Oh hey there! I need advice! I have genital herpes. I get symptoms once a year and aside from that...

Oh hey there! I need advice! I have genital herpes. I get symptoms once a year and aside from that, everything looks and feels normal. I'm being responsible and disclosing to anyone who shows interest in me sexually. And of course, they back away and cut off contact.

At this point, I get laid maybe 10 times a year and I'm slowly going insane because of this. I don't have much interest in marriage, companionship, or kids so I'm well on my way to becoming celibate.

It's worth nothing that I'm tall, attractive, making 6 figures debt-free, and popular but I don't date because I'm scared of the friends in my circle finding out. Fear of rejection, secretly autistic, blah blah blah.

Aside from killing myself, or going on STD dating sites (which are full of guys because girls dgaf), what do?

Get medicated. Much higher rate of carriers than expected, probably don’t show symptoms but still have the virus.
Not a significant problem on the scale.

Already medicated. It's pretty much harmless and doesn't impact my life in any way but people react to it like it's the plague. I've thought about seeing hookers or going overseas and not giving a fuck but, I don't know, I'm trying to be a decent person.

Condoms? 99.9999%

Upfront honesty is not always the best policy......

Yeah, but I still gotta disclose.

Chances of it spreading, even without a condom, are really fucking low. But the chances of anyone willing to have sex with me, condom or not, are also pretty fucking low. It sucks.

Once again, I'm trying to do the right thing.

My ex-cheating-cuntofawhore wife dropped the H bomb on me! Outbreaks for the first 18 months and then 1 since, no suppressants. No symptoms.

This lie is why so many people have Herpes in the first place. Herpes can transfer along the sweat so unless you're having really boring sex a condom is pretty worthless against it,

This is why porn industry doesn't even bother testing for Herpes. If you are sexually active with multiple partners Herpes is a When rather than an If.

Condom isn't even 99.9999% effective against pregnancy.

If OP is an attractive 6-figure guy like he says he should have no problem finding women on hook-up sites. Maybe OP needs to hang out with skankier women. Perhaps the no interest in marriage, companionship or kids is more of a factor and the "Oh and I have Herpes" is what tips the "not likely" to "Hell no" for sex requests.

Just come out of the STD closet dude. 1/5 people have herpes no one cares if you do.

Dude, if nothing else I have to give you serious props for always disclosing beforehand. People who don't disclose are down in the ranks with pedos and rapists. If a person is going to be involved in a game of Russian roulette they should at least have entered the game willingly.

Even if the disease is not so bad for one person it doesn't predict how bad its going to be for the person they give it to, not to mention the other life altering effects such as relationships and having children

False. It's a skin condition and only contractible from the area of infection IF there's sores or shedding. It doesn't transmit via any fluids.

I've thought of joining a hook-up site (I never have) but putting my income and status on there puts me at risk of blackmail, extortion, or getting outted. That's my thought process anyway. I could lower my standards but that would just put me at risk of catching something else!

I met up with a old fuck buddy of mine post-disclosure after a year of silence. She talked about how good I was in the sack, and how she's missed me and how despite that, she's not gonna touch me ever again. I wasn't expect anything but I left her place furious.

My sister in law is maybe a 7/10 and has the herps. She has never been w/out a BF in the 10 years I have known her. She says she discloses. Kek, dudes apparently are willing to take the risk but bitches not so much. Sorry, faggot OP.

My friends wouldn't abandon me if they knew but I'm not so naive to think they wouldn't talk about it behind my back.

Thanks for the props but it doesn't make the depression any less painful.

Yeah, that shit's not fair. There are millions of women with STDs but they don't have to go onto STD dating sites because guys don't mind the risk or don't care, as long as they get their dick wet.

>My sister in law is maybe a 7/10 and has the herps.
She was kind of a slag when she was younger. The funny thing is she swears up and down she got it from a toilet seat, and her family has to pretend they believe her.

>guys don't mind the risk or don't care, as long as they get their dick wet.
Maybe you should become a faggot and start fucking traps and dudes.

Thanks for the laugh. I needed that.

That actually reminds me of a friend I know who has herps 1 & 2 AND AIDS and she had a chad-lookin boyfriend, an active sex life with him + some guys on the side. I was happy for her but jealous AF too.

Wow... this is what my aunt told my family and all this time I... believed her...

You should post a copy of your religious document, that way we can get our heads around the bullshit that you appear to take as fact!,

Since everyone replying here is being unusually kind, I'll be honest: There's one guy not far from me who gives me BJs whenever I ask. I close my eyes, pretend I'm fucking a woman, nut, and leave. Despite all my visits, he doesn't know my name or anything about me. So I'm not a 100% good guy. I'm on Sup Forums after all.

>Be young
>Fuck like 50 different hookers
>Got gonorrhea at worst

Im pretty surprised and amazed you can get laid. hookers were my lifeblood, but after i started advancing at my job and college it was too much to risk getting busted with them + drugs. Stopped seeing them a year ago. Havent gotten laid since.

>Laid ten times a year.
>Getting advice from sexless virgins.

See, it's true. OP is ALWAYS a faggot.

>OP is ALWAYS a faggot.
Ah, That's the Sup Forums I know and love. I'm not proud of what I do but I'm sure you would do something just as dumb if faced with the prospect of minimal sex for the rest of your life.

I've been wanting to do therapy but my long work hours don't allow it.

The woman who does still fuck me loves me dearly, and accepts the risk but lives far away. Neither she nor I can move because of my job and her family situation.

Bumpin'