).

All my pictures that i had got deleted when my old phone broke, i hope you never know the feeling of looking down and seeing 1 inch clusters of hair slide back and forth with your dick as your fucking doggy style. Not to mention occasional pieces of toilet paper.

>he complains about fucking his girlfriend literally all the time
>he has sex
>he has a girlfriend
>he doesn't hate his life
>he doesn't exist in a chronic state of wanting to kill himself
this has got to be bait

you wouldnt understand until you've fucked the same boring girlfriend that lets themself go for a year. I cant even cum anymore, my girlfriend was 17 when i started dating her and she used to blow me in the wendys parking lot and let me fuck her in public parks. I would cum in literally 5 minutes. Now its just the same old "you do all the work, fuck my hairy ass, and im gonna be mad if you dont cum"

feel u bro, having sex sucks. just ask all the beta virgins around here, they'll agree

Thanks to your vivid description I could imagine it clearly and may just lost a fetish or two in the process.
Good luck to you!

I feel your pain, user. Some women are not very sexual and treat sex as something they just have to get done and over with every few days for biological reasons. Some people are like this with food as they just need so many calories a day.
YOU will have to tell her that you are actually getting bored of the sex...honest and simple. If she does not know where to start or wtf you are talking about, make her watch some porn that you like. Good luck.

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Maybe finding the root causes of her low self confidence and dealing with those firstly will help. Ask why she feels that way but also let her know that the sex seems very one sided to you and that it puts a lot of pressure on you, in a situation where you're meant to be part of a team. Like appeal to her empathy and maybe she'll come around. Low self-esteem can be due to anxiety/depression but I don't know if that's the case for sure. Talking about it would be best though.

Is she anemic? Sometimes low iron in women can cause lethargy and decreased libido

100% agree with this. Most women don't really care about having sex and will do it to keep their husband happy. My wife always feels like she's fat and unattractive (which is ridiculous - she's a total hottie) so she never really wants to have sex, but she knows I do so she'll play along.

The one exception to this is trying to for kids. We started trying last month and when she was ovulating she wanted to fuck like 4 times a day. Women have a strong biological urge and most women want nothing more than to be a mother. OP your only hope is to talk to her and explain that you're getting frustrated with her lack of trying to make you happy. But if you do that, you better make sure you do things for her to make her happy.

God thats always so boring, I had an experience like that myself.
And on the 2nd week she was like that, I started talking with her.
But she was offended, according to her She had done her part just by letting me fuck her.
Really? Its a mutual activity. You both do stuff.
Dumped her. After that i had no patience for the 66% category girls.
Men already cant feel as much sexual pleasure as women, Now even that is lazy

Only time I had fun at sex was with a Brazilian. She could be the passive girl who got the shit fucked out of her, but also switched during sex, rode me, blew me with trying deepthroat a little. When I looked at her face when she took charge I really shivered from excitement

This. Good ideas there!

lol find it hilarious when guys complain about this. I'm more than happy with doing all the work and fucking her brains out till she orgasms multiple times, you fucking pussy.

you're a bitch OP your gf is probably getting fucked by chad, one of the developers of cuphead.

>t. has sex

is this a glitch? I just got banned from years ago?

Virgin detected

cuck

I bang my gf once or twice a day you fucking faggots. She likes it when I take charge and I'm fine with that. She likes to be dommed.

haha what a loser.

leave her op
i had a hot ass 10/10 gf who was a lazy fuck and it made me want to cheat because after long enough it really gets to you and you need what you want
now im much happier with a 7/10 that swallows my cum 100% of the time and also fucks like a champ
really
its much better to have a girl thats great at sex than it is to have a hot gf

If you're willing to share and I was close by you I could train her for you which is what YOU should be doing. Tell her what to do and how to do it and work on it everyday, the time will eventually come when you don't have to teach much or anything anymore. Otherwise dump her and have someone that can actually teach her have her. Oh and if she doesn't listen to you, dump her as well.

Hi, I'm Chad, and I'm fucking your girl on the side. Just thought I'd let you know. She says she never cums from you and has resorted to faking her orgasms and putting in less effort. She comes to me when she needs a serious fucking and a real orgasm.

I had a similar relationship , she was very insecure and a virgin. I took her virginity and fucker her a lot in the beginning. After about 6 or 7 month excuses for giving blowjob etc.

Talk to her in a normal way ask her why and whats wrong.

If she gets angry and points the finger at you all the time saying you are to blame or you are not interested in her then DUMP THE BITCH.

She is gonna manipulate you in every move everything is always your fault up untill the point you start doubting yourself.

After that depression etc.

at least she moans - my stupid ex would just lay there and not make a sound. I think she got so used to being fucked with her parents next door that she just learned to be still and quiet. that and she never had to work for sex, so all she ever had to do was lay there and take it. Sure, it was fun for when I wanted to fuck the shit out of her, but god forbid I'd try and get her to blow me. No idea what she was doing. Literally, anything other than just lay there and she was lost. got boring really fast. She asked me to tie her up, and I asked what difference it would make since she doesn't move anyway. MS was and likely still is the worst lay I've ever even heard of.

Have you ever tried telling her what to do in the heat of the moment? When she's getting all worked up while you fuck her, you should slap her ass and tell her what to do. Tell her to ride your dick and show her what you want while it's happening.

Also i have a word for girls like that "borderline"

They are always asking for confirmation.

Her : im so ugly
You : no baby you look amazing.

Her: i am fat look at me
You: no baby you look amazing.

This eventually turns into a nightmare.

Do the same thing to her. If she's horny and not getting dick on the side she'll start moving.

They go threw an experimental phase when they are down for anything, enjoy it because that is what gets you hooked. After that it drops off where they become lazy cumdumpsters that only move when the dumpster truck moves them. Idk why it is, but it is. Its usually like this teens everything 20's sex rare bj hardly ever anal almost never 30's missionary only bj hardly ever no anal 40's no sex occasionally bj 50's lol. Its why older men usually go younger, they have experienced "the cycle" as a teen you both are prime and on the same page in the 20's she is thinking of marriage after experimenting everything after marriage its over for sex after sex ends divorce soon follows. Women age and mature faster, men never really want to stop having sex but if they do its because they have quit trying to ask for it from someone who became uninterested of sex in their 20's or 30's...

You should cheat on her OP. Keep the chick but get bomb sex elsewhere. If she catches you, tell her it's because she fucks like a tranquilized mattress and make her feel guilty about it. Besides, she's the reason you're on Sup Forums asking for sex advice.

life isn't all about sex, it's about treating your woman right.

why would you possibly cheat. cheating is my pet hate. you disgusting fucking human.
I hope your boyfriend cheats on you

> isnt good enough anymore

Be like, bitch you were never good to begin with

that's called a 'pillow princess'. they're lazy and expect you to do everything.

leave her.

The man wanted an alpha solution to his beta problem, so I gave him one

lol thats woman for you

Someone seems like they haven't had a real sexual experience

This is common. Girls are lazy as fuck. My girlfriend never gets off her back. She's lazy af.

you guys like about women like they are trash. give them some respect jeez.

Literally one of the greatest asses I've ever seen. You are lucky user.

So she is happy to bend over and present her ass to you for a fucking and always wants sex? Sounds perfect to me. If you want more, manhandle her. Make her ride you. Put your dick in her mouth. She's clearly a sub so it doesn't come naturally to her, but subs have benefits.

This is spot on.

This

Get the fuck out faggot

haha wtf. Anal is easy to get. Fuck her doggystyle to get in the rythm, then have her lay down with ass up ( Downward Doggy) then just ram her pussy till she starts orgasming over and over, key part is dont stop no matter what. Then while she is spasming on multiple orgasms just slowly insert your dick in ass and get in the rythm of her heavy panting and just continue fucking her like youre still in her pussy. Before she realizes youre in her ass, she wont care and just love it like vagoosex

Then you are already fucked. If you can't explain after two years both of your wants and needs then it wont likely get better. Man the fuck up and tell her how you feel and if she gets pissy begin your exit strategy. Imagine getting married and having a miserable sex life till death do you part. If she wants you she will try to please you. Don't be a faggot

I'm a faggot because I treat women with respect?
ok.

virgin detected

Unlike you I am a virgin in the butt.

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Break up with her, seriously
>be me, 25
>current gf been with for 3 years
>year before she did what your cunt gf is doing
>arthurfist.jpg
>told her we needed to take a break
>she cries, says she’ll do anything to stay
>tell her we can be exclusive friends with benefits
>you thought I was relationship but really you are fuck toy
>kinkiest sex we ever had for 6 months
>end up leaving her anyways

Your option to stay in it long term or not. More likely than not, she will crawl to do anything to keep you in her life.

You let her become accustomed to that sex, you gotta take the control during, pull her about, treat her rough, BE A GOD DAMN MAN!!