I need some serious guidance

I need some serious guidance.

>Be dating a really hot really awesome girl
>shes perfect, never does me wrong
>whole time we date I am fucking hookers on the side
>we get married
>I continue to be a shit bag fucking hookers about once every 2 weeks
>every time I fuck hookers I think about killing myself because I know its super fucked up for me today
>few days after I fuck hookers I always feel very close to my wife, t and fuck her a lot in the days after
>decide about 2 months ago I am going go cold turkey on fucking hookers
>Feel distant to my wife
>fuck her maybe once a week
>just feel 0 sex drive

I know I shouldent be fucking hookers, but I cant help but feel I act more myself when I am fucking hookers. What should I do I have no fucking idea what to do. I know telling her I have been doing that will end our marriage so that isnt an option.

Let her fuck a nigger.

maybe you should bang a dude for every hooker you banged as punishment.

try to find new positions or fetishes with her

Marry a hooker!
win/win

Two Ideas I am not sold on. Some back ground

>she is fairly conservative in bed
>not into kinky shit
>cant fuck her in the ass because of medical issues (she gets anal fissures like once a month)
>anal is my biggest turn on

I always fuck the hookers in the ass.

be a man and let the poor girl have her life back instead of fucking her over more and more
if she doesnt deserve it, dont make her suffer for your being a classless cunt
you obviously dont lover her anymore
let her go

>t. Unmarried virgin

Just keep fucking the sluts OP

On a fundamental level, OP, you are a piece of shit.
I have no advice for you other than to enjoy the hell you have created for yourself.
Cheers.

the only fuck ups youre doing is spending money on another woman, and possible thoughts away from her. basically focus on your dick, and spend at least as much on hookers as on your chick. and they better be online escorts not cheapos

Neck yourself, spaz.

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I dont ever think about hookers, they just an object for me to use, not something I lust after. I use this online website where you get a "sugar baby" and shit. So basically im fucking solid 8/10s in college for about 3-400 a fuck. I fuck them a couple times then move on to a new one. I live in a college town so its easy to find new girls.

It really is a special kind of hell, I have never told ANYONE about fucking hookers, so the only place I can vent is here.

For anyone thinking about fucking hookers, dont do it its way more addictive then you would think.

Is it worth the risk of getting caught? Are you just unhappy with not being able to do anal with her?

mostly. I just like fucking ass.

Not to sound cocky but I really dont know how I would get caught, I use a burner email, burner phone number app, use a fake name and give them a fake location where I live.

What website?

For scientific purposes only.

seeking arrangements

There is always a risk of getting caught. I wouldn't do hookers if I was married bro

>>Feel distant to my wife

because you married her while fucking whores.

what a faggot.
you just deserved it.

they arent necessarily hookers, just college girls I am paying seeThats the crazy thing, when I am fucking hookers I dont feel distant, I only feel distant when I am not fucking hookers.

Tell your wife about your sex drive issues.
Tell her you feel the need to fuck hookers or else you won't fuck her at all.
Don't need to tell her you've been doing it like an asshole for quite a long time already tho

pretty hot desu
lets see some pics

Hmm.. Been thinking of using holders too.
Wife is a bit prudish.
You only live once.
She's been the only one.
Been married 20yrs.. Yes I'm over 40.
I know what you mean, it brings you closer to the wife when you cheat, I can imagine how the guilty feeling drives you to that.
Think it's just the thought of catching something and passing it on to her that stops me.

Tell her user, It's the right thing to do. It's clear that your not going to change so keeping your broken marriage afloat will only make things harder for everyone. You say you love her, but I don't believe that. If you loved her you would know how heartbroken the truth will make her feel, and it will come out. Everyday you wait is another day of her life she'll never get back - another day wasted on someone that will never love as much as she loves them. Let that sink in.

That’s the other thing. I am very paranoid about stds. I don’t get my dick sucked or anything. Just fuck them in the ass with a rubber.

need more feet pics

There's only one option user. Turn your wife INTO a hooker. Then she can't be mad when you tell her you fuck hookers all the time.

I actually hinted at us swinging before and she responded “but user I only want to have sex with someone I love and you’re the only person for me”. Made me feel like an even bigger asshole.

I'm a bit more affectionate.. Like all the kissing hugging passionate shit.. She ain't got the energy, nor sex drive.. And the kids get in the way.
Should I shag a prostitute?

i feel for your wife
kys its the only way

Whatever you do don’t fuck a hooker. If you do it’s a good chance you will get addicted. It’s weird meeting a woman and knowing you are about to do exactly what you came for, without any of the bullshit beating around the bush you normally have to do for a normal sexual encounter. I literally walk in make small talk for maybe 5 minutes and drop my pants and say let’s start.

what she doesn't know doesn't harm her, your story is exactly the same as mine. Except for the age difference between you and me. I'm now 50yrs old, been married 29 yrs. 29 very happily married years. My wife is a lovely wife, great mother and all round nice person. Her sex drive has always been low. I have always had a very high sex drive. Me driving to another town or city to fuck a hooker usually in the ass has contributed to our happy marriage. If my wife had ever found out she would be distraught. She would be even more distraught if I'd left her because of sex. I used to be guilty like you but I realised it stopped my sexual frustration and stopped me from having any affairs which are much more dangerous. Just make sure she never has any idea about your little secret, also make sure no one knows who knows your wife. I'll be getting a magnificent bj this Friday followed by anal sex with a 22 yr old happy days indeed. I'll be letting my wife know how much I love her before this Friday and after as I always do.

You married someone you aren’t sexually compatible with. Your marriage isn’t gonna last if you aren’t sexually compatible in the slightest.

You dont really have to worry about STDs with an affair though.

They have sex for money, they are hookers

how?

I really could give a fuck less, but you sound like a little narcissistic and delusional. You don’t have a happy marriage user. You’re just living 2 separate lives in a way. If you’re wife actually knew who you were, she wouldn’t be with you. Btw, I’ve cheated in every relationship, I just wouldn’t build a family and marriage on top of it Kek

bullshit read comment above

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>hookers fucking rando's
>Affair is with one woman who you would assume is only fucking you and her husband

multiple cocks>2 cocks

how the fuck can you decide you know what my relationship is like from one comment?
you have no idea whatsoever about my marriage or how happy it is yet you spout out complete shit judging a total stranger. When you're a bit older with a bit more life experience, you'll still not know a fucking thing about my relationship. I'd judge you and say you were this and that, but I can't as I don't know nothing about you. Except you think you're smarter than what you really are.

if it is happy at all it is based on a non existing reality
are you a legit retard?

how old are you trigger?
as I know for a fact you've got a lot to learn. So you're either very young or very naive.

you're fucking clueless

you're fucking hookers because they are what you actually deserve, and until you deserve better, you won't be able to fuck your wife. so, um, get better at life etc.

happiness=/=reality

You dont need both.

you've got a lot of growing up to do. Wake up to the real world kiddo.

why ask what to do if you just want to do what pleases you

you are a garbage person and i hope you get aids

I've got a fucking great life, with no need to change anything. You on the other hand are a virgin who hasn't got a clue about relationships and how they work. You are very young I know this because I've experienced a bit of a life. You on the other hand probably have never been outside your country.

This. If you like anal then do it. Those hookers are literally keeping your marriage alive

>Those hookers are literally keeping your marriage alive

can someone tell me im not the only sane person here

Never mind that, where and how do you FIND hookers

I've never asked anyone what to do you fucking retard, I think you've got me mixed up with OP. Another thing you need to learn, always be very observant it's unbelievable how much you can learn about people by taking things in and analysing them.

you do realise this is Sup Forums

You do you OP, keep fucking the hookers.

You aren't.
The amount of degenerates on cuckchan is amazing. I'm surprised I bothered coming back.

>I need some serious guidance.
>I've got a fucking great life, with no need to change anything.

k, sorry to interfere in your little internal argument user

sorry to inform you, I've not wrote I need guidance anywhere that was OP you fucking retard

i thought people on Sup Forums were virgin fedora tippers

Underrated post.

stop acting like the retard OP then

do you really want to go the rest of your life not having something you really really want?

life is short; bang the hookers. be prepared to potentially lose your marriage if you do tho

She deserves honesty
Just dont be a cuck and loose your house

I was giving OP my opion how is that acting like OP?

>everyone thinks im op
>how am i acting like op?

okay user

hey OP have you got any pics of the sluts you bang?

just the young clueless ones user. Surely you can tell which ones they are by their comments
>or are you......?

No. too risky.

who is everyone
>you

i am one so there are two
kys before you need guidance from Sup Forums for your shit life

even if it was just a straight pussy/ass shot?

What is the hole directly under the asshole?
I mean isn't the pussy entrance supposed to be kinda between/hidden by the lips?

I mean if I took them on my phone itd be obvious I had taken them, and I always reset my burner number weekly so I have no saved pics they sent me. I always plan it 110% safe

you think that being degenerate is excusable because you are old?
oh yes these kids dont know better and will all fuck hookers
you failed at life and thats it
happily married people dont fuck hookers
non-degenerate dont fuck hookers
virgins never fucked a hooker.. and they have a way better reason than you
you are thrash
literaly kys

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haha I've got a fantastic family
my house is bought and paid for
I have no debt whatsoever
I've been to 17 different countries
I can go on but I already sound like an asshole bragging about my shit life.
>tell me user what countries have you visited
>how successful are you with females
> do you work, no you don't do you?

it's not really a hole like the ass or pussy, just where the ass curves towards the pussy. if she were standing it would be that nice gap some girls have near the top of the legs and bottom of the ass

I have a friend who does this. But not so excessivly.
He told me his gf uses sex as a tool to get what she wants. And he said after years if her doing this he finally started getting sex elsewhere.

He found this a justifiable reason to cheat.

Youll be happier single. You can fuck hookers or just fuck normal chicks. Why stay in a relationship if youre banging other people?

I don't get it. Never seen that curve-hole before. picture please

amen brother. marriage is a convenience and financially beneficial, but it is NOT natural. Do what works and to hell with others opinions and stupid judgements

Nobody cares.

you can see it in the OP picture, just imagine she wasn't spreading her cheeks open

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If you mean to say that by your belief that cheating on your wife and blowing 3-400 on hookers is morally wrong, equals you being sane.
Then no you're not the only sane one here because it's absolutely ridiculous

you enjoy church little boy
do you like the other choir boys
you're very young aren't you
you know very little about life
in fact you know very little full stop
you're mother likes it in the ass you know that
the local clergy, your friend. he likes your mother's ass
your mother likes the taste of different dick every now and then
ask her she'll tell you if you promise not to tell anyone on church

you cared enough to reply

Ahhh thanks

Since you like anal anyway, this seems Like a pretty good idea

Eventually you'll equate anal to a man's hairy asshole, and either no longer like anal, or turn gay and divorce the wife

wooooooow that is fascinating

It does look unusual though. you must agree

you forgot the part where you fuck hookers
which really all you needed to fail at life

no one deserves anything faggot. also, it's lose, not loose. Loose is what ur moms pussy is.

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Why do you equate fucking a hooker to failing at life? Surely you realize paying for sex is really not that odd.

also being homeless or going to jail is not that odd

>3-400 a fuck
paying near half a grand to stick your cock into a roastie already filled with another mans cum. absolutely degenerate. your problem is you didn't marry THE woman for you user. I've fucked a lot of sluts in my day, never paid for it but have had lots of 8-9s (have never been faithful to any of them but current qt wife material) and am currently about to wife a red pilled 100% white 110 lb literal 9.5 who knows her place and loves it, and who is TO ME the single most sexual being alive today.
you can't be expected to be faithful to a woman you don't feel that way about its just unrealistic for any non beta male

so you're a failure if you fuck a hooker?
I can say without any doubt whatsoever you're too young to be on Sup Forums

You need to kill yourself. All problems will be solved.

My thing is this, I feel the exact same way about my wife the ONLY difference is shes boring in the bed. Other than that she is similar to me in every way.

Its just I am a pure hedonist in the bedroom, yet I have the perfect traditionalist wife.

How do you find hookers?