So I just had a mind altering experience and realized how poorly I've behaved with people in my past. I need to make it right. My ex girlfriend was the person I was the worst to... She gave everything she had into loving me and I was completely selfish. I was mean to her and she experienced me at my worst. My characterization would be a sex crazed psychopath who sought revenge to anyone and everyone with whom I had a transgression. so I'm seeking advice on how to make things right for her. I don't want her to take me back, I just want her to know how remorseful I am and I want to help her be happy in any way I can. I'd instinctively just give her thousands of dollars or more, but it's honestly more than money.. She went through so much for me. so how can I give back to my ex whom I love so much? expressing my remorse for my behavior and appreciation for everything she did for me.
Adam Thompson
buy her an icecream or something
Joshua Gomez
Please guys. We lived together for five years. I became a monster. We had our sweet moments throughout it, but I was really mean towards the end and said outrageous things. other than money what can I do to help her? She fucked her credit score because she was afraid to tell me about it even though I always told her to not stress money.
Ian Peterson
Invite her to the bowling or something to talk on how life has been going for each other
Cooper Phillips
buy her an ice cream de luxe
Joshua Scott
Op here She hasn't talked to me in months. I don't think she believes I'm sincerely not mad at her. I was a pretty bad guy... She has a new bf and I'm OK with that. How can I reach out that shows sincerity? Money won't be sincere enough. I used to use money as my apology...
Matthew Harris
Be honest with her, either she accepts to meet you or not and you gotta love with that. To want to make up with someone to sleep better at night is selfish too. Sometimes we need to live with this feeling. What You can do is to try, but not push it. Hope I helped user. Hang in there pal.
Hunter Hughes
Op here I just want her to know I'm not lurking around the corner or doing anything bad. I was a pretty scary person... It's incredible how fast food people can turn bad..
Kevin Murphy
What do you do? Keep mentioning money like you're rich
Noah Smith
Invite her. You don't have to pay for it :/
Michael Williams
congrats of coming to an adult conclusion. i've experienced a similar thing and know how this feels. this is what i did: >genuinely apologize for your past behavior >tell her you'll never bother her again >wish her the best of luck with her life this might not be what you want to hear, but trust me (as much as you can trust another person on the internet), it's the best for both of you in the long run to give up that relationship and move on with both your life and learn from past mistakes
Dominic Taylor
Op here I do contracted science work mostly. She's not impressed by money... I need her to know I'm not the same angry dangerous person I was. She will ignore it and assume I'm playing her with bad intentions.. It's not irrational for her to think that way unfortunately. I did that a couple months ago, but I didn't mean it like I do now.
I owe her my life. At the very least I want to get her out of debt.
Adam Torres
>I want to get her out of debt. then do what i said. if you really and truly feel sorry for how you acted, then move on with your life instead of clinging to your delusions of what could have been.
you don't want her telling everybody what a stalking creep you are, that just can't take the hint and gtfo her life. there will be other girls and you'll learn to love again, bro ;)
Colton Barnes
you just want her back, fuckoff and leave her alone, faggot.
Connor Reyes
Op here LOL she probably already told everyone she knows that I'm a stalker because of how I behaved after we split up.. It's of no consequence, she doesn't know anyone important. I was ruthless though. Also she jokingly used to say I stalked her once in the first few months of us dating because I happened to drive past her around campus on my way home.
I don't want her back. I want her to know I do care about her and make up for the pain as I caused. At this point I don't care if I love again. I just want to be good to the people that have always been there for me when I was a horrendous individual.
Benjamin Nelson
Op again I don't. We weren't ever right for each other. I still need to make things right. It's unbelievable that I would behave the way I did. You're just mad because you aren't successful and you're full of angst. I forgive you.
Brayden Thompson
then get out of her life and leave her alone. that's the only way you can atone for what you did. >leave her alone and get on with your life
Austin Turner
Well I've successfully done that for three months.. But I want to do more so she knows I'm truly remorseful and realize how wrong I was. I also want to help her in some way. I don't need to see her, I just need to thank her and show her I don't take what she did for me for granted.
Julian Hill
then keep staying out of her life. it's simple as that
Austin Bennett
She deserves some money at least... I was so bad to her. I'm not going to bother her... Is mailing her a check too stalkerish?
Asher Jenkins
what is it with the sentence 'leave her alone' that you don't understand bro?
William Morgan
Op here I need her to know I'm not a monster and I want her to feel like she didn't waste her time taking care of me. She deserves money at least... The system has made her a slave to credit... It's not fair that I have so much and she so little.. She was the better person...
