Real talk :

Real talk :
>with slut surplus in the world, how the fuck most of of you guys happen to be virgins? I mean, aslong as you can do some basic talk (because bitches are bad at conversations),
you don't even have to be THAT fit and/or handsome...to get laid. Ok, so let's say you fail once. Fuck it, even fail 5 or 10 times. But if you don't stop at those small roadbumps along the way, if you keep on trying, if you try something different - for example, if you used to be shy beta, eventually you will try being more confident, just to keep your sanity, just to be different in the dating monotomy.

I fucking can't understand how many guys over 20+ years can't get laid... when they are supposedly "trying". Getting pussy these days is a fucking joke, even from 10/10 girls. Women became sluts. Like mcdonald's food.

>What is your excuse, user?

> also, with all the trolls, shit-talk and sarcasm here.. you guys made me witty. Smarter than before. I memorised plenty of jokes, got funny. If anything, Sup Forums, a place full of virgins... it made me a chad. Helped a ton when it comes to fucking women. Because they see me as funny, confident yet smart guy. How come you can't adapt and use the information here?

Maybe where you live, girls throw their pussy around like it's nothing. Not where I live though.

Tinder which used to be the hook up app of choice is now just used by every girl from 17 to 27 pretty much exclusively for validation and match collecting. Unless you happen to show muscles, tatts and a beard in your pics while you're walking your dog in which case they will throw themselves at you.

It's easy to be a virgin past 20, just stay away from social situations, just go about your life like girls don't exist and they'll ignore you. I ignore them now too.

i have muscles, but i ain't showing them. Got siberean husky...but ain't showing that.

Just acting; BEING myself, being 100% frank. Not pretending to be someone else.

Always trying to be funny. My dates laugh all the time.

95% women, even virgins...they fuck me any way i want, on 1st-3rd date. Where the fuck you live in ? Denmark? Or finland? because i can't think of other countries where it would be hard to get bangs.

bump

social anxiety makes me never talking to anyone
and talking is a big part of getting into anybody's pants
i just stay in my room all day and fap instead of trying to get laid

>Denmark? Or finland? because i can't think of other countries where it would be hard to get bangs.
true that nordic countries do not have the same hook up culture the rest of the west seem to be practicing, but even here getting laid isn't that difficult. my looks and personality are nothing to write home about, yet it works. if anything, getting laid in nordic countries is less about looks and more about personality. I believe we are a tad bit less shallow here. might be my patriotic bias though, but I think we're more down to earth.

I had fucked ~40+ girls in few years (22y.o. atm). But i was also bit shy before. This is a fucking skill. You talk, you get better at it, eventually you master it, and bitches are wet when you put your fingers down their panties...just from the XTC they receive, being able to chat in person with you.

So your excuse is shit, you lazy ass bastard. Get out there, and try. Over and over, i don't care how many times it will take you. If you are monkey, it will take a lot of time. If you manage to learn, to learn from your mistakes, it will take less. But atleast...fucking try. Do something about it.

not trying is the real culprit
being scared of rejection
being uncomfortable generally around other people
the only ways to feel comfortable around people are 1) being a conceited shitbag that doesn't care about them at all, hence chads, or 2) learning through exposure to limit your feelings of fear and inadequacy, the matured beta. there's also 3) being a normal well adjusted member of society that balances their own well being vs that of others without being a parody of self loathing anxiety, but who has time for that?

Simply too lazy and depressed.

Tried for years. Hard as fuck to get laid. Been laid probably 15 times in my life. Dude, It's really not an easy thing at all.

There's plenty of fish in the sea. Sometimes i would get rejected by celebrities, models, dancers and so on... but you just gotta stand up, and move on, to move forward. And karma is a bitch...even when it seems you can't get anyone better, she throws even better girls at you. Just because you tried .Because instead of sobbing, at some bitch that doesn't give a fuck about you, your feelings... because you tried to find someone better, so that the bitch you once cared about, now can only get jealous. Remember. Plenty of fish in the sea. If some bitch rejects you, got for other. For better one. Or...her friend, her sister, just to leave a mark in her feelings ;)

atleast you are not a virgin. I'm just sick of all these crybabies bitching all the time , how they can't get pussy, and everyone is to blame, except them.

>everyone is to blame, except them.
i blame myself and porn
but why make the effort to try and get a girl when your hand can do the job better?

Most guys aren't virgins. That's just an internet meme.

The fact that you keep score just shows how insecure you are. Is having sex all you have going for you?

You're not chad

The answer to the question you seek is that those guys AREN'T really trying.

I have a friend who is 29, almost a wizard, still a virgin. He claims he "tries" but he doesn't in reality. His version of trying is taking everything at a snails pace. He'll match with a girl on tinder and be too scared to message her until it's like a month later and they've already had 5 other Chad Thundercock's.

The problem with my buddy, and most of these guys, is that mentally they are stuck in high school. Since they have zero experience, their expectations are ridiculously out of line with reality and extremely immature. It would be like putting a high school freshman into a PHD program and wondering why they start failing. They don't have the skill set because they never developed it, and unfortunately, unless some girl pities them enough to teach them the ropes at age 30 they might literally never learn because you can't just go back in time.

It's kinda sad TBH.

im 27 and im like this, but i dont even pretend that i try
in my teens porn replaced the social training i should have experienced
spending every day after school inside fapping, instead of hanging out with people
it messes with your head. still does

some people just don't understand about being dealt a hand in life. if you don't get it, you never will

What stops you from trying now? Would you consider yourself a person with a low sex drive?

I'm curious to figure it out, maybe it could help my friend. I've tried EVERYTHING with this guy cuz he's my best friend, but it's frustrating.

>Taken him to the gym to lift and get fit, maybe meet some girls, he refuses to lift anything heavier than 10lb (not joking) and quits after 1 month

>Created a diet plan (plus workout) full nutrition, how to lose weight, etc. He literally didn't try it at all.

>Coached him countless hours (sometimes staying up all night) when he's actually talking to a girl, he wants my advice, but does the literal opposite of what I reccommend (i.e. sharing his emotions too early, freaking a girl out, etc)

>Offer a prostitute to get the edge off so he can be better around women, he refuses

>He wants "the one" without having to date or put in much work, has that kinda mindset that it'll "just happen" when its supposed to

>Offer to give him a male makeover, cuz he dresses like shit. He refuses.

>Offer to introduce him to some (pretty hot) girls my GF is friends with, who are single, and kinda easy. they would at least date him. He refuses.

>Offer to take him to bars to meet women or even just hang out, he refuses and also refuses to drink alcohol, never drank in his life

>Offer to wingman him in a club/bar/venue/anything he's comfortable with, he turns it down

>my GF who is hot af offers to wingman him, he refuses

How do you help someone?

Jesus just stop, he's obviously an idiot so you should probably stay away from such a idiotic and toxic person

I've completely stopped trying a while ago, but if there is anything I could do now I would. But yeah I gave up trying to help a long time ago with the girl issue.

>He also says he wants to meet someone naturally, like not-online, but he refuses to get a job or do anything out of the house. Still lives with and is supported by parents.

The older we get the harder it is to maintain our relationship, because we're so far apart in life stages. I really want to see him do better. He's actually a smart guy and one of the nicest people you'll meet, best friend you could ask for loyalty wise.

But his girl/personal life is whack.

Posts like this used to make me feel really bad until I lost my virginity, now I agree wholeheartedly.

He is gay or asexual. Or just a mental cripple.

just keep pushing him. he is, like me, very comfortable in his comfort zone
he sounds like he is rather lazy tho. not even trying when you do all the work for him
but try another approach, not the bar/club life even tho you like it, he might not

I have, and even his parents, have asked him seriously if he's gay - and we assured him everyone would be cool with it. But he insists that he isn't.

He likes women and I believe him, because he's had men interested in him and he didn't give a fuck about that either. He also doesn't pursue men, and has no "traits" you'd find in gay guys.

Asexual.... I dunno. I know he looks at porn (women) and jerks off, and he got really excited when a girl he chatted with sent him tit pics. She even invited him over. It was an obvious booty call.

But when he went over? He acted like a beta and didn't do anything. They sat there and talked and he brought her some cringey gift on their first meeting which was OBVIOUSLY a booty call on her part.

Then he left, and she basically stonewalled him and he couldn't figure out why she wasn't interested.

I tried to tell him it's cuz she wanted to fuck, and he knew, but felt that he "needed to get to know her better" before that happened.

I've taken him to nerd conventions, concerts, venues, you name it.

Shit, a girl actually came back to our room at one of these events and he still didn't fuck her. I think she was super confused, ended up leaving, and he couldn't understand why she wasn't interested over the next few weeks.

I think he has MEGA performance anxiety and is way too nervous about sex, so he wants it to be with someone who he knows really well or a date a girl for literally like 6 months before sex happens.

But at his age, and this day and age, I don't know any girls like that.

Dude is too used to instant gratification. If he has to put in work more than clicking a mouse, he gives up because the computer trained him that he shouldn't need to do anything hard to get results. He'll never change.

A True Wizard Kek

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Guys pls

This is true. His parents don't help. Not only does he live at home and is supported by them, but they buy him anything he wants.

They aren't rich, but they do well enough that anytime he wants a new toy he just has to promise to do the dishes more or some shit.

It's kinda annoying as another adult who works for a living.

nigga what the fuck are you saying sluts are increasing the surplus of good bitches do the math
>1 slut bangs 5 guys a month
>4 virgins dont bang 4 guys
duh?
how can one bitch fuck so many dudes and rest fuck em if guys dont fuck half as much as bitches do

>how can one bitch fuck so many dudes and rest fuck em if guys dont fuck half as much as bitches do
This. It doesn't make sense to say anything different.