Could we get a feels thread?

Could we get a feels thread?
This happened a few hours ago
>Be me
>Finally a date I waited my whole life for this
>Why not go to the movies
>Buy movie tickets
>Wait outside for hours
>Go home
>Feel like shit

im sorry man that sucks. i had a similar experience the summer before highschool. wasn't fun.

how ya holding up?

You waited for hours...for her?

She never showed

Not good I waited for this moment my whole life

youll have other moments man. im also in a rut. it sucks but you have to use it as motivation to keep going

I'll try

>Her
I'm trying to get to know this girl that I really like and it's at the point where when I'm thinking about her I don't think of her name. I just think HER. There's no going back after that point. Can't sleep so keep thread going sorry user. I know your feel and I hope it doesn't happen again this time to me.

Ok got it..sorry man that sucks
Did she give u a reason or u havent talked to her

youll be fine man

im sorry to hear that user. maybe you should invest in better moments though. you hyped this one up so much that a girl who literally didn't want to date you has ruined the whole life. think about that... she was never into you. it hurts to hear i know... but if she was never into you then why is this moment so important?

you projected the fantasy of dating onto a random girl, any girl that would say yes, instead of caring about what girl it was. if you cared about what girl it was it wouldnt be 'i waited for this all my life' it would be 'i waited for this since the moment i saw her'.

dont take moments that are supposed to be shared and turn them to a personal one. its just asking for trouble because you over invest and expect someone else to basically fill a fantasy.

sorry if its too fresh.

I've gone through high school and college without having any social experiences. Now that I've graduated college I don't know how or where I can even meet people. I'm incredibly lonely and don't know what to do.

Bump

your hand cant leave you...on a serious note im sorry man

feelings fags gtfo
I haven't had a feeling besides "tired" or "hungry" in months

She responded 6 hours later

What she say

What did she say

She said that she was busy but
I planned this 2 days ago

girlfriend who id do absolutely anything for has been giving me the cold shoulder for the past month and i feel like shes cheating on me. since then ive been an anxious and paranoid mess. I feel numb. i just want things to be back to the way they were where id hold her and shes love me back but i feel like those days are gone. fuck this.

Exactly
Why the fuck are you fags even here if you're not dead inside yet?

Make 200 a week delivering pizzas
Friend calls me up to take his shift cause he made 200 that day at his new job at the casino

Is there a fucking reason to live guys

Im already dead inside, i was trying to make myself do good

some just dont want to admit it i think

Yeah, go work at the casino with him

learn keno
???????
profit

casino jobs are a trap. the money isnt consistent, and the lifestyle is degenerate. causes more trouble than its worth.

>>former blackjack dealer

Did you try calling her? Was she not answering?

Sorry I didnt respond, she wasnt just a random though

We're men. We take beatings and eventually get back up. You will too OP. You will too.

I will lick that dick to make you feel better.

Tell.me about it dude

Kek, im good man

So, my completely straightedge girlfriend just texted me after me calling her for hours. Apparently she's with friends getting high at a party and I'm scared, Sup Forums. We just had a little fight and I can't go and get her and she's gonna stay the night and I'm hoping she doesn't get fucked by another dude. I dunno. A lot of feelings here. I just need someone to talk to me to occupy me right now.

Thanks for people that just read that shit. I don't normally do feels threads but I'm fucked up right now.

>be me two years ago
>heading home for spring break
>halfway through the drive when call from unknown number
>hang up on it twice cuz muh good driving
>pick up on third fucking call
>"hello, is this mr user?"
>"yes"
>"This is dr whatever and Im calling you to inform you that your family was admitted to the hospital several hours ago after a car accident"
>"They are all in critical condition"
>fucking what the hell
>rush to hospital
>arrive late in the day
>my parents survive, are seriously hurt tho
>my little brother is dead

it hurts so fucking bad. Its been almost two years and it still hurts so fucking bad

I was a shit older brother and nowmy brother is dead and theres not a bfuckning THING I CAN DO TO UNFUCK THIS SHIT

Take care man.

wow, I made 225 dollars in 3 hours today. I feel sorry for you man

Get a better job. Easy. Work hard and you'll be rewarded, user.

I'm sorry, user. I can't sympathize with that. I just wanna let you know that I hope it gets better.

Damn op that sucks ass...

my ex... She's now dating that guy.

sorry to hear that I got a call early one Saturday from my parents that my brother had died a few hours before after he ewas hit riding his motorcycle home by an impatient driver trying to beat the traffic.

which guy? The one on the left or the right?

>be me
> befriend girl in class a few years back
> 7.5/10 would tap
>start becoming close to her facetiming her every night a hang out every weekend or so.
>summer hits and we start goetting distant due to life and stuff
>near the end we hang out for her birtday
>goes well we were at her pool chilling, looking at memes while having a general good time just her and I.
>between her birthday and school we started talking more and i though it would be as it used to.
>by this point i had feelings for her but was never to keen on opening up due to me being scared it will ruin our friendship
>school starts, have no classes with her
>she has classes with one of my bestfriends, gym class to be exact
>she befriends my friend
>ff a few weeks and her and i are talking
>by this point i was planning on telling her how i feel
>about to open up
>before i say anything she tells me she found someone she likes
>ffs.jpeg
>i ask her who it is
>its my bestfriend
>i wanna kill myself now
>the girl who i have been in such a friendship with who i wanted to make it more significant with goes for my bestfriend.
>i legit wanna kms now
>she was my bestfriend and i dont wanna ruin their relationship rn by telling her how i feel

sorry for the shit story i just needed to put this out there.

its alll just fucking bullshit

im sorry man

Honestly, user, I'm not sure how you look, but mean, she's a 6/10 at best. You can do better

Sorry that happened to you brother.

>be me
>senior in highschool
>cant afford college so you join the army

Im was still in highschool waiting to graduate so i can go to basic training when my girlfriend suddenly breaks up with me because i am going to be gone for a long time. 3 days after that i see her with my ex-best friend who is also a poor-fag who joined the army for college money. I was in love with her. And now i dont want to be with anyone because im afraid they will betray me like that.

Been there OP, if you feel terrible, just feel it. Don't pretend you are happy (for now) or change what you feel, embrace it. Eventually you will move on.

Wow I'm sad and created a feels thread, but this is pathetic. Bought tickets and waited for hours? So the movie was over and you still waited?
Bro humans are shitty about half the time, don't go buying shit until you at least have them in your presence. The way I look at it a fancy dinner is the best first date. In my recent dates that I have been uninterested in I bought dinner and drinks, but I at least got good food, good drinks, and the opportunity to socially experiment by sharing my fucked up perspective with women.

Damn, getting a lotta the same vibes. This week makes a year since my first real gf broke up with me. Think about her every day man.

that's bullshit OP

play it cool and move on. don't be a bitter cunt about it, but don't ever show her any warmth ever again either.

objective perspective of that is you were possibly interested but she was a cold bitch and is undeserving of love anyway.

if you get all desperate and clingy about it she can say you freaked her out and she didn't know what to do, men are evil bastards etc. etc.

play it cool OP. It might take you a while to realise, but eventually you'll see that you don't need her in the slightest, and that you actually dodged a bullet with this one.

I lost my brother almost 2 years ago.

he had been on heroin for almost twenty years, I tried so hard to help him out, towards the end i was resenting how much of my life he was taking up, driving 1000 miles on a weekend just to go shopping for him and shit like that.

All the shit he put me and my parents through, it doesn't matter, I still miss him. Even though he was a stupid selfish cunt.

This gives me hope. I'm better looking than that guy and she's pretty cute. Too bad I swipe left on all minorities. Maybe I should rethink my only dating attractive atheists with blue eyes thing...

Been with gf coming up on 4 years. Seems like no spark at all anymore for either of us, trying to figure out a way to break it to her that I want out, can't decide if its the right thing to do or not

user, I have a story. I understand where you're coming from but

My dad was dating a girl when he enlisted in the army. He went off to Fort Bragg while she stayed in my hometown. She cheated on him a few times and each time they would fight and make up, even getting married at one of the highest points of their relationship. One day when he came back to surprise her he saw her with another dude. He beat the fuck out of that dude and broke up with her there.

Then he met my mom. She was willing to wait while he was there.

I know you don't care about how my family works, but know that when you join the service, there are two types of girls you can date. Those who care and those who don't. You just have to find someone that does.

How old are you bro

>I was a shit older brother
hey man, this is actually kind of a healthy part of the human psyche at work here.

I lost a friend recently to suicide, and while I was feeling guilty about being a shit friend at times, I realised those feelings of guilt arise from life lessons. I won't be taking things for granted as much from here out.

I appreciate it user. Its just that she was my first serious gf. And she would betray me by lying to me like that. Mixed emotions fuck me up.

What does everyone hear listen to while they're feeling?

Looking to expand my collection. Currently bumping Senses Fail, Lil Peep, and Brand New. What about y'all?

Also if anyone is looking for some song recommendations then ask, I like trying to help people fimd something new they like

Yeah. Me too. I've got some mixed emotions I'm dealing with. But that's what this thread is for. Let's get better together, right?

Call me a faggot, but I usually listen to old country/blues. If not that, then Chainsmokers can be pretty good sometimes if you're in the dumps.

I usually listen to really angry shit like white chapel, goregaroth, ect. Id rather be pissed than sad.

lmfao give me a break. quit whatever gay fucking job you undoubtedly have, learn a real trade & start working out every day. in like 3 months you won't be a total pussy anymore

We're all faggots for allowing ourselves to get this sad in the first place so it's okay

And I can fuck with country and blues. Not so sure about the Chainsmokers but you do you, user.

It happens to the best of us. Sorry that happened.

Kek, i never thought id actually get something healthy out of this place.

I take Xanax and listen to run the jewels.

Horse with no name.

You like Radiohead?

How does one exactly stop loving someone? Especially when that person has pretty much all but forgotten you? I think about her daily, and it's a pretty goddamn frustrating.

jesus christ you guys are all gay as fuck

I got you. Is it still feels at that point, though? Do you feel a mixture of anger and sadness or is it purely anger by then?

Start to hate her. It will help you move on

break it off, user. the more you wait, the more anxious you get. don't wait until the inevitable comes. if she even lets you think she's cheating, she ain't the one. the right girl wouldn't even put you in that boat, i promise.

afterwards you'll feel guilt, shame, and plead for her back. don't. you're doing the right thing for yourself, and that's all that matters.

But how? She was possibly the best person I've ever met.

...

Usually its both but when i get the right song going it evolves into anger and then im good

You gotta take control of your mind user.

she probably will, and if she does, break it off. being high isn't an excuse. don't be her doormat, you'll stay that way for years.

don’t date people with blue eyes unless you have them yourself you fuck

Youll have to figure out that for yourself, user

This happened to me this past month...
>Be me
>Lonely
>Tell to myself:
>"You gotta start somethign, go out and flirt, you gotta get a gf"
>Few days pass, this girl 8/10 starts flirting with me out of nowhere in a mall
>Hell yeah
>First date, we kissed
>Everything going very well the next dates
>One day she texts me
>Turns out she was just pretending all this time
I fucking feel lonely and useless. This story continues with more fucked up shit,mif you want mere feels bump

I got you. Do you still feel at that point, though, or are you purely angry?of course, user. I care about you. If I'm this fucked up over something little, I can't imagine how fucked up you may be. I just hope everything turns out good for you.
Never heard of them. Send some of their best work my way and I'll have a listen.
Same as the dude above ^
Not gonna lie, I've only heard their mainstream stuff like Creep.

>Be me
>28
>gayfag
>moved away from family and homestate
>I fucking hate the south
>Starting to realize that I'm damn close to peaking
>Had stupid dreams way too big for most people
>Attempted and failed each of them
>Time keeps slipping and realize I'm destined for mediocrity
>Work a boring low-level white collar gig that is stable and safe...antithesis to my "rebel celebrity dream" bullshit
>Can't drink for fear of losing boyfriend and in general it doesn't dull the pain in a fun way anymore
>no drugs
>can't do antidepressants.

All things considered...not an awful life....just a boring one that I'm hating having to settle into

Thanks for sound advice. Just gonna have a few good chats with myself, maybe that will help. And actually talking with other people as well.

Say what ya want but she's got a great body and a nice butt

Kek

Haha fuck off. You've never been loved because you're unlovable.

As to the guy he was quoting,you have to let her go. She is moving on and you need to realize where you went wrong.

I lived with my ex for over five years and I started to lose all respect for her. I said fowl things about her and her family daily. She cried so many times and I would just vape bud and laugh at everything. I was self absorbed and ruthless. She also feared I was going to hurt somebody, because when I wasn't getting high I would get pretty aggressive. I wasn't dumb enough to get caught and would usually retaliate to strangers in untraceable/unprovable ways. To some degree, I thought I was God. Now I know I'm just a psychopath who has been very fortunate.

listen to cattle decapitation, they’re a good grindcore “angry sounding” band. look up forced gender reassignment (not the music video). read the lyrics too; they’re good

Is she still a 6/10 now?...

Bruh, you gotta listen to In Rainbows by Radiohead. It'll hit you

Of course I have blue eyes you fuck. My genetics are perfect other than the anxiety, depression, addictive tendencies, and aggression.

hahahahahahhaahahah kys u fucking tool

Ive heard that song before. Good shit user

Ex here...I actually feel like I look better than him. But to each is own ah?

Okay, 7/10

But why and try to justify her looks to me when you aren't even with her?

Just get over it. You won't ever lose that pain in your chest until you realize you're better off without her.

Will do user

i know you're sad now, but things will get better. you've waited a whole year...for what? nothing. put yourself out there and get some pussy at least. go for it. nobody ever made money by quitting their job, know what i'm sayin? one girl you had feelings for isn't worth losing out on your potential soulmate. fuck that bitch. fuck her friends, fuck her sister(s) if she has any. she ain't worth so much hell.

go out there. get some, or at least try. you're worth it. now go.

that's everyone on Sup Forums tho.

I'm trying lol but it took me a long ass time to find a girl as good looking as her... Even talking to hoes doesn't satiate me.

Run the jewels guy. When I'm thinking of my ex I listen to Thursday in the danger room. Best song is 2100, second best is Job well done, third is sea legs, forth is Angel dust. All their albums are pretty solid though.
Thursday in the danger room makes me feel like she will always be with me even if I never see her again. I know the song is written with other meaning, but it feels like she is dead. I know she probably won't ever give me the chance to see her and it hurts. I just want her to know I'm a better person.