Feels Thread?

Feels Thread?

the only girl that ever called me attractive and thought about dating me just blocked me on all social media...

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3 years gf left me yesterday for some chad she met 1 week ago

Why'd she block you?

Never trust sluts doesn't matter if you've been dating for a week or 15 years

i dont know why i just went to talk to her and i was blocked i keep trying to think back to what i might have said/did

My crush just showed me the ring she got from my best friend. I just went home to cry in my bed
While i told them multiple times fuck off/leave me alone.

Yeah OP try to help us understand, do you work/go to school with/live by this girl?
How do you know she finds you attractive?
Honestly when someone blocks you it sends a pretty clear message they don't wanna interact with you, regardless of the reason.

here... it's long. but desperate times call for desperate measures OP

I'll tell you why OP
It's because women have a mind of a child
In other words not even them know what they really want
One day you could be love of her life and next day her biggest mistake
Never trust a bitch I've learned that the hard way

she said that i was attractive and that she would date me

Just gonna baww out here.

Classic friendzone scenario. Well, maybe more than classic, my autism has caused it to develop.

I'm 31, she's 21. Met her online on a closed fb group for druggies, wanted to trade my dmt for some weed (yeah, was easier for me to get dmt than blaze back then). I was still in my dying relationship, she was in hers.
So she did come to my place; super cute, easy going, funny and ironic, knows her way around technology, actually plays games, smokes as much as I do, has mental issues.. was impossible for me not to fall for her.
She was actually the breaking point I needed to dump my gf of that time; couldn't even compare to this chicks overall awesomeness.
I make crazy good money ("unofficially") and my social skills are potato level, thus I tried to somehow buy myself in. Did get us drugs, expensive booze, food, helped her out countless times when she was broke. Even, quite recently, spent about 500$ (that's a lot where I live) to help her decorate her new room she's renting.

She does know how I feel about her. She doesn't feel the same way; was decent enough to make it 100% clear for me (man that moment did hurt). Yet I didn't want to just end knowing her, so convinced myself we're just gonna be friends and I will be over it.
Well guess what, 2,5 years later I am not over it. We did become friends, we do fun shit together - shooting range, vr, bungee, monster trucks; I can afford those fancy entertainments so why not.
Still, she doesn't see me even slightly as a suitable partner (which is even more so frustrating, as she is really slutty).

So now I'm her bestie, listening to stories how she kissed this guy at university yesterday or that guy at her job 3 days ago, how she's feeling horny so she's gonna visit her ex. Nodding, smiling and trying not to burst.

I obviously should just end this, whatever this is, right now, but just can't bring myself to it. I do KNOW nothing will come out of this, yet I HOPE one day it will.

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OP here

user you should get over her if you want to be in a relationship with her. Because she obviously doesn't want the same.

Is that because you went full stalker after her pity flirt?

probably :(

Yea,she is just using you because of your money,a good friend of mine was in the same spot,he was paying for all the dates and expensive stuff,once he needed financial help she blocked him on all social media,i was the one to help him,and listen to him cry.
get out while you still can,or you will get more and more depressed as time goes on..

this user is on to something...

This. To put it mildly, women do not respond to reason like male adults do. They are not capable of this evolutionary-wise.They respond to aggression and reinforcement, both positive and negative like a child. All of it is very shallow and base. All of it is based upon the lowest levels of need. It is almost animalistic if you break it to their components.

This is the reason why in the past we treated them like property. This is the reason why we infantilize them in the past. The patriarchy have done this to them for millennia an this is why they are how they are.

They won't change. They can't change. Not until evolution take its course.

>Boring uneventful life growing up >speech impediment where r's are hard to say
> everyone my age thinks I'm retarded because of it
>closest thing to friends is in class acquaintances
>fall hopelessly in love with girls who talked to me out of pity
>attempt suicide twice with loaded rifle in my mouth at 13 and 15
>too pussy to go through with it both times
>join airborne infantry at 18, despite being smart enough to qualify for anything purely because of the chance to die
>out of 30 jumps, a few close calls but most serious injury is a broken leg unfortunately
>become full fledged alcoholic by 20, now sober against my will. Still smoke a pack a day
>After 3 years of bullshit training, finally in a combat zone
>not shit going on and no one in battalion has fired a shot after several months
>hate army because of asshats in charge that care more about their ego/career than people under them
>tell people I'm getting out when my time is up
>but truly am scared shitless of figuring out what I'll do with my life, knowing the second I get out I'll revert back to my old ways coupled with alcohol addiction

stop him before he makes me realize that its true!

Maybe she's put you on a pedestal, because she knows you'd be torn between heartache, and earning a restraining order if you were a couple and she couldn't help her slutty self that one time.

On the upside you've got a hot friend, hopefully loyal (as a friend) and that makes other attractive women more likely to approach you. The very antonym of hanging out in the ugly, socially stunted group.

you deserve better op, imma drop some pics to make you feel worse, when you hit rock bottom, the only way to go is up

Yeah this is more than obvious, but I have really hard time making decisions that lead to changes. Something is probably wrong with me here, whatever.

It will happen soon, I was on the edge just yesterday; was actually fantasizing about just letting it all out and how liberating it would feel.

On a side note, I did profit sexually from this relationship anyway; sometimes she would bring some of her young college friends to my place; own flat, money and drugs seem to be a major turn on at their age. Did manage to fuck three of them, so at least managed to wrap up my numbers after not getting any till late 20's.

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We've probably all done it, if it's any consolation. It's marginally better than misreading the situation and physically making a move offline, these days.

She might unblock you in time if you cold turkey her out of your system. If you pursue now she'll be gone forever. Sometimes women can't help being cunts, even if they didn't initially mean to be. Often it's even worse when they pretend to be nice.

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She is just playing you dude

>free food
>free entretainment

Dont give her these things anymore and 2 things will happen

She will blow you off and you will feel much better for having her out of your life

She will give you that pussy and you will feel much better

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These are the feels I look for in feels thread. Not "woe is me, life sucks in first world" or "tfw no gf" bullshit, just straight love you can relate to.

>I have really hard time making decisions that lead to changes. Something is probably wrong with me here, whatever.

This is definitely it. I was in the same boat user. I had to figure myself out and why I couldn't properly better myself before I took the step to expunge her out of my life.

Once I got myself fixed (Therapy was involved), I was able to move on. It took time but it was worth it. My life is better without her in my life. All I needed to do was be a little more selfish.

i fuckin hate you man the first one hit too close to home

glad to see someone coming here for the true feel
this is why we are here user, something u wanna green text?

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i kinda told why i made this thread at the top but it wasn't a greentext

Not to be rude, she could think those things, but she was just making you into an orbiter because Chad doesn't care enough to fulfil her emotional needs.

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Women live in their emotions is why.
All about how they feel in the moment and how you make them feel.

Ah, didnt think you are OP

>Move to new city
>spend the summer rather nicely
>Go to an online school
>Spend all day doing homework
>Cuddle with cat at night (no zoophilia, kys)
>repeat that for 6 months
>tfw you realize you haven't left your room since the new years eve
>want girlfriend
>cat dies
>depression
>fail exams
>spend 2 months doing summer work
>one month of peace
>school starts again
>100% chance of failing the first semester
>start working an 8 hour job for 12 bucks

why live

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every guy i dated did it for sex and then dumped me when i refused. called the prude bitch of my high school

I probably mistook her. she was one of the first girls to ever say i was beautiful (out of pity or not)

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I've had to deal with it twice post long term relationship. The first time I just made a clean break, the second time was with a kid involved, so I had to learn to deal with it. Still cuts deep when she's with other people and I'm around, or her lifes dreams don't involve me lol. It does get easier though, and there's no residual chemical entanglement if you've never been more than friends.

Over time, I'm now 40, I've become aware that I'm aspie as fuck, and the reason it was never flagged is because my parents socialised me so heavily as a kid. I was out with one organised activity group or another, almost every night of the week until my late teens, when I began to choose my own company more specifically.

The only girls I ever attempted to strike up friendship with were ones I found attractive. It's normal behaviour for alpha and beta males alike, but with an alpha they're more likely to be on the Woman's radar too. I did find it has it's own benefits though, as long as you're a well adjusted element of the group and you have good dynamics with everyone in the group.

Practice being yourself knowing she's not judging you on mate suitability and she'll likely be more honest if you're being obviously aspie. Then you'll be in a position to interface with others and hopefully you'll be more attractive to other women in tbe future with your pseudo-Normie behaviour.

op, what this a girl you knew IRL or online?

irl

If you live near her then maybe it's time to move if you cant move on. Give it a few weeks or months if so and then if nothing is getting better.

I'm taking 24,000 mg of Tylenol because my whole life has been full of my own fuck ups. I have done a lot more wrong than good. My last 2-3 days will be in pain because I feel like I deserve to be in pain for everyone that has suffered because of me.

Correction, I took 24,000 mg of Tylenol

I took a girl out,one year ago,i was 17,i liked her really much and i thought he liked me back,date was going great,lots of laughing and talking,no awkward silences or anything,but mid date she says that a friend of hers got drunk and that she has to go,but she is very sorry about that and that she will make it up to me sometimes,go meet up my friends in a bar since she left,message her 2 days later ask about her friend, get blocked on facebook,so yea,feels pretty fuckin bad bro,expecially because pic related is killing me since im going to university in 7 months

Feel sorry for you OP, but at least a girl called you attractive

I should add, it works for me..but only if I actually want to make a good impression. Tbe older I get the more I hate other people, with some specific people excluded from that. Most people annoy the bejesus out of me and if I can't be arsed with making a good impression at that point in time I let people know I can't be fucked with them.

Therefore I am obviously single presently, because I don't know anyone I'd be interested in impressing with how awesome I can be - when the mood takes me. The upside is I no longer care. I'm happier single and on my own literally, than I am with most other people. The older I get the happier peace, quiet and my own company make me. Managing other peoples expectations is too much hard work.

pussy, look up and deal with the wrongs you did and face them, killing your self is a way to run from your temp problems for good

:)

Either way I'm doing to die, either now or in prison. Besides, some people in this world (like me) are better off not existing.

When you're reincarnated you'll feel it from their perspective anyway. And you'll think that person is a king sized douche.

A months ago I asked girl I love to be my girlfriend. The girl I loved said she wasn't ready for a relationship when I suprised her with 100 candles all around the room. She said she wasnt ready for a relationship and said I'd definetly find another girl to make happy

Thing is, this girl used to date a guy last year, and after she asked himto be her boyfriend, he said that he wasn't ready for a relationship. She felt heartbroken and hates him now, purely because of what he said. She considers it a shitty excuse

Meanwhile, she said the same thing to me when I asked her to be my girlfriend. Which makes her a hypocrite.

On top of that, this girl also kisses guys regularly when she's at parties etc, and isn't afraid to have a little fun with guys.

I asked her out a month ago now, and her and I still chill around sometimes. When we're together, she still grabs my arm and strokes my beard, or she leans against me.

What do I do Sup Forums, do I ditch this girl who's a snake, a hypocriptic whore who's hanging from some chad's lips every weekend? Or do I keep to her, hope things improve and live happily ever after?

ditch the bitch

Strengthening My Pain is what makes me Brave the Greatest Depths of Anger and Suffering and Gives Me Power to Smile Again.

Fuck her and then ditch the bitch

ditch her man

Wow.

Distance yourself in most cases. Unless she's tactile with everyone she considers a friend. Did you remind her of her words, and her reaction to them when she was on the other end of it?

Sounds like you're now her beta BFF. Which is why begin the distance now, unless you want to take a chance with the long term chance of being able to mimic a normie well enough to blend in and appear alpha enough to pull. Your choice, but she'll never suck your dick more than once that time she drank way too much and you white knighted so much she temporarily let you out of the closet. You'll be back in there the next day and she'll ignore you when you try to bring it up.

Either take your place in her view of the world, or learn how to make a new place for yourself, where you're not a substitute gay friend.

That's the kind of dad I want to be.

Sometimes I succeed and it's always fun playing the nonchalant dad card after breaking your balls for two months sorting something awesome out.

I'm honest enough to admit I spend plenty of time doing what I want to do instead of playing tag though. I guess it's all judged on the scales of time.

A girl I was chatting with until yesterday asked me to block her last night because she said she's fallen in love with me, and I kept refusing her. She was probably the best girl I have ever met, but she lives in another town (also state), and I feel like a worthless underachieving scumbag. I thought it'd be for the best if I didn't get involved with her and ruined her life, so I granted her "wish" in what now seems a hasty manner. Couldn't fall asleep for the better part of the night, and eventually cried myself to sleep. My heart still aches. Why am I such a retard :\

I was ready to commit suicide this weekend due to me not having a job for 6 months, again.

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>girl that ever called me attractive
>social media
REEEEEEEEE GET OUT

I feel ya nibbas NEVER TRUST A WOMEN. Other then your Mon or sister for cooking and sex

suicide is never the answer m8. you'll find job eventually, just keep on looking and keep your chin up.

Suicide can be the answer sometime my man

I just got a bj from my girlfriend a few minutes ago. Feeling pretty good right now.

>Jokes on you when she runs off with another guy because she got bored of your shit

Never become complacent, ever. Every day is a new day with her and treat it as such. Just cos she is sucking you off, doesn't mean she's around forever.

Have a nice day.

M'lady

I was gonna tell my crush that I love her soon and today she told me she's bisexual. Idk how I feel about her now :( I still accept her, and I really wanna love her but I feel like something just died inside of me, help bros

Those her legs or yours? Grow some fucking balls and either pump or dump this bitch - to me she just sounds like a slut who's using you. Not worth it.

man this one hurts, listening to her talking about other dudes must be hard..

Been in a relationship for seven years. Things haven't been goihg as smooth lately, I figured she'd talk when she wanted to.
I guessed it was because I was trying to get her to finally move in with me, but she's still attached to her parents by an umbilical cord.

This girl made me change my mind from having no kids to totally wanting to have them.


I bought a nice 3 bedroom house two weeks ago.
Three days ago she told she "needs some time apart". Doesn't want to be with me anymore.

7 years.
She didn't even want to tell me why.

I spent 35 minutes staring a point on my wall after that, unable to produce emotions. Went to sleep, went to work, got home, stared at my screen, went to sleep.

I'm still moving into my house. That is now too big for just me.

I have no one right now.
I'm going to sleep now, going to work tomorrow. After that, I'll come home, stare at my screen and go to sleep. To do it all over again.

Fuck that cunt. You're in a prime position to attract another woman.

I just got out of jail and I’m overwhelmed with all sorts of emotions. I’m seeing and tasting things again for what seems like the first time. I’m both incredibly relieved and also very scared about my futrue, but I’m officially a free man, time served and off paper.
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I've learned not caring about your (potential) partner's sexuality as long as it includes you is the best way to a successful relationship. Also, don't tell a crush that you love her, just tell her that you're interested in her. Coming right out of the gate with the L word is just too much and can often be very creepy.

yeah, I got some feels you anons might get a kick out of.
>be me
>have moderate adhd in middle school
>know no one
>7/10, passed for attractive enough to not immediately be branded a "weird kid"
>end of first quarter
>start flirting up a "cool nerd"
>8/10 with huge tits for that age
>pic related but post-18
>the bitch cosplays to school, was way out of my league
>tfw I was once into that kind of person
>4 years of the most mentally exhausting years of my life
>find out she has every mental disorder an edgy teen can have
>but I love her
>through high school, have plenty of opportunities to leave and fuck sluts to my hearts content
>swimfaggotry scored me that chad bod
>didn't
>parents notice I'm physically and mentally deteriorating because of her
>don't care, still love her
>out of high school, straight to the US Navy
>had mostly overcome my adhd at that point, well enough to lie to the government about it
>boot camp, training commands
>no problem
>shore command
>no problem
>first actual deployment
>get to come home on leave before setting out
>spend it with her
>no problem
>the day before the boat leaves, staying in a temp station
>dumped over text
>tfw
>go nuts and fuck everything with legs on port calls
>first time single as a young adult
>feelsgoodman
>gets old, quick
>realize how lonely I am
>don't take it so well
>get kicked out of the Navy for depression
>get home, beg for her to take me back
>strung along for months
>turns out she is now a he, and he moved 8 states away
>over text
>increase drug usage severely to cope
>bad acid trip causes psychotic break
>feel detached from reality most of the time
>feel empty
>feel devoid of motivation to do anything
>despite all it's caused, want him back
>no homo

>have crush
>talk to her on daily basis
>justwaiting.wav
>she knows because some autistic fuck blackmailed me and told her
>she repeatedly wants to fill me in on various dudes she has feels for
>asks me to help her talk to them
>know she'll never return the love because autism so whynot.exe
>get depressed because nothing ever happens
>stop going to hang because know nothing will happen
>get a message a few days later that she "wants to be really good friends still"
>mfw

If only I wan't lacking in social skills.
And every single woman that has shown any interest in em these past years, I've moved into the friendzone, or simply refused.
Because I actually believed in giving oneself for their partner.

Shows what that gets you...


I'll try going out again, talking to people. But right now I'm taking a month or two to sort myself out, move into my new place.

jesus

Stop being a needy and obsessive faggot. No one will ever love you like that

>be me, 34 years old, chronically single, virgin, extremely shy and introverted
>decided I was tired of being alone, made account on both Tinder and OKCupid last month
>get likes and matches galore, so I must be somewhat attractive
>out of that many likes/matches I have about a dozen really good, long conversations with cuties
>gets phone numbers and makes plans with several to go on dates
>gets ghosted by all of them, either abruptly or over a few days' time
>I have no idea what I'm doing wrong
>gets super depressed and deletes both accounts
>resigned to the fate of never being in a relationship and dying alone, probably by my own hand

I fell in love with a cousin after fucking by a year. :S

Fuck them user. You always have us.

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M ex dumped me beause a fortune teller told er I will be with another girl (blonde) girl. Whe was really disordered (like me). From, the stress of this relationship my condition got worse. Have concentration problems and my memory got worse. Also I felt dizzy for 9 month or so every day, connected with constant head ache. The good thing, I really found a blonde girl which is with me. However, I am sad, because my condition will never get better :(

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2 Years ago i finally fell in love with someone. All was going well we were connecting with each other but the only issue i had was her best friend was a guy and they used to hang out a lot. She made sure that i knew that nothing was going on between them and i believed it since we and the guy ended up being good friends too. Then once we all went to a party were drinking and smoking some weed so i was pretty messed up. I saw her and the friend go upstairs and thought not much of it until some time later i decided to go up to see what they are doing and sure enough they were fucking. Haven't spoken to them ever since and still pretty sad about it.

i knew a girl that had one of her main friends be a guy. she was dating someone and a sex scandal between them leaked out. And when it turned out to be true it fucked up everything between them...