Need to vent somewhere

Need to vent somewhere.

I currently am a single parent raising a 11 month old boy. Within the past few year both my parents passed away with cancer. While I was mourning my wife cheated on me with multiple guys. I found photos of her in bed with one while sending nudes to a bunch of others. I forgave her because she was 6 months pregnant with my child (tested now). Eventually we worked things out until I found out she had taken out all our savings and tried to blackmail me into giving her $4,000 a month in order to see my unborn child. I refused and told her to leave our home. She later called the police claiming that I was "beating" her (9 months pregnant at that time). Police barged into our home. I was in bed sleeping. They arrived within 3 minutes of her call, she arrives 10 minutes later. Cops are pissed they write her up for a false claim. The next day she goes to a court and tells a judge that I beat her. He orders a Preliminary Protective Order with no evidence to kick me out of my home for 14 days. I am escorted out of my home the next day, she comes in with her family take everything in my home including my deceased parents things, my birth certificate / social security card / tax reports / furniture / etc down to my forks and toilet paper.
Go to court for this two weeks later, police show up to testify on my behalf. Judge declines a 2 year protective order. Wife receives no punishment. I return to my house empty. My credit cards 30k in debt with my savings wiped clean.
Fast forward, going through a divorce now. I'm taking care of my 11 month old while working full time at home. Had to have a custody hearing prior to the divorce hearing to be able to see my son and establish a temporary visitation schedule. (4 days a week) so far shes been caught lying under oath by the judge, cheated in our marriage, took all our money, put me in debt, took all our stuff including my parents belongings yet no punishment has been handed down. tldr:Justice system sucks

This is really awful buddy... I have never been through such a rough situation... Well this isn't your fault anyway so think it positively... Atleast you have your kid with you... Forget about the bitch (Forgive me if offended but this is the only thing that come to my mind when I read about her)... Stay like a father to that kid and his/her like you should be... No need to vent anything on anyone... Just take it as a lesson... Hope you find a partner soon enough... Caring and loving towards you and your kid, but prioritize your kid first of all because your partner may leave but it will be your kid who will moralpy support you... Move in over it... Good luck

Wow she really gave you the ole' zazoo
Fucking demonic women man.

This is now a rage thread.

How'd you not know she wasnt this fucking nuts before you knocked her up?

are you stupid?

or was she just that fucking hot.

yfw when the only reason she was able to do any of this is because you allowed her to do all of this

yfw you beg her to take you back

Just fucking kill her lol

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She wasnt like this before. She was here on a visa while we were dating. Literally was the "ideal" wife until she actually became my wife. All for that green card I guess.

Her parents are here illegally. Their mother destroyed the home with black spray paint while holding my son / I was out of state for work. I have witnesses and pictures. Called ICE but again. Dat justice system.
Yeah, he's literally the only reason why Im even alive atm.

Its time for a shooting spree

finance wise there are always trails, u should be able to tie her to it. contact bank, reverse transactions, give reason, la-di-da-di-da. you should be able to get money back.... go talk to ur bank.

No need for advice, just wanted to vent with Sup Forumsros

Yeah, pretty much my fault for allowing it.
Never going back.

pls

Shared account. She didnt work but still added her name in to try to build her credit. Already talked to them. GG'd

Cherish it buddy then... Jerks will be jerks... It's lucky now for you to get a break from these idiots... I would have rather enjoyed being single with my son, bring him up lot better than those idiots... You have been through this recently buddy... You will move over it eventually... Go on walks with your son... Bring him up at in care... PS - financially seperate from your wife and enjoy with your friends.... Lot of things are there that I did with my friends earlier in those days... I miss it now but eventually found a reliable partner and have our each other's back...


I'll say it... I'm Indian guy... 17 in age... Don't judge me worng guys... But this man here needs help...

thanks man. Im at that age were all my friends are getting married. So hanging out with them is quite depressing lol. But yeah, planning on just raising him by myself. Lost the ability to trust people in general. Thats why I decided to work from home instead of accepting help offer from friends.

Good luck user...

you're a stand up, guy OP. and you're going to raise a great kid who will one day appreciate all you've done. be kind to yourself and look after your own mental health.

Thanks guys. I really needed this. Thanks for hearing my story and letting me vent. Regardless of what I have to go through, as long as my son can live a happier life, op will deliver.

Few years from now OP and son will laugh together about the crazy bitch.

Keep pursuing it through the justice system if you can. It might be a hell of a battle but you can likely get full custody of the kid with very limited visitation rights for her if any. Probably game over on the finances though, with her name on the account taking the money is totally legal. You'd have to sue, probably after the custody battle so you'd have a better case for damages but the legal fees will pile up. At least you have more days a week with the kid. If you're lucky she will try to kidnap him, get caught, and screw herself over.

One day he'll be old enough to understand people and how they work. And I think the comparison between you and that vacuous leech of a woman will be stark enough.

things can only go to the best now, just take it easy and forget this b*tch

Fuck man that's sad to hear.. as most of the anons said, focus on being a good father to your son. I belive you will get your life back in order and find someone who will love you both.

Godspeed OP

I'm sorry and I sympathize, this is why I am never getting married

2d is bettter don't trust the roasties
I hope all the best to you.
btw justice system is controlled by (((them))) become a superhero vigilante and kill the roasties and (((THEM))) saving the world from all evil.

I thought I had it bad. In the last 5 years both parents and my sister died. I knocked some immature idiot up who leaches off me the last three years. Recently found out the was screwing some other guy. Kicked her out. She's a terrible mom and I'm stuck co-parenting with her forever. The kid is doing great, but I'm depressed quite often and have no family other than my boy. I still have most of my money, luckily I never married her.

Man, that's really fucked up. I'm sorry to hear this shit is happening to you, OP, but ya'know what ya gotta do. Raise that kid the best you can, show them how much you love them and how much they mean to you. The kid will look back one day, see all the shit she has put you through, and be beyond grateful. Good luck OP, I wish nothing but the best for ya.

Kill her
Kill your son
Kill yourself for ever trusting a woman.
Then you can find peace

OP here, we should start a support group. :)

I'm going to judge you Mr superpower by 2020
too much ellipses
>17 in age

well what else will you be 17 in you retard

inb4 my mum

also learn to English better. I mean we were in your country from 1858- 1947 you should at least know how to type it.

Also tell your government that they are not allowed to the moon because you'll probably poop on it.