30+ and not married? How's life Sup Forumsros...

30+ and not married? How's life Sup Forumsros? I'm 31 and not married and feel a huge pressure to find a woman and just get married.

How are you handling it?

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I'm 33 and don't feel any pressure at all. All of my married friends look old and tired. I feel like I'm getting away with something.

I personally like being not married. Maybe it's my mind set and I'm greedy but I like making money and it's just for me. Then marriage will end up with kids maybe and that's something else that doesn't interest me what so ever. They will soak up that money, and I like have 3 vacations a year.

Do you still have friends that have time to go out and shit on weekdays? Or what is your life user?

23 and look 18. Every girl i meet that i like views me as this cute kid that shouldn't be taken serious, so yeah probably won't ever.

How old are you?

30 in December.

Fuck happy bday man!

35 Here no Married no pressure for that!
Most of my working mates pay now child support!
One of my Work Mates was 5 years with one woman! After she spammed a rugrat now he pay childsupport!

Why does reading this feel better? It's like I'm happy because some poor guys have a fucked up marriage.

How are they emotionally now?

That sucks. I've been in a relationship for 5 years and still didn't have an urge to tie the knot. Which I'm glad now bc we are no longer together.

>How are they emotionally now
Destroyed!
The one frend of me work every week no break!
Austria is a fucking hell hole!
Emotions?
There is no Emotions!
But still they tell me how i do big mistake to "have no childern"
Poor indroctinated cucks!

>Austria is a fucking hell hole!

Why is it a hell hole?

>Destroyed!
>The one frend of me work every week no break!

Damn that's brutal dude. Does he see someone? Like a therapist?

This happens when one biological, ideological and logical imperative mix together!
This is why i have my own roof,my money,and good life!
Some of them have not even money for food!
Most of my workmates becose the cost suckt them out!

I'll be 36 in a few days and feel great about never marrying. I'm not against marriage per se but the deck is so stacked against men marrying lots of guys like me are just opting out.

There are women who are unicorns out there but I live in California and the women here are so entitled and narcissistic its nauseating.

I feel you Sup Forumsro ... I look exactly the same. Hard to find a girl that sees you as manly instead of "cute"

hellhole i apologise my englisch is not so good!
>Therapist!?
But men don´t feel pain! Man Up! That is life!
You know what i mean!?

I've been in the fight with a guy who has meant "men in my age without children without a woman are not men"
The Best Part is!
He got Cucked by 3 woman and pay Child Support like Degenerate!
You can imagine my smile on my face!
Who is now the Alpha here!? :)

Same shit 30 and look like am 22

Just about 37 and not married. No pressure here. I have been in a relationship for the last 6 years though. I don't feel pressure to start a family because I do not want children.

This! Right This!

Do you have friends? GF?

>But men don´t feel pain! Man Up! That is life!
>You know what i mean!?

Yes man, like Bill Burr said, you pop one day because you're not fucking allowed to have emotions.

I'm 30, moved to a new country where I have no friends or girlfriend. I feel a huge pressure to get a girlfriend and I'm afraid of loneliness.

Bingo!
And of Corse this is why MGTOW exist!
And Men who go own way are most men who have seen what Shitfest is the Society!
You can hate them but Mgtows have a point!

They do have a point, but the problem I have with them is that they execute it in such a whiny, terrible way. If you want to go your own way, just go your own way. Most MGTOW videos you see are men shitting on women. That's not going your own way. It's opting into the emotional fight with women.

What does that coworker of yours do to recover psychologically?

Nothing! Work,work,work!
He look like Dead Corpse!

Yes,Yes, But in the Core their message is right on the point!
Btw Mgtows exist loong time! Befor You tube,befor Internet!

Damn, talk to him Sup Forumsro. Help him somehow..

this. don't hate women. just identify shitty ones and stay the hell away

>just identify shitty ones and stay the hell away

What if you're in love with her?

I Did that once!
But there is no help for him!
Every penny,goes to child and his wife!
Once he forggot to pay Child Support and they made him salary exicution
In Austria there are 20 woman shelter no singel one for men!
You can imagine the situation here!
Btw becose woman Think they opressed in Europa what tottaly Bullshit is!
In the woman shelter are most woman from Iraq,Afganistan,and other countrys in my whole working year (I em Painter) I seen 3 Austria woman in those Shelters!

So Basic once you have Child! You are fucked!
But that is my opinion!
The Gents in this thread are free to find for them self i em right or not!

then you are well and true fucked. Not attracted to well adjusted nice women?

>this. don't hate women. just identify shitty ones and stay the hell away!
This is nice in Theorie but the Reallity looks different!

Love is love man, it hurts to end a relationship.

31 here, never been married nor have kids. I don't feel any kind of pressure tho.

I have friends and a social life. After you sleep with a few women you realize pussy is pussy. My dignity and self respect is worth more to me than having a relationship where the woman disrespects you.

>31 here, never been married nor have kids. I don't feel any kind of pressure tho.

Have a long term girlfriend?

The faces are different the pussy is the same!

I'm 29 and married....don't feel pressure. Being married blows.

>Being married blows.

Can you expand please?

Lot and lots of alcohol.

But even the faces even out over time. If you are with 10/10 within the year you'll grow accustomed to her. All you're left with is her personality/character

Nah, 4 months relationship.

>All you're left with is her personality/character

I'm 30 and have no girlfriend. Sometimes I think I'll never find one like that.

You Maybe! Me i have not this Emotional Bound to Persons!
Again Don´t mix Biological,Ideological,Logical Imperative! :)

25. Divorcing with 3 kids. Been married since I was 18, together since we were 15. Between my 2 deployments when i was in and everything being lost in the Texas events, including our oldest son, we're gonna part ways.

You guys are missing my point. I am saying be careful in relationships. Men too easily get sucked in by a pretty face.

Damn shit that's rough. How are you handling it?

I'm 27 but I don't get the pressure thing. Do you feel like you should be married because you're 30 and that's what everyone's expecting of you? And if you don't that means you're a failure as a human being? My advice to you is: Stop caring. Yes people say that shit but it's easy to play off. Don't be so afraid of other people judging you.

You are .. trust me

>Do you feel like you should be married because you're 30 and that's what everyone's expecting of you?

First, everyone around me at 30 is getting married and I feel left out of the group.

Second, friends have less time for you, even the ones in long distance relationships. Again, you feel left out.

You want to find a girlfriend and just do that thing.

I Got your point!
You guys are missing my point. I am saying be careful in relationships. Men too easily get sucked in by a pretty face.
This is why i don´t mix
Biological,Ideological,Logical Imperative
Like a Car is Autl to bring you from A to B
So is a Woman for me nothing more then a tool to satisfy my needs!Notinhg more!
You live in supply and demand society not in La la land

You have to get used to compromising, which I hate. I've always done what I want, whenever I wanted, and spent my money as I pleased. Also, I miss having alone time. I enjoy time to myself, but now there is constantly someone at home. Don't get me wrong, I love my wife, but I love doing my own shit too. So, it may just be my personality.

50+ not married .. used to be though. Not worth it - glad I'm out of it and able to do what the fuck I want and not having to subsidize her overspending

Oh gotcha

I'm still pretty raw, if that makes sense. I'm not exactly sure my next steps from here. Trying to avoid drowning everything out with drugging and drinking or just ending it. VA keeps pushing too and I don't want it

But after how many years did you get married? You felt she was the one then and why did you divorce?

32 years old and married but with separate economies. I own the house, she owns other property. We have a shared spendings account for expenses we share. 1 kid, all expenses are shared. I buy whatever I want, she does too. Been together for 7 years. We work in the same field, both white and blonde, she works a bit less after we got kid because she felt like it and won't pursue career too much anymore because she already got a pretty high paying job.

>Trying to avoid drowning everything out with drugging and drinking or just ending it.

Does exercise help? Like go to the gym every day and just destroy every muscle, do it for 2-3 hours a day so when you go home you are so tired that you just sleep.

So you're saying that's the path to happiness?

32 here. Not married (might as well be, been in relationship for almost a decade, but she is a great find) and will not get married. Too big a legal risk, why complicate things. I am sort of a trainwreck so I don't have much that can be taken from me ATM. But if I did, setting up an elaborate shell company system to hide things is a lot of work. So I don't think I will ever wed. Shit's played out, son.

no reason to get married unless it helps you with benefits, she makes more than you or you want kids . . . on my second marriage, its ok

how long did it took you to recover from the divorce, mentally?

Really haven't left my apartment for a bit. Kinda why I've been binging on the internet lately.

33 and going through a divorce now. Her decision because she's a selfish narcissist. I would caution any man on getting married. Do not get married because you feel pressure to. That's an incredibly stupid mistake. If you're lonely, buy a dog or move to a city. I am thrilled with being single again.

>Really haven't left my apartment for a bit.

For how long?

How are you holding up? I ask because I'm a wreak psychologically and a breakup of any kind would destroy me. How do I toughen up?

Nothing is as worrying as when your dad says that even if you're gay he still loves you speach. I know how you feel, user. Just do you and ignore haters.

We broke up in the spring, so I had the summer to get back in the flow of things. I got my own place. I got the dog. And I had lots of crazy, reckless sex. Fucking the pain away is real. And it definitely takes your mind off things and makes you feel like a man again. I also got free counseling through my employer. That was okay, but establishing my independence, doing whatever the fuck I wanted and becoming a man again is what helped me.

Saturday Sept 23 I came home drunk from the bar and shut myself in.

There are only three possible outcomes to marriage:

1) You get married and live happily ever after
2) You get married, lose interest, passion etc but stay unhappily married "just cuz" out of fear of the unknown, loneliness etc
3) You get divorced

Knowing that nearly half of all marriages end in divorce, that leaves a 25% chance of living a happy marriage.

If we played russian roulette and I said you've got a 25% chance of winning (and not dying) would you do it?

Sorry to hear that. Did the hookups help a lot? What if you didn't have that possibility?

Hahaha. No reason to be sorry! I'm fucking great. If I couldn't go on dates or meet girls... I'd probably pick up some hobby. But sex is too important to me. I would work real damn hard to find it, whereever I was. Hahaha.

Glad you're ok then man.

41yr old. I dont care to get married. I have friends that got married long ago and now they are divorced with kids and paying all kinds of money to woman. In Cali so much goes to the women.
I like being single. i go drink at bars when I want, vacations and fucking escorts. I dont think of getting married at all. Life is good!

I never intend to get married, even if I want to spend the rest of my life with somebody the contract of marriage is reckless. One of my biggest "she's the one" tells will be if she's okay with this.