I moved in with my boyfriend of 3 months

I moved in with my boyfriend of 3 months.
2 days later someone in my close family died.
I was very sad, and not generally nice or smiling.
He started to complain that he was sad too.
One day after being home for a couple of days since the funeral, he gets home asks me how I’m doing and proceeds to play videogames, asks me what I want to do and I vacantly stare into the wall. He breaks up with me saying things haven’t been good and he’s not mentally stable.
I get out of the house on the next morning.
He gets home and doenst see my things there, calls me and says it was a mistake, that he loves me.
We meet and he says he thought he loved me but actually he doesn’t.
We keep exchanging messages and I sleep with him. He tells me that he is not ready for a relationship and leaves.
I leave the keys home.
He calls me and asks if I want to meet. I agree, then he calls me and says maybe it’s better not to. I agree.

Today he asked me if we can go out to dinner.

What do I do?

Please help :|

He probably missed a relationship and not you, thats why hes back and forth, fuck him (not literally)

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So think it’s better I just block him and let it go?

yes

Yes, you should let him go.
But you won't. I saw this thousand times.

Thanks! I do love him, obviously.
But its seems to be clear that the feeling isn’t mutual.

I wonder why he wants to meet though. What’s the goal?

When I break up with someone I try to be polite but quite clear that I don‘t want to see them again.

yes

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hes seeing some1 else. or hes got something that keeps his attention better than you.

not to sound harsh. but i played the game for years. 26 yo finally settling down myself. i was lucky i didnt stay an idiot and user.

the one with most control in a relationship is the one who shows they care less. dont let it control you. back off and see how he reacts. like really back off. go meet new ppl. maybe itll knock some sense into him.

sorry for the bad news. but other anons right. this tale is old as time

He's unstable and so are you. Do you want him in your life despite that at present he's likely to reject and accept you constantly? People in mental disarray aren't who they usually are and will not be that way forever. Maybe keep him at a distance until you're both mentally stable enough to go on

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the goal is that he got bored of using his had 5x a day and wants to use you instead. why do you keep falling for these pussy-boy tactics? are you a faggot (in the existential sense)?

He likes you but do not love you. He wants to see you because he needs someone(anyone) and for sex. You just waste your time with this guy.

What a piss-poor attempt at getting all the anons here to believe you're a femanon, Mr neckbeard OP.

Honestly, I genuinely don’t think there’s anyone else.
He lives in my country and we were living together. He doesn’t know anyone here.
Also I did ask him straight up if there was some other peson and be said no.

It sounds very unhealthy on my end too, but I did love him. We were planning on moving together to his country when he didn’t need to be here anymore.

I am also scared I might have become pregnant, since two weeks ago he asked me to stop the pill because he wanted to have a child with me.

As much as it sucks to read this, thanks.
Quite likely you’re right.

no women online, bla bla bla. grow up, mate

I was gonna say tits or gtfo, but you could be a fag, so...

Anyway, this person is not someone you can fix. And believe me, he needs serious fixing!

I know you have feelings for him, be neither of you are in a place where you can have a serious relationship with each other.

He is mentally unstable. It could just be because he's young, dumb, and full of cum. Or it could be because he has a serious chemical thing.

My advice to you, as a 40yo guy who has seen some shit, done some shit, and had some shit done to him, is this:
Do not go back to him. Do not talk to him. Do not sleep with him. Do not meet him for lunch, dinner, coffee, or a quickie. (See "do not sleep with him" above.)
Also, did I mention do not sleep with him again? Because don't.

He is holding your heart right now. And he doesn't deserve to. Move on. For your health and sanity.

Please.

(Also, if he was your first, please don't let that change the dynamic. It was a mistake sure, but you're not "damaged goods" or a slut or anything.)

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If you plan on having this baby don't even think about leaving him. That's the shittiest possible course of action. Put your silly high school bullshit aside, there are other priorities now

yes

I am not. I told him that me being pregnant might be a hypothesis, but I would have na abortion.
What were his thoughts?

He told me he would be very happy to have a child with me??

>What’s the goal?
>and I sleep with him.
This

>mfw thinking about you hurting

he's retarded but so are you

you may as well just live together to save money on rent and have some retarded kids and collect welfare

The worst thing you can do to have a child with him. You gonna fuck your life and your kid life too.
You can forget normal family life.

You need to stop trying to make sense of his actions. With people in his state, you can't. Just give him some space and take some space for yourself and let things calm down when the dust has settled, otherwise you'll both be acting crazy and sooner or later something will happen to fuck everything up for good.

I am 27, he is not my first. He is 33. But to be honest, I thought I would do anything to make him happy. I think it was the time where I was the craziest about someone.

>what do I do

1. post tits
2. timestamp
3. ask your question

Go eat free food like whores do. Duh. Thank God stupid bitches like you have men around to give proper direction.

Tits or gtfo

here

He's bad for you, OP get rid of him.

So, you have no face when you think about me hurting.... Goats are like mushrooms, etc...

Newfag LEAVE

I agree

Thank you those were probably nice before you stuck shit in them. Please continue, men are here who can help

Forgot to say, OP here.

I am not going to have a child to force him to be with me. Or having a child to be alone.

At this time, it makes no sense.

tell him to fuck off, block him and leave it at that.

Nothing good has come out of the times where we’ve seen each other. Sooner or later we just end up being angry about small things.

Haha thanks, I don’t dislike them tho

Let's see those fucking tits with a timestamp.

You both are idiots and you deserve each other.

I think you got your answer. Nobody is going to say this guy is good for you.

Awww you love her

Before I pierced them.

To anyone who thinks it’s weid I’m delivering. I’ve been coming to Sup Forums since 2007 and always found it funny when OP delivered.

And if it helps you guys understand that I’m for real, maybe you’ll genuinely try and give me solid advise.

Genuinely thanks.
Going through quite a rough period, but keeping him nearby is going to do more harm than good.

Shit, we were making so many plans and this happened so suddenly that I just don’t want to believe it’s actually real.

You look better skinny. Maybe that's why he's fucking with you, did you bloat up like lazy girls tend to? Betcha did

Thanks, but money is not an issue for any of us tbh.

Hahaha, are you not going to look bloated if you are in a slouchy position? C’mon...

Sex was amazing, I would say the best because there were never any barriers.

yes

that's cool then

your relationship is still retard-tier tho

What made you choose that fuckhead over anyone else? Smh

yes

Op here.

Alright, so, accepting that I will ignore him forever and move on.

What the fuck am I going to do with my life?
Yesterday I took xanax with alcohol to go to bed because I couldn’t stand to be awake.
I knew I could die but in that state of mind anything would have been better than to keep on thinking.
This is disgusting, but I don’t really have a meaning in my life.

In a similar thing right now, you have TWO options if you don't want to get really sad forever until you do something about it (me right now)

Option 1: Tell him you need to not hear from him in a while, explain exactly why including what you've told us

Option 2: Break up, move on, stop contact of any kind

Trust me OP, you don't deserve the pain I've felt these last few months.

your "boyfriend" sounds like a fucking unstable retarded mangina.

post more tits you attention seeking whore.

Get rid of this guy, he is a genuine psycho, playing with you.
Find some beta guy, fuck his brain out (let him do likewise), and use him as a shield. Don´t let the other guy near to you, regardless of what he says. There is no love, just abuse, and you are a willing victim...keep that in mind.

44y oldfag here, seen similar shit happen to me and friends of mine.

I speak german and I don’t get to speak it with anyone in my country. He’s german, we started to spend time together because of it and I ended up projecting my hopes on this person who acted like they were in love with me.

"find some beta guy, fuck his brains out and use him as a shield."

you're literally the reason women are toxic manipulators you fucking sad cuck.

>i took xanax with alcohol

like i said youre an attention seeking degenerate whore.

you and your boyfriend both need to lay off the pills and alcohol.

At the moment I just want to be silent.
We have already broken up, I might as well be doped the whole time and avoid the situation.

Fuck you, you little psycho!

I don’t think taking a small dose, with very small risk is being an attention whore. I didn’t tell anyone IRL, nor did I try to get “help”.
I accepted that I was going to sleep, not sure for how long.

Scheisse mädel, bist in den Staaten?
Wie schon gesagt, finde ein Schild und lass den Wichser nicht mehr ran. :-)

>fuck you you little psycho

how am i psycho you fucking sad idiot? tell me what i wrote in my post that is "psychotic".

you clearly said above you wanna stay doped up.

you need to both lay off the pills and alcohol, stop being melodramatic and go find some fucking hobbies and exercise and stop being sad cunts.

theres kids in other countries starving to death and huffing on glue to stay alive while they sell off their bodies to old perverts to make some fucking money.

so grow the fuck up .

There you go, little Jerk

Du hast recht :(

Look, I could not give less of a fuck about anyone else’s pain at the moment.

I would help anyone nearby if I could. But commenting on realities that genuinely distant from mine is not helping me in anyway.

Ask yourself this; what seems familiar here. Go back in time. Way back....

OP here

I think the weirdest thing is that I do not want to find anyone to fuck.
I know it’s good advise and well-meant but I am not in the mood to use anyone else.

Mom and dad’s divorce.

so im a psychopath for stating the truth? are you retarded? also i think youre looking for the word "sociopath"

>i couldnt not give less of a fuck about anyone elses pain at the moment


awwwwww you pooooooooor damsel in distresssssssssssssss. I bet your life is soooooooooooooo hard to deaaaaal wiiiiiiiiiiiiiiith.

Youre literally in your room taking nude pics for a bunch of strangers doped on xans and crying about your unstable boyfriend you autistic shit cunt


Sharpie in pooper.

Yep

Women wants settle down desperately in your age. Take a step back and look your situation from another person's perspective.

Fuck off you unnecessary waste of space.

There is no "truth" in an abusive comment. And no, I was not looking for Sociopath. Psycho describes you far better.

>criticism of you
>abnormal social behavior
Pick one

got a proper argument against what im saying or are you just a butthurt white knight defending op?

>abusive comment

RIP Sup Forums

That’s very true.

This situation is reminding me of the movie “Bitter Moon”

You are a really boring troll. Try harder

Thats a tuff situation. If I was you I would just pay a hacker to track the poster of this comment, fly to his home city and show up to his door dressed in fetish gear.

I’m a woman, mate

It is inaccurate to call a person "white knight" unless they have killed and raped at least 40 people before they became a saint. Look into the etymology of that word bich.

He sounds like a whinging little pussy who still need his mummy, whats the problem, he wants you then he doesnt, he sounds like he needs to grow up and make a decision on whether he wants a girlfriend or a fuck buddy and stop using you.
I hate when guys or girls do that shit to each other, it sucks to be on the receiving end, i know ive been there and you end up giving your all to someone who deosnt give their all back, and then by the end of it, you start to think that it is YOU who is the crazy one.
FUCK THE GUY OFF AND GET WITH A GUY WHO KNOWS WHERE HES AT EMOTIONALLY.

well, i would very much prefer you to be a female if you show up to my door dressed in fetish gear

Get him to a shrink. I tried to kill myself while my girlfriend was in the next room, but at least I didn't toy with her like you describe.

uuuuuuh

are we on the same planet?
do you even know what the term "white knight" implies?

OP here.

Thank you guys, I am going to break the cycle and do my best to move on. Even if it implies being in bed for how long it takes to get over this.

sharpie in pooper.

I’m really sorry.

How were you acting with her when you were together?

He told me that by us not being together he would have one less thing to worry about in his mind because he didn’t know h9w to act in my presence.

Meh some dudes are into flabbies, some aren't.

I have no sharpies anywhere. Shoe on head?

100% agree with you mate.
I don’t think he can love me at all if he’s acting like this. Right?

finger in ass then while bent over

just spread ass cheeks, nice shot of pooper and I'll shop a sharpie in

>your welcome

Aye

yeah, enough about your boring life

post more nudes

Big girls make big poop. She can definitely fit a sharpie or three in her turdcutter

lol no