How do I make my girlfriend more slutty in bed?
Been dating my girlfriend for about 3 years and the sex is good but pretty vanilla. It's hard going from women who'd let me drop a load down their throat and smash them in the ass to sex for the sole purpose of procreation.
What can I do?
tbh, I'd just tell her you want that.
talk to her about it. serious if its been 3 years youve got nothing to worry about.
After talking to my girl a week later she let me choke her while pounding her ass. Girls love that shit.
Well, she let me blow a load in her mouth once and she almost threw up.....
I've tried approaching other things and she's been pretty resistant. I just don't think it's in her personality.
OP i am same boat. fucked around with hot girls in uni and did lots of dirty. now im with her and she is not as attractive and more vanilla in bed. hard for her to go down on me for more than 2 mins... but slowly trying .
wat do. she is amazing just not as much sexually
The only idea I have is trying to get her drunk.
My girlfriend doesn't drink at all really. Whenever we do drink the sex is pretty good.
It's pretty simple: you talk to her about it. She can't read your mind, don't expect anything to change if you just keep it bottled up.
If that doesn't help and she can't get over herself you could try introducing drugs to your sex life. Coke, booze, MDMA work pretty great lowering inhibitions and bringing out the inner slut. If she doesn't want those either you'll never be happy with her, might as well break up then.
If you're really close, threaten to leave.
Their natural instincts will kick in to keep you around by doing what you want and what they don't want to do.
What has worked for you?
Force her into depravity a bit more each time. If you've never had anal with her, eat her ass out. Little by little she'll crave the high. If she doesn't let you cum down her throat, fuck her face better than you ever have, then do it "accidentally". Choke her a bit
Likely to backfire unless she plans to spend her life with op.
Just beat her.
That cant work long term. Trying to keep the girl here. Not say fuck it and give up
Being open about what I want in bed, luckily my current gf is up for most of it. For the things that don't come natural to her we use drugs. She prefers coke, gets her real nasty.
this. get them drunk as shit and their inhibitions will plummet.
inb4 some faggot says something about sexual assault.
>just beat her
Yeah, that's a path to success.
In that case you've already fucked up too badly. You set the bar low and she knows you're not going anywhere. No need to change.
Finding good mdma is hard now days.
My gf suffered from this thing that caused her vagina to basically become a bear trap and not let anything in after she had some surgery. Only thing that worked was dropping some mdma or smoking some good weed. It eventually went away .
Which brings me to you op. When my gf was high sex was more sensual and sexual for her. She was open to more positions and at least trying some kinky shit. But only after I asked her and she agreed. We weeded out her likes and dislikes. At the end if the day tho if you love and respect her then you won't push bullshit porno taboo stuff on her.
>Finding good mdma is hard now days.
Naa, darknet markets have plenty of good MDMA (at least in the EU)
Because getting drunk everytime you bang is healthy right...
what if its
>get them buzzed; their inhibitions drop
>do kinky shit
>when sober after the fact talk about how she liked it and maybe shell be more open to doing it minus the drinking
That's basically how my gf is. She has a killer sex drive, but also has her limits.
Every now and then we get trashed and have fucking crazy sex though.
I overcame this situation with my girl whom was culturally forbidden to even give blowjobs.
What you have to do is start to bring up topics of what you imagine her doing/hypothetically saying how hard it makes you to think of her being like that, WHILE IN THE MIDDLE OF FUCKING.
Her mind is weak to dirty thoughts while fucking and voicing your fetishes at this moment in a way that involves her, not only makes you harder which she can feel, but also avoids danger of it being raised out if nowhere and a consequent negative reaction.
Begin by "admitting" dreams about doing stuff with her. Slowly over time raising a new point maybe every week or second week, will lead to a moral breakdown and true acceptance of her sexuality...much mire she will love you for it because you took the journey with her and she never had to feel embarrassed but appreciated.
My girl now blows me to porn im watching and spreads her ass in public to me
>tfw my bf has the same issues as op but is also vehemently against alcohol or drug use
You were fucking a girl that wouldn't suck your dick?
Does your name start with M?
It's more common than you think.
Even my current GF wasn't too into the idea at first, but now she loves sucking me.
this
open the relationship.
If you've really been dating for 3 years she will try something new for you. Regardless if she likes it.
You could also do the 10/10 surprise method. For example: Surprise, my penus is inside ur b-hole.
Edge her. Horny girls can't help but be sluts.
try eating her ass for 3 hours a few times
Get her signed up to leddit and make her browse through r/sex everyday. It'll soon normalise the idea of sex and kinkiness to. Worked a treat for me.
Finger her asshole while you hit it from the back.
Start whispering shit in her ear while having vanilla sex. Like dirty shit and see which she reacts to.
Whatever she reacts to (i.e be like "call me daddy", or "I want your sister to watch us"). after sex and after she cums she'll likely be upset but tell her it was just dirty talk.
Eventually she'll open up to the idea of dirty shit.
It's a long process but it works.
get her drunk/giver her ecstasy and go to town
Your bf sounds like a boring guy
he is in all honesty but he has the sweetest soul you'll ever meet
so its like do i want someone who will always be by my side and support me, or do i wanna fuck bitches and do drugs? i feel pathetic over how hard this decision is for me
honestly just don't be a bitch about it and tell her straight up, obviously work her up to the more extreme shit, but make her do it. Unless you're the submissive one in your relationship she'll eventually bend to you. That's how I've broken in most of my gf's.
the first chick I fucked was a freak and it got me into them, so I use the boy scout motto of leaving it better than when i arrived. so I get any girl I fuck at least into something more.
Jesse???
I was but now she throats me and gags voluntarily and wont stop sucking even when i nut.
The fact she built up to that on me means ive had every variation of skill in a blowjob.
So much better than hoping half the other chicks i meet just blew cock better than they did...
And yeah my partner lets me fuck other girls, nothing like my partner knowing ive explored my deepest desires in her first, nobody can take anything from me i havent already given to her.
Gotta ask since I know the feeling, was yours a southern baptist too?
give her booze to loosen her up
I'm against drinking and drugs but fucking like a beast doesn't need em; have you asked if he'd do that shit or told him any of your sexual fantasies?
of course, and that discussion is complicated for a lot of reasons - were both submissive, his sexual drive is 1/10th of mine, etc
i think the core issue is that 90% of my sexual lust is about seeking validation and just the psychological feeling of pleasuring someone, knowing they trust you enough to let you do that
so yeah im planning on seeing a sex therapist at some point this month to try and make sense of all this
This and in hotel rooms.
When mine is drunk she'll let me fuck her on the balcony and I can stick a couple fingers or thum in her ass and she just carries on, normally any butt stuff is out of the question which I kinda miss tbh. Ppl will generally do nastier shit in hotels though too, so once she does it there you can expect it at home.
Not terribly, but
this.
just ask her that's what you should do in a relationship don't try to do any of the shit these idiots here say
My fiance is this way OP. She loves vag sex, being spanked hard, nip pinching, choking. But hates anal stuff, wont even let me stick a finger in her pooper. Shes tried anal before with me ut says it hurts and doesnt give her pleasure. Swallows my nut though, dont have any problems there. Your bitch might just not wanna do it, but as she ages and becomes a milf i bet you will be having some dank af sex. will polly do anal then.
Make her sign a contract that one night you can do whatever you want to her.
Then tie her up blindfold her, gag her, and let your dog fuck her. She'll be pissed off initially but she will return to the knot.
I did this with my wife.
don't do the dog part and don't make her sign a sex contract that's stupid
good on you m8 hope things work for you. though with both being subs I feel it's gonna be rocky.
idk tried with one chick we both got drunk and fucked in the shower, I only remember because our friend asked about it. she got pissed and wouldn't let me do shit with her when she had even 1 drink for a couple months
I jave never, ever, EVER heard a bitch say "i left my man cuz the sex got too freaky".
You want blowjobs?
YOU FUCK HER FACE.
she doeant like to swallow?
MAKE HER WEAR IT
she doesnt like anal, give her a choice
DICK OR FIST
then you haven't looked.
my girl is not into buttstuff as in penetration but would I still be able to get her to let me eat her ass? just started fooling around with her and haven't done much but she knows I love her was. how do i ease into it
Eh, in that case just surprise tongue her ass, it won't hurt and chances are she'll love it