I have an honest question for all of you people out there who participate in hookup culture...

I have an honest question for all of you people out there who participate in hookup culture, for those of you with the “hit it and quit it” mindset.

Can you explain why you do that? Whats your motivation, your drive?

No offense, I just simply don’t understand your lifestyle. I just don’t get it? I’ve always felt a deep and profound need to procreate. Thus, i spent my time in long term relationships with high quality women. Now I’m married and will soon be having kids, and my douchebag friends keep telling me that I’ll miss out of all the pussy out there. But i don’t really feel that way. Pussy is an means to an end goal, to reproduce. It feels great to fuck women, don’t get me wrong, but I don’t see why anyone would want to fuck without impregnantion as an explicit goal. I guess I’m just a breeder or whatever. But i really do want to have a better understanding as to why other people behave the way they do

i like having sex
i dont like having kids
easy answer

>but I don’t see why anyone would want to fuck without impregnantion as an explicit goal.

kids are expensive

It feels satisfying, to just bang a girl a couple of times and then just dump her ass

Especially 18yo sluts

yeah but what exactly is satisfying? what justifies the expenditure of time, money, and energy into something with no long term investment?

just so you can nut a couple times? because i can just use my hand if i need that and it saves me a lot of money

It's the same reasoning as why you'd fap vs having sex, you just want something now vs having to deal with all the commitment.

Let's say you're hungry but not ultra, you want a nice steak before bed, but you don't have the time to cook a steak or go out and get one. You have some quality beef jerky, you'd settle for the beef jerky right? That's how most people feel in this situation.

If you just fuck new chicks constantly then you never have to worry about a bitch cheating on you. Plus its more exciting boning more chicks in a short period of time, than a single one over a long period. And fuck the wife and kids I'm only 20 man, I'm going to enjoy this shit not get tied down.

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Some of us just have different life style choices or are in situations that having a relationship isn't wise or viable.

>what exactly is satisfying?
nig are you retarded? sex

>yeah but why do it if there's no long term investment

people like doing shit that feels good you dummy

>Thus, i spent my time in long term relationships with high quality women.
If you weren't fucking bareback to breed 100% of the time with those women, then when you figure out why you ever weren't fucking to breed, you've answered your question.

I like getting my dick wet, I don't like committing myself to relationships. It's pretty simple dude.

welll, the thing is that i really like hunting, its really interesting to choose the girl and study her and then act on a pretough strategy to finally conclude on fucking her ass, for me the ass its the ultimate goal, because that means that she is completely delivering her self to me, she doesnt care about hger self any more and she just wants to please me
i dont have such short relations, i dont do one night stand, but my relashinships last around two months to 8 or a year, because there are some lemons with more juice, and i really like taking everything they can offer, then when i get bored i dump them, but never cease with the hunting.
sometimes i would like to have a formal relationship, and i last longer with them, but all the bitches get really clinghy and i hate that, when the girls start to act like they dont care about pleasing you any more because they feel secure that you are not going to leave them, when that happens i just leave them.

I do only fuck bareback. I haven’t used a condom in 6 years. My wife would love to get pregnant, thats all she thinks about when we fuck, but I told her no kids until she finishes med school. She needs that doctorate first so our future kids can have excess resources and outcompete the others

It's not really a "culture". Most guys just take what they can get, that's it. If it's available, then why not. Anything different from that, I would say is some kind of weird "culture" thing. I would say you are commitment culture, or something.

That seems very predatory, dehumanzing, and rape-y

are you a nigger? You sound like a subhuman monkey

yeah i don’t see any point to spending time with women unless I’m committed to them. anythinng else is a drain on resources

Op, I agree to a certain extent. I value long term relationships and that's where I strive to be. That's where I've spent most of my time. However, sometimes a chick comes along who doesn't deserve that kind of attention, but still is worth a dicking. I want to be in a relationship, and I usually am, but there are some women that I just want to fuck. They are hot, and available, but not keepers, so I'll throw a fuck into them and then continue my search for a girlfriend. I don't get people who aren't interested in the long term either but I completely understand that some women are just fuckholes, and that's okay.

Sex is natural. Sex is good. Not everybody does it. But everybody should

>Pussy is an means to an end goal, to reproduce. It feels great to fuck women, don’t get me wrong, but I don’t see why anyone would want to fuck without impregnantion as an explicit goal.
You probably just have a much lower sex drive than most people.

A lot people just have sex because they're horny, not for kids

ah.. i see... its like being lost in the woods and starving... you are trying to catch a rabbit or fish to feed urself but sometimes you just gotta eat randoms berries and bugs,,, just to make it to the next day

well, i agree, im sort of fucked up, but girl seem to like that game too, beign hunt, to make you more aprehensive i work as a teacher in one of the local universities, ima psychologist and i have a phd in education, looking to get more studies in the furter future

I do this after major relationships.
I enjoy sex, but not ready for a commitment.
I use dating sites such as okcupid or pof.
Every girl that has they are not looking for hookups in their profile I have been able to hook up with either on the first, second, or third date.
It's just a matter of acting like the person they state they are looking for.
I'll keep them around for when I am ready for something or cut ties once I have found someone else.

I agree with you OP!
Let all those libtards fuck their whores. Hell, most of them enjoy being cucked.
Us hard working breeding types will build a better future. I will have the satisfaction you slut-tards will never achieve... Watching the white race dominate the world. (assuming I kill all my liberal children)

I literally have sex with my wife every other day. I jerk off multple times a day. My sex drive is fine. If anything its too much

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Good for you bro. I already have kids and plan more. When are wonderfull. Fuck those cretins who allowed jews to brainwash them into decadence & extinction.
White Genocide isn't a meme - most western countries have negative birth rate ratio since the 70's.

Just look at that degenerated nigger.
>kids are expensive
He lives in one of the richest countriss and still allowed mass-media to make him think he cant afford kids.

Word

I’m a liberal.

dude, you dont know what your saying, you are the one who eats out of a can, qhen you could be eating freshñly hunt stake, the only reason to stick on a realtionship is that you dont feel complete or secure enough to be alone

I thought you said fucking was just for impregnation

I should really have stressed the fact that my wife is in the upper 0.0001% of women. She is the highest quality steak. Easy for me to stay committed when I’m dating an actual goddess among mortals

thats the long term goal, yes. I wouldn’t be fucking her if i didn’t want to get her pregnant eventually. Its an investment for the future. Just because I’m not getting her pregnant at the moment doesn’t mean its not my explicit long term plan

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dude, you sure are some fat guy who cant get any new girl
in any social hierarchy the alfas get to fuck and fight only, we are those
you the monogamy retards are the betas who get to be stable and gay because you are cowards

So wait,
Are you currently trying for a baby?
Or do you just like the thought of impregnating her?

well then i can understand what you are saying but, why eat one when you can have a bunch lot of premium top choice pussy?
the only answer i see its the stability of having a home and that stuff, but since i dont feel the need for that well, that may be my reason for hunting
and well i really dont think your wife is that hot, but you are clearly in love with her and i respect that

actually i had to turn down a potential side chick recently. She also has a preggo fetish but we both agreed i wouldn’t be able to adequately provide for two sets of children and that she should continue her hunt for an adequate male. Suck though. Maybe if i was a little richer I could have been polygamous.

Your lack of knowledge of both biology and sociology is staggering. Sincerely. Not to mention spelling.

I don't understand your need to reproduce. There's enough assholes on this planet already

the ñ right? how observant of you

virgin

Amongst other things.

yeah, its expensive tho

Both me and the wife are currently establishing the conditions so we can have children later. She is getting her doctorate, while I’m saving up for a down payment on a house while also trainig myself in various skills required for fatherhood. We would love to have kids now but if we wait a few years then our kids would be higher quality due to beter quality of life and finacial resources.

Sometimes is so hard to just have her keep taking birth control, but we know the rewards for waiting will benefit our offsprings for generations

Go to any vikipedia article, find any alfa, come back and tell me how many kids they had. Be it politican, general, CEO, or whatever.
Real Alphas breed & spread their genes.
Men who had a lot of sex but get old without kids or family, aren't Alphas - they are walking corpses. Waste of genes. I saw men like that in nursing homes in UK. Useless waste of air. So what that you've been to all corners of the world, if you leave nothing behind you?
And then the vile muslims take over your cities & gang rape the remaining white females... Yea, I lived & worked in South Yorkshire, im Polish.

They're essentially instinctual creates that just want to rub up against something, they usually don't get what they want too often either.

They aren't thinking ahead, it's like a dog humping a leg.

negro culture

well i really dont have much to say in my defense,
just make noticeable that your counter argument was checking my writing instead of the idea that im proposing

For me it became sort of like an obsession with girls being different and being into different shit girl to girl

Some like anal some hate it some love giving head others hate it shit like that , its fun to find out what kinks people have

I 100% agree with you.

Currently too busy work long finance hours to pursue meaningful relationships. Live in Toronto so I feel like I am fighting degeneracy by roughly fucking sluts a few times and never talking to them again.

LOL what a faggot you are! fucking polish aren't alpha dude. Never have been never will be.

well, teach me then, because im kind of explaining my ideas in some former bases, but you only post a pincture of bugs and say " im sorry for you"
does that makes you feel superior ?? do you need that? let me please you then, you are so big and interesting and have so correct grammar and spelling that the fact that you are sick and tired of the same old rotten pussy and you cant get anything else is completely irrelevant baby

100% this

He gets it. I get it. Why don't you.

i can almost guarantee, your wife probabbly fucked atleast 100 guys before settling down

Premium is subjective, I'd argue the ones who go for that would not be so much.
(Not OP)

You sound angry. Trying to boost your wrecked selfesteem by insulting others? Your issues must go deep.

It's just fun, I'm doing it now for first time at age 26

Meet a girl on tinder, go on a couple dates and hangouts, fuck a couple times then move on.
I'm on my 3rd girl since August with 2 on the go

The dating bit is fun and so is the sex

Your "point" is as retarded as your spelling. The idea that seeking companionship is symptomatic of inadequacy, is a belief held by people incapable of mature thought. Look up any number of studies on that type of mentality.

dude i have a daughter i like kids and im a responsable father, i would like to have more, and i also like to fuck pretty womans
i actually share the same idea that you are proposing

i share this idea

I’m not the polish guy but i just want to state that alphas can be from any culture. Some cultures give birth to more alphas than others, and I’m american so i don’t know much about poles, but I’m sure there are many polish alphas out there. Worlds a big place

I never said I don't like that. But surely you'll agree having a fuck on the side from time to time is something complletly different from what those guys do, those who only think about random hookups with cockholes & never plan to start a family and build something. I like having a family. But I do fuck on the side sometimes.

yeah i respect your love for her, i wish i could find that, meanwhile im just gonna keep gfucking pretty bitches with awesome bosies to fill this emptynes

Nope she was a virgin. I have her sexuality completely on lock. Whats even better is that she hasnt been corrupted by porn so she doesn’t have weird urges like most bitches out there. I meet her sexual needs so she focuses on developing other areas of her life

Yall been fucking to many low quakity bitches. The good ones are faithful if you treat them right. They are programmed that way by their DNA. Where are lower class women have evolved to siphon semen from every man that moves. Its liek comparing a mutt to a border collie. Completelt different beasts

cool, pretty lonely existence isn't it

when society evolves it tends to go individualistic, because you dont need to solve those things anymore, then beign capable of beign alone its a sign of evolution, beign alone by choice, not because i cant

Wrong again fucko. Society evolves towards being collectivist. Pursuing individualistic culture is an evolutinary dead end

yeah totally agree man! but for me the problem its that i dont like cheating thats why i keept my self single, family doesnt require to be married to me
even tho its sounds really nice having one

because new sex is hot

arent we all alone?

Get out, you eetarded pile of marxist feces. Go back yo your jewish masters with your outdated, compromised bolshevik ideology.

That's cool bro. I can't do that because I have huge libido, once a fuck on the side actually saved my marriage.

>take what

LOL!! The irony!! You must be young and inexperienced.

Chick OP posted

I'm not saying being alone is not a choice or is somehow inferior to finding a mate and having children. Never even hinted at it. Being alone is a viable choice. Mocking people who choose a family is ridiculous. Ibdont think I ever said the alternative was unacceptable, I was just pointing out that companionship is a reasonable pursuit.

i agree with what you are saying, doesnt mean its not going that way, united kindgdom and usa are examples of what im saying, and those are really " develop" countries, so its like a turn on for you the name calling? does it reasure your manlyness? or something?

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Your fucking grammer is atrocious

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I imagine you'll settle down when you find a woman who wants to please you BECAUSE she knows you wont leave. I think when you meet that woman thats when you'll stay.

thanks for the feedback but i still have quality pussy from an amazing woman on lock so i really don’t give a shit

yeah, the fucks on the side are really more of a help that anything else, i share the same taste for girls and a large libido, i can fall inlove but i still want to fuck other girls even tho i love one
i try for a while to have an open relationship and it kind of went well but in the end she was still hurt even tho she knew i was fucking other girls, so that hasnt worked for me, even tho i would like to have a big family

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you are totally right, i started out defending my life style but you are really making a point, and neither of us should be judging the other for thetir choices in life, is just ahtt we want different thing i guess?

Grammar, not grammer faggot.

you really did just take the bait that easily

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i would like that, but im not really sure thatll happen i recently dump a girl with that will of pleasing me because i didnt feel free, and i was starting to feel guilt for fucking other girls, im not sure what my future wiill be, but i expect to have a girl like you describe

Sup Forums bringing motherfuckers together again. I love it. Cheers, man. Good luck with your philandering.

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lol and good luck to you too my friend

You really sound like a self-serving psychopath.

>Can you explain why you do that? Whats your motivation, your drive?

I'm trying to collect as many STDs as possible and pass them on to all the sluts in my area.

Theres such a disproportional ammount of women that are not wife material to my standards. They dont want to be, or thats all they strive for. Picking a mate is a difficult thing and quite frankly there is a small percentage of women who arent trash or brainwashed and of that small percent even less that would align with your own desires. The only reason im married is bc im married to myself. When you meet someone whose has a similar past, made similar decisions, same intelligence has similar view points and outlook on life. A wife that you know you wont cheat or leave is hard to find.

Survival of the fittest, baby

ur confused and sexually frustrated and mentally confused help urself find what u love get a girlfriend and a job and help tohers and live ur life man just do it lol

thats really creepy