Anybody ever had a problem staying hard? I'm a 25 year old white male in decent shape and have a huge problem with this. My gf is very attractive and hygienic, so it's definitely not her...
Like 20 minutes into having sex I keep going soft no matter how turned on and excited I am...
Has anybody ever had this issue and found solutions for it? Maybe I need to start taking vitamins and exercise a little?
Please help me out bros, this shit is embarrassing as fuck.
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I faced this problem with masturbating, usually I kept going and it became hard again. Try if you also get soft if you are masturbating and then try my thing.
having sex is not the same as being turned on though
likely sex has become too routine its no longer a turn on
... or OP is secretly gay
Medfag here. Cycling is the number 1 cause of this in your age group. Google it.
I've cut back big time on the porn and fapping the past month, seems like it just makes me cum fast as hell when I have sex with my gf.
Faggot.
good, you need to cleanse your brain totally of porn as an option.
Masturabtion has nothing to do with it.
Believe it or not, it’s most likely psychological.
Used to happen to me when girls were too easy to bed. I needed the chase.
I am definitely turned on and very attracted to her. We have very exciting sex, try many positions, choking, biting, bdsm, and we have only been having sex for 2 months.
I haven't rode a bicycle in years.
Try her butthole.
Better than going soft
Then cum quick and go for another round. Pumping away for 20+ minutes it's no wonder you're going limp...
>20 minutes
It's your gf, bro. She needs to do Kegels.
Sounds like you may be a faggot? Do you stay hard if you fuck her ass and call her roger?
Well I can easily fun in my minutes but I don't want to be a 2 pump chump so I use the stop n go method, switch up positions, etc, to avoid from cumming so fast. I tried to go for a 2nd round after I came last night and I couldn't get it up. It's fucking embarrassing. Im hoping that once she gets on this birth controll and I can get rid of these condoms it'll help me a lot. This shits really fucking with my head tho..
Cum in 5 minutes* autocorrect
Lol fun in my minutes...
Dude no shit if u are using a condom. Condoms are a fucking immediate turn off for me, littleraly putting one on makes me less hard.
I prefer the herb Epimedium, from which Viagra was derived.
either you have been turned into a fag or a pedo have fun fapping to traps and cp for the rest of your life while you cant get it on with a real woman anymore ...
Don't listen to this retard.
You can buy generic viagra on the internet legally.
W-what? You're retarded.
>condoms
Bro, this happened to me. Gf bought thick-assed condoms. I could only go so long on excitement and imagination before I realized I couldn't feel shit and went limp. I finally got some thins and problem solved... but she still remembers the thick condom attempts as "my problem." Try out a bunch of brands, if she's not into bareback.
Also, cutfags aren't experiencing sex they way it was meant... You're lucky if you can feel anything at all.
It sounds like psychological problem. You should make an appointment with a psychiatrist.
I have kind of same problem. I am 22 years old and sex was never really a drive for me. Whenever i try to have sex something always fucked it up. But i was always drunk so i kept telling myself that problem is alcohol, not me. My first attempt i was 17 years old. Aaaand i coundt get it up. Next one was when i was 20. She was super tight and stressed i coudnt go in. Also my dick was not super hard. Next ones was kind of in a row. With the first girl i was not hard again. A week later with different girl i came very fast. But i tell myself its fine i didnt cum in 5 days so when i get it up again it will be fine. But i came very fast again. Girls were basicly thinking that i am gay but i dont feel any attraction towards man. Thoughts and advices?
do you smoke? Nicotine can cause this problem too.
However, it doesn't sound like you have any real issues if you can go for 20 minutes and even talk about a second time.
However, good diet, exercise, stay away from smoking/drinking and elicit drugs and you shouldn't have any difficulty unless its psychological.
Try edging for as long as you can. Also try watching normal TV and walking to try to stay hard whilst your brain is elsewhere.
F ' that don't work try cocaine.
*wanking
I've actually had a similar problem with stop and go. If I do it more than about 3 times, then I have a hard time cumming and get a bit softer.
You could try taking l-arginine. And then fucking 60-90 minutes later. It seems to peak in potency about 2 hours after taking it. It should help a bit with staying hard and it'll make the orgasm even better and also feel a little different in a good way.
Mostly though, stop and go is probably the issue. Perhaps you should also work on core muscles and cardio. Maybe some squats or running too. You need strong abs and a good cardiovascular system to plow away without tiring out yourself and weakening your erection.
So it's either stop and go or you're not in good enough shape to fuck for that long. Plus regular exercise will boost testosterone and increase your sex drive.
something similarly is happening to me too.
I can stay erect when I am alone, but with my gf I got all flacid and shit, need a lot of stimulation
Oh, also, I forgot to mention that most people cannot go for a round two without at least waiting 20 minutes before starting again. Even then I think it's somewhat rare unless it's you're first month of bonking.
Do you take any medications? How often do you exercise? How often do you wank and how long do you spend wanking per session?
This.
>Then cum quick and go for another round
Virgin detected
>condoms are a problem
Are you circumcised ? There's no way you aren't circumcised, it's always a cutlet that complains he can't feel shit with his sandpaper dick + condom.
If you are enjoy your mutilation and ED, I guess.
I had the same problem but mine was excessive drinking and smoking. Cut back on that and I was popping boners like I was 13 again.
Do you drink and or smoke OP?
primary medical causes are hernia or high blood pressure. Low T also causes it.
see a doctor.
if nothing else you'll get a scrip for Viagra or generic equivalent and you'll be hard again.
also if you have high blood pressure and it's made worse by drinking or smoking go ahead and get it treated anyways.
your doctor would rather you quit smoking and drinking and doing coke and meth and stuff, but he's going to treat your blood pressure whether you do or not. And it can save your life getting on meds even if you don't give up your bad habits. High blood pressure will kill you, it's best to find it and treat it as soon as possible if you have it. The various ways it kills are mostly slow and painful.
Alternatively, if you're just in the hypertension range, losing fat through exercise will lower your blood pressure and so will lowering salt intake. Alcohol, nicotine, caffeine, and stimulants (like amphetamines or methylphenidate) will all increase blood pressure so one should cut back on them if your blood pressure is high.
Low t fag
I have a problem staying flaccid
Yes. It happens.
Order it from an online site - India.
Legal viagra is more expensive that pure coke hit for hit.
Problem solved, unless you’re gay.
OK here. For a while I had been drinking like 3 nights a week. Smoking like a pack of cigs a week(not that bad imo) and smoking bud like once or twice a week. But since this shit has started really effecting me I've been cutting back on all of that shit big-time. I don't exercise but I do work full time and I'm active.
Where the hell do you get Viagra online legally?...
You need to lift your testosterone levels. Eat more red meat and start lifting. Also try doing more male related activities like fishing, hunting and fixing things with your hands. In no time you'll be hard as fuck.
Had the same issues temporarily. Don't feel bad bro - it can get normal again. In the meanwhile you can try out L-arginine - this shit really works! Or also viagra or cialis - but keep the dose LOW. If you're able to get hard for 20 minutes you won't need much to be diamonds
I am 35, had this problem. Found out it was just with one girl. Chemistry didnt work. I liked her and all but somehow I didnt stay hard. Weird.
Had this problem when I was 18 with one particular girl then realized it was all psychological. The minute you think or worry about it going limp it will. The best sex happens when the brain is turned off. It’s a primal thing so if the chemistry is off you won’t be able to turn off and turn on.
>Used to happen to me when girls were too easy to bed. I needed the chase.
This was my story. Sex got routine and planned. We were busy so we made time slots. Also, gf used to walk around naked a lot, ruined the mystery. Viagra helped but ultimately, I needed to be less in my face and so easy to take.
I actually started to get abusive too, hitting, abusing, humiliating and pissing on gf - just to try and get her to 'resist' me. But in an attempt to please me, she acted like a porn star whore and acted like she wanted to it (" hit me daddy"). It all got boring.
Now she works nights and sex is rare. Boner is back on the table.
Diet, exercise and proper sleep are important for every aspect of your life... that said, a low cost alternative to viagra is horny goat weed. Most drug stores will have it, and if not, most supplement places will, too. It has the same effect as viagra, plus,it will boost testosterone. I take one every morning, another 2 before sex...or one before bed if I didn't have sex. Over the course of a month, you can tell it's making a difference.
Working full time and being active isn't the same as regular exercise. It's certainly better than planting your ass on the couch for 14 hours per day, but it won't really get you in better shape. Unless you do physical labor like unloading trucks all day.
Exercise will probably help. It will also help with all kinds of shit. There are tons of cognitive benefits in addition to helping your dick. It'll take some time before you notice the benefits.
What's your weight and height? If you're a little chubby or fat, that can cause blood pressure issues and result in frequent floppies.
easy solution, buy a dildo and strapon harness. That shit never goes limp. Then let her use it on you, since you clearly aren’t able to be the man in your relationship.
I already mentioned l-arginine but since you brought it up too, I'll mention that it does the same thing as Viagra but in a different way. If I remember correctly, your body releases nitric oxide when you get aroused and that is responsible for the increased blood flow to genitals. Viagra prevents your body from breaking down the nitric oxide as effectively which results in higher levels of it (which means a more potent erection). L-arginine just causes more nitric oxide to be released and that results in greater levels as well. So they both accomplish the same thing essentially.
Im definitely gonna look into the L-argentine and goat weed.
I'm 6'1 like 165, but my diet isn't very good. I eat a lot but nothing very healthy. I do drink tons of water tho and havent had soda in years. Definitely gonna start excercising more, especially now that I have the motivation to do it.
Oh, also take zinc supplements. It'll increase the volume of ejaculate but also increases testosterone a bit and sex drive. I take that every morning and then l-arginine when I feel like it for that extra boost.